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Please kindly assist on the best country that one can move to as an associate Professor in a Nigerian university.

Preferably UK

The person has 3million

He needs a country where he can get job fast and resettle.

Please kindly assist on the best country that one can move to as an associate Professor in a Nigerian university.

Preferably UK

The person has 3million

He needs a country where he can get job fast and resettle.

Every child above 2 yrs should be flogged when necessary or given brain resetting slap

Scammer looking for next victim

Not bad for an olosho mama

A wh.ore is always a wh.ore

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

If the girl is not liability then she should bring something to the table. So 100k is not everything on the family table. The minimum she must bring should be 50k otherwise na liability. Now we have at least 150k on the family table.

U will see a jobless and senseless girl looking for who to feed her and her generation dishing a man earning 100k monthly, quite funny

Lalakas:
Am not happy with my husband's utterances towards me. He unapologetically told me my duties are just 2: to give him se. X and to cook. This guy has really hurt me in this marriage, he seems not to know how to talk.

I work and equally contribute to everything. I dont hide my income and i give him for the building we are both building. I am not useless and i am not a liability to him.

How it all started :
Moimoi or beans is for every other Friday or Saturday ( moimoi could be ones in 6 weeks except my kids specially ask for it) but for a while now whenever I prepare any of the 2 he would complain, regect it. He told me he doesn't like them during the week and I will never prepare them Sunday to Thursday. Friday because he won't be going to work the following day. My kids like eating moimoi very well, infact, it is one their best meals. Atimes, they ask for it. My husband sees moimoi and beans as crap. Guys, he buys it and eat it outside!, my moimoi doesn't purge anyone of us. Even him but he'd keep saying he purges with moimoi, it's just an excuse.

It is difficult to cook 2 foods, i will not stop making moimoi or beans because of him, my kids like the meal so much. For the fact that he buys it out there and this food is what we usually enjoy together before now, i cant stop cooking it.

He has in many ways abused me, he is not someone I should even go the extra mile for, he doesnt sacrifice for me, he doesn't respect me, he doesn't stay close to me except when he wants se. X, always going out. He is very scarce at home. I can't cook 2 foods on days i cook moimoi or beans.

And for telling me my duties are just 2 in his life, I feel abused for allowing him have se. X with me all these while, i feel like a kitchen tool for cooking for him. His intentions and motives about a women are so demeaning.

I am feeling so ashamed of myself. He place no value on me.

If oga doesn't want moi moi please ensure u prepare sth else for him anytime you cook moi moi. This is not hard, just carry soup from fridge n do eba for him. Some of you just like to make trouble

Center rug 15k money ready

What kinda of seat colour is dt?

RightToReject:
The fact that he did not foresee her exhibiting these negative attitudes beforehand in the kind of present circumstance shows that he is not a discerning man; the fact that he has not devised a way to change it for her all this while and make her subjugable on top her money shows that he lacks grit; just as the fact that he is still contemplating what to do after all these discoveries, insults and abuses shows that he doesn't have a healthy standard. Tell him to follow his conscience

Meanwhile, the subject question of the thread didn't do justice to the body of the thread, given that in a healthy union and circumstance like this, there is nothing wrong if a man lives in his wife's just house, if his condition necessitates it, but that isn't the case here.

This always happens when a man works and earns almost same salary with the wife then he asks his wife not to contribute to family upkeep at all, he bears it all for 15years while the wife is having excess savings then she buys land and starts building while dependent on the foolish man.

15 years later life happens to the foolish man and he loses his job while the wife has millions saved then the worst happens. The man is maltreated and looks irresponsible almost immediately.

Almost every woman cannot tolerate a broke man, so as men we should diversify our sources of income when the cash is flowing. Teach ur woman to learn to bear some responsibility in the house.

Life is full of ups and downs

Axis313:
As it happened in my neighborhood,a family friend.This man has a family his wife and children,he and his wife had a well paying job,and the husband is taking a very good care of the family,a very good husband and a caring father,but along the line he lost his job.
Now,all the responsibilities fell on the laps of the wife,feeding,house rent,children school fees and others.
A little time after the husband lost his job,the wife's attitude change dramatically towards the husband,but the man keep enduring everything,including all the insult and abusive words being hurl at him by the wife.Please note that the man didn't sit idly,he is trying his best to secure a job but all to no avail,but he is doing some odd jobs,so as not to be staying at home all the time and not to be asking everything from his wife.
Now,after nearly two years after the husband lost his job,the woman told the husband that she has already bought land and built house on it,the house is near completion and very soon she would like the family to move out of the rented apartment to her house.
The man is in a dilemma,especially whenever he remember all the humiliation and insults from the wife.Meanwhile,before he lost his job,both him and the wife were developing their own site,and he is the major contributor to the development of the site,but along the line,loss of job happened.
The man is seeking my opinion,but I don't know what to tell him other than to ask his wife for him to be in charge of the land's documents.
How will you advice the man,or if you are in this situation,what will you do?

Lalasticlala,what will you advice the man to do.

Funke Akindele comes to mind.

A jobless and broke man has no pride left.

This is pure humiliation, he should move in for more humiliation hopefully he gets back on his feet soon.

U can't fight without money in ur pocket.

God and money two things u can't do without in this world otherwise u are finished

Arranged twins

VeryKindHearted:
It's almost a month now since my mom died and I cannot begin to get over the pains of the loss. My father died 22 years ago when I was yet a small boy and because I went to stay with my uncles, aunt cousins, and grandparents, I was able to get over it after some time, because of how I was treated with so much love, because I was still a child. Children can easily forget pains.


I have come to the recognition of the fact that there is nothing as painful as the loss of a mother.


The first day my mother died, I thought that I would not be able to survive the knowledge that she is no more.


Life looked so meaningless and unnecessary that it looked as if there was no need for me to continue living.

Because everything I have achieved so far was to please her and make her enjoy my money and my little achievement.


But she didn't even live to properly enjoy my money before dying.


Although I have come to accept it, but the shock of her death still continues everyday.

How can one get over the death of his mother considering the fact that someone cannot bring her back from the dead?

Give it one year, time heals all injury

postmann:
A man, a family one at that, MUST not fail to shelter, feed and clothe his family, and yes, pay for his child(ren)'s education. But should he encounter some difficulties, he should look for funds or assistance elsewhere, but not seek it from his wife.

Wow

It's alright

Just buy Toyota Corolla and stop worrying about fuel

Iamstickzbaba:
Am i the only one seeing the present gas price in this country as a threat to life? Now more than 70% of lagoscians can hardly fill 2kg. Once the price of this gas gets to #1500, they should just close this country and the last person leaving this country should off the light.

Now parents are avoiding asking their kids what their best food is because once your child just tell you that it's YAM AND EGG, just faint.

What can be done now??

Go and get your PVC and vote Peter Obi otherwise if Tinubu takes over Buhari will be Missed

NOETHNICITY:
Please house, I use God almighty to beg una. I need urgent and sincere advice here please. Because I might make a terrible decision soon.

I've a family of 3kids, the eldest is 5 and the youngest will be 2 next month. My wife's younger sister lives with us.
One the first of this month, I gave my wife 80k for for food in the house. Please take note, that that money does not include provisions, like milk and milo and drinking water. At the end of every month, I spend about 30k stocking the house with all the provisions and things like all the soap we are gonna need for the month. In addition to this, I am responsible for making sure that a bag of rice is always available at all times. And also most days I don't eat breakfast before leaving the house. So I end up eating just dinner at home.
My wife just told my this morning that the feeding money is exhausted

Please I want advise, I use God beg una

Edited! Note that in addition to all this, I buy bread for the house every 2days because my kids take tea as breakfast every morning. I also give my wife's sister 10k every month for her recharge car. And some weekends I buy things like chicken, fish and turkey just to augment and make the family happy. Daily I spend on average 1k buying fruits for house. Yet 80k is not enough

80k is more than enough

Give her the money weekly for stew, soup, n few ingredients 15k weekly

Happy Sunday

Non negotiable

Stealing is not an option instead beg people around. If u steal u could be killed no excuse for it

Russia Ukraine war is like world war 3 it's affecting world economy.

Nothing to worry if you are a long term investor. Buy more and hold

Keep the calls coming

Hello

The joint account should not stop you from having your own account and it should be a separate account both of you contribute something to monthly. This must be after you are married

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