@pako,
Let me know what it is first. Abi you want me to write yar adua's lies(sorry speeches)? I cant do that o! My head cant be use to break coconut shell.

@ify,
You mean the man has had kid from another woman before? I think he should rewrite jehovah witness' law. I dont like him anyway. He is not in the mould of Gani and co. He seem to enjoys beeing at the center of controversy.

taken! Thanks for the correction. Where is my contract?

@pako
As much as I agrees that at times only foolish people has break up. The truth is the betrayal of trust is a latent negative instinct. It is like a ugly seed hidden inside the Pear. You remove the skin carefully and then settle down to your fruit only to find that it was the ugly seed inside that make it bigger. Disappointed, you either eat the good flesh and throw the ugly stone away. But if the flesh is rotten, you have to face that disappointment and throw everything away. That is heartbreak!

The real foolish people are those who, after meticulous peeling of the outward appearance (the skin) found out that the flesh is rotten, but decided to go ahead and eat the poison just because they are hungry and has not alternative within reach.

That is the best parable to answer that. Sometimes, breaking away from certain people and facing the heartbreak is a blessing to the two sides. You cant know your partner for real until you have committed to him or her.

ouch! What exactly do you want me to write? I hope it is not romantic epistle? I can do it for free if it is something I can help. You know how to get in touch. Just remember, I have the right to say NO.

Hmmm. I used to enjoy writing but I am not a good writer. Check my signature. The only thing I can say is that often, the messages are intuitive. I had F9 in English if it interest you.

I guess it is time to write in monologue, or what do you think?

@topic,
I wonder how it is for a woman to slap a man. I prays it never become our lots. Anyway, fashola has mobile clinics already so it should be a decent fight. Someone has to go with ambulance.

How incredible?

I guess the poster was trying to say "love is not blind." We make mistakes but the above is killer anyday. Iice said it all. It is ASUU fault.

Still there!

Perhaps she is reading your book right now and winning the battle

I suggests the guy move to religion section. That is where alms and donations are freely given. It is good seun create a seperate board for Beggers. Maybe we can begin to know how many of such guy are on nl

Perhaps I am missing something. The lady has married the man already, right?

@kerosine,
You make me laugh so laud that I have just wake up my neighbour! Let me put aside my study to reply you.

I just cant imagine whether someone with a good judgement will insinuate as such.
For record; go through my posts since the time I join nairaland and tell me what percentage of them are based on religion. Truly, sometimes, religion can inevitably come into fore. I have, handled such issue in the best possible way I believe would not compromise my personal vow to stay off public religion debate. Even my lady cant believe I let her practice her faith and has never bring religion to our discussion for all the years we have known one another! I am sure she is reading this piece and could counter it. I practice dual faiths. And that is it!

I have started just about 3 threads  on religion section from my time of joining to this time. Three of them to challenge foundamentalists and to correct anomally that is creating chaos. Seun is a living withness to one of them. It was a thread I opened to persuade him to revert automatic conversion of "Islam" into "Great Religion" etc. Those who have been on nairaland for long knew that there was a time when you will type "muslim" but "Great People" will appear. To seun's credit, he made the change. The other 2 posts I started was a week after Ramadan, when a certain young man turned the place to al qaeda haven attacking everyone, muslims and christians that did not agree with him. It was the first time I will argue and quote quran directly on nl. I did that to prove to the gentleman that he knew little about the cause he was preaching. He abused me and for the first time since joining nl, I abused and went on to invite him to challenge me outside. I stopped when he stopped. I am not like most of you that pick up fight at the slightest provocation. And when I make my peace, it is over for me. I dont beat a dead horse. You probably expect me to go attack him again after I have made my point known and he has stopped abusing me. My posts are still there. The last thread I opened was the one where I challenged him to tell me who a real muslim is. I didnt get any reply till I left the place. Controversial threads tend to get longer pages because that is where people who have nothing to talk about pick fight and make derive their feeling of self important.

Regarding this thread. First, I dont have time for nairaland as I used to be. I read what catch my attention within the first ten topics on page 1 and then leave! Secondly, every replies needed for every questions thrown here are in my posts. If anyone is so intellectual retarded that he/she cant spot it, I dont think I should join issues with such person. You can only be right if you say I didnt reply the insults and the insinuations, like the person saying I was bitter at my break up with the lady which was why I was harsh to the husband! And that I have not let go. And that I should leave the girl alone (as if I was the one who asked her to go looking for my number after several years that I have left the area).  They were funny comments and quite amusing, No one even bother to find out whether she actually married the man that deflowered her. Yet, I stated that she dated two guys after me. Do you expect me to bother my head with such comments when any intelligent man would have guess that she married another man and not the man that deflowered her? Or when I stated clearly that the husband dont know me and I dont know him. Though I know the guy that deflowered her. Common sense demanded that commentators ask for clarification before rushing to judge.

What is more, there were attempt at drawing me to comment about my current relationship which I ignored. I only talk about the past when making case studies. I dont talk about my current affair because it is unfair to my lady and is capable of denting trust. Beside, nairaland is become a place where unserious and morally corrupt people lurk around to insult anyone on anything. A mature man dont encourage chaos, he put things in order.

Finally, it seem to me that the major issue the thread wanted to bring to fore was ignored. That is whether it is right for spouses to contact their partners' ex just because they suspect their partners are cheating. For someone I have not seen for several years who laboured hard to get my special number to ask for help does indicate that whatever help she needed must be serious. If I had posted that I declined to even acknowledge her apology, I would have, rightly, be considered to be nursing past grudge against her! That is human nature. To judge inappropriately. And you want me to be replying that? It makes me laugh a lot. Surprisingly people kept talking about dead issues. They started by saying I left her because I wanted to marry a virgin. Then they said I was still bitter. Then they insinuated somethng may be going us between us after all (even when we didnt communicate or meet in those years) and then they bring other issues to it. All these while ignoring the key reason I opened the thread and the fact that the man has already stopped texting me. It is very amusing to me when I read some posts. Except few credible people most commentators just focus on the circumstance of our break up, even when it was clear there were years between then and now and that she had gone with two guys afterward and marry! As for my present relationship status, that is a non issue! I am not searching, the door is closed already! Just dont expect me to answer anything on this thread if it does not focus on the primary purpose it was opened. In fact, the thread has lost it importance

@thonia,
I wouldnt say the issue is as simple as telling him to move on. Naijagirly should also take note.

Firstly, in any broken relationship, 3 factors come to play;

1. The circumstances of seperation;
2. The nature and character of the parties involved
3. The emotional depth of the affair as at the time of seperation.

It is these three factors that determined how the parties take it and what their reactions to it is. It also determine how quickly they move on and how slow it take for them to put the past behind them. Maturity alone cant solve it. It is easier for some to move on, others just need a break before overcoming the pain. But a percentage of people cant move on without drastic action.

That percentage would manifest their rejection of reality in many ways. Among which are;
1. Taking revenge on you or someone else. This can manifest in physical harm to you or maltreatment of their next lover";
2. Losing faith in Love and vowing never to trust again. It is from such people you hear something like "I can never love again" "men/women are the same" etc
3. Turning to bad social habits such as drinking and womanizing etc
4. Psychotic disorder. This is not very common but exists. It is a mental state.

In your own case, (thonia) it is obvious that the guy would belong to no. 4. I arrived at this based on the fact you submitted at my thread. That he went to the extent of stalking you on fb by using a third party ID. And the fact that he even know your bf and refuse to let go.

From my study, earlier in the year, your guy maybe entering to erotomaniac state. I may be wrong since I didnt witness his action. But I must admit that erotomania is a serious and extreme level. The man (affected) may not even be your ex. But it could happen that he fantasized about your often and in his mind, still believe you are his! Erotomaniacs often focus their attention to celebrities and beautiful ladies. And may go to the extent of doing physical harm to their target or their perceived rivals. It is a psychological disorder. I wish I could say more. But that is ok for now.

What to do?
First find out where your ex belong. Is he just obssessed by you or he has an unfinished business with you? Only you can answer that. I imagine that he was a jealous lover when you are together. Very possessive and insecured. Am I right?
Once you could pinpoint where your ex belong, it will be easy to know how to get him off your back. In the case of obssession, you may have to start avoiding him. If you live in the same area, you may consider relocating to another place if he is a dangerous type. Also heed your bf advice and ignore him as much as possible.

phemmy, you are right o. I once found someone like that on nl over a year ago. I think he posted and then got the bashing. He contacted me in private and narrated his ordeal. I gave him a benefit of doubt but not money. Instead, I told him to take up a factory job. He did and sometime after that, he said he was able to pay the tuition. We lost contact when I lost my email.

As you said, the rate at which fraudsters fabricate lies today has make it necesary to ignore everyone. Rather that give them fish, give them fishing net and tell them to fish. The real one among them will take it. The idiots will look for a more attractive client. Begging is now a kind of fraud.

hmmm
A test of real leaders is ability to put their houses in order.

i thought jehovah witnesses dont seperate from their spouses. There is trouble beyond the child custody.

I hope to write on this hot issue soon. It is something that goes beyond mathematical guess. What is more this the 5th time this week am hearing someone talk of it. It is a delicate situation. God help the victims

I goes with crazyman in a way. Be at peace with your parents. And remember you are now a father. That mean whatever you decide, you should take the two sides into consideration. But your wife is no more your gf. With kid between you and having gone this far, it would be a sad end if you eventually leave the lady to make your parents happy. The good news is that your commitment to her is still firm and strong.

I am however surprise to hear of the church incidence. That is unfair to you.

My take is that you should build a bridge.

Whether you make peace with your parents or not, it is wise that you stay at your own house for now. They will resume hostility when you return to them as long as they dont like your wife.

Instead, visit your parents once a while. And explain to them you have made your choice. If they cant accept your wife and kid, there is nothing you can do except to limit your visit to say, once a month. And if they accept the lady and kid, the two of you can visit them once a while but not live there.

@some mentioned that some clergy wont officiate for single parents. That is because the society is blinded by prejudice. If the single parent is a man, and rich, he can remarry and earn God blessing. If a lady, whether she was a victim or not, she is expected to live the shame. The options for people like that are numerous. God is not the author of confusion.

@poster,
What is the problem with your wife, apart from her ugly face, that make her the subject of such extreme hatred? There must a reason for your parents to treat her that way. Can you think of any?

@busy body,
You got it right. Not literal. I think I explained that earlier. . I do know why Tpia turn it over it head. Read pcguru posts and read her own follow up. Any one with a head on his shoulder know she had hidden agenda. Take note she was the only one raining that kind of abuse yet. She is doing that not because of the post or anything. If you read her replies very well. She wanted to use the post to achieve a long term goal.

Anyway, if a madwoman dance naked in the street and call everyone else mad, must a sane man join her in her foolish dance just because she is abusing him? Everyone already know she is mad, so why would a sane man join issue with her? Trust me, I know what is heating her up. I am determined to let her dance naked alone. That is the only way to seperate sanity from insanity. So far, only mad people like her will join in such shameless party. She will therefore continued to observe that I will ignore her foolish abuse. She has been looking for the opportunity for long. I guess, this is her birthday! I know she is unhappy I am not doing tit for tat. And she won't admit it. The only way to humiliate poisonous people on nairaland is to ignore them. It does not make sense to tell the deaf that the market is about to close. When the market is empty, she will pack her bag and leave.

On your comment, yes, it was the guy that called. Like I said, his messages was very, very clear though poorly delivered. He gave himself away because when I got the message, I first ignore it and acted as if he was sending it to the wrong number. I told him so, but he expressed himself that he was sending it to me. But he didnt know my name or who I am. Up till now, I tell no one. Not my uncle, or the wife. I posted it here because he could be on nairaland! Dont forget I said he first email me with foreign ID. My long post and explanation isnt for Tpia per se. She is a non issue (I wonder how she find time to use her energy insulting people front, back, left, right and centre!) It is for him and I dare him to join issue with me here. I hope at least the things that are unclear to him before are clear now.

Secondly, the number he used was new or not active. . I knew his own numbers. So I suspected he went to buy the new number to avoid his wife knowing about it. That got me thinking fast. The logic is simple. If he claimed that he and his wife always read one another messages and his wife used his numbers to text me during that fateful period, then it is a great betrayal of trust for him to buy a new line and text me. That show he did not want his wife to read our conversation. That show he is hidding something. If his wife can let him read the text she sent to me, what stop him from letting her read the one he sent? Why didnt he just sit his wife down and talk to her instead of sending a treat to me? Was there really anythng to suggest his wife was flirting with me or someone else? If the wife is flirting with someone else, can he stop her by contacting me, instead of the man she is flirting with?

You may asked how I knew that his wife was using his numbers. This is it; the wife has just a line, MTN. I confirmed her line when I asked my uncle who was among the 4 people that knew about my MTN line. The other 3 people that knew of my own MTN are my former boss, and now a mentor, who was former Deputy Registrar UNIJOS, my lady and a trusted friend who is also on nairaland. The husband has his own mtn. The wife text with her own line just once and that was the first text where she begged for forgiveness. My reply was that her case was closed years ago and that I desired for her to succeed. That was after my uncle told me how she got my line. Now, after that, she text from a new MTN. She later confirm it is not her line but didnt tell me it was her hubby's lines.

The husband, before texting me, has been flashing my MTN  for sometimes. (the wife cant flash, she hate flashings) I had the habit of not picking calls from numbers I dont know. He was flashing and calling my MTN line. Notice that I said my MTN line was inactive for sometimes. But the husband, probably unaware that the zain (my zain line) and my MTN line belongs to the same person, ME. He text the MTN once to ask me to identify myself. And I told him I dont do that to stranger. He stopped texting when I refused to bulge but told me he own the MTN line. I dont delete my texts and call logs unless they are offensive. But he didnt send text to my MTN line again.

But when he flashed my zain with his MTN again, and I cross checked my MTN to find out it is him, I was alerted. He didnt use his MTN to text my zain however, he probably bought a new Zain. The new zain went off after I threatened him and has not been active till now. I know because I flash it with hidden Caller ID.

If the wife knew that he text, I will have known. She is very close to my uncle since they live in the same area and confide in one another even till date. And she would have told him about it. My uncle wont waste time to tell me. She is close to my uncle long before we hit it off. Indeed, we got into the relationship because of the effort of my uncle and her late mum. It used to be a joke when the mother was alive. But ended up as real after she died. When we had the break up, they tried to bring us back but I relocated to the North, I saw my uncle once a while and he tell me the good news about the place including her. Though am back in Lagos, I still dont go to the state since my guardian is late now.

In short, the issue is not about me and my ex, but about the propriety of any husband contacting his spouse ex. If you suspect your partner of anything, confront the reality, be patien and do your homework well before expressing that suspicion. In marriage, the worst offence anyone can commit is infidelity. And as such, it is not fair to unjustly accuse the other without facts.  As for the statement in contention, I already explain that.

I guess the thread has lost it relevance. Time to let it sleep or let abusive people take over! I am out!

I thought as much! A familiar ending. Always happy to look for a way turn things to a fight and abuse.

This is not the time to reply you. I have a misssion that is still in the workroom. Trust me, I plan before acting. So let the ranting continues. It is a pity, I am busy. I couldnt even read your replies! What a waste!

well, if you saw it that way, it so bad. I replied your question ealier. Anything after that is general. I dont like quoting and I know why. Anyway, like I said, it is a dead issue. My inability to recall names directly when posting from phone is the main reason I always reply everyone at one.

Well I am not qualify to judge since I am immatured. Thanks alot for the new name. I love it!

some people just enjoy beating a dead horse. If I am still bitter, I will never have been sad that her marriage is in trouble. And I would never have offered to help. Hey, did you read that I said I was part of the break up? I was not even bitter after it. I was happy. Happy for many reasons. I am just laughin at you. I hope that help the armchair critics?
@tpia,
Truly, I couldnt read your last post because I am on mobile. But I read the last paragragh. Sure, I am immatured and maybe heartless. Ok? I also ditch out bad advice to others. I am a gabbage and whatever negative language you can conceive. But, I am all that because that is your level of understanding. It is your own perception. You are the lens through which you still view the world.

But I need to clarify something. I posted by replying everyone. I joined all together, so it is not everyone that every reply applied to. Pick what applies to you and let others pick their own. If you have heartache as a result, then I am sorry!

Finally, it is a pity that most commentators focus on dead issue. The break up. Something that was dead and buried years ago. The lost sight of the real issue which is that; Is it right for spouses to watch what their patner is doing? And is it right for husband to be contacting their spouses' ex for whatever reason, when they are neither together nor show any sign of reuniom? And what do you do to such people when they threaten you unfairly? Those are the issues. I hope those beating the dead horse will grow up after reading this.

it is a tough issue. The guy may be under demonic possession, or he may actually have acted his true nature. How come he became a demon when his babe got pregnant? And why is reasn that drove him to drinking? What is he girls' role in the while affair?

truly most men change once they get what they want. The lady should do soul searching and then make her choice. he choice will make her! It is not new and it will remain same for people making decision. She may know soemthing we dont know. And she may just be blinded by love. How she reunite the family is another matter. I hope she has the magic formula for that. or else, she would just complicate everything for herself

I have observed the tendency for some people to always turn every thread on nairaland to a fight and attack on posters and one another.  It has been a long time I came to nairaland to make posts. But my first port of call was religion section. A section that I hate to visit. I think to some extent, I made my voice known.

But here, it is a difference problem. A lady said her bf that did not proposed to her wanted to marry her by force and people called her double dater. The thread ended up as a fight. So many of them. This is time for me to show if I am truly a cool headed guy or a foolish one. I am going to encourage everyone to post his or her opinion. But I must remind you that I have no problem at all. I have dealt with the issue before coming to nairaland. Since, it worked for me, need I pick a fight with anyone who spend his time looking for who to fight on internet? If your reply has merit, fine If not, dont worry, it will help the thread grow into many pages with people like you reading and assimilating it.

@tipia,
that may be true if your ex is like that but not for me. You know what, someday, I will share a secret with this forum. As much as most people here are anonymous, I can tell to some extent what your personal life is like. It is not a rocket science. All you have to do is to use a "mirror effect". That will be sometime later. Suffice it to say that you have just let me into your personal world. I think I can fairly appraise your personality and your attitude to relationship. By their words, we shall know them.

No matter what you say, you will find out that you meet the wrong man if your intention is to create an atmosphere for misinformation and abuse. I always enjoyed it when people do that. as long as I am not replying them.

@mcdoe,
You are very correct in a way. At least based on the guy's text, there is something like that. It is like they have been having the problem for sometimes. And that the habit of readng one another text is a fallout of "Mutually Delivered Infidelity" Why I said that? Well, I got in touch with  uncle who gave her my number in the first place ad he told me what is going. I did that even before replying her texts.

During the last two year we are together, a series of events happened. I was not in the area again, but I did visit every week to try to pactch things up. Fortunately, I have an uncle who still live there. Our houses is just next to one another. so each time I came back from school, I would be treated with story of how the girl has changed and is moving with certain elements. I often ignore the negatives and continues to believe I can influence her. Truly, I did have a way of influencing her. Sometimes, she would cry and then confess. Sometimes, she would run away only to drop letter that she is ashame of seeing me.

Anyway, after she lost her virginity, she became a different person. It is like for some ladies, virginity is just a veil being used to cover up their immorality. Some ladies just become wild after losing thier precious pots. I made reference to her in one of my recent posts here. I am aware he was dating two guys during our last year together, not just the guy that deflowered her.

Oh, was I completely innocent? No!! I was partly responsible for the permanent break. I gave her ultimatum to shape up or shape out. And I stopped visiting her in that last year as frequently as I used to do. And when we are together, I did not talk of future as I always do. And when she said she want out, I did not even look for her. In fact, that was the last time I saw her to this day. Although I went to our house in the area once a while, she had relocated and so the past was buried.

My reason for posting the thread in the first place is to let would be nose poker who daily read their wife texts know that it is no every time the man they will contact will melt like a jelly after being threatened. If I were the husband, the first thing I will do is to talk to my wife and seek clarification and not to go and buy new line and start making threat at the other people to stay away from my wife even before you now who they are. That is a foolish behavior that often destroy homes. And that is what the guy did. He even chat me with me using an european name. The chat failed when I found out that he is a man instead of a woman, and I rebuked him for doing that. I then asked him not to bother again because I will find out it is him. The second thing he should have done is to investigate. It is so easy since both of them share phones and read one another texts. But the man did not do that. he bungled the opportunity for good. If the lady know her husband has been contacting people she texts and call behind her, I am sure she would stop being open to him.  And if indeed, she has been flirting around, he may never found out. And that is what one get when one fail to think before acting.

I think I worded my post properly before posting. It is funny how people just go through a message and then pick only what appeal t them. Anyway, I have been on nairaland long enough to know that some people are not worth replying. All they want is how to set the ball rolling for a fight.

As for those who said, I left her bcause she was deflowered by another man, I need to let you know that she left on her onw and it was two years after she was deflowered. What is more, it ws clearly stated that she made it clear on her own volition that she want to leave. i wonder how some people pass their ENglish exam.

If indeed, I was the one who left her, she would not have any business coming back to me after two guys and now in a marriage. It make sense to think before throwing accusations. I am very much aware of the way some people reason as if the head is not in the right place.

Secondly, the text message she sent was not included in my post. A sane person should have asked what was the content of her text message before making judgment. Wat is more, I did not even crucify her. I was lambasting the husband and I believe I was right to do that. He txt message did not actually indicate she wanted to return to me. Which was something that make me feel the man has gone too far. She merely soaught help. But I called someone who is living near her to assess her her condition and tell me what is happening. That is from whom I got the message that all was not well in her home. and it is from the follow that I knew wat was going on. So, it fair, and I know I am fair to say I can help her.

Thirdly, on this forum, I cannot remember the numebr of comments I have dropped for people neither could I remember the number of people I have helped in real life. the girl know who I am, so her contacting me was because she needed someone. Unfortunately, for her, I happened to be her first love. that make it emotional. I am aware that many guys in that situation will use the opprotunity to chop and lick mouth. That is many guys.

Hey, those saying that I must have dated her when she is too young need to beat a retreat, I mentioned the whole things lasted 8 years and it w a very decent one. She fumbled, but I stayed on for two more years before I finally  agree to leave her. She dated the guy even when she told me she will leave.  and soon, she calledit up.

As for those saying she is too young, it is a pity. I can say she is just 3 year younger than I am. At JSS2, I have started teaching. and by SSS3, I was known as a "teacher" though not qualified. Professioanally.  It is a pity some people imagine that every young man in secondary school must be a baby. If there is anything that is good in me, or whateevr, I think I learned them while I was in primary schoo through secondary school. I am not gifted, but I grew up in a house where I was trusted into the world of teaching rght from primary school. It started from teaching your classmates what they don know while the teacher relax and it went on to become a part time vocation by secondary school.

One thing I have found out in my journey on earth is that, age has nothing to do with wisdom. Many people with gray hair do behave foolishly. Some people grew up faster than others. While we read all manner of silly posts here from adults, it may interest some to note that sensible posts does come from those who are younger. My being wiser than her has nothing to do with my age or her age. It is purely a result of my upbringing. If you spend your youth chasing wisdom, there is no way you will grow up as a fool and in the same level as your peer who spend their youths chasing money or ladies. Age has nothing to do with it. i think I am lucky to grow up in the home I was raised. what do you think we spent the years on when we have no intimate/sexual contact? Well, only those who have had such relationship can tell. the rest may continue to guess.

@thonia, I am aware of people doing that. Lol, I have no idea why they do it. Maybe they are hurting. That is why I always make it a point to contact those who add me on fb and monitor them. At any rate, there is nothing on fb that is private to me, for instance. Apart from what I think, my email and a phone number that wont pict a call, there is nothing private. Maybe my pictures is the nearest, but that is nothing. I think such people will hurt themselves more if the keep spying at their ex.

@ebonyeyes,
Who told you I am educated? I barely pass my JSCE exam. And I am currently sitting for my GCE at the on going Nov Dec. So dont push it, it is non issue.

Try read reply to Tpia and have your peace. Cheers.

I think it depends on individual perception. Sometime, what is decent to you can be indecent to another. It is like we are are lens through which we view others. Most of the time, our perceptions are based on our experiences and knowledges. Since we cant all have world wide view of our environment, our definition of decency and indecency is greatly limited to our individual understanding.

As a clue, I grew up to perceive people who dress other than African style as indecent just because I have watch many films as a boy that show whites people in an 'indecent' manner. As my knowledge and experiences expand, I found out it is what I perceived not the general state of thing.

In short, we define what is decent or indecent base on our individual experiences and knowledges.

lest I forget, we are not even friend, Ani Lee. And I dont look for her. She asked for help.

The husband may be her hubby, he knew quite well that he needs help. At least his texts show that. Sending me an sms and emailing me after impersonating the gal are all signs that something is wrong with both of them. I dont even know what it is. And the last time I saw the girl was mid 2004! Even now, I dont know what she look like. So I consider the guy's insinuation as unpardonable. Never mind, I have taken care of him. I dont need advice. I just shared what had happened. And if he send me a stupid sms again, I am going to humble him!

ani,
There is no bitterness. Try re read again. I wasnt even in the picture.