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Mindlog:
It is not gender specific because there are also men in that age bracket who can't and also note that what is a simple sensible conversation is relative.

I agree

Carchoice:
how is it a lie?

Haven’t you seen dating of almost 60 years before they finally tie the knot?

I can do same to escape this thing called marriage. But motor nor fit jam me shar. I’m covered with the blood of Jesus

Lol. I know it's possible bro. I just needed him to clarify of it was abroad or naija

Another country is condemning evil in our own country. Unfortunately, our own govt encourages it.

This guy above me na correct guy

kunkelhanspeter:
The sound KPA KPA KPA KPA! drive me crazy
Big neat girls are the best

You Sabi better thing

ContractKiller:
Typical razz, local African bush man who lacks taste and refinement. You should marry a hippopotamus to complete the empty space in your life.

It's like you escaped attempted abortion in pregnancy, but the d&c scraped some part of your brain that's why your sense is not complete.

The guy above me escaped attempted abortion in pregnancy, but the d&c scraped some part of his brain that's why he's sense is not complete.

The brain of the guy above me is filled with maggots. That's why he will rather choose to accuse and abuse behind your back rather than quoting you to politely tell you your mistake which anyone can make.

domwas2:
There was this older couple who dated for 25 yrs, never married and no kids. They brake up.

The man now in his 50s meets a widow in her 50s (she has 2 sons) and marries her within a year. They spend 2 blissful yrs together but he suddenly gets hit by a car and dies instantly.

His new wife inherits his real estate and other assets, which his ex helped him to build.

Which woman is higher value? �

Dated 25 years. Haba bros, this kind lie fit cause sango to strike like he do those frsc officers for Ijebu

Sleeklord:
I will be insulted I know.Mocked I know battered, destroyed name it.But I don't care.A proverb says no matter how mad a man is when he says the rain he will look for any shade to protect him.I don't know whatever is gonna happen to me but the truth is am hungry.You might not believe me but I've not eaten today, the car wash stands was surprisingly full today so I wasn't able to get work there today.No construction sites around.Neighbours and family have ignored me but I know there's hope.Where im looking to get a cleaning job they've laid off people.I will do anything except steal or kill to survive.Pls help me out.Im mentally weak right now.0176 556 777 guaranty trust bank.I am ready to be finished verbally but I just pray God uses a kind soul to help me out this night.

Your entry and wrap up is funny. . Way will open for you

Good for them. They must have assaulted a person who went traditional. Unfortunately, the law cannot arrest sango. No suspect at all.

My advice is too precious to give a man asking questions in form of a woman.

What if your own father or mother was a nagging type, will you disown them or throw them into the river. Shebi u said you're ready to explore life, that's part of life. It's not a bed of roses.

One of the day I was most humbled in my life was when I paid my doctor friend a visit at Yaba psychiatric hospital. He was a corper there. A young girl(about ur age in look) brought her mother there alone. Right there the mentally ill mother started accusing her of doing juju against her health and that she's d one behind her case and started raining curses on her. She ran out d door crying. Some young nurses were laffing until a matron came and shunned them very strongly renouncing them seriously that what if they had such a mother, would they deny her. Some people talked to d girl and she stopped crying. Only God knows how long her mother has been like that.

Your own is just ur uncle and you're already getting tired and u said u want to explore life. Keep respecting ur uncle and focus on your own duties or studies or whatever. If you have the means to leave there, fine, leave to avoid what you cannot bear. But while you're there, prepare your mind for whatever life brings ur way there.

Aunty weh don ripe enough for marriage suppose know say one trial no be am. Many things dey dey men mind at different times. Dem need to try several more times to understand each other sexual prowess.

You see why waiting for marriage promise before testing some things weh she suppose don test no dey pay?

There are 30+ ladies you can't have a simple sensible conversation with

Help will locate you bro. Every man goes thru such or similar case

Eulalia:
Just stop. Ash!

You quoted me. So you stop

Meatballs:



Welcome to the Marriage Hood


E no easy atall

Bros how e dey go

Am I the only one who noticed the moist dirt on d floor?

purelyobjective:
A girl you introduce to your family saying her phone is her private property.it sounds absolutely absord

Honestly it does

Lol. Date a girl you're compatible with, simple. Some girls don't mind if you go thru their phones than they go thru urs just as some men too don't mind their girls going thru theirs more than they go thru hers. But when you chose a girl who's wisdom is limited to my phone, my right, equal right, my privacy, my thing, my own, you're dating future wahala. Marriage is more than that. One of them is this one that named herself craziestgirl. Of all adorable monikers a girl can bear...you'll know she's trouble and she can only advice towards trouble.

Eulalia:
Stop talking trash.

Not every one who says that wants to beg. I mean sometimes, someone might have budgets for other things and want to forgo sub for that period. You should try and reason and not this childish thoughts.

Be mature in your thinking please. And don't mention me.

Good morning.

Why are you feeling guilty? Did I refer to your person? Or do you do it too?

Dybala11:
You're on a long thing if you believe all Nigerian girls only have one lover and all Nigerian guys have multiple lovers.

Re-read bro. Shebi u understand English?

How more manipulative can women get.

mikebabs101:
You don't get the gist , 95% of Nigerian ladies on dating sites like,badoo, tinder and instamessage are not there to look for a serious relationship, they are there for fast money, favor and hookups, reason some will even say they do hookups only so you won't start wasting their time with calls, long chats and love stories. You are probably wasting the girls time , she could have sensed you are broke or she probably want someone that wants to pay for sex ( what most Nigerian dating site is all about though). If you are looking to meet some one online , Facebook or Instagram is still your best deal , naija dating sites has turned to prostitution sites, so if you don't have mind of going there to pay for sex , don't go there and be looking for love and wasting your time and their time, they will eventually block or ignore you lol.

Not all of them though. Met my gf of 3yrs on waplog. Though I know most girls there are strictly for hook up

Stileswills:
It's not possible for them to rape in the open because they know it's a crime and they know deep down it's not just possible .. even you you know all evil is done secretly

mignone:
But rapists hardly go after these ones.
If nudity is their problem, why don't they rape ppl in d open & blame their victim's dressing? Why don't they rape d naked schizophrenic women roaming d streets?
Note:
I don't in any way condone provocative dressing; one jst has to be objective in reasoning &judgement.

That's why I gave her that reply

Offpoint:
I'll still reply: It's well my sister. The LORD understands why you're not fine and he'll fix it.. I'm just a Mortal soul.

Na so

Offpoint:
I've made a lot of mistakes in my life, the only thing mistake I've not made or will ever make is to ask a lady... 'What's wrong' when she's said 'I'm not fine'..... IT'S WELL Is always my answer.

You're actually on point. not offpoint.

Next thing you will hear is

...you cannot even ask why I'm not fine. It's only it's well you know how to say.

When they want to start begging nko. You will hear

....I'm not happy

....my sub will soon finish

....I would have called you but don't have airtime

I just finished saying same to a girl here too. Most of them are on that site for recharge cards money, hook up and one night stand. If you notice, most of them claim to live in lekki, ajah, abule-egba, ikd like they're big girls and if you ask their educational qualification, it will be waec or ond highest. Most of them have a child. They're living with either their aunt or sis or househelp in those places they mentioned. One even told me she's in a relationship and I kept wondering why she was on a dating site with her facial marks. I asked whether her bf is not satisfying her, she had no sensible reply. The more real ones are better found on fb, Instagram, twitter. Those dating sites are abused sites.