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Overdoing hard-to-get is synonymous with low self-esteem

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Las Las e fit no make heaven

Type "xvideos-pregnant sex orgy" on Google now now, you will be surprised with the loads of group sex with pregnant women that happens all over the world.

But in Africa, to sleep with woman weh get anoda man belle, na big taboo o. A lot of rites are behind it.

Perfectly rational, accurate replies from the guy.

Whatever her fiancee has to offer her, she shd be contented with it. Many mumu girls will come here now and say all guys are same.

They'll neglect the fact that the girl won't tell her fiancee that she's been taking gifts from other men or as if women too can help freely without affection attached.

The guy's replies made a lot of sense.

Pls put graphic pic.

That guy must be bipolar or psychotic. He's not well at all.

Well for the sleeping with prostitutes, once the source of d depression is settled, you will look away from it.

Now what you can do to stop the depression is avoid being alone. You didn't say if you're married. Do what makes u happy or shift the sex addiction into another addiction like videogames..PS4, football matches, music etc.

JackDaAlienz:
Staying Awake From 12am to 6am..
I Hardly Sleep
I'm More Creative at Midnight

You're melancholic.

callmeRichie:
I hardly do things until I'm pushed(self motivation is too low), procrastination, shyness(too chronic), hang in balance somewhere inbetween an introvert&extrovert, fear of failing and lack self confidence...

I know some of these are more of personality not a habit, but they are part of me already

You're phlegmatic. You must be kinda chubby

They can smell the strength of ur pocket from 12 miles away

Anuoluwa1234:
Unforgiveness, Introvert, no nonsense,frowning, moving alone, over seriousness

Ah. You will find divine Mercy in Jesus name

Overeating, oversleeping, overfarting.

Pull out all the way

Congratulations. You're better than all the men shes been cheating with.

@23. I pity their daily bread sha.

But that fuel pump price reduction surprised me. Like why we dey do ourselves for this naija

I think number 2 is the major reason if big butt must be avoided. Those girls think everything in life begins and ends with their features.

Low self-esteem is a serious matter o. Instead of you to challenge yourself and admit that you feel inferiority complex around big girls, youre giving them all kind of bad repute, expensive, not intelligent, proud, not flexible etc. Where on earth did you read that stature determines these things

chatinent:
I read both the OP's post and your comment. I still stand with no pre-marital sex. Thank you and have a nice day.

It's not about you, it's about d woman

7. Go through this thread and compare with number 3. It's d woman asking for it seriously here.

https://www.nairaland.com/5932584/please-us-solve-matter#90770014

Where she wan transfer go before sef. All of them looking overclassic in the reunion show. I'm a fan of beauty but their beauty to impress watchers on that show was extravagant. No girl looked simple among them

You will when u find a girl that gives you peace. Not perfect but peaceful

The juju weh u do join ur scam na fake. In fact, the babalawo scam you sef

So does she want you to turn your back on your uncle, like making you both go against each other and becoming enemies, destroying ur relationship with ur uncle as family or what is she trying to do now? There is nothing you can do than stand on the truth which is you can't deny your uncle who has been good to you and you are not taking after his lifestyle, at least not yet. The uncle whose lifestyle you've known before you married her? How many men who don't have womanizing uncles n fathers are yet unfaithful to their wives?

If she's not satisfied with that truth, she can leave(that's d worst she can do) and if she's asked why she left, she would be foolish to say she acted just on suspicion and not confirmation. It is foolish for a wife to pick up quarrels with her husband over an offence he has not committed yet. Even in d court, judgment is passed on facts not feelings.

You're in position to teach her her lesson by simply being unbothered. Truth doesn't struggle. She would either come to terms with the truth and fix her insecurity by herself or ignorantly open a way that would make her fears eventually come to pass. You may have been helping her fix her insecurity on other issues but not this one.. it's ur family. She shd work on herself.

freedomeniola:
You can't say " no mature wise man"

Thanks for notifying me. I used both on purpose though, in context of Nigerian English to emphasize my point, but thanks

seanwilliam:
so obo ni problem ehn?? werey ni bobo yiisha

mo need e gan. Oloun

MejiLoyon:
If you stay around egbeda holla me. By the time I fuel you with beer and obow depression go japa.

You think too much. You need to calm down

I dey live for okunola bros. Im depressed too I no need the beer. But that bolded one, I need yellow or light brown weh thick and clean. How we go see this evening bros?

Just leave her to do what she wants, it's her life. And remove emotions from loving a woman without confirming she's worthy enough to be called ur wife. I don't understand why some guys just fall in love cus of some childish attractions.. she will just be manipulating you at will. Are you a small boy? You're the man, you're in charge. Both of you are not brainmates. Stop letting small girls talk to you anyhow. Look out for another girl as u work towards becoming more financially stable to settle down. And don't pursue the love of a woman. Instead, make yourself humorous enough to attract their love. Simple!