₦airaland Forum

Hendrix50:
I can't believe my eyes and ears what I see and hear when I open my girls phone
Not 1, not 10 guys, but many.
And she said she love me more.

I don't think there is the need,even your wife has her boundaries of privacy that must be respected,talkmore of girlfriend which is just pussy without commitment,you don't have the right to even touch your girls phone,just fvck her and let her go,she is the owner of the breasts and pussy which she is legally free to give to anyone she fancies,if you are obsessively insecure aviod women.

Patented:
lots of guys sleep with Prostitutes but what worries me about your case is that you are keeping the score........like why?!!

even tracking protection and non protection.

Maybe you need therapy.

on the flip side what about them has you hooked?

that is my own concern,the accurate collation of the data,from number of prostitutes fvcked to number of times he didn't use protection,did he keep diary and tabs of nacked women or what I can't even understanding,that looks kind of weird and obsessive

Wagwanbrethren:
Confused lots! 🤣
Is this not the same Ekpa writing to UN for a peaceful and bloodless separation from Nigeria? Here he is ordering sit at home all the way from Finland. Funny how they fear this guy pass anything. Of course Tinubu na their problem! 🤣

Same people go call other tribe cowards. You wey Dem dey lock for house against your own will every Monday, and anytime no be coward? 🤣

it is not Simon ekpa we are afraid of bit the aggressive unknown gunmen that can burn your car or Keke on sit at home day,prevention is better than cure,morever the western government hiding under the cover of human right is allowing these guy in Finland to incite sedition and violence yet they do nothing about it,hypocrites.

farous:
Please is there anything wrong that husband,wife and children all have and sleep separately in their respective rooms and bed.

Must husband and wife share same bed and room to define intimacy/closeness and bond between them or what can be called martal bed.

there is everything wrong with it,God forbid my wife will sleep and live in a separate room,way?

Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?

this is quite interesting what I observed,my fellow in-law confided to me that he has not cheated on his wife for almost 30 years of marriage which is very impressive but he further told me that he beats his wife anytime he wants to nack and she is not in the mood,his wife on the other hand who is my wife's elder sister also told her sister that she prefers her husband to cheat rather than to be beating and disturbing her all the time,now which is the better option?

Flora2Sweet:
See love Oohh....
If u get a good woman , hold am tight....

a good woman will not let you be on your knees for such period,this is the true definition of a SIMP and an insult to men all over the world

Orfankwagh:
Na only uzor kalu and akpabio fit give that kind bribe

it is clear that sensitive political positions in Nigeria is for the highest bidder not minding if you are an exconvict,drug dealer,scammer or thief,this is the one of the reasons the people of the southeast feels indifference towards voting and active participation in politics,why bother to vote?when at the end the dollar will be more powerful than your vote

Wordsfrombimpe:
Let’s discuss

is it a big turn on to you or a big turn off

the image of a masturbating women is no doubt one of the most erotic images of a woman a man's brain can analyse, especially when she is moaning,gasping and grunting in ecstasy,a dead dick will surely rise up at such live image

virginprincess:
One of the reasons why i can never get married to a mummy's boy.

ok,you want to come into his life stay 5 years and take half of what he suffered for and leave him for another man,while his mother that nutured him all his life and will stand by him till her last breath will get nothing,shame on you gold diggers,why can't she stand by her man,marriage is for better and worse

tunjijones:
South east has the lowest poverty index and yet you pple will not stay in your beloved southeast wit low poverty.

Dey play....

why will we stay in our region while their are areas in your own region that is ripe and fertile for business but you don't take advantage of it,Igbos go to places that has opportunity for business and economic development and in doing so they build businesses and pay taxes in their host region,what you have to ask yourself is why are not my people doing such businesses the igbos are doing in my region?is it because my people are not proactive,is it mental and physical laziness,is it lack of ambition or inability to take risks,or rather feeling indifferent towards economic freedom,all these and more are critical questions you need to ask yourself,even if the igbos leave your region you may not harness the opportunities that are waiting in your region,we have been baptized by fire,hunger and blood during the civil war and economic freedom is another type of victory for the igbos

Finquas:
Rip bro.. your country failed you finally

in my community it is hard to say RIP to such,that is cowardly and a disgrace to his family,his country didn't fail him,he choose the easiest part to escape when push comes to shove,it is also sad to know that some individuals has the disadvantage of a weak mind and will that is not their choice,even in well developed countries like Japan you may be surprised that their suicide rate is higher than ours,it is not a question of country but personality.

Zonefree:
What in Chinelo's name is Gurasa?

So, he will use his bare hand to mix that thing without putting on hand gloves and a sane human will pay him and consume

Una dey try for that una Birnin Kebbi

by the two holy breasts of the blessed Virgin Mary that thing looks tasty and will go down well with a few bottles of cold beer, whether he use bare hands or not we don't care

TemplarLandry:
I see they've been given “Shishi fę rę fę” (slight beating). Even though they're men of the underworld, they shouldn't be manhandled, just cuff them and charge them to court first thing on Monday.

these type of criminals are not the gentle type you see in America or Europe,this guys are crazy when in operation,don't you read that they shot off one man's knee cap,can you imagine the pains,the months and agony it will take him to recover,just ordinary slap by police you are forming human right,anybody caught with a gun robbing in southeast or southsouth your life is for feit in the most miserable way by roasting you alive

luveu:
I hit this bush meat this night while driving back from work along lekki epe express way because of it big size I’ve to park, pull over to take it home. Pls what is it call, And how am I going to prepare this?

in my area in igboland we call it ekpukpa,it is a form of bush rat that moves in groups or family of 7-15 animal,whenever you see one cross the road,sure that more will follow blindly but the meat is stringy and tastes sour,but it is a very brave animal like the honey badger,if you shot one,the rest will carry the dead or wounded colleague away no matter the risk,even if it is a trap they will try to rescue their member even if it means to team up and carry the trap away with their fellow they will try,that is why traps are tied with wire cable to a tree,if you don't 10 of those animals will drag a bicycle away talkmore of a trap.

Wealthier:
I have accepted my fate okay. I hate that someone would love to have a family and you tag me as desperate. Everyone is thinking I'm desperate. But when I go ahead to have kids on my own because noone would take me seriously, I know the new names I will be called. And if I decide to be by myself, I will still be called names.

you worry too much about what people will think or say about you,are you concerned about their happiness or yours,you are not alone in this situation because the current reality is that men are not too eager to get married these days either because of economic reasons or reasons best known to them,at 30 yrs you are not an evening paper but a beautiful matured woman,you can be a single mother,it's your choice and don't give a fvcking damn what people think

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

if you value your health,sanity and piece of mind talk with your wife and plan how to relocate the girl,this is exactly what happened to me and all hell broke lose when my sister in-law got pregnant and she pointed her fingers to me,it was a cataclysmic disaster,my mother-in-law wanted to pour raw acid on me and my wife tried to burn my car,I was saved by my father in law who defused the situation,thank God the girl got married after giving birth to a pretty daughter who is now 12 yrs living with my in-laws,pls my brother run away from that seductress and don't look back,that is how it starts,they will wear singlet with no bra and their nipples assaulting your sensibilities,don't even look at her again,I have to pay #200k to my in-laws as settlement in 2014 for that costly error in judgement, run for your dear live,10 mins of enjoyment is not worth the stress,flee

imagrg:
It doesn't have any side effects.

Only that you do it to moderation.

Women too masturbate to ease sexual tension.

believe me it has side effects,if you want steadily for 10-15 years on day you will be with a pretty babe your dick will not stand,infact you must power yourself with drugs or herbs before sex or else serious embarrassment

GeeM:
God is more powerful than money

maybe in heaven but here on Earth, money is king

Rastafryrice:
And you're posting this on nairaland?

I wonder if,but my brother people get money,this is cash for 3 four storey buildings in owerri + hostel,poverty is bad

Dogalmighty17:
Your situation sounds just exactly like mine. I have never believed in divorce. But God knows I have been pushed to the wall. I won't tell you to be patient and understanding. I know that for you to make this post now shows how deeply pained you are.
At the end of the day, the question we should all ask ourselves is this: Is marriage worth it?

marriage is worth it if you are blessed with the right partner that is compatible with you,I don't earn half of what my good brother earns,I smoke,drink,womanise with other assorted general misbehaviours but I have a happy home,learn to completely ignore the woman and her antics,stop begging for sex or food,if she comes for sex use the opportunity to talk to her about your feelings,manage anyhow you can,from your post you are a good man with an unloving wife,that is why it is highly advisable to know and test a woman throughly before marriage,it is a pity this is a cross you have to carry because I don't see such woman changing soon,she simply does not love you,whatever you do stop initiating or begging her for sex always it belittles a man,she is supposed to love ,encourage and appreciate you as her husband,good luck

PatientofYabale:
After everything I did for you, you still cheat on me. Your day are numbered this stupid girl. I will make sure they plan your funeral very well. I paid for her school fees, bought her handouts, buy her almost 39,000 recharge cards, whenever she is hungry I still dey send her token upon the factory work I dey manage. She still dare cheat on me.
You Kon dey beg me for what!!!. If I no kill her make I bend!!!. I will go to work all night no sleep, those stupid indians and Lebanese go dey shout one me like fool, you this girl wey I dey plan my whole future with Kon still cheat me . Omo this thing pain me well!!!, Whenever I want to Bleep you u go dey tell me when we marry. So u dey fool me since all this while. I will never forgive u, until l kill u. Monkey dey work baboon dey chop. Make nobody shaa vex me this night. Because I fit kill anybody right nw. The girl don end my life. I just dey feel like make I commit suicide. My life is meaningless. I love this girl with my whole life

spend what you can afford to lose on a girl,don't even have the wildest imagination you can be the sole controller of a pussy, believe in the back of your mind that girls that have not cheated yet have not seen an opportunity,women can still very much love you but still cheat,some people has cheating programmed in their DNA that it becomes just a reflex action and finally don't love a girl with your whole life,it is a recipe for disaster, considering the investment,manage her if you can,it is almost an impossibility to get a loyal pussy thesedsys,turn your life energy towards improving your life

Zonefree:
It's when you travel out of this shíthole you'll realise all these are fallacy and hogwash.

A married man is permitted to sleep with a single man's babe, but, a single man is not permitted to sleep with a married man's wife nonsense!

The only repercussion in sleeping with married women is, another person will sleep with your own wife...that's all.


For me, I find married women nauseating to bed them. I can't share same bed with a woman living with another man. I'm a full spec, I deserves good things.

there is no repercussion sleeping with married women,if you marry a good woman nobody will touch your wife,infact the only place that may be pinching you is your conscience,you know it is a bad time you did,trivial things like pussy and sucking breasts can hardly affect the fate and destiny of a man

potland:
i fùck one yesterday. She was sucking my dick and talking to her bf at the same time

she must then be speaking in tongues

Barutenboy:
This is a bit funny bro... Seems you re so much in love with her, but the early you let go of her the better. Move on

this is hilarious but frankly most of us have experienced such when still growing up to be a man,there are important lessons to learn along the way,you have to know when you are defeated,you will not necessary have everything you want and you have to know when to let go,this is time to move on,find a better babe and flaunt her

Nia69:
Traveled just to sleep in another man's house. Lol.

I wonder what she thought she is going to do at the man's house, prayers and worship?

DaddyCash:
I feel the woman is most times stronger emotionally, judging from experience.

What do you think?

you cannot compare a woman's physical,mental ,emotional and spiritual strength to a man's,they are simply not created to handle such heavy stress,yes they are smart,intelligent and manipulative emotionally but they cannot absorb the type of shock men are built to take without crumbling to pieces,if a woman lost the type of money this naira policy caused my business she will be depressed and be in shock,but we laughed it off with a couple bottles of cold beers and pepper soup with the hope that after a dark stormy night there is always a bright day after.

rtdCivilservant:
No sense in what u have said.

what he is saying is that those places that are popping your eyes are not originally meant to be covered as Africans,which is true,women are attention seekers and will do anything to get attention

successmatters:
Hmmm

There will be no treason charges
There will be no DSS calls
There will be no investigation
No comments from FFK
No comments from Bayo bigot
No comments from Reno with toilet mouth

Everyone will move on, till the next massacre in a few days time.

Sorry Nigeria.

what is baffling me is the fact that men living amongst these villagers are butchered like Christmas goat,does it mean this men cannot team up and defend themselves,can't they setup a night watch patrols for alert against these herdsmen,can't they even track them and revenge the killings,if this is not cowardice I don't know what else to call it

Omalica:
This is beyond preposterous!

the task before God on the judgement day I am afraid it maybe beyong what him and his magistrates could handle,the level of sexual activities going on in this times is simply more than what God initially planned when he created mankind