₦airaland Forum

Noerection:
E never reach number of the people that ipob terrorists have killed

this post is a testment of hate and tribal bigotry,is there any mention of southeast here?is there any place in the southeast 125 people were killed by herdsmen in a single location if not during the civil war?instead of solution how the cowardly men from that area will defend themselves you are showing your hate for the whole world to see,and sincerely I have not seen a set of spineless cowards than men that came from those area,what they know is how to fvck and impregnate women,these herders are not ghosts,they are human beings that have a place to sleep were they can be attacked,despite the fact that my brothers and sisters from the southeast have their own faults as humans but what you cannot take from them is their daring and bravery,we answer violence with violence,if there is mutual assured destruction their will be peace

Noerection:
E never reach number of the people that ipob terrorists have killed

this post is a testment of hate and tribal bigotry,is there any mention of southeast here?is there any place in the southeast 125 people were killed by herdsmen in a single location if not during the civil war?instead of solution how the cowardly men from that area will defend themselves you are showing your hate for the whole world to see,and sincerely I have not seen a set of spineless cowards than men that came from those area,what they know is how to fvck and impregnate women,these herders are not ghosts,they are human beings that have a place to sleep were they can be attacked,despite the fact that my brothers and sisters from the southeast have their own faults as humans but what you cannot take from them is their daring and bravery,

kettykings:
Most people who performed well as governors could not do anything under buhari's regime as ministers, could the issue be environmental or the reporting bureaucratic heriachy

the name buhari should be added in the Oxford dictionary as another definition of incompetence, ineptitude,poverty and blame shifting,it is a virus that infects anything good,but akpabio should not have said such,it is an insult to nigerians

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

I still don't want to believe that I read 34 yrs and still a virgin,how by the holy tits of Virgin Mary do you even manage to accomplish that feat,I am still trying to wrap my head around this story,it sounds so fantastic that I am also confused

ChildOfDoom:
While celebrating my stopping of gambling, I ventured into another addiction, visiting brothel

Thrice a week. Despite catching infection on some occasions, and promising to stop. I can't

I just bleeped raw and sucked breast of Olosho. If not that she stopped me, I for kiss am

all die be die

Deltavariant:
As a Man or woman name your biggest weak point in life?

pointed torpedo breasts,also I can be a simp for a puffy pussy.

FairlyUSEDpussy:
This wouldn't hold or stop the girl.........from breaking up and demanding half of his wealth when thing goes south............

Modified.....
To everyone quoting and telling she just a girlfriend and not his wife...........

Well........I guess y'all remember Israel Adesanya(the UFC guy)right??

His girlfriend sued and demand half of his wealth

a girlfriend cannot Sue you for divorce and half of your properties because their is no marriage agreement,it is when you are properly married in the city registry or church marriage that is when probate will recognize the union,even traditional marriage is not recognized by probate

God1000:
Very shameful

that is why it is highly advisable to marry closer to your community so customs and taboos are similar,imagine two married people working in an education office,getting pregnant and coming out to brag about it,it shows it is not a taboo in their place.if something like this ever happens in my community while the husband is still alive,sacrifices will be made to cleanse the taboo,the daughters may find it difficult getting married,the whole extended family will be horrified and ashamed,it will take generations to totally wipe away such calamity

garriAndsugar:
Why don't you take another wife, infact take two

why buying when you can lease and dump when you are tired,side chick is far better than marrying another woman

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats. One was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come.

I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more.

I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....

This is isn't the type of woman i want.

That wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.

I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September.

Initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......

I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or, concentrate on money making for another 5yr? And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

I don't think you have a valid reason to dump her,women get admirers on a daily basis,even my wife still have men chasing her talkmore of an unmarried girl,also you must know women like attention a lot and it will almost be impossible for her to bluntly tell her admirer to go to hell

Jennyclay:
Men are to be blame and that’s the truth.

You demonic men would appear as a saint, deceiving ladies into marriage with your useless mouth, then disappear into thin air once you heard she’s pregnant .
Well, the good news is that we are wiser now and you men can’t deceive us anymore!!!

You nonsense men should learn to keep to promises and take up responsibilities.

It shall not be well with all promise and fail men
It shall not be well with all stingy ko ko men.

Honestly God will destroy you nonsense men!!

hahaaaaa,this is straight from the heart,I think the woman should be more responsible for the aftermath of sex,it is she that controls what happens not the man,since nacking raw has put me into countless troubles I believe withdrawal method is a more proactive step,anywhere is good to cum on apart from inside the pussy

Ketamine9000mg:
The only thing that I understand here is the title of this post. The rest is just series of alphabets muddled together.

I wonder,when they reach 70 yrs they will understand the importance of companionship of either wife ,children or even grandchildren

danijesus:
Tinubu is not our president

despite the fact that many don't like him including me but he will be our president,and he will be better than buhari,nothing again can be as bad as buharis government,it is the definition of failure, ineptitude,poverty and hunger.

oz4real83:
Subjecting some elements\compounds\mixtures to high temperatures historically have always yielded amazing results, hope the new mineral will make the world a better world unlike the ones that keep leading to potential human destruction like bombs

even the massive voltages in lightings can also be a huge factor,300-500 million volts in one strike can cause many things,I hope my dear righteous will turn this to a prophesy

PrinceOfLagos:
Agents of death struck again as usual

They didn't even took pity on this little child in the pic below

the men of these affected communities are nothing else but spineless cowards of the worst category,the only thing that makes them men is the penis dangling between their legs,I cannot even begin to imagine what will be the reaction if such thing happened in my community (which is not possible,due to teams of vigilantes armed to the teeth with patrol vans)in the southeast,it will be an endless cycle of violence,revenge and retribution,the reason why these people are been killed like Christmas goat is because the herdsmen knows they cannot fight back or retaliate ,such killers are looking for victims not a fight.

alpharoyalty:
Good talk.
In my honest opinion, the situation will not change until we introduce selection of people into government, military, schools and civil services based on merit and not quota system.
The quota system that they are enjoying is one of the reasons they don't take education serious.
For instance, majority of important civil services from custom, npc, nnpc are populated with unqualified and inept individuals and they have subsequently succeeded in collapsing those sectors of the country. Same thing with the military and governance.
I am yet to understand how Nigerians can entrust their country to illiterates.
I am also yet to understand why we will promote an individual in the military or civil service based on quota system and not competence.
Until we introduce merit, like in all progressive countries, Nigeria can never move forward

merit and competence has been sacrificed on the altars of mediocrity and nepotism,Islam is not an excuse for illetracy and backwardness,the first scientists,mathematicians,explorers,adventurers and thinkers are moslems and moors,it is how we interpret Islam in Nigeria that is the problem

ChizzyBuna:
It shocks me how when a yoruba man hits big and get rich they dont marry their yoruba women. Why??
They always marry igbo women

If igbo man get rich he marries igbo woman
But yoruba man will ignore his tribe women and go marry igbo women

Davido grandmother is igbo
His uncle Gov Adeleke married igbo wife
Davido then followed family tradition and married chioma
Obasanjo wife that year stella is igbo

Governor Akeredolu marry igbo wife
El rufai son marry igbo wife
Tinubu son Seyi marry igbo wife
Otedola go marry Wife Nana from Ghana

Notice how they all dogde their yoruba women once they taste big money..

if your statistics is true,which I doubt ,the common sense reason for such is simple,beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
We have a poultry farm in the interior part of imo state but the quality and beauty of girls i see coming from poor familes in those remote villages is nothing short of incredible

iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since then Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

their is a proverb in igboland that says it is he who is carrying palm fronds the goats will follow,majority of goats anyway because I can't deny that I have been friends with girls that flatly refuse my money,some even giving me money instead

promisedwealth:
Good morning Great people and wonderful family, please just like the saying a problem shared it's a problem half solved.

I have been married to my wife for over 6years now we have been through all together we have two kids 4 and a year old .

my business since late 2021 has been rough I lost some money trying out a different business I'm based in the eastern part of the country.

Early last year my mother in law told my wife to come stay with her in Lagos till I can find my self again, they left imo to Lagos on feb. 2022 I have been I contact with them ever since sending money across also it happen that my wife started bringing the idea of myself joining over there in Lagos ( my in law has a little school in Lagos that has been where my wife has been teaching since she left) .

Concerning the relocation I told her it's not easy as I have to look for money to get accommodation, shop to start a business also the money will be much which I can't afford for now during someday last year I told her to come back during one of our discussion she told me she it's not coming to east again I got angry.

I noticed the mother will never allow her leave her school so I kept mute about coming back since I was neither ready yet do we kept on going no issues.

Just this april she changed, hardly pick my call,stop calling me by the pet name she does.

I tried to find out what happened, she told me she wanted a break. I was confused I tried to guess why she came up with that. she needs to seek and know if it's the will of God for our union that's after two kids .

I was lost also I have tried to restore this woman sanity since then till now I have spoken to the mother she it's not saying anything than what ever she decides it's best for her the only once telling me not to worry at the brothers but I'm worried honestly .

I don't want my kids to grow in different homes.

I also tried to make her see this same reason she told me the kids will be fine she's not looking at anything making her decision please I need advise it's my wife under a spell or what.

I don't want to raise ny kids this way please advice please....

I think the best thing to do is to plan for a week short holiday and go and visit your wife and kids,just be cutely and cuddles,pet her,call her pet names,make mind blowing love to her and you might be surprised what may happen,but sincerely you are at a disadvantage because of poor finance and I am afraid It seems your in-laws are better off,you guys can work something out,you can visit then and next turn she will visit you,the absence of your wife and kids is a good opportunity to double and redouble your hustle,it is well

Smartguyboy:
Do you know any girl you are chatting with and you tell her where are you let me come and pick you up even if she’s not interested once you use that line she most surely pick interest.



Why is it like that ?

nice house,nice car and good dressing is associated with wealth and success,naturally women are programmed to like successfully men,imagine a sceniro a girl is standing on the bus stop on a hot October afternoon and two men walks up to her,one is on foot,dusty and sweating ,the other is in an ac chilled Lexus is250,who do you think the girl will follow?

madridguy:
It is too much freedom.

Well, to me I still blame the men in such position, I no go sell my property, borrow money for us to travel you come reach foreign land make you come say you no do again. E no possible. We must talk am very well before we comot for Naija.

I don't it is too much freedom because we have excess freedom in Nigeria to even do bad things and get away with it,what I strongly believe is the lack of extended family link ,because in Nigeria you are not only married to your husband but to a whole tribe of people,that believes that divorce is taboo that you must mange no matter what,it is even frightening to Nigerian women to be divorced and living happily in Nigeria,it is nightmare they cannot comprehend,but in UK all those shackles are broken

Godfullsam:
Everything is not always about Biafra, yoruba Igbo etc.

The level of corruption and religious sentiment going on in this country is alarming.
We are simply not one country, I don't know why people find it difficult to understand this..

There is no way you will convince me that a yoruba man is not different from a fulani or an Igbo man in terms of ethnicity, language, culture, mindset etc even in appearance sef.

he who still believe in one Nigeria should go to YouTube and watch the old interview sir ahmadu Bello granted Reuters news and what he said about his feelings about the igbos,what these officers said is the simple truth,did we not read last week of a general atawe that looted 8.9 billion naira?what about the 5 soldiers that ran away with #450 million naira loot that was given to them to transport by a general,let's call a spade a spade,from the symbol of the army itself you can easily see the stamp of bigotry and ethic bias,the Arabic inscription is what I can bet my pot of okra soup that 90% of officers in the army cannot read Arabic,

After all the tussle we finally kiss our 2years old marriage goodby.
Civilization and social media remain the biggest setback to a successfully marriage

I think civilization do not play much a major part in Africa but Social media is making sure that there will be no virgin from 19 yrs up in a decade time,but the greatest deciding factor is to marry the wrong person,if you get the right companion you may still enjoy married life,that your marriage lasted for 2 yrs shows it was built on a shaky foundation, through my years of marriage in the worst of times,scandals,fights,insults,and calamitous misbehaviours it is still working far better than before

Candidlady:
The principal and the teacher should be dealth with!

iam sure it is nat only that girl the devil of a teacher is/was molesting!

just watch how some clowns would come and blame the victim(innocent poor grl)


ever since imade up my mind never to have anything to do with this gender my life changed for the BEST

Nigeria my country,the sins men do,in some countries the teacher will go to jail for life,but here we have a wicked level of freedom,but truth be told that student was already fvcking before the teacher,the guy is just the scape goat,she knows what she was doing and she likes it

LesbianBoy:
Is this playing? What time of playing is this?

sincerely this is uncalled for,what type of nonsense prayer and fasting,the man should come up with proactive ideas on how to tackle the bad roads in aba and pay salaries in umuahia not believe in superstitious gods

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

virginity is the lowest rung on the scale of preference ladder, when choosing a wife,what will be your major concern is to get a companion and a friend that will love you unconditionally and stand by you through the darkest and brightest of days,a smart intelligent woman that knows when to be frank and when to back off,putting virginity first is like putting the cart before the donkey,it is a gross feeling of insecurity to sacrifice peace of mind for an unproven pussy,I was friends with my wife for 3 years before marrying her,I didn't meet her a virgin but we are now married for 24 yrs because the qualities I see in her is far better than a virgin pussy,don't be blinded by naive and insecure ideas because the character of a women can hardly be judged by how tight her pussy is.

IyaTola:
If you were to spend 5m naira in 1hr, what will you buy?

I remembered in 2003 a friend of mine came back for Xmas with a Ghana must go bag of money and declared we must be spending #100k everyday till Xmas period stops,I tried my best with my babes and other men for three days and gave up after seeing that it is possible to die spending such money on flexing when one bottle of beer is #100 naira and pepper soup #200 naira a plate.

Saga16:
Falz deserves to be mocked.

is he a politician?have he held any sensitive post that will influence the quality of healthcare?the answers is NO,the son of the kaduna state governor is the one to be mocked if there is no hospital in kaduna that can do such surgery because he and his father is in a position to make that change,falz cannot,he is just one of us suffering the effects of bad governance

IyaebeTheGreat:
If it's in my country it's gbas gbos that'll end it. To divorce peacefully in Nigeria is a sin

divorce is white man tradition,here in Africa the institution of marriage has far more deeper roots than the two couples,most times only death separate couples in Africa,from childhood girls are trained to preserve and build homes not to seperate and wreck it,a forsee a time when the white man will prefer to marry Africans and Asian women for a better home and peace of mind

dawnomike:
Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for

this is ancient thinking,why will he live with someone he does not like for the rest of his life?moreover the op should note that the first girl does not like him despite ticking all the boxes,you cannot beg a girl to see you if she likes you

Ashez:
Nice one

I remember my time in school,a creative lecturer have set similar question and walked away,giving us freedom of library, textbooks,etc for 3 hrs with minimum of one foolscap sheet in answers,but many still failed,such questions will only have answers from your brain