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Kanmosyl
It is wonderful to hear people doing things in their own ways. But sometimes, anytime, they may discover that doing things in their own way is against other people. For instance, you like watching Tuface vids while your Babe like Apala. The two of you can't live together if you both INSIST on DOING THING IN YOUR OWN WAY. What would you do in such instance where the person you love is involved?

Babeelove,
water surely seek its level. Nothing farther from the truth. But Tsunami defiles that logic. There are human Tsunami who constantly aim at the level above them. Sometime violently leaving sorrow behind. I hope we can find a way to tackle them if they are in anyway going to impact negatively on us. Example of such human Tsunami is a guy spreading enemity all over the place on nairaland. Come to think of it, he is obviously seeking his level. To know how sane are people on nairaland. To know if he can get recruits. Should such an animal insist on finding his way, it is war against sanity!

Ariblaze,
you sounded like a man with strong value. I love this. I think you are introducing a new dimension. The 'sir' and 'ma'. It is optional though.

Like I said earlier, nobody is perfect. You may say you have seen it all, only for a smart chap to knock you out of your dreaming state. Why not accept the rule of the game and have fun while learning from others.

Always teaching you to knw what life is. Through many of their exploits.

The good thing is that the story is unreal.

Always teaching you to knw what life is. Through many of their exploits.

The good thing is that the story is unreal.

Always teaching you to knw what life is. Through many of their exploits.

The good thing is that the story is unreal.

I think the guy is foolish in the first place. Though I know the story is a product of fantasy. Nevertheless, no man or woman should undergo such act in the name of love. It is one thing if he had donated an eye because he would still have one left.

If I were the guy is unrealistic because I can never be the guy. I am sure that a violent man would kill the lady. He is justified.

However beyond this, I am seeing more to the story. I am seeing something I had always known. WHEN SOMEBODY HATE HIMSELF AND ALL AROUND HIM WITH A PASSION, ALWAYS LOOK DEEPER BEFORE MAKING COMMITMENT THAT WOULD COST YOU DEARLY.

I think the gux is foolish in the first place. Though I know the story is a product of fantasy. Nevertheless, no man or woman should undergo such act in the name of love. It is one thing if he had donated an eye because he would still have one left.

If I were the guy is unrealistic because I can never be the guy. I am sure that a violent man would kill the lady. He is justified.

However beyond this, I am seeing more to the story. I am seeing something I had always known. WHEN SOMEBODY HATE HIMSELF AND ALL AROUND HIM WITH A PASSION, ALWAYS LOOK DEEPER BEFORE MAKING COMMITMENT THAT WOULD COST YOU DEARLY.

What a debate! Women! Condemning men in general as randy simply because of polygamy is a unfair, In their arguments, they ignored the fact that even if given the opportunity it is not realistic for a woman to marry many husbands. Even prostitutes can attest to this. She can only get pregnant for a man at a time. For as long as the situation remains, women can't practice polyandry.

Yes, I agree that polygamy is in the nature of men. No, I totally disagree with the notion that it is due generally to lack of self control. There is no comparison whatsoever between polygamy and prostitution.

Fatty27 want to know my religion affiliation, keep dreaming. I might as well be a pagan. That would not stop me from telling the truth. I must confess, I don't dabble into religion debate. I have my reservation. I will therefore be unwilling to comment on those aspect that deal with muslim, christain. Not that I don't know. Rather, I am wise enough to know that it is useless. Even when muhamed and jesus were alive, they were challenged by ignorants. It is the norm in every age that voice of the oppositions is laudest.

I however, maintain that polygamy is not the evil you are painting. You seem to be interpreting polygamy as official prostitution lacking merit. If you could just allow me to retain my right to abstains from religious sentiment, I would gladly continue. Let the Imaam tackle their faith. I would not comment on religion unless it is absolutely necessary.

Let me tell you however, that so far, oppositions to polygamy is still on sentiment. I am yet to read any credible one that explain why I choose monogamy! I will however draw your attention to something. If indeed polygamy is a product of men insatiable appetite for sex, how do you explain a man marrying a widow that had passed her menopause stage? Or a man with low sex drive marrying at old age? You can't tell me this is not as prevalence as marrying sexy damsels. I stand by my logic!

This is my own perception of what Oracle99 is about:

He had just been given a dose of his own poison by a smart lady. After breaking hearts of many ladies and sleeping with sisters, friends, and their mums, he found his match.
The wonder-lady made nuissance of his 8 RUSTY RULES TO LASTING(?) Relationship. She made him look so ordinary, spent and deflated. Wasted, Oracle99 resorted to his numerous tricks which failed woefully. Unwilling to accept defeat, Oracle99 went on rampage, f**king every animals in human skin. That is what he called 'experience'. Even the 'animals' made a fool of him. And somehow, like fatty27 had rightly guessed, he found himself in a lunatic assylum. Chained, beaten, and reduced to a beast.

At last, he was thought to be fit. while undergoing his sanity test to determine his level of fitness, he fled the rehab only to surface on Nairaland!

I think he needs help. The best we can give him is TO IGNORE HIM. When sanity prevailed, we may have to subject him to a test.

That guy is a shadowy figure hidding under annonymity to propagate insanity. He is currently looking for partners, and associates. We must keep a close tab on his activities before he recruit the underages, and those with low self-esteem.

Seun must not delete him, he would go underground and use another name. Let him be. But remember the golden rule: IGNORE HIM!

Our world is imperfect, we have the good, the bad, and the ugly. Saying that there is no GOOD GIRL in Naija is correct if he can prove that he is not born of a woman. Should it be established that he is born of a woman, then he is definitely saying that his own mother fall in similar category that he had mentioned. Sane men know that when a man insult his own mother, regardless of the motive, he is not a worthy fellow.

Don't cry for him, let him continues to chase the shadow, he would reap nothing but vanity. He is nothing but a total failure. Why help him carry his cross? To your thread, great men/women of #land.

This is my own perception of what Oracle99 is about:

He had just been given a dose of his own poison by a smart lady. After breaking hearts of many ladies and sleeping with sisters, friends, and their mums, he found his match.
The wonder-lady made nuissance of his 8 RUSTY RULES TO LASTING(?) Relationship. She made him look so ordinary, spent and deflated. Wasted, Oracle99 resorted to his numerous tricks which failed woefully. Unwilling to accept defeat, Oracle99 went on rampage, f**king every animals in human skin. That is what he called 'experience'. Even the 'animals' made a fool of him. And somehow, like fatty27 had rightly guessed, he found himself in a lunatic assylum. Chained, beaten, and reduced to a beast.

At last, he was thought to be fit. while undergoing his sanity test to determine his level of fitness, he fled the rehab only to surface on Nairaland!

I think he needs help. The best we can give him is TO IGNORE HIM. When sanity prevailed, we may have to subject him to a test.

That guy is a shadowy figure hidding under annonymity to propagate insanity. He is currently looking for partners, and associates. We must keep a close tab on his activities before he recruit the underages, and those with low self-esteem.

Seun must not delete him, he would go underground and use another name. Let him be. But remember the golden rule: IGNORE HIM!

Our world is imperfect, we have the good, the bad, and the ugly. Saying that there is no GOOD GIRL in Naija is correct if he can prove that he is not born of a woman. Should it be established that he is born of a woman, then he is definitely saying that his own mother fall in similar category that he had mentioned. Sane men know that when a man insult his own mother, regardless of the motive, he is not a worthy fellow.

Don't cry for him, let him continues to chase the shadow, he would reap nothing but vanity. He is nothing but a total failure. Why help him carry his cross? To your thread, great men/women of #land.

Ariblaze,
I didn't meant to say you mentioned negative. What I was saying is 'are you aware that karma could be apply to the negatives?' if yes, how do you deal with that, especially in the event of mistake or something that turn out to be negative? Surely, it must produce a result.

When we challenge creed, it wasn't because we didn't read it comprehensively, rather, we want to know how true you are to your conviction and how firm you can be in the face of life challenges. It is an attempt to expose ourselves to the reality. That things don't go the way we often plan. And in such circumstances, a man of sound creed would remained unshakable.

Ariblaze, feel free to pick holes in others if you find any. It is a ok.

Hei, don't call me a 'sir'! I am not yet 100 year old. I am going to consider myself old when I reach a hundred year. Life begins at 100!

Yiminton,
I have read the thread like everyone else. The oracle99 surely has a serious problem with his credo. He was courting attention. He had obviously remained annonymous for sometime, and so want to draw attention to himself at all cost. He is not mad. He is just acting madness.

His last heartbreak, which was obviously a result of his randy nature damaged his reasoning faculty. He lost a lady so dear to him. Finding that the lady had gone for good, and that his effort  failed. He resorted to generalisation. That guy need help, not bashing. The best way to keep him out of circulation is TO IGNORE HIM.

I am expecting him to come here to lament his failure. Just take note: IGNORE HIM TILL HE SHOW SANITY. Let me tell you one thing, that guy is NOT REAL. I am sorry I wasted my energy on such a shadowy fellow.

On my where about, I am alive. Granny asked me to take time off. You know I planned to live longer than her. That is every parents' and grannies' wish. And she is not an exception. I hope iice is reading.

Mishoo, et al,
i feel you.

I am not used to denials. I uses my head.

Sure, let share your experience. As for the shit you are posting. It is fair. I don't expect any less from you. Maybe you still alot of them.

Talking about loving something and still deny the existence of that thing can only mean that you are being stingy with the truth.

Anyway, what happened? What did she do made you vent your anger on every ladies? I am honestly interested in your story. Let share, Oracle99

Is it that bad? Are you speaking from experience or you are just trying to know what others think? If it take miracle, is it the one from TB Joshua, or Chris Oyakhilome?

Could you tell us what actually happen to you. Why were you so full of hatred toward all women? Let share your experience perharps some chap out there would reason with you. What do you think, oracle99?

My name sake? Where did u get ur oracle? What do u want ?

Amen! Ase wa!

Amen! Ase wa!

Yeah, I am back! What you called rubbish is a goldmine to some ladies whose joy and happiness depends on it. After all, Jesus was derided and rejected for daring to hold opinion contrary to general norm. The men who do right and know with deepest conviction that they are right will never succumb to threat of the multitude. Dreams outlives the dreamers.

Spoilt,
you disappointed me with your argument. Falacious, defective and biased. You read it all upside down.
The challenge I gave you is to go look for facts and not state your personal opinion. Where did you ever hear that polygamy is compulsory? And which countries in muslim land tighten divorce law? Just name one country.

Let me put it at you in child language: can we say, that it is indeed true that all Nigerians including you, are 419 just because some animals in Naija choose that job? Can we say that the whole of Nigerian is unsafe just because Niger Delta boil? I am giving you a simple lesson in Logic to prove that you committed falacy of overgeneration. That someone fail while operating in a system does not imply that the system is a failure. That Nigerian failed to succeed in true democracy does not mean democracy itself is a failure. We have examine both claim of success and failures in general and not in isolation.

As for those citation I made, I'd rather let you do your homework before I comment on it.

Soulpatra
I feel you. You must have had a rough edge or someone close to you had been badly bruised by "polybad". Sorry. Pele. It is not that I have not seen where 'polybad' had been a failure. Honestly, I am not like everyone. Sentiment is a reserved juice I had learnt to keep in deep freezer. I hardly drink it anyway.

I hope you see my logic sooner or later.

Yeah! Slowly though. Or do you need a parachute?

That make her the exception. You know she is a granny, with ladies like her, polygamy would never have appeal again.

I trust you, Teacher

Yeah, iice, I am sure she is, and will always be.

Mukina2
how do you know pluto is cold? And who is landing on her back? Why?

Baby Glow,
i am confidence and sure of myself. I am hot but not too hot as to burn myself or those I love. I cold when circumstance demand it. But I have a set of rules. If you can't match 'em, you aint gettin nothin.

By the way, what is your price? Any tag yet, Baby glow?

Why? She is human, you know?

Do you think he need that insurance?

iice,
mukina2 now. She want a frozen stare

KObe,
are you sure? iice is cold you know? Maybe we have exceptions. Can they really match up to expectation?

Hope you get heater on standby just in case.

Moondust,
How do you reconcile your free thinking creed with someone who has no restriction to his thinking? Don't you see that they are near similar? To operate without definite partern is to open your door for every passing opinions. That is not the trait of a man with value.

Just know this:
"IF YOU LEAVE OPEN YOUR DOOR FOR TOO LONG, A MADMAN WILL GAIN ENTRY"
please rephrase your credo, moondust.

Jaydot12
fatty27, was right though I wouldn't say you are stupid. I'd rather say, you are testing your ability. You really don't have much to convince anyone, if you are not confident of getting market for your shadowy dollars at Business section. In fact, you are only making people avoid you by taking fish to sahara desert. I wish you good luck as you sought for customer. Sugbon sha, ma gbe saara e k'oja mashalashi mo. Awa kii j'ebo.

Fatty27
i am yet to know much about you. I am watching.

Practically, everyone here is deriding polygamy and ridiculing opposing views simply because "they have never seen where it works" and they are strangely unwilling to go there to verify the facts. The observation of few disgruntle soul isn't enough to generalize and ridicule those on the other side.

Most of those from defective polygamous home who have the laudest voice are now using the forum to express their pains and unleash their frustrations, past and present, on the few who dare to go against them. Someone even said she had never seen a single happy polygamous family! I take it to mean the fellow is either being economical with the truth or she is trying to vent the disappointment of her unsettled home upon those courageous chaps who know when to say the truth.

I am disappointed that none of them had gone ahead to verify my earlier observation when you all have the tool to do so at your finger tip! The task is simple and straight forward: IF YOU HAVEN'T SEEN ONE SEARCH IT.

Find out the following:


WHY IS DIVORCE RATE PREVALENCE IN THE WEST AND FAMILY VALUES BROKEN DOWN IN THOSE COUNTRIES IN SPITE OF THEIR LEGALIZED MONOGAMOUS SOCIETY AND STRICT LAW AGAINST IT?

WHY IS THE REVERSE THE CASE IN COUNTRIES WHERE POLYGAMY IS "AN OPTION" AND LAWS ALLOW FOR DIVORCE YET, FAMILY VALUES REMAINS HIGHIER THAN THOSE CHAMPIONING MONOGAMY?

WHY IS IT THAT ON NAIRALAND, MOST OF THE CASES OF BROKEN HEARTS, CHEATINGS, AND FAMILY PROBLEMS ARE FROM THE APOSTLES OF MONOGAMY SINGLE/MARRIED?

WHY IS HIV/AIDS,BROKEN HOMES MORE PREVALENCE IN MONOGAMOUS COUNTRIES THAN POLYGAMOUS COUNTRIES?

Please, if you are so passionate about your defence of monogood and polybad, then do what the bible said: whatever that is of good judgement, "meditate upon" them,

I still posit that the reason some people avoid polygamy had not been mentioned so far by any of the "polybad, monogood" proponents. And that reason may have nothing to do with polygamy. So far, it is all sentiment and frustration.

Most people out there think differently. They believe in invincibility of love. But when that love shatter their fragile hearts they started hating opposite sexes and become another case study of broken love. I think a measure of common sense is absolutely desirable in love. To Love is a choice.

Tosin wole, I am happy for you. I am glad that you know how to spot the truth. Take note that no one said you can't have friend. Be wary of anythng, anyone that want to lead you to where you hate to be.
I wish you goodluck in your exam. My regard to your friends. See you at the top.

Men NOT boys! Can I enter?