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It takes wisdom to dig into the past when you are not a participant. I would rather challenge you to do a thorogh examination of the way you met those guys and what draw you to them. Through your deep reflection, you would find out what is missing. Why were you always meeting sexmaniacs, what did those guys saw that drove them away etc

At 26, you cannot tell me or any sane guy that you have never dated before.  That you have many guys around you is also suspect. Let me tell you something "expect more men to want to bed you". This is not because I am in support of that action. The truth is that, when a lady is so much found around guys, imaginations work at highest level. Men start wondering what goes on inside the house. Few would belive you are clean. For both negative and positive reasons. The people you relates with would determine the type of reception you get from outsiders, sometimes, not all times.

Brace yourself up and change your tactics. You can find the man that is right for you.

Don't hate men. There is hope for you if you are not loose type. Real men will find you out. On how to redeem yourself begin from the steps above. See if something need to change. You would never regret it. TURN TO GOD, IF YOU HAVE FAITH. IF NOT, DON'T LOSE HOPE. Soon, you would see what I mean.

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Everything that had occured, everything that is occuring or will ever occured, is a manifestation of your innermost thoughts, choices, ideas, regarding who you are, who you choose to be. Be therefore not in despise those aspects of life, people, things, with which you disagree,


Behold the darkness, yet curse it not! Be a bringer of light for your light can do more than illuminate your path. Let your light so shine forth, that everyone will see at last, who you really are,

Meditate on those word and harken to wisdom. Don't let the disappointment of a few perverts be in your path to glory. If you hate men, someday, you would begin to hate yourself. There are ways to solve your problems than condemn men generation as a whole.

I don't know much about you, but I am sure you play yourself to your present position. You can redeem it if you but do the right thing.

Cheer.

Hahahaha!! Oriki who ? Me? Abosolutely wrong!

I am just a butcher at UNIVERSITY OF ABBATOUR, OKO OBA. I am presently awaiting result from last JAMB for the sixth time, to read THEOLOGY like Baba Iyabo. I want to be a miracleman like TB JOSHUA, PASTOR ADEBOYE et al. Just watchout for my new church. Both muslims and christains would be recruited.

Back to the honour, you may be right to say I have first class in my primary school. Name withheld. All the rest are just imaginary awards from dreamland, or is it nairaland? Thanks.

The credit goes to everyone, even you. Thanks. Take care.

Tinaidar, joke sometimes has element of truth that mustn't be wish away. Some guys practically make a living making fun of others. Why? Because they know that generality of men would rather laugh at serious issue. They therefore device a means of preaching real life gospel by amusing others. You needing believe them, you just must hear them and smile.

If you doubt me, just pay for one of Ali Baba show, or Basket mouth. Better still watch Bashorun of Alagbado on Mitv.

Life is fun. When people laughs, we see their folly and wisdom. Some shed tear, other sprowl on the floor as if possessed, yet, some bang their head on anything around, human, walls, tables, no mercy. All in the name of joke. I know someone whom I love to see when laughing, you would pity him. His shirt would be drench by mixture of tear and siliva. It is fun. But, through my 'mirrors', I don't see their white or rotten teeth. I sees their hearts!

Naija, We have decided to measure nairaland gentlemen by looking at their attitude to other people. The section would mirror your gentlemanliness according to your own reflection etc They won't allow you dictate to them. So, I believe only a gentleman would dare to people like acidrop and still won their heart.

I see nothing wrong in her being skceptical, she is using a mirror effect. To see whether you can Match Kobe, and Doyin13. Prove her wrong. By the way, Doyin13 you are welcome. Babeelove really missed you. In your absent, she'd became a 'born again' convert.

Kobe, I could see you are smiling. Don't forget, gentlemen don't just get a babee, they show by their deed why the babee must be theirs. Don't say it, just act it.

Babeelove, me and cheigemba, don't share mirror business. She just happen to see what you didn't see. She is fantastic. I am sure had she be a man, you wouldn't look twice at Kobe.

Kobe, you and my friend Doyin13 are luck to have Babeelove. She is really 'tripping' for you.

Babeelove, would you agree with me that you have at least found two 'gentldmen' in nairaland? I wonder where Doyin13 had been. Between him and Kobe, Babeelove had found a 'nairamate'. I wish you great luck.

Kobe, you and my friend Doyin13 are luck to have Babeelove. She is really 'tripping' for you.

Babeelove, would you agree with me that you have at least found two 'gentldmen' in nairaland? I wonder where Doyin13 had been. Between him and Kobe, Babeelove had found a 'nairamate'. I wish you great luck.

Why not do a bit of more research on this guy. I hope he isn't reading this thread if he is, then he would stop bothering you knowing you are about to spoil his fun.

1, for the sake of peace call and tell him again, without mining words that you don't like to betray your friend. That the act is morally wrong. Make sure you record your conversation without his knowledge thank God mobile phone can do just that. Just get one that can record for a lenghty period.

2: find out more about this guy. Is he like that to other ladies? Is he a flirting type who would end up messing up your friend's life. Contrary to what you think, his action is a blessing in disguise. God may use you to save your friend from impending broken home. A broken relationship is better than broken home. Don't discourage him again from flirting with you once he kept pestering you with love. Encourage him and get more evidence on tape.

3, talk to your friend. Tell her a weird story like, friend of yours had just broke up with her husband after 3 months in marriage, discreetly use your imagination to relate her man's habit without giving him away and watch her response. From her response, tell her all men are like that. 'who knows, her fiance'. Ask her what she would do if it is her man but save the revealation.
4, if she is vulnerable type, tell her to pospone the wedding. If she agree, begin a series of action that would eventually expose the cheat. If she didn't agree, then you would act fast, cautiously. Make sure you confide in a trusted witness so your friend wouldn't think you tempt her guy.

5: trap him. Set him up, if you friend don't believe her fiance can cheat. All your taped conversations would then be used to further expose the deceiver.

Plan in advance for how to rehabilitate your friend. Just make sure, whatever, you won't leave her alone, because she would be a sorry state after the revealation.

If you don't have contigency plan, to help,take a vacation. Return after D wedding

Why not do a bit of more research on this guy. I hope he isn't reading this thread if he is, then he would stop bothering you knowing you are about to spoil his fun.

1, for the sake of peace call and tell him again, without mining words that you don't like to betray your friend. That the act is morally wrong. Make sure you record your conversation without his knowledge thank God mobile phone can do just that. Just get one that can record for a lenghty period.

2: find out more about this guy. Is he like that to other ladies? Is he a flirting type who would end up messing up your friend's life. Contrary to what you think, his action is a blessing in disguise. God may use you to save your friend from impending broken home. A broken relationship is better than broken home. Don't discourage him again from flirting with you once he kept pestering you with love. Encourage him and get more evidence on tape.

3, talk to your friend. Tell her a weird story like, friend of yours had just broke up with her husband after 3 months in marriage, discreetly use your imagination to relate her man's habit without giving him away and watch her response. From her response, tell her all men are like that. 'who knows, her fiance'. Ask her what she would do if it is her man but save the revealation.
4, if she is vulnerable type, tell her to pospone the wedding. If she agree, begin a series of action that would eventually expose the cheat. If she didn't agree, then you would act fast, cautiously. Make sure you confide in a trusted witness so your friend wouldn't think you tempt her guy.

5: trap him. Set him up, if you friend don't believe her fiance can cheat. All your taped conversations would then be used to further expose the deceiver.

Plan in advance for how to rehabilitate your friend. Just make sure, whatever, you won't leave her alone, because she would be a sorry state after the revealation.

If you don't have contigency plan, to help,take a vacation. Return after D wedding

Babeelove, sincerely, I refuse to recognize you as a slut. I have used my GALILEAN TELESCOPE to view your heart. You are simply fantastic. If you post something silly, it wasn't because you are silly. You just want to know how silly others are to give you a silly response. Unfortunately, you didnt have one of my mirrors before, so you see everyone who post 'silly' thread as 'silly'!
As for my mirrors, when I first introduced it ( AND I AM HAPPY TO BE THE FIRST TO SELL THAT KIND OF MIRROR ON NAIRALAND.) you didn't use the mirror for intended purpose. You used it to apply 'make ups'. I am happy you have started using my '3-way mirrors' . You won't ever go astray if you stick to it.

You are paying me for the service sha. I am not hungry so, I won't accept money or anything for myself. I have another price.

Kobe, you'd better don't let babeelove hear that, she may come down hard on every gentlemen on Nairaland.

Kobe, you'd better don't let babeelove hear that, she may come down hard on every gentlemen on Nairaland.

Thank you for making her laugh that hard, Kobe. It would make her smile when next she meet a gentleman instead of probing into their heart.

Babeelove, did you really mean to say when you laugh so hard, you look like crying? If so, how do you look when you cry? Laugh? Hahaha people won't understand you again. They might think you are laughing at their sorrow. It is good sha. Keep smilings.

You are right and wrong.

Here, African men don't die within just because they can't express themselves. To the contrary, African men make the first move.

What you should say is that African men don't fuse over a woman. They consider it as weakness to give all their power to women. So they kept some of their feelings to themselves. They have the feelings but they are in control.

Another reason is that African men are polygamous in nature. Laws and traditions support them. So why would a man 'kill' himself over one woman when he has harrem of women to pick from?

Me? What for? Well go ahead.

Fair enough. It is that personal definitions that made people to fall into error. Some people define love in money language, others, in sex language, and some look at your fine face and fall flat for you. Yet, there are those that look deeper. True love exists. If someboday fail to find it, he had been searching wrong place, or with wrong tool.

I read all your threads. I think you are great. I am not a night crawler. I just have work to do and, feeling bored, I came to nairaland hoping someone would make my night. As for my mirror. Don't bring it up again. It was a parable. I don't need mirror. PEOPLE ARE THE MIRROR I USE TO VIEW LIFE. My mirrors are everywhere, and I am PROUD TO SAY YOU ARE ONE OF THEM.

Cheigemba is cool. You know she get work to do. She is fantastic.
You forget to asked after the guy you have been tripping for. Doyin13, he is great. I am sure you see him every second in your subconscious. He isn't that bad. If you'd bought one of my mirrors, you would have seen the positive side of him. Don't be shy.

Men? Or some men? How many men did you understudied to arrive at your conclusion?

Good morning babeelove.

I dislike beating children. But I don't spare them when they are wrong. It is all about common sense.
Spanking kids is an art to me. I know when to use it and when to avoid it.
People who are brought would know when an action is appropriate. Those who have no manner cannot be expected to offer one. Little wonder, we have lot of rascals roaming the street. We must never compare our country with europe.

The west might have outlawed spanking, they have correctional facilities, juvenile courts, well structured educational system etc to take care of the lapse. Yet, in spite of this, we know their moral systen had broken down. Our attempt at copying them without looking at the cultural difference would hurt us the more.

My rule when spanking a child is that: ALWAYS LET THE CHILD KNOW WHAT HE DOES WRONG, AND LET HIM HAVE A SECOND CHANCE BEFORE SPANKING. You don't just hit a child for wrong doing, you must have a way of putting him right. Spanking must be last option.

Most guys, NOT all guys. I can tell you that you can find a clean guy.

Thanks. Still one observation. I hope men would continue to be free from the disease. I am mistaken?

Who says men are afraid of falling in love? You had probably been meeting wrong guys.

What is rare? True love?