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AlexDeedat:
Please I want you to judge me but, while you do that, please be sincere. I will make it brief. Please dont mind the typo errors or any errors as we have many English teachers on board.

It all started about 3moths now, I works with an FMCG Multinational Company as a Field Sales Manager and I was newly transferred to one of the northern state from Lagos.

I arrived this state as a Johny Just Come (JJC) and I can barely speak ordinary 'Wa kin pa o' (come make I kill You), I am a Yoruba Man.
I met an existing Sales team which I inherited from the previous manager.
One of the Sales people is Mr X. Oh my God! This guy is just so exceptionally intelligent, smart, hardworking, dexterous and has the qualities to be a great Manager. He is still an Open Market Sales Rep despite the years he has put in the Business.

Mr X took me round the Territory, helped introduced me to existing distributors and we were able to recruited more. My line manager was so surprised that i was able to fit into the new environment easily and met 72% of my target for the first month within that shortest time. This particular Mr X has so much channels he can singlehandedly do 50% of the entire secondary sales while the remaining sales rep struggled with the rest.

Now this where I'll need your advise. There is a new vacant slots for the post of TSM, three (3)northern states and one(1) south eastern state. I have opportunity to sloth Mr X's CV so he can be called for exams and possibly interviews. I am more than sure this guy will get the job with my help and his effort.

The problem is "I CAN'T LET MR X GO NOW" I decided to work out ridiculous incentives for him to increase his pay and he was so happy about it this month. He received 2x of what he always received monthly for the last few years...but yet, my conscience wont let me rest till now as it is about 48 hours to the close of submission for CVs.

I need this guy on board so badly atleast for like 4 to 5 months when I'll find my feet on this ground..I have looked around the remaining sales team atleast for a replacement but the rest are just.......This environment still looks like I am being pushed here to suffer..If you have been to core north, you will understand.

**I know God pushed him to me and I am very grateful. I'm I being wivked or self centered by holding on from sending his CV?

**I'm I going to be so stupid for allowing him Go now.

Pls advise me on what to do..

upengineer:
How much did PTEA charged you on that card? Is the card zenith naira master card?

Respect55:
This life is just a small place. You will think you are sharp but when the time is come, your sin will surely find you out.

Some weeks back, a guy saw my wares online and came around to pick some footwears since we are in same city. He kept on talking on phone with a particular girl (my girl) about the type of shoe she likes. Remember I just gave her a new pair when she requested for one. Not even up to a month.

So this guy selected 3 pairs of shoes - two males shoes and one female own. He just told me to packet them that he would call me when money comes in. Fast-forward to today, he called in the afternoon and gave me a location to bring the shoe that he went out with his girl and will be traveling in the morning.

I dressed up, picked up the shoes at the shop and dashed to the location only to meet him with my girlfriend.

I just pretended like nothing happened, passed the shoes to him. She was shocked to the marrow but the guy never noticed. He asked her to wear the shoe so as to see how it suits but she just told him that he shouldn't bother that it's OK.

He paid me and as I was about leaving, he called me back and introduced me to his girl. I told her my name like we just met and left.

That's just it. I'm out for good. I'm free

alakara:
Pls,is there anything called seafarers Visa?

Obyroli:
Helo house,
Please kindly help before i go ahead with ACS assessment ,between Web Developer or web Administrator which will be more favorable for 491 /190.I have experience in both and also little experience as a programmer.
Secondly which state will be a better option for nomination as some are demanding job offers.I am a bit confused and don't want to make mistakes,kindly assist
Thank you.

lilwetdick:
i am sure you will also see someone that will always say africans are primitive

in asia, there is caste systems, i guess it is alright

many europeans and americans are racists, i guess they are not primitive in thinking stupidly

suddenly as an african does similar stuff, all africans are primitive and think stupidly.

Janelle08:
Hi Nairalanders,

What is your opinion on this topic.

In a situation where a woman receives some inheritance from her father or a share of her late father's property, is she expected to hand over her inheritance (money) to her husband?

Married folks over to you. Women, how will you handle your inheritance? Men, how do you expect your wives to handle her inheritance?

Obyroli:
Good morning ,I want to start assesment with ACS ,pls is my transcript meant to be uploaded by me or the university is meant to send it to ACS
Secondly pls can I make payment before uploading all the required documents,cos am i bit confused.Thank you

Nedunwam:
Thanks for your response. The WAEC is GCE. And the CO specifically mentioned the WAEC certificate.

Nedunwam:
Dear Friends, please I need serious help, my case officer identified a difference on the date of birth on my wife's wace certificate to that on her passport. The waec reads 23rd march 1993, while her passport reads Dec 12, 1992. Pls I need contact of anyone who works with WAEC office to assist me. I was given 28 days to provide updated certificate (if applicable) pls help a brother who has suffered a lot for this Australia migration stuff plsssssssss.

adam2611:
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BetterPerson007:
Hi guys. Please I need help. I'm trying to register for PTE, but I don't know what to include in this field:

sp749513:
Good moring nairalanders.

I want justice pls.

I was jailed 4 years ago when i was arrested,tried and sentenced for fraud.

I was not a criminally minded person but do to the economic hardship and how to provide for my wife and daughter I went into fraud.

My wife was supporting our union with her trade which the income was very low and to feed was war.

To cut the long story short when i was in prison she do visit occasionally but during 3 years spent already she stop visiting.

When i was freed last 2 months and to know what ups I went to where we live and learnt from a neighbour that my wife has parked out from our 2 rooms apartment and is now living with a man.

I got the address,went their and lo and behold she was heavily pregnant for the man.

I felt like fainting that moment and to make matter worse she said it to my face that she can't live with an ex convict.

My 5 years old daughter wants me back but my wife and her family are fighting against that.


I still love my wife despite her betrayal but the pregnancy and her refusal to give me back my daughter is giving me problem.

I want justice against the wife snatcher and i want back my wife and daughter.



Please what is the best ways to go about it so as not to go against the law.

Mods,I want justice.

hartson:
Hi,His/Her question was if it will be possible to WES ie Canada Evaluation report in place of transcript and send to ACS since he/she could not get a transcript from sch.

Chijiuba:
Good afternoon house, please I have a question regarding ACS assessment, I have asked my school for a student copy of my transcript which they declined, Please can I use WES course by course assessment and send to ACS.

igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks

Experience4u:
Someone went for pharmacy technician recently and for a negative assessment. Is there any advice for the fellow sir?

Charleys:
I have this aunt who used to flog me, give me all sorts of punishment when I was a child.

Most of my childhood worst childhood memories are tied to her.
But she thought me lots of things, like self discipline, patience etc.

I was always with her when my mum was working.

Fast forward to now....
She has two kids (boy & a girl) very stubborn.

She doesn't want me to do the same thing she used to do to me. Is it fair at all.

Example I went home to visit during holidays, her children broke the plate they were washing...

If I was the one hell would have broken loose that day but while I was talking to them I noticed she was protecting them. I kept quiet.

Secondly when I tell them to do something they do not do it, that will be the right time to flog them.. but my aunty boldly told me not to touch her children.

I believe deep inside me I'm trying to pay her for the evil she use to do to me but I'm not aware of it.

Or am I being too harsh on them... Her kids.
Why doesn't she want me to also flog her children. My mum never had problem with her if I did something wrong. So why is she having problems with me now that her kids are doing things wrong.

I believe my generation have been cheated, children dont learn anymore in school. in fact she secretly told her children not to greet me. (This can never happen if I did this to her).

What should be my next move now. Because I believe there's a cold war going on in the house.

Note we stay at family house when we travel back to the village.

Note it's out of disrespect that makes me think this way.

Tee79:
Got the grant today..

Timeline
Ielts August 2017 10 points
Pte Sept 2017 10 points
2nd pte Oct 2017 10 points
3rd pte Nov 2017 20 points
1st assessment May 2018 negative
2nd assessment Oct 2018 positive
Tasmania 489 nomination and ITA Jan 22
Victoria 190 nomination and ITA Jan 31 2019
Lodged Feb 22 2019
C.o contact Sept 17 2019
Response Sept 24 2019
Granted Oct 16 2019
IED Oct 16 2020

Pashim:
After 3years. Recieved golden Mail. Grant notification mail recieved today for me, my wife and 2kids.

Will post timeline soon. It wasn’t easy o!
Did PTE 3times, assessment 2times, recieved natural justice letter but still God did it.

Pls is they anyone in Adelaide that can help us settle in.

Mamabigboy:
Dear Elders, Please I need your contributions.
My IELTS result is out and the overall band score is 7.0, though writing is 6.5. I wish to start prep for assessment by the Australian Institute of Medical Lab science which accept a minimum of overall band score 7 irrespective of whether writing is 7 or not. I equally intend to write PTE hopefully for a better score to boost my points. Will this not be a big issue later considering that i submitted ielts to AIMS and PTE to enter the pool. Kindly advise me please. God bless.

arasola2000:
Good morning all.

I'm new to this thread. I have done some research but need some clarity:

- Do i need to pay for the assessing body to assess my skill? YES - YOU WILL PAY A FEE FOR ASSESSMENT.

- Do i submit the EOI before the assessing body assesses my skill? NO- YOU WILL NEED THE ASSESSMENT DETAILS TO COMPLETE YOUR EOI

Thank you