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Indispensable85:
People just generalize thinking all mothers are as bad as theirs. Go deal with your problem and stop this foolish generalization. God bless you!

Not all mothers are bad, but advisable to hide ur marriage a little bit from 3rd party, not only ur mum even ur pastor and others 3rd parties.

Don't let them come for ya head biko

Shortyy:
Even a man can fall out of love. It happens, it's not a gender thing.

Am not talking of man, that of man is common occurrence.

Societies place more premium and strong value on women.

Can woman let go of such man she has strong attraction for?

Amen oooo

At least, for guys who are 35-45 who yet to knw the year to marry.

virginprincess:
You guys don't understand women at all, she is physical attracted to him fine, but it is not only because of the looks that her attract to him, maybe there is something she is seeing in that guy that she didn't see in the other guys, i use myself as an example, i can just see a random guy, i will just like him because of his looks, those type of attraction doesn't last at all, after sometime the feeling just die off, but there is this particular guy i am attracted to, i am not attracted to him just because of his looks though his very cute, i am attracted to him because of his ways, anytime i see this guy i see a very bright future in him, very calm, humble& respectful, the more i try to stop thinking of him the more i am attracted to him, so you guys should stop thinking that if a woman is attracted to a man it just because of only looks and money, NO NO.

If you read my post very well, you will see I did not mention money or emphasized on handsomeness because what attracts individual defer.

Going back to ur point, if you are already in "serious relationship" when you meet such guys maybe by way of coincidence, and you are sooo attracted to him, what will happen if he starts disturbing you? Pls try to be neutral in ur response!

yanabasee:
The problem men have is trying to see all women as one....

Trying to assume that all women should like/love the same thing.


Assuming that all women wants is the same thing from men.



Women have different likeness and prefer different things.


The woman that likes facial beauty will never like a man with muscular body!

Some women don't like influential guys, they love their men simple and introverted....


So, umpteenth times, men have been advised to go for women that meet their standard not a woman that you love coz of her beauty or fat azz or hourglass shape!!

You guys still don't get my point yet, I don't wont to bore you guys I would have explained it in details.

A girl who is not teenager, who is about to marry or actually married, happens to meet another guy who is attracted to him, even thou the lady has married man she loves to marry.

There is no way ,human won't be meeting those who she/he will be attracted to, (I don't wont to say richer and cuter)

If married woman or lady who is into serious relationship by way coincidence meets such guys, who she is attracted to(I am talking of deep infatuations o), what will happen to the lady

xxxtedyxxx:
Don't ever ask for relationship ideas from females. You will end up with premium tears.

You got it wrong, first I may ask, there are some female ,who are complete neutral and which they advice how its

2. Am not asking from ladies now because of relationship. I'm asking to knw how possible now and even in olden days, how women stay will their husbands alone through out their lifetime.

virginprincess:
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No comments? Pls speak out, that's y I love some WhatsApp groups, they express themselves openly.

xxxtedyxxx:
Having lots of money without game will ruin your relationships. Yes, you will attract the babes, but it will only be because of your money....not your personality.

Without game, you will be a " maga".

Having money and solid game will land you 98% of naija babes.

I wish to hear from females how it feels, at for more experience and to advice couple.

jawalis:
I’ll dedicate my second to comment to Castingcrowns.
Don't expect God to rebuke devourers that you constantly use your own hand to create through lust, fornication and adultery.
The first guy should just count his loss and move on. Women are naturally hypergamy in nature. They always get flattened when they see a better option than what they have at hand. It’ll be better your brother move on and get himself together for prospective heartbreaks since he’s not man enough to handle a LovePeddler.

The lady in the second episode is as confused as Buhari. I bet she’ll still see another handsome guy and leave the guy she’s falling for now since her heart is like extension box that is easily plugged. She’s the real definition of what a b!tch is for intending to dump her man for that silly excuse. I hope her boyfriend can realize he’s dating a hoe.

How I wish I can get the two chats that my guy showed me, and post it here,

If you are a neutral person and they show you the charts, you will see my guy as extral tyre while other guy as main guy, even thou they almost do introduction.


See how she is melting for the guy.


.........baby pls call me I want to hear ur voice .
...........pls send me more pic of urself.

But I wish to hear from females here at least for wisdom purpose.

xxxtedyxxx:
You have failed to understand one important fact: Attraction is an emotional thing, as per women, it is never logical.

A woman feels deep attraction for you because of the way you make her feel— not because she has made up her mind to feel attracted or not.

Most fall for different reasons: your looks is the least of them. Notice i said looks, not your physical appearance.

She has become attracted to the other guy because the guy is hitting the right buttons, while her current boyfriend/guy is losing it, losing everything that got her the said babe in the first place.

You must maintain constant game to keep a girl attracted. You must be unpredictable too.

From your write up, it is obvious "she don see her new boyfriend finish" . The babe needs a new challenge, and she is obviously getting it from another guy.

Don't forget, this is 2020, babes now fall for varied reasons: your looks (facial features) is the least of them.

What am saying is real o, not just story, in fact the 2nd one I got to knw about it this evening, if you see my presentation, you will see I tactically carved it out, i dnt knw how to copy facebook chat i would have got the leak chat from my kid friend. I don't want to be seen as bashing any gender, we all knw African culture towards male and female genders.

Fvckhypocrite:
. Guy forget that okpata get better money even though you look like chimmpaazee those vaginal people go follow you ask ned nwoko.

But rich man marriages also collapse nah, ask dangote, and so many celebrities all over the world

I have 2 experiences in recent time about 2 serious relationships that I knew about.

I summarized it below

Episode 1. A guy who is like kid brother to me, reported his girlfriend.
He said, he read his girlfriend charts with another guy, how his Girlfriend is dying for another guy , that the girl confessed she fell for the guy just because of his physical appearance. He showed me the charts, meanwhile they almost do introduction

Episode 2. From woman's angle, she also closer to me. She confessed that she no longer seeing her guy attractive again ever since he met new guy.

The former two guys are just average in physical appearances, while the new guys are handsome at least 70%. In term of other values, rich , intellectual etc i can't say for now

I almost ask my wife, but I knw she she might bias in her response.

Am now imaging and curious, how a married woman or lady who is into serious relationship already, manages to wade off such infatuations whenever she meets guys they are attracted to.

Instead of you to form security network to complement police, you guys are forming security outfit, hisbah to do Islamic biddings .

Yet you say you are not cows.

nnamdi640:
China don't speak English and yet they are great.....
Speaking English or writing in English is not a ticket to success. Hope you know that your boss who choose you as minister is a case study. Bubu own is worst because he doesn't understand English,that is why he speaks off point whenever they interviewed him.

Even when he and trump face world media in Washington for live interview.

Olunmercy56:
You are just so lucky, many innocent ladies fell into all those married men's trap

What about single guys that Bleep you girls, what is the outcome? As if polygamous is not part of African culture, any lady that is independent, if she sees married man who truly want to marry her. I beg her to jump to the offer.

If you you don't knw by now that girls are far outnumbered guy you are not doing urself good o.

Even the few guys that available how many ready to settle down?

Meditate on my opinion i wrote above and answer them correctly within you.

Zzor:
I don't know if it's witchcraft but once I see a married man, I will know, one wanted to deceive me here but I kept insisting that he's a married man and when he noticed I was so sure, he owned up lol.Ladies should learn to take their time before jumping on this species of men we have around these days, don't fall for what he's telling you now after he's done the deed or were you expecting him to tell you that he's happy to have slept with you and he's done? ladies should stop falling for that yeye talk, all those niceties he's forming now and you are buying it too was all part of the game. I'm waiting for that man that will come and deceive me,by the time you exhaust your energy, you will surely take a voluntary exit. Make I go chop jare

Most self deceit I ever meet. You have never met real player and pray you won't meet them.

If every lady, most especially the one that ready to settle down can play relationship game according to its rule, men won't be seeing ourselves as conquerors

iamrealdeji:
these girls I'm talking about are way prettier and younger than Peter's wife. I lived in 1st street in front of Justice Kahu's house,GRA in Ilorin through out my secondary school and first year in university and this area is where rich people like Saraki,Tunde Idiagbon,Adisa,big big Senators and members of house rep. big Ilorin politicians,Biggest business men in Ilorin live and their wives are still not half as fine as wives of those poor people. Their children don't even stay in Nigeria and only get married to children of the rich that also don't stay in Nigeria

So Toyin Saraki not beautiful or bukola not rich?

iamrealdeji:
I'm still wondering why some women think they can marry rich men because of their beauty. But come to think of it,I've lived in Ilorin for years and the most beautiful girls I've ever seen there are married to poor men. Or does ''rich man'' have another meaning? A Gardner I know who is very poor is married to one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen in Ilorin. This girl looks like an Indian. Another girl at Amoyo,Ilorin who looks too fine and looks so Indian is married to a poor bus driver and they live in his father's mud house patched with cement. Many more of them like that you would see jumping from okada to Okada or waving taxi with their baby at their back. In Saki too,you would see an Okada man married to 4 drop dead gorgeous girls as wives. My question now is that why do girls that are not that beautiful look for rich men around to marry,are they not seeing these girls or are they just deceiving themselves thinking that there aren't very many beautiful girls and very few rich men and the rich marry the rich these days? Am I the only one that see things this way?
Mind you,I'm not a poor guy o

Which mean you are entangled urself with poor people alone.

Meanwhile anything gives people joy, pls endeavor to let them have it peace.

That's number 1 problem btw Peter (p'squre) and his siblings today

God has created us in such away, no 2 humans are the same biologically.

If humans knw that, the world would have experienced more peace today.

debbydams:
men are coming but I don't invite them to my place nd neither did I go looking for any...most of them are gold diggers

You will soon wake up from ur slumber.

Assignment one will definitely do, one don't need to shy and run away from it.

debbydams:
yeye..the reason is v spent almost two years now in my business no guy has come looking for me neither do I v time going to see a guy..I open everyday nd dere was a week I didn't open, it was because I fell sick nd everyone dat know were calling me..had it bn I v a guy coming to see me those men will stop disturbing me..

For solid good years, no guy coming to you? Dis 1 no be yeye issue o. The earlier you give chance for married man, the happier for you o.

On many occasions, we married men take care and make single ladies happier o.

uuzba:
Japanese students can't speak English.
Chinese graduates can't speak English or Japanese.
German graduates can't speak English...

This guy just didn't learn English. Simple. Go and find out where he is now. He's speaking whatever language he knows and doing his business. he just doesn't give a fxxxx about English doesn't mean he is stupid.

Oga, Japanese graduate is supposed to knw how to write and speak Japanese language, ditto Chinese's graduate, he/she should be able to write and speak Chinese's language and not English language, here in Nigeria, English language is our lingual franca, a graduate of any higher institutions is supposed to write and speak in English language.

Anything worth doing, is worth doing well sir.

So many half baked have caused so many damages for Nigeria, even unto the graduates that are grounded too.

Fuckingmallam45:
I’m not referring to him sir, I only buttressed his point.

Buttress? But you wrote, his presentation has nothing 'to write home about'. What an absurd!

Fuckingmallam45:
Well said bro. You might be intelligent but your presentation is nothing to write home about.

What happens to his presentation sir? Is it because of one or two errors? I guess you read it from ur sleep!

If you want to see level of education decadence just go to private schools and discuss with those who used to conduct interviews for graduates that seeking employments into private schools

My friend said, whenever they came, they would collect application letters they came with, they would give them another papers to write fresh application letters............come and see sweat oozing out from naija graduates that came for private schools interviews.

From my brother's angle. He said, he would give them any past questions of S S 1 to solve, .................naija English graduates scoring 8/50, 5/50, 15/50 on past questions of English language, meant for SS 1 students.

DukeJoe17:
Just look at her insatiable and greedy mouth, she broke up with her boyfriend because another boy came around flashing her with some coins, shame on you body monger.

It is karm is making use you.

According to her, she also said the new guy also agreed for her to double date initially, became the guy say no problem to date him and old guy together then

Its a big sign that the new guy wanted to have her for banging, he refused to let go of her because of free banging and not because of love, in fact OP has confirmed that she don't ask him for anything.

I always pity some girls, they will think they are into serious relationship with certain guys, meanwhile the guy is just using her to whine a way time and to release tension

Tonalphs:
my problem is why is everyone having relationship issues this period?
op don't ignore your instincts. if it's bad, it's bad. don't justify or encourage bad behavior.

Are you having relationship issue too? Or you are not with a guy at all

debbydams:
Married men are desperate too.. I cant can't starting counting married men that's is disturbing me now.. Each time I tat of it I'd b like if I get married wont my hubby cheat on me?.. M just scared..

So its married men that are on your neck now.

Its a sign of village people

Europeanian:
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WRONG ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Change is constant.. people do change oh.

For the fact he doesn't want to let her go, he loves you and guys like this do end up marrying the lady they cnt let go. Don't listen to all these other advices saying you should quit the relationship. Most of them are just sadist and don't like anything marriage. The guy love you, stick with him and have enough dialogue with him.

Marriage councillor and lover of marriage.

I doubt if you knw different btw these words. Banging, dating, courtship and marriage.

Am also curious to knw definition of ur own love, I guess beatings is part of ur own definition.

A guy that loved girl, would have, at least do introduction and ask her to move to his place.

A guy who puts tag on a lady who is yet to married and don't allow other guy to marry her, is a big enemy of marriage.

If after 10 yrs of banging the guy move on to marry other girl, what will be the girl Faith sir?

Chimaobi302:
It's only a Fool that will say in his heart that there is no God.
All I see in your post is hatred and pain,
Time people say, " is a healer "
Let's watch and see if your believe can stand the test of time as you age,
You will one day, come to realize that this world we live in and life itself Is SPIRITUAL,
Do have a nice day..
Shalom.

You ended it with Shalom, but you don't seem to peace loving Christian, he talked about how confused he was and is about existence of God, instead of you to sit him down and explain in practical term to convince him that there is a supreme God, you resulted to attack........by implications, ur action keeps distance his heart away from God.

ENGINEERG:
I have been to several police stations, to solve many cases for people , and I have been a victims too of robbery and breach of contracts..In all, I paid money...In my eyes I saw how police are making millions in their stations on people who have cases..
And at the end, after arm twisting people to pay , at the counter people will still pay for Bail,
Anyone who enter cell will pay for Soap, pay for water , which were not provided
In police station ,you will see BAIL IS FREE, but its never free
Even if you have a lawyer, its your lawyer who will negotiate the bail for you
All the money police make illegally get to the top, and it is hard their hierarchy change this narrative
But I believe, a day Bail is free, Police is actually reformed

Anything works perfectly in other countries will struggle to work up to 49% in Nigeria.

Seems as accursed nation.