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Health / Re: Daily Exercise And Food Routine For Those Who Want To Lose Weight by oluite(f): 9:53am On Nov 15, 2012 |
mightlove: hey guys, am loving the level of activity i see on this thread. I can see we are all doing great. Wow that is nice and explains it.Thanks Mightlove and don't worry too much about weight for now so far mum and baby are doing well there is plenty of time to drop it.Wishing you and Ronky a happy and healthy 40 weeks. |
Health / Re: Daily Exercise And Food Routine For Those Who Want To Lose Weight by oluite(f): 10:01am On Nov 13, 2012 |
Hello everyone,i hope you are doing good.I have been silent for a while.Please how is Ronke doing?I haven't seen her logs in a while now. Hope she is okay? @all Well done and thank you for all the infos.God bless. |
Family / Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by oluite(f): 1:34pm On Nov 06, 2012 |
Happy Belated Birthday Uncle Seru,Wishing a very happy and fulfilling year ahead. @Edakedkey It is well with you.We all irrespective of our age,tribe or what have you go through one thing or the other in Life.Its what i refer to as the mystery of life.Everybody goes through these things.This thread is all about that.God will continually watch over you and your family.You will share your beautiful future here so please look forward to that. |
Family / Re: Which Family Section Thread Should Win Thread Of The Year & Why? by oluite(f): 12:32am On Oct 31, 2012 |
Number 1-Adjusting to Life as a widower Thread is just great with such depht,had so much impact on me,so many lessons learnt.True life Journey of Serubawon,you can just feel the lows and highs,the turns and twist.The happy future not ending.Thread is devoid of the usual NL hurling of insults and I guess its because one justs connects and even becomes protective of the thread and Uncle Seru. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Debrief, cotton101 and those that came out alive. Got A Few Questions For You. by oluite(f): 12:52pm On Oct 29, 2012 |
Busy_body: Please why couldn't the others infer this?Was it easier to keep asking consistently what debrief did on her part to cause the abuse?! Please Uncle Seru come and post your take.I would love to hear it as would others as well. |
Family / Re: Debrief, cotton101 and those that came out alive. Got A Few Questions For You. by oluite(f): 10:42pm On Oct 27, 2012 |
Ihedinobi: I'm yet to find a woman that can challenge me and is conscious of the fact that her own opinion counts like mine. When I do, I'm gettin my a.ss married so fast we'll be in a swoon ever after EPIC |
Family / Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by oluite(f): 12:46pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
I love that analysis by Uncle Analytical,deep. Leave it! Spot on the mel vulnerability thing. Goes to show why this is my favorite thread on NL. |
Family / Re: I Dey Vex by oluite(f): 11:59pm On Sep 23, 2012 |
@OP I can very well relate to this because I am still work in progress myself.These people don't know how you feel or pretend not to,you have to let them know.People that take advantage of people hardly ever stop on their own,you have to make them stop.When you are hurting this much,its no more helping.These are some of the things,I say to myself. The excuse of they will be leaving soon I have used it myself but you will miserable for the duration.don't be suprised to see them again because for them your place is fun and they will back if you don't deal with this.I am all for helping out but boundaries are very important. |
Health / Re: Just Confirmed I Am HIV Positive by oluite(f): 1:10pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Its just an idea,maybe there should be a support thread.It will be very helpful to encourage and share ideas et al.There are other successful support threads here for TTC(trying to conceive),losing weight,pregnancy,ivf treatments and it really does help. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Life For A Woman After A Divorce.... by oluite(f): 5:48pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
I am happy you are stronger than yesterday and i am so sure you will pull through You are so strong and you have inspired many including me Sometimes i look at your thread say to myself see her strength Why cant i be strong Grieve,rant,cry all you want You are in my prayers Stay Strong 1 Like |
Family / Re: Life For A Woman After A Divorce.... by oluite(f): 4:18pm On Sep 10, 2012 |
pslm23: Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement. This is indeed a road i never thought i'd walk! When i said "I Do" to him, i fully intended to stay married forever. What this has taught me though is that we as humans might have our own pre-conceived ideas on how we want our lives to turn out but in the long run,God has the ultimate say so! All those surgeries!!! |
Family / Re: Life For A Woman After A Divorce.... by oluite(f): 3:27pm On Sep 10, 2012 |
Like armyofone i love medical stuffs I have admired your Strength and prayed for you as i followed all through your Journey. You are an epitome of Strength. I don't know what to say except a prayer for you. 1 Like |
Family / Re: beware of craddle-robbers by oluite(f): 4:01pm On Sep 03, 2012 |
Ify and Efemena have raised a very important point I recently had to do some research on this,it brought me many tears and painfully these molesters go free maybe after cooling off for a few weeks in custody(i.e if it gets that far).Unfortunately they walk to the next child. So much perceived secrecy,shame and stigma so some parents seem think its best to leave it,do nothing so as not to shame the child!! The shame,stigma should be on the abuser! We need understand that doing nothing simply means consenting to another child being molested |
Health / Re: Daily Exercise And Food Routine For Those Who Want To Lose Weight by oluite(f): 10:59am On Sep 03, 2012 |
Hello Everyone,i see you are all doing good.Well done with all the portion control and exercise.Weight shall surely drop o. I haven't been posting my logs for a while,my phone mysteriously walka from my bag Lagos style. I have some good news,i was able to weigh after months on friday,i weighed 75kg i couldn't believe it,weighed again 75kg,then went to ask if the scale was working.Don't mind me,prior to this time most of my cloths don't fit,i even had to resize a few but i didn't know i had reached 75kg,height is 5'8 so BMI is 25.1.(overweight )I still need to drop more,hopefully get to 70kg or compromise at 72kg..Waiting to hear better success stories than mine from everyone.Stay blessed. |
Family / Re: My Husband Wants Me To Have An Abortion . I Want A Divorce by oluite(f): 4:00pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
^Please Kindly post more lessons on how to curb an abusive |
Religion / Re: Praying For Your Enemies To Die, Is It Right Or Wrong? by oluite(f): 2:49pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
@ OP See this Psalm 109 by the Psalmist especially verse 6 1Hold not thy peace, O God of my praise; 2For the mouth of the wicked and the mouth of the deceitful are opened against me: they have spoken against me with a lying tongue. 3They compassed me about also with words of hatred; and fought against me without a cause. 4For my love they are my adversaries: but I give myself unto prayer. 5And they have rewarded me evil for good, and hatred for my love. 6[b]Set thou a wicked man over him: and let Satan stand at his right hand. [/b] 7When he shall be judged, let him be condemned: and let his prayer become sin. 8Let his days be few; and let another take his office. 9Let his children be fatherless, and his wife a widow. 10Let his children be continually vagabonds, and beg: let them seek their bread also out of their desolate places. 11Let the extortioner catch all that he hath; and let the strangers spoil his labour. 12Let there be none to extend mercy unto him: neither let there be any to favour his fatherless children. 13Let his posterity be cut off; and in the generation following let their name be blotted out. 14Let the iniquity of his fathers be remembered with the LORD; and let not the sin of his mother be blotted out. 15Let them be before the LORD continually, that he may cut off the memory of them from the earth. 16Because that he remembered not to shew mercy, but persecuted the poor and needy man, that he might even slay the broken in heart. 17As he loved cursing, so let it come unto him: as he delighted not in blessing, so let it be far from him. 18As he clothed himself with cursing like as with his garment, so let it come into his bowels like water, and like oil into his bones. 19Let it be unto him as the garment which covereth him, and for a girdle wherewith he is girded continually. 20Let this be the reward of mine adversaries from the LORD, and of them that speak evil against my soul. 21But do thou for me, O GOD the Lord, for thy name's sake: because thy mercy is good, deliver thou me. 22For I am poor and needy, and my heart is wounded within me. 23I am gone like the shadow when it declineth: I am tossed up and down as the locust. 24My knees are weak through fasting; and my flesh faileth of fatness. 25I became also a reproach unto them: when they looked upon me they shaked their heads. 26Help me, O LORD my God: O save me according to thy mercy: 27That they may know that this is thy hand; that thou, LORD, hast done it. 28Let them curse, but bless thou: when they arise, let them be ashamed; but let thy servant rejoice. 29Let mine adversaries be clothed with shame, and let them cover themselves with their own confusion, as with a mantle. 30I will greatly praise the LORD with my mouth; yea, I will praise him among the multitude. 31For he shall stand at the right hand of the poor, to save him from those that condemn his soul. Even Psalm 69 especially verses 27-28 What is your take on these prayers by the psalmist? |
Religion / Re: Pastor-Chris Erects Massive Billboard Of Professions by oluite(f): 3:11pm On Aug 24, 2012 |
Gombs: There's a serious dyslexic case here... 1.Why would he encourage this? 2.He did touch lives through JESUS CHRIST,i don't see Jesus celebrated Seems more like ''imagine if he(pastor) were all these professions"where will you be today? meaning If he were all these professions,you will be nowhere ni? No emphasis on GOD?Who is using him?God or himself? @Topic I kinda of lost the surprise thing with the video on youtube where ma..st..urba..tion was said to be an unclean habit and not a sin against God. Today's believers must read the word of God,read the word of God and read the word of God. |
Family / Re: My Husband Forgot My Birthday :-( by oluite(f): 5:32pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
^^ You can say that again.I laughed till i had tears,in between had to double check gender.Chei!! Congrats on your son's fantastic result,he will continually bring you Joy.Amen. |
Family / Re: My Husband Forgot My Birthday :-( by oluite(f): 11:24am On Aug 23, 2012 |
^^ Entertaining you meant? |
Family / Re: My Husband Forgot My Birthday :-( by oluite(f): 3:52pm On Aug 17, 2012 |
Did you celebrate any Birthday say during courtship? |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by oluite(f): 10:13am On Aug 15, 2012 |
knotty: Materialism ko, raw material ni. We can have our values back,it starts from me and you...all of us |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by oluite(f): 10:09am On Aug 15, 2012 |
obowunmi: Yes I believe Nigerians have lost their moral standards. But I strongly believe that it is a MYTH promoted by Nollywood and such and many of you have come to believe it as real. I actually didn't state materialistic,Topic was actually where did our daughters learn this? This attitude and behavior which i further described "Recently i was so embarrassed when some guys in my office where complaining about todays chics, a guy travelled with his girlfriend for a wedding,he paid all expenses.Suddenly the girlfriend sister and friend appeared in the airport expecting the guy to foot their travel expenses as they claimed to be stranded.These are all working class ladies.Of course no plan to pay back and his girl friend didn't see anything wrong in this arrangement.Another time,a young working class girl ended a relationship majorly because the guy couldn't give her a specific amount for her monthly upkeep. Please she knew exactly what he was earning as well and it wasn't so fantastic?! I heard and seen many of such from young working women,only to come across a thread here with something similar...." I do know that these women can afford these things but some reason maybe a wrong value system,greed or some misconception that the man(you are not married to) in a relationship must foot all your bills and those of friends and family.Nowhere did i implied that every young unmarried woman is materialistic. My reply to warrior @Warrior, Many women still marry for love and they are everywhere.Just keep looking. Basically we are saying the same thing only i want to emphasis on what can be done to correct this mindset of those who believe and feel this attitude is right.This trend is practically the in thing now,almost everywhere you go you see it,it is in our homes,family's,offices... |
Family / Re: Men Learn From My Mistakes by oluite(f): 4:50pm On Aug 14, 2012 |
debrief08: God is so kind,gracious and merciful.Thank God for this wonderful testimony. God will continually bless you and your husband |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by oluite(f): 4:32pm On Aug 14, 2012 |
@Krest, Its more of a problem with our value system,a system where morals and values rank at the very bottom and money at the very top. debrief08[b:Abi how else can one explain this? @Efemena, Aristo is an older,wealthier,married man friend more like a sugar daddy. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by oluite(f): 3:49pm On Aug 14, 2012 |
andromida: True |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by oluite(f): 3:44pm On Aug 14, 2012 |
@Efemena, Thats an insightful thread,trust CC,am still going through it. @Seasoned mum, I don't even want to think of the aristo business,its almost normal today to have one aristo and a boyfriend by the side ! Tgirl4real: What you mentioned is now the order of the day. In the real sense of it, they are not our daughters. They are our colleagues, neighbors, and sometimes friends.So right.. @Warrior, Many women still marry for love and they are everywhere.Just keep looking. 1 Like |
Family / Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by oluite(f): 12:56pm On Aug 14, 2012 |
Growing up as a young girl,it was unheard of to live beyond your pocket money,questions will be asked if your hairdo was too expensive or you have what my mum calls 'unusuals' in your wardrobe or amongst your stuff.Accepting gifts from guys,wahala!!!There must be an acceptable explanation.Talk less of actually asking a guy for money.It was drummed into our ears you must have values,be contented,work hard,be independent et al. Recently i was so embarrassed when some guys in my office where complaining about todays chics, a guy travelled with his girlfriend for a wedding,he paid all expenses.Suddenly the girlfriend sister and friend appeared in the airport expecting the guy to foot their travel expenses as they claimed to be stranded.These are all working class ladies.Of course no plan to pay back and his girl friend didn't see anything wrong in this arrangement.Another time,a young working class girl ended a relationship majorly because the guy couldn't give her a specific amount for her monthly upkeep. Please she knew exactly what he was earning as well and it wasn't so fantastic?! I heard and seen many of such from young working women,only to come across a thread here with something similar.Mothers can we discuss this? How did this become the in thing today,where many working single women expect the men in their lives to foot all their bills? Maybe some women are not aware that this is not a good attitude and there should always be balance,boundaries.... 48 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: A Man Who Expects Good Food & Doesn't Drop Money by oluite(f): 5:54pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill: I swear I am fearing this marriage thingy oh!! I've not put much thought into so many thing, okay scratch that, it is not like I haven't given much thought to them, I've always had the impression that there are some things that are a given. Can't say i blame you?With the real life marriage tales here on family section!I have the shivers myself |
Family / Re: . by oluite(f): 3:59pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
@witty and adetoks When i read both your post,i was like are you guys for real?This issue seemed pretty trivial to me!Unnecessary even But from your past post and topics witty, it seems you have been carrying a grudge for a while? This also reeks of major communication issues. You said your wife is sanguine and you are melancholic,Sanguine's are generally friendly, enjoy talking and being the center of attention. A Melancholic are generally perfectionist,emotional and words get to them and they are constantly analyzing things. I believe who you are is dependent on you despite these temperament thing,God helping you. You both need to talk this out before it escalates any further... I go with dare2think you owe your wife an apology,you actually implied she might have a medical history?Haba!This is your better half we are talking about Sometimes I wish I could share those issues with someone but I never did because I feel they are so insignificant but you always read so much meaning to my remarks or actions. Your wife from her post feels you over-analyse things You feel she doesn't know how to talk and is full of herself Communicate please and come to an understanding Why are your both hurting yourself?and over what? Is it that important? What will you gain?Cant you work this out? What is the whole point of this? the glass?the book? Come on guys? |
Health / Re: My Pregnancy Story by oluite(f): 11:50am On Aug 02, 2012 |
Your testimony is so amazing left me speechless and emotional.Its a miracle and God truly honors faith in his word.Thanking God for giving you the grace to hold on.Congrats on this wonderful miracle.God bless you,your precious gift from God and your entire family.Please kindly share this link on TTC thread |
Family / Re: Congratulations Debrief On Your New Bouncing Baby Boy by oluite(f): 12:23pm On Jul 25, 2012 |
debrief08: chaircover: That thread was deep and so emotional for me,i couldn't sleep well.Debrief,I don't know the word that can qualify and describe you and your husband.This is more than forgiveness.God bless you.Life is indeed a deep mystery. |
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