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cocoama:
I don't know what to do any longer with myself and my life. I have been suffering from depression for as long as I can remember since my early school days but things just seems to be getting worse. I don't have any joy or happiness. I hate my job with a passion and I think am in the wrong profession too. I am not really close to my family and they don't understand me. There is so much going wrong in my life that I don't really want to go into nor I doubt people really care. I just don't want to feel this way anymore. Has anyone that has been depressed that has come out of it? What did you guys do? I really am down on my wits and am having really unsavory thoughts atm.

Come, I just came across ur profile and profile pic and I’ll be really really pissed � if u did any harm to ursef! I see u haven’t been here since 2916. Fine gal like u want to kii ursef? For what!!? Just chill lemme come and carry u to ur happily ever after jaré!

Dominiondominio:
I’m a 26 years old woman married to a 37 years old man. We have been married for almost 3 years.

We don’t have kids yet and 6 months ago I ended up in hospital with sepsis. The doctors originally thought it was caused by a kidney infection but later found that it was caused by Pelvic Inflammatory disease.

They repeatedly asked about my sexual history but I have only slept with one person in the past 3 years - my husband. I ended up having to have emergency surgery as the infection would not respond to the IV antibiotics they were giving me. I was in hospital for 10 days and have potential long- term damage which will affect my ability to have children.

I recently found out that my husband has cheated on me a number of times throughout our marriage and that the Pelvic inflammation was caused by untreated Gonorrhoea.

When I was discharged from hospital, he admitted that he has been cheating on me with a single mother of 4 (unprotected sex ) And he got the gonorrhea! How irresponsible! I am completely devastated and don't want to believe that the love of my life could be so callous. I very nearly died and if it were not for the brilliant doctors who quickly recognised my symptoms.

Of course the woman my husband got the gonorrhea from denied everything and I bet she won’t go get treated and will continue to spread this nasty and dangerous disease! She is done with having kids so why would she care, right?

Well, I do want to have kids and I won’t let my fertility and health taken away! the emotional damage caused by the infidelity itself is horrible. I feel angry, dirty, and ugly. All I want to do is cry all day. I can’t talk to anyone about it because I feel so ashamed. The person I trust the most is my mother but i don't want to break her heart. I know that to her my happiness matters the most and I think she would be angry at me the rest of her life if I told her that I still love my husband.

My husband feels remorseful and said he would never cheat on me again. He said he would choose me over any lifestyle and that he would give up everything for me. I have a very hard time trusting him again and I still don't know what I want from this whole thing. I just can't understand why my husband would have sex with a disgusting, nasty woman and betray me on so many levels. My pride got hurt so badly. I feel so ugly and worthless. My libido is absolutely gone. I feel empty inside. Then all the sudden I feel horrible, horrible anger and I want to break everything in sight. On some nights I can't sleep and sometimes I want to sleep all day. Most days I'm not even hungry and I have to force myself to eat something.

I feel like I will never be happy again. I used to be a happy, confident, bubbly person, now my zest for life is gone. Is this normal? Will these feelings ever go away?

Nope, never!

Abeg shift joor! Dis ya image laundry won’t work at all if u think blowing ur horn can be equated with philanthropy!! Go and beg Nigerian women on national tv first jaré, their swear nor get any other remedy. Bleached mofo, useless politician!

helinues:
Na Nokia 3310 you take took the pictures?

Brah, u fall ma hand gan!

PregnantlySingu:
My faince's ex said over her dead body will I get married to him, but I didn't even take that seriously . Fiance had a crash on his way to our introduction leaving me pregnant and alone. Beside myself in grief. Don't know if I should abort or leave it be so as to give it out to a good childless couple.

Just stick to Nairaland anytime ure feeling down, the comments here will definitely lift ur spirits up. Nairaland pipo dey crase in different colors. And if uve got big nyash I’ll marry u, my pastor say I go soon get plenty moni so no fear!

We many when don dey smoke dis igbó for this country!

NwaAmaikpe:



Yes Glaucoma is hereditary.
But unlike regular hereditary diseases, it makes sure the oil touches every branch on the genetic tree.

For example.
If A suffers from Glaucoma, A's first cousin will too. And if A's first cousin does, his nephew will too.
If A's first cousin's nephew gets glaucoma, then his grandchild could too.

So it is indirectly hereditary.
It can not be cured because it is caused by a damage to the eye nerves due to increased occular pressure.
It can only be managed if detected early, also note that nerve damages caused by Glaucoma are non reversible.
These nerve damages deteriorate till you eventually stop seeing evils.

Never in the history of Nigeria has there been a rise in glaucoma as we have it today.
This is because, 'Man dey see too many things these days' unlike in the past.

How can a man watch porn, ejaculate frequently with his eyes squinting each time he does.
Or walk on the streets seeing different shapes of yanshes and encountering police brutality without his eye pressure rising?

The only way to prevent Glaucoma is by resting your eyes a bit more.
Don't open your eyes too wide when you see big yansh and don't close your eyes too tight if you want to cum.
Don't also wake up at night to read your partner's WhatsApp messages because a High Blood Pressure can also trigger Glaucoma.

Most importantly, visit an eye clinic periodically for routine checks because Glaucoma can wake up one morning and remember your address.

Thank me later because I am too busy with fvckery.

Classic Nwamaikpe!

AlhajiImam:
America will soon lose its so called world power status very soon. Because we children of Allah can never be conquered. We don't attack but we sure will defend ourselves

How much have these foreign 'children of Allah' contributed to alleviating poverty in ur region? Or how many troops have they sent since to fight the terrorists killing other Muslims there? It’s amusing to note that it’s the same so called 'evil West' that tops all of ur Muslim brother nations combined in sending aid to IDPs in ur region. Religion only plays a role when they want to herd the crowd to achieve their aims, mostly aims that favors the elites and not the crowd! Oga pls look beyond what u have been programmed to believe and realize that ur fight is not the same as theirs. Even if u guys succeed in ur plot, will what u have in place bring about a better Nigeria? Wake up from ur slumber, ure boldly sleeping on the bicycle!

Abeg edit that 'Arsenal like gunner' away from it biko!

AlhajiImam:
Trump will die for destabilizing the middle east.

ALL these battwhes raising against we Muslims will backfire him. Nobody can conquer the sons of Allah

And this is why u can’t get visa to the US no more. U think Iran feels any affinity to u because of religion? No Muslim country gives a rat’s ass about u once u don’t have anything to offer. Does Dubai give u free visa because ure a Muslim? Don’t go and think about how u can help to free ur country from poverty and terrorist leaders. Be here chooking mouth were dey nor call u!

The army needs to do something about the discipline and lack of morals among its personnel. From cadets assaulting civilians for as little as complimenting the females to males blocking traffic just to take selfies and officer brutality unleashed on hapless citizens for not getting out of their way quickly enough to even rape cases because the female citizen dyed her hair and wore something revealing. In short, they’re just behaving like European mercenary soldiers of the 17th century who were no different from armed brigands.

But what can we expect sef, when the higher ups are busy gorging themselves on blood money from the anti-terror war, no time to bother with discipline.

In Cross River State, naval officers shot up a police station and killed police men because of an altercation with a traffic cop, last year an army captain ordered soldiers at a check point to kill police men on duty to free a criminal, a family has lost their breadwinner, his children made fatherless because someone felt insecure about a girlfriend.

The buck stops at the Chief of Army Staff’s table and the president won’t change him in spite of all these unfortunate affairs, not to talk of the fact that he can’t even do his security job well sef! Naija na real shithole! Defend this country and it’s blood sucking leaders at ur own peril!

hisexcellency34:
Just three years ago Davido, Tiwa Savage, Wizkid and Burna boy met me in Dubai and were begging me for autographs....of course, I declined.

They begged harder and people around had to Intervened before I reluctantly did it for them

Last year I hooked up with a random girl I struck a conversation with in a bar in Abuja. She left in the morning after dropping her number on my phone but I somehow lost it. I saw her later on tv and realized it was Naomi Campbell! Pls share until it gets to her, she said she loves me

Oga ure not on self exile, u jump bail! Wait first, presidential pardon from Jubril or Muhammadu, which of them will sign it?

Lives well spent

CAN THIS HAPPEN IN NIGERIA?
Ghanaian former Republican President Dr Jerry Rawlings has revealed that the Malawian Constitutional Court judges refused a USS$20 Million bribe which he claimed was awarded to the judges for them to quash the case in favour of incumbent President Peter Mutarika.
In a 500 paged judgement delivered for more than 10 hours, the constitutional court judges came to the conclusion the May 21, 2019 General Elections were null and void and further asked the Malawi Electoral Commission to organise fresh elections within 150 days from the declaration.

Rawlings congratulated the independent manner in which the decision was arrived at by the Malawian Concourt

The former Ghanaian head of state said this landmark judgement has proven that Malawi is indeed governed by rule of law.
“I have been following the elections case in Malawi. Once again, this tiny Southern African country has proven to the whole world that it is governed by rule of law. A few minutes ago, the Court has nullified last years presidential elections.
You may argue with me that such similar nullification has occured before in Kenya. But I challenge that the Malawi case is unprecedented” he said;
“There were bribery allegations. The Judges stood for the truth and could not accept any money from any politician. We are told that a sum of about US$20 million was offered to the Judges but they refused and decided to uphold the rule of law. If that same money was given to some Nigerian Judges, they would have sold the whole country, including selling Nigerians abroad. But the Malawian Judges stood firm on the truth.

I admire the Malawi Judiciary which stands for the truth. As Ghanaians, there is a lot we can learn from the Malawi experience.
Congratulations to the people of Malawi”

Giant of Africa in corruption & nepotism, how market? Can this be said of our judiciary? Ihedioha better to save the small change way u still get because the last hope of the common man is now just an arm of the ruling party!

majamajic:
Apart from all that , the designer's grandchildren can come up to tell your grandchildren how their grandpapa Co founded the company with your grandpapa

MILF

press9jatv:
exactly, this is what Nigerians are saying.

Won’t work, immunity clause.

O boy na China product Man U dey base on now? Chai! Chai!! Chai!!! Glory Glory don turn gory gory! Ed Woodward, ur real fada der!

Both of them dey lie on the why of the purchase! That buy was strictly for kpanshing when the going was good!

Just apply Baba Solo wisdom divide am from roof to foundation into two! Director Lagos State Emergency Management no fit manage small emergency for en private life, na state own e go manage well? Abeg lemme come and be going joor, the trekking this evening no go easy!

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Buhari my real niggarrr

A Man with balls
The journey of a thousand kilometres begin with a step
Slow and steady we will get there

Get where? Balls to stop his kinsmen from killing off the middle belters, balls to save this nation from disintegration or just to hang uselessly from his groin!? Niggarrr shiiiiiift joor!

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

What da fuckkkk!

being human is about having the right to be who you are.
Don't discriminate against homosexuals

Nigerians are hypocrites. They are all claiming to be straight like spaghetti. Not until you heat spaghetti up before you realize it is not straight......
Damnnnnn.... Niggarrr........

Even the heterosexuality is not normal
It's just common

I bang ladies anyday anytime but that doesn't mean i should not respect homosexuals

So tell us which one is normal again?

Ade24682:
This your damn niggarr is becoming stale o. In fact your entire comment is now getting stale.

Savage! Wickedness!!

Renforce:
Lol! They wanna shove a christian suicide bomber down her throats
Thank you FFK!
Vulture meat seller please over to you. Come and rain curses on your oga boys

Where will Jennifer get her Gucci and Versace from now!? Problem!!!

mrvitalis:
The informed you 10 months ago ...you are now setting committee now to save face abi what ?

And one idiot said he is suppressed about our security situation

How in heavens name was I convinced to support buhari in 2015 ?

Don’t feel bad, u were amongst the many that were duped by paid social media handlers/e-warriors. A little research on the kind of leader he was back in the day, or the fact that since then he had made little or no effort to improve himself in anyway would have saved u from feeling like dis today.

Which tribe in Kaduna bears two English names? Keep fooling yourselves in the hope that you’re fooling the international community, nothing is hidden under the sun for long.

Built2last:
Every tyrannical regime is premised on certain pillars from which it derive its oxygen. Sometimes, it is the religious Elites who make themselves available as a spiritual pillar to the evil regime. Other times, it is the traditional Elites. But since Africa became hopelessly addicted to religion, bad rulers now prefer having religious leaders as their main backer. Because the govt knows they control the people by virtue of their claim to hearing directly from God, the govt no longer bothers trying to gain the trust of the people. They simply find a way of controlling the religious men who control the people. If you want to truly fight any autocratic and murderous regime, just identify its pillars and fight them first.

In Buhari's murderous and terrorist friendly regime, Pastor Enoch Adeboye is the religious pillar. Adeboye is not alone. There is another yahoo yahoo pigeon man in Enugu who goes by the name - Mbaka. And there is another elderly clergy known as Kumuyi who once enjoined Nigerians never to criticize President Buhari. If you are looking for three religious dealers providing the spiritual oxygen for the sustainance of the Buhari regime, do not look beyond these three men. But Adeboye and Mbaka are the most visible. Of course, there are numerous Imams playing exactly the same role for the govt by brainwashing people in their mosque with the idiotic narrative that the insecurity in the North is a divine punishment from Allah for some unnamed sin.

It is not enough to bow to pressure and join the protest against insecurity, it is more important to do so HONESTLY and GENUINELY by blaming the security problem on the President and Commander-In-Chief just like the CAN President did today instead of hiding behind God to shield Buhari from blame. Let's face it, our Security challenges are man made. It is solely caused by President Muhammadu Buhari. When you are busy releasing arrested Boko Haram terrorists back into their business of terrorism and at the same time providing state cover for fulani terrorist herdsmen, HOW DO YOU EXPECT YOUR COUNTRY NOT TO BE BEDEEVILLED BY INSECURITY

Pastor Enoch Adeboye should stop that silly and deceptively hypocritical game of telling us that God is the only person that can solve the security challenges. God has nothing to do with this. Adeboye should, instead, talk to his friend, Buhari and advice him to stop brazenly and blatantly empowering Boko Haram by releasing arrested members of the group in the name of rehabilitation. Adeboye should prevail on Buhari to prosecute the Fulani terrorist herdsmen and label Miyetti Allah a terrorist organizations. There is no security problem we are facing that is not linked to either Boko Haram or the Fulani terrorist herdsmen. And THE BUHARI REGIME IS OPENLY IN BED WITH THESE TWO TERRORIST GROUPS. Is Adeboye not aware Why is he linking to God what is clearly Buhari's fault?

Sometimes, speaking truth works magic than insincere prayers aimed at deceiving the people. In the Biblical days of old, men of God were the conscience of the soceity. They feared no one. They spoke truth to power. When King David murdered Uriah and took his wife, prophet Nathan came straight to him and told him his evil to his face. Jeremiah was called the weeping Prophet for a reason. Elijah, Elisha and even John the Baptist nko? Those men spoke truth to power. Today, we have our own men of God who would rather tell us to pray to God to solve our Security problem because they are in some intercourse with the same govt directly responsible for the Security problem.

The same Bible Adeboye reads says in Psalm 31:8,

“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves; ensure justice for those being crushed”

Where is Justice for Evangelist Eunice Elisha who was one of Adeboye's Pastor butchered right here on the street of Abuja for preaching in a street that houses a mosque with the Police releasing all those arrested for her murder?

Where is justice for Bridget Agbohime beheaded in Kano with the Kano state govt declaring that her killers have no case to answer, thus forcing the kano magistrate court to free those arrested for her murder.

As a stake holder in the Buhari govt, having 'donated' one of his Pastors as the VeePee, why didn't Adeboye insist on justice for the above victims since their killers are all known?? Of what use is his connection and frequent visit to Buhari of he can't use it to champion justice for victims of those religious killings??

See eh, we need to stop being foolish Christians who hand everything over to God because we are either too scared to talk to the govt enabling this killing or we are too compromised to care.

Buhari is doing exactly the job of an ethno-religious fundamentalist and that is why he remains popular amongst his fellow ethno-religious irredentists. Boko Haram is doing its own job of killing and maiming and beheading mainly people of opposite faith and moderate Muslims. The Fulani herdsmen are doing theirs. Everyone of them is protecting their constituency. People like Adeboye who are Christian leaders and are supposed to act like the good Shepherd who lays down his life for his sheep are doing exactly the opposite. Why?

In a situation where human lives are being wasted, you can't afford to be here and there at the same time. It is either you are with the people in which case, you will join them in calling on the Commander-In-Chief to stop empowering terrorists killing innocent people or you are on the side of the evil regime in which case, you will shy away from even mentioning the govt but be busy creating the devilish and misleading impression that the security breakdown is divinely inspired and would require divine intervention.

Enough of this deception, please!

God bless you sir!

After upgrading and following all ur instructions, how much will the maximum option now be?

What did Nigerians expect to happen after the dolts in the presidency & senate threw our doors open with the misguided visa free policy!

If ure always coming over to my place to watch soccer and u suddenly decide to befriend a family of known rapists & kidnappers to the extent of adopting them, why should you be shocked when I tell u to stop coming to my place!

Brief, concise and straight to the point! You really should go to 'he who u didn’t name' to learn how to write open letters to politicians.

However, Mr Adesina is just doing his job and I don’t see why people expect him to perform any less. His job is not to agree with public opinion or the opposition, the buck stops at the president’s desk!

Consequently, Nigerians can be likened to a young lady that employs a danfo driver and expects him to serve like a chauffeur! You can’t eat ur cake on Election Day and expect it to still be waiting whole in the fridge for the term! The masses need to stop acting like their powerless, this is supposed to be a democracy not a fulanitocracy! Get ur senators and reps to act on ur behalf and stop going to them for handouts like their being paid just to feed u peanuts when u come begging!