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Stopped drinking beer I can't believe how much I have saved. Still can't believe I have stayed without it for over 7 months

All thanks to Tinubu and outrageous prices, being responsible is cheaper now & irresponsible acts are very expensive

Theopneustos:
Good nairalanders
Please how do you handle a situation where you have a senior colleague in your workplace that has a clique that supports her secret acts that are contrary to the workplace do's and donts.
In addition to that tries to discredit you before the MD because you don't join her clique.
Is It to report her to the MD or let it slide?
She's so toxic but pretends a lot before the boss

You need to gather as much concrete evidence as possible before speaking to the boss so you don't look stupid when your claims are watered down.

Most importantly who does the boss like more between you and her. Is he a neutral Boss? Some emotional bosses will favour anyone they like even when they are wrong

FRANCISTOWN:
I'm talking about my wife, not your wife.
Your wife can say whatever she likes to you, or your relatives. That's your cup of tea and it has nothing to do with me.
What I know is, ain't no wife of mine gon' speak to my relative disrespectfully. That's not my world.

Lol Boss man

It's well but if you already know what to do what is the point in bringing the matter to a public forum since you cant tolerate a different perspective.

It seems you are newly married certainly below 1 year and the initial gra gra must happen before you calm down to reality.

The less empowered esp financially the more likely she may give you 100% submission to your wishes.

Money is power, is she 100% dependent on you? He who pays the Piper .............

FRANCISTOWN:
As long as I'm concerned. I feel like my relatives need to stay off my wife's mouth. They are not play things for wordplay.

She can possibly bring about her points without comparisons with my relatives.
It's even wrong for a wife to put herself on the same level with my mom. That's disrespectful.

My wife is my wife for as long as she wants to be my wife but my ma is my ma forever.No one compares sleep to death.

She really has nothing to apologize for. I think you should watch your over sized ego before you destroy your marriage.

She should be free to express herself Biko. How can a woman be well educated and not be allowed to express an opinion in 2023.

You have scolded her and expressed displeasure at what she said and that is enough. Move on

You are quite a sensitive man sha because this issue is a very light one to me. She is only saying that you love your mum more so no offense there BC it's normally true & she is probably jealous.

Why should she apologize for stating her observation?

Lol Maga has paid, fools will only learn from their experience, loser

Why the rush to get married without sorting out your finances. Except your over 45yrs it was a silly mistake.

Marriage should wait till a man is financially stable with stable source of income (except he is 45yrs).

Marriage doesnt benefit a man, its just a place to be receiving steady billing

Once you add a child to this picture then you are buried in a life of struggle.

Ladies are loyal to their emotions and feelings which will always change with conditions.

No woman loves a man, they only love what you can provide, only a man can love actually.

Just continue searching for any work to start earning, he who has fallen fears no fall

Poverty mentality is about trying to become rich overnight. Only greedy poor mindset to show off quickly.

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

How old are you not to know that whoever brought money brought almost everything.

Money answereth everything

He will need money to develop the state by increasing IGR.

Why is this hard to understand?

I am sure it's PDP e rats complaining

amadiwati:
I have not had law gigs. You can give me a sample and topic, and I will deliver it.

It will need a lawyer because you will cite cases in the write up

amadiwati:
Yes, I am available. You can chat me up

Can you do law research n writing, with Chicago reference style?

Mumu talkative

What does the stupid wife do for a living. Abi marriage Na her only hope?

Stupid people

You had 300m to invest and can not do proper search to buy land with C of O.

By the way way should an Igbo man build a mansion in Lagos? Why not an okay house and build mansion at home?

Demolish all of them let them buy another and start afresh BC they won't learn.

Nemesis0147:
Go to kubwa
Jikowyi
Karu new site or Dutse….house there are affordable…

Dutse or kubwa closer to town and you will get some decent with 600k

Cheap skit

what are you doing with SMA Gold when there are cheaper alternatives. Is he broke and senseless?

You should have used 3.5l V6 vehicle

gesoilo:
I'm down for it. My e-mail address is ilorahsomto@gmail.com.

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Testiebobo:
I feel discouraged to look at myself in the mirror, anytime i noticed that i dont have a single hair under my chin. Even someone that is sixteen years old is already having one. I dont feel ok. What could be the deficiency problem?

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Worry about your account balance, that is the most important thing not beard

BigBlackPreek:
Just change your line and avoid unnecessary stress

Extreme

Help but know your limit

Once you hear longest time, you have forgotten me now from someone that has not communicated in over 2 years.

Run ooooo Na them

Football is the least of our problems

Still cheap it should be 1m

Convert to USD and you will understand

No

Children should not be the retirement benefits of parents. In fact that mentality creates generational poverty.

As you are training your child, also plan for your retirement.

For those who are shallow thinkers, I am not saying don't give your parents or support them at old age, I am saying that parents should not depend on their children totally in old age.

If your child gives you fine if not don't even expect it and make it part of your plans.

Sometimes your child will even depend on you many years after graduation or barely surviving after 15 yrs of graduation.

So it's a huge gamble esp in Nigeria

Yet Nigerians cannot protest, actually it's more than 100%.

Everything is presently over priced look at onion, water, spaghetti, egusi, garri I mean common things are so expensive yet salary remains the same.

Cooolme:
Greetings everyone, I've been driving for over a year now and I've noticed we don't know how to use headlights in this country even my friend that visited from the US complained same thing.
I don't know if it's selfishness or what but how will someone be on very high beam even when opposite an incoming vehicle, I almost entered a ditch because an SUV beamed on my small Corolla to the point I couldn't even see properly, are there rules set for all these in this country?
God's willing if I don't leave this country within the next 2 years I'm getting a bigger vehicle and I will purposely install massive led lights I will be counter beaming people till they notice their mistake.

Ordinary Keke will put light everywhere and oppress a car on the road. It is not funny at all but I have upgraded my light to match them

tallfish145:
My wife suddenly presented a non-original transfer of ownership of land brought in her name and in their town claiming it was a surprise. Now as a married man or about to get married, what would be your reaction if such is presented to you? Would you start developing on the land or shun it?
Remember the land was brought in her name and in their town( we are from different state)

It's a simple matter change all title documents to contain the name of both of you or better still buy a plot of land in your name and develop.

Not a biggie

Charge more fees

1m minimum per session & those who cant afford it should become shoe shiners