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Hazel_eye,
show your stuff. Any creed. It isn't about school. Afterall, Dangote is not a professor, just as Bill Gate was a confessed school drop -out. Their creed, and personal ethics, brought them above others.

Over to you.

Babeelove, I won't be surprised if i discover you are a "straight As" type at school.

My error. Thanks.

My Ethical value is at the last paragraph. ", I have reconfigure myself to look for goods in every man and woman and ignore his /her shortcomings, "
sorry I didn't highlight it.

Yeah, I am comenting on your post. I just can't jump into conclusion. You really live up your creed from the way you commented on iice's lame defence. You are one of the women of value on nairaland. This isn't an advert for you. Just PLANE truth.

But you have to tell us what you mean by
" you wake up only when you die!" under your ideology. Could you educate the home. Maybe iice can borrow your creed since she didn't have any yet.

Yimiton,
we need a correction and adjustment, 'Oga' had said the rule must not be changed.

iice,
your creed had just been crafted. ''artful dodger" is that correct? My mirror simply go blank each time I focus it on you. I am expecting something of great value underneath that tactical evasion. You are wise, and very cautious. You won't lie and your truth is bitter. No be so? Just tell the truth and leave us to vomit if we must. For daring to post something really show you have a creed. I am not expecting people without value to take a second look at the topic. They are probably looking for 'sex' and 'love' topic and it isn't here unless anyone make sex his/her life ideology.

So I am waiting.

Hahahaha so can we say he died on the woman or thunderbolt killed him?

Mother Theresa died promoting the welfare of the downtrodden.

Adolf Hitler died hating Jews. He was reported to have been bombed. Others said he ordered his own execusion by close aids to avoid shame of defeat. Yet, some said, he killed himself. Whatever the case, his enimity of Jew drove him to his grave. Who says power can't kill?

Naijaborn, don't mind Gemine, may looking for gentlemen in Ajegunle.

iice, have you got any gentleman to nominate for this award? Even if your friend?

somze, think those who can dare can stay. Dare to be one.

iice, I refuse to believe you have no creed. I can't be fool. By your lack of creed, you are advertising your creed.

Sparta, don't say there is no big deal in being a virgin at 26. In a world where young girls of 15 can now boast openly of sleeping with at least a man. Where chastity is now meaningless, and where most of our universities can't boast of 2% virgins among it female population, then, a 26 year old virgin must be celebrated provided she match her sexual purity with amiable personality and character.

Most ladies wanted to marry the man that 'broke their pot'. But, a serious discrepancy in personality, conduct and irreconcillable differences, regardless of it nature deprieved them of achieving lasting union. In plotting revenge for that irreparable damage, some ladies lose sense of decorum and turn their 'precious pot' into public properties. A prison, where restless phallus are turn to jelly. These ladies were in large numbers hence the general suspicious by male folks to suspect every claim of virginity by any lady above 21.

Meanwhile, I know that virginity is not a sign of chastity. It is just a ray of hope that the fellow may be one.

Hating the opposite sex must never be the way to correct the ills associated with gender injustice. It damage the bearer more than the target.

This doesn't mean I am propagating for or against virginity. My position is that of caution.

Sparta, don't say there is no big deal in being a virgin at 26. In a world where young girls of 15 can now boast openly of sleeping with at least a man. Where chastity is now meaningless, and where most of our universities can't boast of 2% virgin among it female population, then, a 26 year old virgin must be celebrated provided she match her sexual purity with amiable personality and character.

Most ladies wanted to marry the man that 'break their pot'. But, a serious discrepancy in personality, conduct and irreconcillable differences, regardless of it nature deprieves them of lasting union. In revenge of that irreparable damage, some ladies lose sense of decorum and turn their precious pot into public properties. These ladies were in large numbers hence the general suspicious by male folks to suspect every claim of virginity by any lady above 21.

Meanwhile, I know that virginity is not a sign of chastity. It is just a ray of hope that the fellow may be one.

Hating the opposite sex must never be the way to correct the ills associated with gender injustice. It damage the bearer more than the target.

This doesn't mean I am propagating for or against virginity. My position is that of caution.

Babeelove, that is a wonderful creed you have got. But, we haven't test your resolve to defend it. Maybe later, we shall see.

My creed and my ideology goes together. Here is it
" Whereever I am, whatever, I do, after God, my loyalty is to humanity as long as they recognize my right to exist; to live my destiny. I recognize that life is short, I therefore lives my everyday as if I would not the morrow, not as a consigned pessimist, rather as one who understand that dreams outlive their dreamers. I would therefore play the role nature assigned me so others can build on it.

All in all, I don't believe any human is completely worthless. Everyone has his/her purpose which could bring smile to someone, somewhere. I had therefore reconfigure myself to look for the goods in everyman and woman and ignore his/her short coming if I can't help change it.


@iice,
nice meeting you. You shouldn't trivialize the mirror theory. Let see if you have any creed. Over to you. Don't forget to be honest about it.

It is not impossible to find a virgin at 26. I can authoritative say that I have been incontact with a 23, 24, and 25 year old virgins. One of them was my own sister though she'd just married. Her husband is a living witness. Others are my intimate friends. We made a serious mistake any time we assume that the corruption of the few defines the larger populace.

My view is that male virgins also abound. The reason we don't take interest in male virgins is probably because most of them don't go about like women talking about their chastity. It is easy to recognize one at least in principle.

I am not into mirror business in the sense you view it. I am only asking you to employ the parable of mirror to examine life, people and anything.

We all know that pessimists abounds. They generalizes, and say because they had had misfortune with a group of people, everybody else is unfortunate!

I am asking you in a child language, using common object, MIRROR, to examine yourself, your friends, and view their true identity.

When we meet a stranger, the general norms is to be suspicious and exercise caution in dealing with him. We however must give him the benefit of doubt to evaluate his worthiness. Afterall, every good friends you are keeping today was once an unknown stranger. Time, would reveal their true colour. Unfortunately, time had been cheated again and again. That is why, we hear people dating for five years, marries. and two years into their marriage, you discovered they are practically a strangers! They break up eventually. That is why people in long term relationship are discovering that time alone isn't enough to open up the mind of a man or woman. Even jesus was eventually betrayed by someone he'd associated with for years.

Friends, wife, associates, coleagues, etc you need a measure of trust to build the bridge of confidence.

Now, if I give you one of the secrets to discovering what a man or woman is like, even before you jump into his den, would I be accused of any wrong doing?

At no cost to you, take my 3-WAY MIRROR,&add value to your relationship. You would meet people without carrying a load of distrust in your heart. You would sense when someone is about to pluck your eye for jibiti friendship. You will know how to spot a gentleman when you see one.

That is what the MIRROR is about. The good news is that, you aint buyin any mirror.

People are your mirror. And you are their mirror. Through your action, body languages, words etc they get an idea of who they are and who you are.

Welcome to #land, home to gentlemen & finest men in Naija

Mellow, I feel you! I guess you are real. You seem to be on the CONCAVE side. We are watching you. But, why must you think there is no genleman in Africa ? I will pardon you if you say Nairaland gentlemen are not outspoken. We have loads of gentlemen on #land. If you haven't seen one, try again. A trial will convince you.

The definition of gentleman is straight and solid. Someone even went to extent of downloading a dictionary for people to understand. Sincerely I have been identifying gentlemen through my 3-WAYS Mirror. Why not subscribe to one and sharpen your focus.? It is free and come with a lifetime warranty. If it doesn't work for you, then something is wrong with your position. Mirrors don't lie.

Have fun.

Mellow, I feel you! I guess you are real. You seem to be on the CONCAVE side. We are watching you. But, why must you think there is no genleman in Africa ? I will pardon you if you say Nairaland gentlemen are not outspoken. We have loads of gentlemen on #land. If you haven't seen one, try again. A trial will convince you.

The definition of gentleman is straight and solid. Someone even went to extent of downloading a dictionary for people to understand. Sincerely I have been identifying gentlemen through my 3-WAYS Mirror. Why not subscribe to one and sharpen your focus.? It is free and come with a lifetime warranty. If it doesn't work for you, then something is wrong with your position. Mirrors don't lie.

Have fun.

Mellow, I feel you! I guess you are real. You seem to be on the CONCAVE side. We are watching you. But, why must you think there is no genleman in Africa ? I will pardon you if you say Nairaland gentlemen are not outspoken. We have loads of gentlemen on #land. If you haven't seen one, try again. A trial will convince you.

The definition of gentleman is straight and solid. Someone even went to extent of downloading a dictionary for people to understand. Sincerely I have been identifying gentlemen through my 3-WAYS Mirror. Why not subscribe to one and sharpen your focus.? It is free and come with a lifetime warranty. If it doesn't work for you, then something is wrong with your position. Mirrors don't lie.

Have fun.

Men and women of substance had always been driven by their creeds, and personal phillosophies. We learn from their errors and corrections. These creeds maybe in form of written words or ideological orientation. Words is fast spreading that most men and women on Nairaland are unreal. Unserious etc but I have a contrary opinion.

Let see if we have men and women of values in Nairaland. This is the way it go.

You state your CREED, YOUR ETHICAL VALUEs or Ideology, one at a time. Then others comment on it and test your claim anyway they like by whatever mean. When you are done with, challenge anyone to state his. That fellow must accept the challenge and state his/her creeds. Only men /women who have sound judgement need enter.

I would be using my 3-WAYS MIRROR to guide my judgement.

So, is/ are there real men and women of value on Nairaland? Show your face.

Babeelove, please try to moderate your laughter. You know we wouldn't be happy if anything happen to you. Please take it easy.
This place a mad house? That is absurd. If it is true how.come you find sanctuary in it?

Welcome cheigemba. Thanks.

Acid drop, I am not applying for any contest on nairaland. I mere contributed. A gentlemen don't shout all over the forum annoucing his name, he know his value well enough to join issue with non issue. To answer your question, I have no interest in Nairaland gentlemanliness. I don't judge myself. It is a personal taboo.

By the way why don't you just mention at least a gentleman you know instead of deriding everyone? Isn't your bf/lover a gentleman?

Why not? Real men appreciate virgins. But I would contribute to this by my new Theory. You may call them Olanajim virgins' hypothesis.



LAW 1 :
"A virgin who want to wait till marriage before sex must realize that she would not find peace among men (and women) whose goals are lust and lewdness. Therefore, it is strongly recommended for a strong believer in 'virgin creeds' to find others (who share similar ideology) and flow with them. Anything else, is hypocrisis, a gradual journey to the other side"

LAW 2:
" if you are sincerely relishing joy of marriage as a virgin, then stay away from people, places, materials including books, whose content and intent is about sex. You shoukd know that side effect of your resolution isn't as grave as people might make it appear."

LAW 3:
" don't expect virgin MALES to announce their virginity by words. They do it through their actions.

LAW 4:
" virgins must realize they are endangered species whose creed is being overtaken by the hypocrites. The real virgin must therefore take note that s/he cannot sustain his/her virginity by going into intimate affair that warrant excessive contact with another wo/man. Allowing few touches harmless as it may, leads eventually to the other side. Most virgins (including this writer) lost their virginity in that circumstance."

LAW 5 :
" virginity does not necessariy implies high moral standard. Some virgins are in fact a time bomb waiting to explode. After all, every prostitute on the street was once a virgin"

finally, sex alone present or absent isn't determinant for measuring compatiblity and workability of a relationship.

While I comment virgins male and females, I must warn them to be wary of the hypocrites, and other dangers associatf with choosing a puritanical. Let God guide you.

Why not? Real men appreciate virgins. But I would contribute to this by my new Theory. You may call them Olanajim virgins' hypothesis.



LAW 1 :
"A virgin who want to wait till marriage before sex must realize that she would not find peace among men (and women) whose goals are lust and lewdness. Therefore, it is strongly recommended for a strong believer in 'virgin creeds' to find others (who share similar ideology) and flow with them. Anything else, is hypocrisis, a gradual journey to the other side"

LAW 2:
" if you are sincerely relishing joy of marriage as a virgin, then stay away from people, places, materials including books, whose content and intent is about sex. You shoukd know that side effect of your resolution isn't as grave as people might make it appear."

LAW 3:
" don't expect virgin MALES to announce their virginity by words. They do it through their actions.

LAW 4:
" virgins must realize they are endangered species whose creed is being overtaken by the hypocrites. The real virgin must therefore take note that s/he cannot sustain his/her virginity by going into intimate affair that warrant excessive contact with another wo/man. Allowing few touches harmless as it may, leads eventually to the other side. Most virgins (including this writer) lost their virginity in that circumstance."

LAW 5 :
" virginity does not necessariy implies high moral standard. Some virgins are in fact a time bomb waiting to explode. After all, every prostitute on the street was once a virgin"

finally, sex alone present or absent isn't determinant for measuring compatiblity and workability of a relationship.

While I comment virgins male and females, I must warn them to be wary of the hypocrites, and other dangers associatf with choosing a puritanical. Let God guide you.

Why not? Real men appreciate virgins. But I would contribute to this by my new Theory. You may call them Olanajim virgins' hypothesis.



LAW 1 :
"A virgin who want to wait till marriage before sex must realize that she would not find peace among men (and women) whose goals are lust and lewdness. Therefore, it is strongly recommended for a strong believer in 'virgin creeds' to find others (who share similar ideology) and flow with them. Anything else, is hypocrisis, a gradual journey to the other side"

LAW 2:
" if you are sincerely relishing joy of marriage as a virgin, then stay away from people, places, materials including books, whose content and intent is about sex. You shoukd know that side effect of your resolution isn't as grave as people might make it appear."

LAW 3:
" don't expect virgin MALES to announce their virginity by words. They do it through their actions.

LAW 4:
" virgins must realize they are endangered species whose creed is being overtaken by the hypocrites. The real virgin must therefore take note that s/he cannot sustain his/her virginity by going into intimate affair that warrant excessive contact with another wo/man. Allowing few touches harmless as it may, leads eventually to the other side. Most virgins (including this writer) lost their virginity in that circumstance."

LAW 5 :
" virginity does not necessariy implies high moral standard. Some virgins are in fact a time bomb waiting to explode. After all, every prostitute on the street was once a virgin"

finally, sex alone present or absent isn't determinant for measuring compatiblity and workability of a relationship.

While I comment virgins male and females, I must warn them to be wary of the hypocrites, and other dangers associatf with choosing a puritanical. Let God guide you.

Great. So don't let bobo seun move this to the other site too. Lot of people looking for partners reside there. So, becareful not to drift to the love stuff when your guys wake up.

All the same, I remember I miss out a name in my last posting.

Alh Ajileye died on Location while filming another movie on witches. He died exposing the evil of witchcrafts.

Pastor, Oshofa died preaching gospel in Benin.
Funsho Williams died while aspiring to be Gov of Lagos State, his killers were never found. He was reported to have spent the last ten years of his life nursing that dream.

Since unknown people are also human, I would suggest we add people who are not National hero from our locality as a side attraction. Anyway, a young lady I attended primary school with, name withheld, died while flushing out unwanted foetus. Rumour had it that she had done that for more than 6 times successful but the last one simply refused to go alone. The guy she tried to save from carrying the burden of unwanted pregnancy (in the name of love) didn't waste time to get a befitting bride. He now have 3 kids and a house. Lesson to ladies out there.

Ohun ti wom mo je lo s'eku p'awon!
May there souls rest in peace. Amen!

Does it also affect child bearing? Wao, just from the toilet! We need more education on this topic. It seem there is more to know.

Does it also affect child bearing? Wao, just from the toilet! We need more education on this topic. It seem there is more to know.

I see. I hope my gentlemen are aware of your schedule so they won't miss you too much.

Exactly

Goodmorning. So you wake up this early?

It is unfair to attack people simply because of their poor Expression. At any rate, they might not be in the right frame of mind to bother about it. Not that they are illiterate. I suggest Seun should create a section from those wishing to learn English to meet willing teachers.

@ poster, your story is sympathetic. I think you left out some important points that could help toward complete comprehension. Nevertheless, the spiritual aspect is more pronounced. I adviced you take to prayer. It may be that someone against either of you is at work. I am not a spiritualist so, I suggest you see your pastor or pray. If the fellow is actually after you, he will still follow you to your next home. I am not so sure. It may as well be product of your imagination.

Filling for divorce when a relationship is irreparably sour isn't a sin. It is the manner of filling the divorce that one suspect. If you are driven to the hand of another man by lust, then you are wrong, if by frustration, you are missing a point. If out of confusion, then you need help.

You didn't tell much about your husband so the whole story is incomplete. Is he concerned, indifference or guilty? Is he responsible for your predicament? Who says?

Do you have absolute guarranttee that your next man would be free of the same problem. You may file for divorce if you have made up your mind, just be sure you carry him along.

Fela, died for women, marijuana and stubborness:
Beko, died for his believe in right of the hapless masses, also a chain smoker;
Chima Ubani, for the masses. He died during the fuel price increase protest. Nigerian had forgotten him as Obj went ahead to increase pump price of fuel.
Herbert Ogunde, like Bruce Lee, also died while shooting film. However, rumours said, witches killed him.
Shina Rambo, a famous armed robber, like Anini died while on operation.
Murtala Muhamed, died for Nigerian progress. It is a pity Obj reaped the fruit of his labours.

A man in my locality died on top of what he love most: woman.

Thank you for shedding more light on the issue. From your reply, I could see you are really angry at men. A glimpse at the info you provided show alot more about you. I would therefore refrain from making comment in that regard.

Your beauty isn't a curse. It is the magnet that draw men to you. Let me tell you with due respect that men who can wait for marriage without having sex with you abounds. I am sorry to say, for most unselfish, decent guys, your beauty isn't enough to attract them. Not that they are scare or something, but from the picture you created above, it is obvious responsible guys are doubting your sincerity, your claim to purity even if you are truthful. The onus lies on you to create a little space and let prospective suitor sight you and chat you up. Let them approach you. Growing up in a men dominated area doesn't mean you should surround yourself with hungry men.

Let me illustrate further: a beautiful lady who is constantly around men that are not her body guards is repelling certain segment of men community. A responsible suitor would think twice before infiltrating the guys. It has nothing to do with courage, my friend.

Change your tactic since those guys around you had shown they can't help you by producing a decent guy for you among them. Real guys don't go for beauty alone when it come to serious relationship. Relax your rule if you any and learn to build your friends among ladies. Ladies can help your cause better than the guys.

I really understand your predicament. Please hating men will hurt you more. You seem responsible.

By the way, don't bother about guys who allow their 'pajapaja' think for them to frustrate you, If you are not desperate, you will find your man. I still insist that if the guys flocking around you don't know your worth, but keep asking for sex, then you need to change them instead of blaming entire men. Should you meet a real man, why wait longer? Marry,it helps.

Pray over it and you would be rightly guided.

Thank you for shedding more light on the issue. From your reply, I could see you are really angry at men. A glimpse at the info you provided show alot more about you. I would therefore refrain from making comment in that regard.

Your beauty isn't a curse. It is the magnet that draw men to you. Let me tell you with due respect that men who can wait for marriage without having sex with you abounds. I am sorry to say, for most unselfish, decent guys, your beauty isn't enough to attract them. Not that they are scare or something, but from the picture you created above, it is obvious responsible guys are doubting your sincerity, your claim to purity even if you are truthful. The onus lies on you to create a little space and let prospective suitor sight you and chat you up. Let them approach you. Growing up in a men dominated area doesn't mean you should surround yourself with hungry men.

Let me illustrate further: a beautiful lady who is constantly around men that are not her body guards is repelling certain segment of men community. A responsible suitor would think twice before infiltrating the guys. It has nothing to do with courage, my friend.

Change your tactic since those guys around you had shown they can't help you by producing a decent guy for you among them. Real guys don't go for beauty alone when it come to serious relationship. Relax your rule if you any and learn to build your friends among ladies. Ladies can help your cause better than the guys.

I really understand your predicament. Please hating men will hurt you more. You seem responsible.

By the way, don't bother about guys who allow their 'pajapaja' think for them to frustrate you, If you are not desperate, you will find your man. I still insist that if the guys flocking around you don't know your worth, but keep asking for sex, then you need to change them instead of blaming entire men. Should you meet a real man, why wait longer? Marry,it helps.

Pray over it and you would be rightly guided.

I think Seun made a mistake of moving the thread to this section. But we must commend him all the same.

Those who believe no good thing come out of Nairaland must realize they are the product of the same forum. When you set your house on fire because a bastard is hidding in it, you are not punishing the bastard, you are ruining your own reputation if you have any.

My position remains: Nairaland gentlemen are real and they are using my 3-ways mirror to measure your own character. That is the good thing about this thread.

Omo eko, when you diagnosed an illness, is it because you are a doctor or a cynics or you have carried similar badge before ? In my silence, I took a quick glace at my 'jigi', I know instantly where you belong.

When people throw a pebble at you, always remember: you can always have another day. Thanks for your diagnosis. I wasn't suffering fron the cancer you mention. My concern is that only someone who had experienced an illness know the sympthons and how it feel. I think you should watch your back since someone may soon return your cancer for cancer. I love peace hence my desire to be lenient with you.

By their words we shall spot them!

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