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Lol. Testosterone can drive one crazy |
They should be thought some lessons o to avoid breaking the new TV you're gonna get. Lessons are best learnt by children at young age. |
Nawa o. Men keep thinking, women keep benefitting. |
Haviza:Lol. Experience is not only the best teacher, it improves maturity too |
Mariangeles:You're out of line already. So keep ranting |
Mariangeles:Every thread on its own. What does not concern you does not concern you. Refer to the quotes you started and leave other threads in peace. Thats part of what we're talking about. It's weakling of you to attack me with threads that do not concern the matter at hand. Stay within the confines of d discussed topic genius |
Mariangeles:Bro I have no grudges and don't opine for me neither shd you put words in my mouth. Being rational and vengeance are two different things. Shedding tears is not a crime but for the right purpose, we all have different emotional strength and I'm not ignorant of that. Being rational means doing what is right and sensible at the appropriate time in the right way for the right reasons. Shedding tears or going emotional would not move even God if what shd be done is not done. |
Mariangeles:That's what it is to you. You weren't the one who experienced it. |
It was my first serious relationship. She became so emotional and fell in love within two weeks after we met for the first time and was already talking about marriage. She vehemently told me how much she had promised herself not to have sex till she marries which I was okay with, cus I liked her very much. I was very rational as in thinking it's too early to talk about marriage, there were so many things we still needed to find about each other. We just met and barely know each other but I overlooked that and kept observing her. She became so emotional that she would hug me tightly and kiss me giving me deep tongue. It was so serious that I had to stop her and became the one who started helping her uphold her promise against sex. After a while she told me she would go abroad for two years for fashion training and that we could have an introduction before she goes. I didn't agree to that cuz we can't swear to be faithful to each other over such a long distance so I said she should go, when she comes back and we are still friends we may then think of marriage, she began to cry. She came to my house d next day without notice still pleading, so I honestly started to consider her choice and started falling in love and the love grew. Suddenly I noticed she changed and became very rude. I found out she had found another guy, then she started blaming me for making her fall in love. That blame seriously annoyed me cus her falling in love was her choice. Besides she didn't tell me early that she'll be going abroad. She even blamed me for having long kisses with her after telling me she doesn't want sex.. I was like am I dreaming? But what changed my view was, the more I tried to explain her wrong to her, the more she got the power to manipulate my emotions until a snr male friend of mine told me, "you can't win an argument with a woman" That was the first time I really understood that statement though I've been hearing it before then. Not arguing with a woman or letting her win d argument doesn't mean she's smart and you're dull. It simply means your understanding is far beyond hers and her capacity to understand things is far lower than yours. It's like a waec student of biology arguing with a university professor of biology; the difference is too extreme. So I kept quiet and let her win. In her mind she won. I'm sure she would over time realize how foolish she was but shame may not let her reach out to me. Women emotional manipulations are inspired by selfishness. Till date, even if a woman cries blood as tears, I don't yield out from rationality |
Just share with someone you're compatible to live with. Nature may call sometimes and you'll need privacy to satisfy your urge. Make sure he/she is ok with that. |
When a lady is advising a man against the evil their fellow ladies do, I think it is cowardice. A lady who has blunt truth to offer should go head on face to face with her fellow female folk who are eluding handling situations with apt normalcy and yielding to juju. To leave such ladies and direct ur advices on men when you are not a man means you indirectly support what those ladies are doing. This is a fact ladies know but they rather ignore it; you'll only see them supporting their fellow ladies when things favour them like rape cases or when it comes to being a beneficiary of money and in relationship, attention from the masses and the likes. Let their campaign focus on their fellow female folk, on how to boost their esteem, give themselves some worth to stop the juju attitude and leave with the men to talk bluntly to themselves about rape. That makes a lot of sense. |
luminouz:You ignored the word most |
iTroll:No need for therapist jor. Her own dey her body. Most girls say they're in relationship, most guys say they're single. But if you observe well, most guys have 3 babes or more, girls stick only to one. Out of those 3 babes or more the guy has, there's always one that has all his heart that he's always serious about. She need to sit down and find out what is making her not that special one..that's all. |
Eulalia:WhatsApp talk stays on WhatsApp nw. NL talk stays on NL. And approach manner too gives a deep impression especially at first entry. I've replied you on WhatsApp even before I asked this question here, you were not online. Happy Sunday. I love the song a lot, that's why I asked. I know it too |
I sincerely hope this goes a long way. Cus the Nigerian society doesn't regard religious view to rape. There's however the room for psychological therapy for rape too but Nigeria as a nation doesn't even have proper medical provision, let alone psychic. But believe it or not one of the cause of rape is psychic imbalance too and they're many on the streets looking healthy |
If you're psychologically inclined, you would understand most ladies demanding intelligence from men are usually manipulative and incompatible with intelligent men cus an intelligent man would get sensitive to all her excesses and may even rub it on her face if he's not mature. Most intelligent girls(as acclaimed) desire easy-will men who can overlook their sensitivity excesses. Another point is she may be trying to evaluate your age, exposure and experience level or which area are u most experienced in. |
AroOkigbo:And it's better to have a girlfriend with same sexual stamina as you or 2 girlfriends with low sex stamina that sum up to equal yours. ![]() All in all. #I STAND AGAINST RAPE |
I support all sex styles in a Christian home between Christian couples with the exceptions of oral, anal, BDSM, femdom, threeesome, foursome, fivesome, sixsome, orgy party. |
Simplecity:Ok o. I'll do more research on that |
[right][/right] Simplecity:Yes ive seen such in movies but this isn't a movie |
Since you have plenty money in the dream, buy land and build house in the dream na |
Kobojunkie:I'm not supporting the op against you o. But can you tell us what it is? Simplecity:What is VFX? |
LE or CE |
Nice ride. But there's one thing I don't like about the car. The dashboard is like cupboard. No curves |
When last did you listen to this song. |
canDy4eva:Does your question makes sense to you? You who read it, did you comprehend what you read? |
I think it doesn't befit you to be looking for man who can accept brutal rashness without raising their hands in reaction. It's more honorable and shows a humorous sense of responsibility as a lady to ask or challenge ur fellow ladies how many of them have not gone beyond rationality in nagging, provocative attitudes and brutal verbal outbursts. That's how to take the bull by the horn. And leave men to evaluate themselves in the aspects of whether or not they've raised their hands against their wives...that's a masculine challenge. |
Smoke two wraps of igbo before you toast, boldness go come. |
That the parent obeyed the PG of the film which may be rated 13 or 18 does not mean she's not doing his/her work well as a parent over a 7 year old girl. Explaining sex education to the child does not include explaining a blood scene in a movie she even shdnt have watched. The explanation you later gave the girl did not explain the blood seen in d movie neither, though it's the right education for a 7 year old. You did well. All that's needed to be told to her very strongly at that stage is ...your private part is called private cus you're the only one who has access to it. If anyone else tries to access it, scream out without hesitation. |
Lol. That one no enter. |
May be hard to admit for some, but truly, truth dey the talk |
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