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There is nothing funny about the pictures. Certainly, there is nothing that make it the picture of the year either. I just wonder why the guy was taling the pictures of the people he cant see their eyes, funny, but not qualified as madness,

funny enough, we tend to overlook certain things in life when we get too familiar to it. But that doesnt implies that if we sincerely appreciate those things we will lose interest in them when they are too long with us.

Love, real love, is not affected by the law of diminishing return. It is in fact true love that bring us closer when we become too familiar in marriage. At old age, the elements of lust become victim of diminishing return. Beauty fades, sex lose it appeal, fashion lose it candor, money either run out of it become a burden on us, children start finding their own destiny and detach themselves from us.

All of these are ephemeral. Love the last thing that bind us together.

To those who have no real deposit of love, those who painted candle in gold, deceiving themselves and the world with gleaning 'golden candle', soon the sun will shine, and the wax will melt away, leaving behind tales of regrets. For such, love is depreciative in nature.

To those who marry without ther eyes on the ephemeric qualities, the longer they live the stronger their love and affections. Such as the one that pursued pure gold, mostly unrefined, and then keep it away from thieves and reckless pessimists.

@poster,
If I were you, I would get a long mirror, and look myself in face to see if I am sane or not.

Why not put yourself in his shoe? Ok. Let assumed that you are rapped and your attacker now insist that you must bear the baby. Not only that, he forced you to move to his house and threaten you with all sort of injuries if you fail to do what he want? Isnt that a crazy wish?

My friend, the guy must have seen that you are going to be a difficult wife hence his decision not to marry you. Btw, how did you come to sleep with him? Was he in love with you or just looking for a shortcut? Or u tempted him to lay on your bed? Until I know the circumstance of the lovemaking, It will be unfair to judge the man or you.

If I were you, I wil go get a job and work to take care of my kid. You wont be the first single mum. And to be sure, the method you are adopting would only make your son hate you in future. You must leave the guy alone. Forcing him to part with money will only make you more miserable. You are not even bothered you are in welfare. Wait till your son grow up to see how much humilliation await you if you dont do something now.

there is nothing extraordinary in marrying a prostitute. To be honest, this has been happening regularly except that we dont get to hear people say they marry a prostitute or they are prostitutes. Beside, that, it take a make with large heart to overlook the other woman's past. In general, the romance last as long as the woman dont return to the ignoble path.

God help us.

Government have problem admitting failure of our educational system. Maybe govt need to grant the "F" kids amnesty so that they will start reading their books and stop messing up the National resources and the good names of the FG at international level.

Someone should sue Yaradua for negligence. He should be hold responsible for everything,

is anyone listening to him?

It is too tricky to judge based on your submission. I honestly don't see why anyone should condemn the woman until he hear the other side of the story.


There is more explaining to do. Yet, it may be true that you are taken for granted. And it may not be true, If the police are aware, then there is something you don't know that the police know. Find it, and the make your judgement after knowing why she did what she did.

is there really something like a perfect relationship? I dont think anyone should lose sleep over a lover if there is trust and proper communication. Anything else is just like pouring water in a basket.

the girl will have to remove the foetus, and mama deliver her own. As simple as ABC

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, it show how people dont know what they want but jump at any available person that is ready to play ball.

they are yet to beark up, they are still joking about it, when they finish their monkey show, they will get real, It is just like a comedy show. Let it go on,

hmmm, are you keyamo's brother?

neotic, read everything again and your last post. If you still dont get the message, I am sorry, I cant help.

@femmy,
You make me laugh so laud. Even when you buy commodity in market, is the price exactly equal to the worth? Except you are changing dollar to naira at central bank, you dont expect any absolute equality. It is the rule of life.

if yewande is not keen for another date, she should not accept to meet the guy just for money. Two scenerio will play itself out.
1. Yewande may accept the date. And in so doing, will send wrong signal to the guy. If she collect her money back and later tell the guy she isnt interested, the guy will guess that she came for money. And that will diminish her worth and give her negative image.
2. Ydwande can decline the offer of new date politely. And the guy will have to worry about how to get the money across to her. If the guy fail to find mean of repaying the money, it cast a big question mark on the guy. It show him as lacking character and incapable of standing by his words. What other thing will any sane man/woman want to do with such fellow?

My take is this, whether yewande like the man or not, whether she want him for a date or not, she should politely decline the second date. She should let the guy show his real character. And if the man fail to repay? Yewande lose nothing. In fact, she should just consider herself fed miserable beggar. By the way, who says woman cant pay for a date?

I am no more intelligent as everyone. So nothing special.

But I have decided to write in detail about this. Something that can be comprehends. Most people in this par of the world think they are in love where as they are in delusion! We only get tired of those that are on the extreme like the cases mentionsed earlier.

Watchout for details. I am a biit busy lately but will be back as soon as things are light for me.

I am no more intelligent as everyone. So nothing special.

But I have decided to write in detail about this. Something that can be comprehends. Most people in this par of the world think they are in love where as they are in delusion! We only get tired of those that are on the extreme like the cases mentionsed earlier.

Watchout for details. I am a biit busy lately but will be back as soon as things are light for me.

Another victim of D Cleramboult's syndrome on the prowl,

fhemmy, no one will ever ask you to buy what you dont want to buy. The fact is, you still pay for it(whether you regret it or not). Everything you get in life demands a sacrifice however small. It is not always about money. Give me an example where you get something without putting something back. I need it!

neotic,
Have you ever buy something without giving up money? Just an example.

can a responsible man earning millions toss 50k at his wife for children upkeep? For the ex wife to call him a liar show that he has no honour. Anyway, i just hope they resolve the madness fast. You see, regardless of the outcome, it is the wife that will suffer. People will soon forget it. The wife cant marry again. But keyamo will Bleep again. He has done it before and will do it again. I am sorry for the wife.

@uju,
If you say so, but people should also know what they want, most people dont really have idea of what they want in relationship beyond sex and home, that is bad,

@alloy,
Since when has marital infidelity become exclusive African character? And since when has being African become a justification for cordoning marital infidelity?

Look at the people you mentioned, MKO never deny he is a womanizer. And everybody know. Same with Obj and others. My own point with Festus is that as "Jehovah witness" he has more question marks over his head than those who are self-confessed womanizers. If you know what Jehovah witness creeds are you will understand why I said he is living a double life. So far, I have not seen him admits he has weakness with women.

All I know is that many people fails when they fail in their homes there is always a prize for every womanizers regardless of their status. . . .

I don't think I know more than that, Thanks for the offer, let everyone else contribute. The problems of life is not the same, Some people may think money is their problems, while others thinks it is a bed-wetting wife, Yet, there are those who have think it is their wives's obesity.

I therefore cannot say that this exactly is the problem. But we can just mention what we are familiar with.

I for one will never subscribe to long courtship. Better be friend with the fellow than go into a useless journey. Long or short, courtship will fail as long as the couple do not possess the wisdom necesary to discover themselves. Everything has it pros and cons. We are not all gifted in the art of character recognition. Some people will spend a decade with their partners without even knowing anything beyond how he looks. While others can spot your hidden traits by just taking a look at you.

The variation in our acts is a subject of our individual perception, knowledge and experience. It is a great mistake to think the length of courtship is a factor in how successful a marriage will be. Human characters are like waves on the ocean. It direction and condition is greatly dependdnt upon the weather and other factors. Sometimes, it will be high, sometimes it will be low. Sometimes it will be stormy, sometimes it will be calm. Sometimes it will be friendly, and sometimes it will be hostile, leaving behind it a trail of tear.

It is not how many years you have known the ocean and recline upon her beach that will determine how dangerous or friendly it is. It is how the ocean respond to changing weather. You can be there for years without knowing it is deadly. Whem Tsunami hit it shore, you survival will be determined by your preparation.

Man, it is a waste of time to stay many years on the beach, before knowing whether it is safe to swim in the ocean or just stay away from a deadly commitment.

I do not agree with number 1 and 3. The number of children has nothing to do with marital disharmony. Instead, you can say the lack of maturity between couples can tear them apart. Children are just excuse for unprepared, and irresponsible parents to disagree.

Number 3 is also too short sighted. What do you say of a wife who is less successful and still manage to influence her husband's decision? The truth is that, it is not a gender thing. It is about how couple ensure effective and meaningful communication. Most of us are gifted in art of talking but impatience in turning it into an effective communication tool. Talking and communicating are not the same. One is liken to a radio jingles, the other always expect a feedback.

To me, the problems in marriage can be :
1. Finance
2. Infidelity
3. Lack or lost of trust
4 impatience
5. Pride, and attempt by one person to dominate the other.
5. Finally, lack of awareness/understanding about marriage. Most people think marriage is all about making love and making babies. They run into trouble when they are tired of love making and has no idea how to spice up the marriage.

@platinumnk

read my first post on this issue. Then take a look at the link below. It will answer your question. I will see if you can offer more infomationa about the guy, then we look at how to help him, I men how you can help him,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotomania

@posakoso,
Ok then. It is fair enough!

Egypt's highest Muslim authority has said he will issue a religious edict against the growing trend for full women's veils, known as the niqab.
Sheikh Mohamed Tantawi, dean of al-Azhar university, called full-face veiling a custom that has nothing to do with the Islamic faith.
Although most Muslim women in Egypt wear the Islamic headscarf, increasing numbers are adopting the niqab as well.
The practice is widely associated with more radical trends of Islam.
The niqab question reportedly arose when Sheikh Tantawi was visiting a girls' school in Cairo at the weekend and asked one of the students to remove her niqab.
The Egyptian newspaper al-Masri al-Yom quoted him expressing surprise at the girl's attire and telling her it was merely a tradition, with no connection to religion or the Koran.


http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/8290606.stm

under normal circumstance, his action shouldnt be an issue. But with his Jehovah witness faith and his status as civil defender, he has shown that he is living a double life. Obj is a womanizer and dump his wife at will. In spite of his own admission, he was not spared of public outburst. Kenyamo should let us know who he really is. His real identity is still being enshrouded by controversy.

That said, I dont think with his background as a legal thug, he is fit to take custody of any children. Only a foolish judge would grant his request

@pakosa,
To write lies do not require special contract. Almost any one can lie. I was shocked because that is the first time anyone will ask me to write lie. I think I am not qualified! You will find out that my lies can't be a best seller. That is a waste of money on your part. As for yaradua, I think he got plenty liars around him already. What he need is truth documentator. And I can join that team as long as I will be in the Villa and not Boko Haram stronghold.

Are you a politrickcian?

***shocked***