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Family / Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by oluite(f): 10:12am On Sep 23, 2011 |
serubawon: I have been following this thread for a while. The bolded part are way serious issues which shocked and suprised me but thank God you noticed and broke up. God bless you for always thinking of your children,not many men will.I believe some day you will find happiness,keep hope alive by praying to God for that special woman,she exists. |
Family / Re: Women Who Choose To Have Cesarean . . . by oluite(f): 4:04pm On Sep 14, 2011 |
2 children. |
Family / Re: Women Who Choose To Have Cesarean . . . by oluite(f): 12:38pm On Sep 14, 2011 |
@OP I know of someone who had all babies via CS because she said its Straightforward and far better,not for any medical reason.Another Pharmacist relative after watching an emergency live CS section told me the same thing only she quickly changed her mind when we went visiting and saw the terrible pain the lady who had the CS was in. For me its whichever is safer at the time of delivery either CS or natural birth so far mother and child are alive and doing well. |
Business / Re: The Customer Service Name And Shame Thread by oluite(f): 3:51pm On Aug 23, 2011 |
MyJoe: Funny in retrospect i guess. |
Business / Re: The Customer Service Name And Shame Thread by oluite(f): 11:39am On Aug 23, 2011 |
Bad Customer Service First Bank Opp Wuse market-I was on a very long queue for over 30mins,i became pressed and ask for the convenience i was politely directed to another security guard who directed me to another guard who finally showed me a nearby bush!!!I was shocked and left the bank,didn't bother to join the queue. |
Family / Re: Should I Report These Kids? by oluite(f): 4:37pm On Aug 22, 2011 |
I strongly suspect that the girl is being sexually abused and flogging her is not the right way to handle this.It will only cause her to withdraw, shutdown and assume the abuse is her fault.I initially thought she must have watched her parents or some other adults or some movie but ficoram:Where does a 6 year old then learn penetration? |
Health / Re: Fertility And Issues With Conception? Get Your Answers Here. by oluite(f): 4:22pm On Aug 22, 2011 |
blank: That will be a welcome development but don't be too surprised if he comes up with a new id. I always wondered how a doctor will have time to play 20 questions and be online always,its rather unfortunate that an individual will go through the TTC thread and decide to play doctor at the risk of a fellow human being health,emotions et al. |
Family / Re: My Wife And I Have Fought Again And I Think I Want Out by oluite(f): 11:11am On Aug 22, 2011 |
jennykadry: oh! CC?? Well,i prefer him walking out on her like he just did, Some women sha!!smh, |
Family / Re: Why Is There So Much Hate On The Family Forum? by oluite(f): 10:52am On Aug 22, 2011 |
@OP you are very right!Things were not this bad,the family section used to be a very sane section.i don't want to say gone are the days.I sincerely hope with this thread things will be resolved.Can we please be civil? |
Family / Re: My Wife And I Have Fought Again And I Think I Want Out by oluite(f): 10:39am On Aug 22, 2011 |
imconfused:Gbam!! I was especially shocked at CC and Jenny Comments!!!I knew something was amiss when CC said the wife should be slapped back.I get where you guys are coming from,the family section used to be one of the sane,matured section in nairaland,i will give anything to have it back, unfortunately this is public forum and we all cant help but watch the craziness slowly seeping into the family section.I have censored my eyes not read some ids comments.The bitterness and hatred are blinding @arrangee if this is reallife situation,i am with you on moving out for a while. |
Politics / Re: EFCC Wants Churches To Investigate The Sources Of Huge Tithes by oluite(f): 2:01pm On Aug 17, 2011 |
Rather interesting to chase "rats"while the "lions" are sleeping!Recently we all watched how the bank-ole matter was swept under the carpets,such related matters have been swept under the carpets in the past.Now its church EFCC wants to put eye on!! |
Family / Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by oluite(f): 10:54am On Aug 17, 2011 |
jennykadry:Kai you harsh o!!! |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by oluite(f): 4:16pm On Aug 16, 2011 |
mogbomoya: I was so touched when i read this though addressed to Arlington,You have to be very very careful when you are dealing with people especially online.Your alarm bells ringing should have never been ignored,its your body way of saying sit back and re access the situation,do more research,ask more questions,ask the moderators. Information is a click away thanks to the internet so because one seems knowledgeable is not enough.Did he do a physical,run you through test,ask for your medical history? Gynecologist and fertility specialist are usually very busy people (and will probably not follow you around)and very professional! Everything you said screams unprofessionalism!Please don't be desperate,God will surely answer you.I have a close friend that is TTC and its not easy but with God all things are possible,I advise you to go see a specialist just to be on the safe side,you refered to a mixture.Please stay blessed and safe. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by oluite(f): 5:02pm On Aug 15, 2011 |
@nemesis please stick with chaircover advice. I think you came on too strong,guys enjoy the hunt no matter how hard they pretend they don't! |
Family / Re: My Fear Of Delivery by oluite(f): 11:59am On Aug 09, 2011 |
Outstrip:ROTFLMAO! |
Health / Re: For Those Of Us Who Want To Loose Weight Lets Start Our Diary Here by oluite(f): 10:54am On Aug 02, 2011 |
NYSC / Re: Boko Haram Bombs NYSC Orientation Camp In Maiduguri by oluite(f): 3:59pm On Jul 13, 2011 |
I really cannot understand how some people chose to be reckless with their lives! If the government and the NYSC has shown gross insensitivity by posting corpers to such states,why must one walk into the Lions Den all in the name of Job and discharge certificate? Every day bombs and bombs and more bombs!Yet young graduate travel to such states in the name of NYSC! After now 5millions will be given to families of the victims, |
NYSC / Re: Guys Posted To Boko Haram States On Nysc - Please Register Here For Network. by oluite(f): 3:44pm On Jul 13, 2011 |
mamasani:I am sure you have heard that University of Maiduguri has been closed indefinitely and the NYSC orientation camp has been bombed by Boko harem. |
Romance / Re: Can You Take The Risk Of Marrying A Genotype Incompartible Partner? by oluite(f): 10:37am On Jul 12, 2011 |
I cant do that any child.I have seen first hand the horrible pain sickler's suffer during crisis,drugs only help make it a kind of manageable pain, |
Religion / Re: Nigerian Christians Open Hostility Against Islam by oluite(f): 3:45pm On Jul 06, 2011 |
Jon.Bee:Growing up,i didn't realize there was such a huge difference between Christians and Muslims,we had Muslim friends we ate and had sleep overs.We respected each other.Today i hear both christian and Muslim mothers warning off their children from being friends.What changed?The religious crisis that has become rampant over the years,painfully many Christians are the victims of such attacks.Now for me i think if we have been living peacefully and respecting each others beliefs and religion,many people will not say much about Islamic banking. Most of this utterances apart from a few come basically because religious crisis and killings in recent times have made many Christians defensive and protective of anything that has Islamic connotations being brought into the system.Can we just stop killing each other for whatever reasons? |
NYSC / Re: Guys Posted To Boko Haram States On Nysc - Please Register Here For Network. by oluite(f): 10:52am On Jul 04, 2011 |
mamasani:Seriously?Well i for one haven't forgotten what happened during the just concluded elections,some corpers lost their lives in a Police station!Then the insensitively of the government and NYSC.I remember clearly the shocking report of the Bauchi State governor saying it's their destiny! Like superior said ONLY THE LIVING WILL COLLECT NYSC CERTIFICATE, Is your life equivalent to 5 million naira? The fact that young people are sent to these states just some few months after the loss of lives of corpers shows GROSS INSENSITIVITY on the part of government and NYSC as a whole.That other young people are actually considering going to these states?i simply cannot comprehend! |
Family / Re: Closed Thread by oluite(f): 2:19pm On May 24, 2011 |
@ OP Just want to share this with you.At about that age i had a friend that wanted to get married,i thought it was rather early but she insisted.The family reached a compromise and allowed her to get married ahead of her two elder sisters with the guy assuring the family that her education will be taken care of.I saw her some years back,she was very heavy with two adorable children and staying at her sisters.There had been some misunderstanding she told me and no education yet,hubby wanted her to have children first.This from a well educated man with a high flying job!There are no Yes or No answers in issues like this.It might turn out alright or it might not.I just think if he loves her so much he should wait until she is in 200Level at the very least. |
Family / Re: Is This What Happens In Serious Relationships? by oluite(f): 1:46pm On May 24, 2011 |
jennykadry:ROTLMAO @OP Forget about what people will think or say and concentrate on YOU. Afterall bad marriages make for juicy gossips in family parties as well. Which do you prefer happy single or abused depressed married? |
Romance / Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls So Money-conscious? by oluite(f): 2:46pm On May 23, 2011 |
@OP What you want is what you get, There are many nice girls but ofcourse they are dry,boring and not fun as most guys seem to think, These girls you are rolling with are materialistic whether working class or not and its all about the highest bidder to them!A place like Abj what do you expect, expensive towns with men happy to throw money at girls.You should sit down with girls,you hear jist of girls getting rides from guys and getting transport fare of 30k with a complimentary card attached!!!! PLAIN RIDICULOUS!!! |
Health / Re: How Do I Get Rid Of Unwanted Pregnancy. by oluite(f): 5:07pm On May 18, 2011 |
Please keep the pregnancy.Its a blessing.You should take a look at the TTC thread,many times i have almost wept reading that thread. |
Politics / Re: The Unrest Is Over - North Pacified by oluite(f): 3:14pm On Apr 19, 2011 |
Rossikk: Pls kindly post a link here.Thanks. |
Politics / Re: Video Evidence Of Massive Rigging! by oluite(f): 2:11pm On Apr 15, 2011 |
See the speed with which that woman's hand was moving!! She must have done this before,hopefully with the way this video is going around they will be punished. |
Family / Re: Cancel by oluite(f): 3:23pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
Young ladies should learn from this story.Many young ladies in Nigeria get married simply because they don't want to be seen as single at whatever age (28,29, )the Nigerian society fixes for young women to be married. @OP I believe some of the issues you raised are pretty serious -the almost beating the child to a coma(pls kindly throw more light) -not mentioning his daughter but all in all the most crucial is that you don't love this man, Marriage is hard work already without having to work with some one you are obviously not into. |
Politics / Re: Reason Why Jonathan Did Not Attend The Presidential Debate by oluite(f): 4:29pm On Mar 20, 2011 |
At least he attended the scripted D'banj debate;speaking for the Nigerian youth!NN 24 probably doesn't do scripting? |
Religion / Re: Say A Prayer Or Bless A Nairalander Here. check out this list by oluite(f): 12:44pm On Mar 09, 2011 |
I like this thread.@OP good one. |
Family / Re: Wives, What Would You Do When Your Husband Starts Beating You Up? by oluite(f): 12:26pm On Mar 09, 2011 |
chaircover: ifyalways:Thanks CC its been pretty depressing to say the least, Ify i agree but many women don't seem to understand they believe you will scare men if you achieve too much , and Thanks for the reminder that marriage can be sweet. |
Family / Re: Wives, What Would You Do When Your Husband Starts Beating You Up? by oluite(f): 11:48am On Mar 09, 2011 |
Dont nice things happen in marriages anymore?Most topics on this thread seem to be about one sort of abuse or the other either from the husband or wife??!! 1 Like |
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