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Beautiful in what sense? Body, spirit, manner, or what? That is because some ladies get fine face with toxic blood, some have good manner with vulture face etc which one do we choose?

It is easy for most people to tell others to let go. Until you pass through it, you can never imagine how hard it is to let go. Only people that didn't commit their heart can walk out of love without feeling the pain.

Women blames men when a man hurt a lady. But men are being hurt more than women. Men however had learn how to let go when they should. That character is what you ladies probably interpret as insensitivity.

You can help your room mate by encouraging her. Tell her that she isn't alone. Keep her company. The only way to let go is to keep her thought away from the past that hurt her. Don't talk about the guy in her presence again. Don't mention the guy. Take her out and get her busy.

In psychology, there is a law which can be simplified thus: IT IS UTTERLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR A HUMAN MIND TO THINK OF MORE THAN ONE THING AT A TIME. That is the tool you would apply for her. When her mind is engaged in something that interest her, she would gradually let go of the past.

There was a day I was traveling to Jos. I was a very shy guy then. I sat close to this beauty that seem to be out of this world. The journey lasted 12hr and I couldn't say more than one word "hello". It was hell throughout the journey. The lady was uncomfortable, probably wishing I would at least start a conversation. I never did.

It turn out we are heading same way. We met a month after the 'first contact' but still, I was busy composing 'grammar' which I could use! She quietly walked away when my mouth couldn't say a word.

A year after the incidence, my friend said she was angry at me for 'disappointing' her. She kept talking about me and wish I had proposed. I later found out that she is a very nice lady any man would be proud of.

Regret? Yes, I regretted not befriending her, at least. That was years ago. I was shy then so it's gone. Sincerely, however, whenever I look back, I just laugh. I don't regret anything again. I got ten fold compensation for my timidity. I am a happy man, now and forever.

Which yoruba tribe are you talking about? I know they are of diffence stock. Ijebus, Tapas, Egbas, or do you mean Lagos girls?

I was just wondering whether those posting replies bother to read the topic. I hope my anti isn't around 'cos she may explode again.

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Pessimists' creed? How come the hardest thing to believe in nairaland is the truth?

Tell lie or flow with the wrong tide and you get many fellowers.

If people can get job through the job column, isn't it fair to expect success from those taking advantage of the romance segment to build a happy life?

Thank you. Sharing is believing. While pursuing my curiosity beyond nairaland, I met a lady who get the THING after I posted the thread. From her look I know how embarrased she was. I assured her I understand everythings. I think the next thing is how do we prevent people dropping fungi in our toilet? You know Lagoswise. People would just go on visiting and use your toilet. You never can tell when somebody is a host to the germs. It may also happen that innocent visitor may pick it up?

1, the host, how do we prevent it. I can see it is not enough to have a 'clean' toilet.
2, for the visitor, if you are infested what should be done to safeguard other people health when you visit their loo.
3, for visitor that are clean, what should you do if you suspect a toilet and you need to use the toilet?

Yeah. I got to pray and thank God for a sleepless nite. I was able to do all i wanted to do except one.
Thank God, I am seeing a new monday. Be positive and the week would be a great one for you. Good morning, angel Babeelove. See you later.

Yeah, i quit. Just to remind you we are talking of gentlemen. So keep the good work. Let hear more of the gentlemen. Thanks babee

Because a car hit you and disable you does not mean cars are worthless. Blame the drivers and not the vehicles. If you are hurt while loving on fast lane, pele! As long as you don't lose your life, you will still need the car. In fact, as disable people need car to convey them to treatment centre after an accident, so does a jilted man need love to restore his broken heart.
Love it self isn't culprit when you flounder in relationship. It is you and your partner. You, for driving the wrong car, your partner for driving you to wrong destination. Don't despise love, you will always need it to recuperate.
Next time you are going on a journey, don't jump into any car. Look before you leap.0
As for the poster, Love is real and it does exists.
On your heartbreak, sorry, epele!

Are you here? I am sorry! I thought is another person!

Are you here? I am sorry! I thought is another person!

Are you here? I am sorry! I thought is another person!

Cheigemba, you know what?

A teacher was trying to illustrate the danger of alcohol to the body in a class. He then pour drops of alcohol on specimen worms. The worms dies instantly.
Then he asked one of the students to comment on the lessons in that experiment.
The student said "when we drink alcohol we won't have worms in our body!"

The real life drama is many are like that student that turn a good observation into comedy of absurd. By their words, you shall spot them.

I know you aint looking for a 'missing link' , just be yourself. When people focus their mirrors at you and tell you what they see, remember to take a second look at their own face in THE SAME MIRROR, you would see more than they saw.

Doyin13, Babeelove is nice. She is just being curious. I guess she had changed her mirror from CONVEX TO CONCAVE, now anything is possible. I think she is on course from fantasy to reality. That is encouraging. I like curious people, they make me smile. I like negative people, and critics, they make me look inward to examine my ideal. The man who think he know it all had started a journey tn land of ignorance.

Babeelove, who told you I am 'sleeping'? Maybe you are trying to open me up? Why not use an ASTRONOMICAL MIRROR? You can have a great vision of heavenly object. Do it, you will see who I really are.

If a guy wear mask, it may be something is wrong with his face or he just want to hid the face. Any same man would recognize a masked man. Only a blind man wouldn't and we have alot of blind chaps out there. Seeing without vision.

A wise blind man would however learn to use his finger to authenticate an object. Only fools fail to do that.

So, I agreed, masked men abounds. If you are not a fool, you would never fall into their trick.

Babeelove, you gotta believe. Or you haven't seen a guy that is real before? Even your own guy?

Babeelove, you don't need to buy any mirror or all mirrors. You already have everything you need within you. Look into your heart.

LIFE IS A MIRROR. What you see is a reflection of your vision, focus Idea, and your personality. Like material mirror, if you don't have any, you can always borrow. The quality of your mirror would manifest in the type of image it reflected.

When you present an image, opinion, ideas, people would take a critical look at it and judge the quality of your mirror. If you are right, they would know. If you are being deluded by your mirror, they would know. Of course, people can be wrong. It doesn't matter. Why? Because PEOPLE PEOPLE! That is the tradition.

Sane people however know WHEN NOT TO PEOPLE.

Anything you do, says, or think, just remember. People are watching and measuring your own values.

Doyin13, in a layman language.
PLANE MIRRORS give you exactly the same distance the image is. It is real and concise.
CONCAVE MIRROR will give you an image that is propotional to your own position. And MAY not be exactly the way it is. It is real. but while you are viewing others, you are equally telling the world what you are. It can also be virtual, adjustable.
CONVEX MIRROR would always give you unreal image. No matter your size, you will always see a shorter man in the mirror. It has it usefulness just like others. One more thing, convex mirror are generally unreliable. The are meant for applications where you need to see larger view from a short angle.


Use any mirror that suit your focus. We shall also be viewing your own image from your rare.

Babeelove, I will never announce who I am. That is why I didn't fill in my profile.

So it is left to you to decide. Use your mirror or borrow one.

Me Tricky? That is an assumption anyway. I forget you said you like fantasies. I hope it isn't a fantasy?

Cheigemba, thank you for being observant. Your mirror show you are a positive person. I guess you used PLANE mirror. It tell it as it is.

Babeelove, I didn't mean 'flirting' in the way you view it. You guys are after all having a good time. Keep it up. Who knows we may have another nairalanders announcing a breakthrough. I am still optimistic.

On having my hands full, I am serious indeed. See, what time it is and I am awake. Doing what? Of course working on something positive.

On your not expecting to meet anyone beyond nairaland, and your fantasies. Good for you. Maybe, I should check your mirror again to see if I can make out something more. Don't wonder too long 'cos I will be looking at your positives. I am blind to the negatives.

I just hope I am not an excuse for anyone to flirt. It is there already. There is afterall, nothing motivational about my words. Are there? I just talk!

It depend on what you think by girlfriends. I honestly think we must draw a line between a female friend and girlfriend. Maybe you mean lovers. Doubledating or something. I don't, won't, had never and will neverdouble-date. But I have even more female friends, whatever you call it, than male friends. It is all about you and your values. Men will always have girlfriends other than their lover. Or Lovers, if they are double dating type. So we must be alert to any possibility. I can't speak for others though.

Doyin13, are you sure? I have heard that words several times in my locality. Everywhere I go. But sincerely, I had never take a second look. I get my hands full.

Don't worry. You still have five more years to go before you start running. Just don't stay indoor and wait for him to come and meet you. Keep praying.

Dollyshow, I hope you are not refering to my profile? To be honest, there isn't much on it. I can't even remember what I put there. The last time I check it was the day I registered. Don't rely on it.
It doesn't take me long to know the kind of person anybody is by chatting him one on one. I am not a 'lifter. A psychologist.

Babeelove, I needn't tell you I am a hero where I come from. A lot of friends if I want to have. Anywhere, I go, I tries to see the positive side of life.

Don't condemn nairalanders as unworthy. Believe me, if you look at the right place, you will find real people in nairaland.

Babee, I am not a preacher, so I don't need a church.

By the way, what do u mean by that last statement?

Babee, I am not a preacher, so I don't need a church.

By the way, what do u mean by that last statement?

Why? Wheat of course.