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omale88:
I'm not gonna reply to any more of your naive criticisms anymore,it's one thing to be biased and another to be ignorant but to be biased and ignorant same time is just off the charts,have you dated a single mum before?if you have never done that then don't mention me again.because I'm talking from experience and it happened here in Nigeria, plus she was financially stable ,if you where asking.

You said yours was financially stable. Did you read the screenshot and saw how entitled that lady was? C'mon!

I'm thinking, if a lady is about to tie the knot with let's say, Timipere Silva's son, will she wanna keep her own maiden name?

Martinez39s:
That's how you treat a woman who is trying to make a simp out of you: you could laugh at her, you could taunt her, you could ignore her, and/or make her know you aren't falling for her manipulation and rub it in her face.

@italics, that's more like it.

Martinez39s:
Hmmmm. So in the beginning she hid her status as a single mother with three kids. She waited until she had gotten him in the strong web of the illusion called love (and probably great sex) before letting him know of her single-mom status. She hoped he would find it hard to leave the relationship (betray the love), and hence take responsibility of her and another man's three seeds. The bait and switch technique.

What a manipulative and bold lying bitćh! Sweet combination of shaming and victim playing. So taking care of another man's seeds is his responsibility? Refusing to take care of another man's seed and shoulder another man's burden is cowardly and hatred of responsibility? Oh my! Awww, the manipulative boldness of acting with all conviction that any man you date is responsible for your children (another man's seeds and responsibility).

If I were in this situation, I wouldn't bother explaining myself. I would just respond with laughing and taunting emojis, and reply with "that manipulation won't work on me. I will not raise another man's seed and deal with his leftover (you). Go sort yourself out." I would even post pictures of my bank statement and write "for me alone. Not for another man's seed and leftover. IF HE, OR THEY, ARE STILL ALIVE, GO AND SORT OUT THINGS WITH YOUR BABYDADDIES OR GO FIND WORK." I will then end it with more laughing and taunting emojis.


Ubunja, Omar09, emmaodet, JONNYSPUTE, CAPSLOCKED, AstroG.... y'all should check out this thread.

@bolded, wicked! But aptly written!

omale88:
did she tell you she does not have a job?responsibility isn't about money it's about being involved in the important things not necessarily spending,I mean how can you be dating a woman who has a child and not know how to get along with her child? that's the responsibility I thing she is referring too,you are free to think otherwise. I've had similar experience it's not always about your money.

Oga stop sugar coating responsibility. We are in Nigeria and we are Nigerians as well as the single mom and the guy in question. Responsibility here means being there and available monetary wise. What happened to her baby daddies being responsible for the said child?! Why does it have to be another guy who knows nothing about those kids?

Vega100:
:Dhahahahahaha , wetin u come do bros??
Me I dey block them from all contacts immediately!!! Once I just get the wind that u have a child. Na their e end.

Have gone for to introduce yourself to your girlfriend's parents? I mean the one you had party with?

ubunja:
and that's the game right there @ bolded: LOCATION LOCATION LOCATION.

When a girl is serious about this, she moves to an Affluent area. Mingle with the wealthy. You won't meet a rich man in your dirty hood. Move. But in small steps. Start by doing your shopping on the rich side of town. It's gonna be a little expensive though. So you buy one or two things. Regularly. To get used to being around men with money. Next find a branch of your church that's in a very rich neighbourhood. Every Sunday from now on attend and worship there. I could go on and on.

Pls go on I need to teach my daughters stuff.

RisenPhoenix:
So what do we call the one who opened up wide for a deadbeat?

It's starts with a H and ends with a S.

Wolgrace:
It works if you are so determined not to sell your body, i.e to embrace sexual abstinence, purity, godliness and righteousness... Man looks at outward appearance and God looks at the purity and godliness of the heart, i.e they coexist.

Here is a story of a young lady (first born and daughter of a wretched family) who worked with U.B.A Bank. She applied for transfer to urban area, VI precisely, and was approved. She has a small and neatly tokunbo car but pimply packaged. She risked most of her life savings and rented a BQ apartment at banana Island to ease her movement, but had a target. She packaged herself with expensive decent wears, shoes, perfs, etc.. On her way to work, out of the estate gate, she mostly meet calibres of business moguls (both married and singles). That's how she met a young oil mogul (single extremely rich dude) while driving side by side towards the gate, exchanged contacts.

Today, they are married. Bye-bye to poverty in her family.

PACKAGE YOURSELF WITH PURITY AND HOLINESS.

And all it takes is a little lie. Not when approached, you will just give in instantly. To add to your story, my aunt (moms last sister), had a very close friend both rented an apartment in a prominent place, life camp. Her friend I assumed she knew the gold digging skill because of her gain after living just a year there... Her friend blew up her life savings on clothing, expensive clothing and traveled to Dubai on a vacation, little did we know she used the clothing, the vacation to hook one rich real estate mogul who lives in Port-Harcourt, tho married, but my aunt's friend got this man to buy her a brand new Toyota jeep, got his siblings a house, bought an estate through her cause she was an estate agent, and bought a house for her, whether or not she fvcked him, is something I don't know.. But if she did, she didn't do it for free. But before the man fvcked her, she told the man she's not into those shit.... Boom! The man started impressing her. Did I add she only fvcked the dude right after the dude got her all those, she got all she wanted before fvcking her!

RisenPhoenix:
Cockroach flu loading.

Roachvid-21 as there's currently HanVid-20

etrange:
It's really funny how people try to isolate their mothers from the women they call hoes. [/b]The same women will be mothers to thier sons and the kids will grow to adore them while calling their own counterparts hoes.[b] And the cycle continues.

Fact is, only boys that grew up in the gutters generally call women hoes.

These kids who grow to adore their mother (of which I'm one) our mothers haven't given us any reason to call her hoes.

Now you say this like women don't call men scum! They isolate their fathers and call their counterparts scum for the same reason men don't call their mothers hoes because, like the mothers, their fathers haven't given them any reason to be called so.

Use your head, you think you sound intelligent, but let me burst those nuts... (no homos intended)... You really write like 16yo girl who just found out she bleeds from her peepee for the first time.

sexylassie2:
So Who is behind every unsuccessful man?
Is it his mother too.
I am waiting to hear the answer

Funny as it is, no girlfriend will want to be with an unsuccessful man, so it's his mother's.

Behind every unsuccessful man is a worried mother trying to nudge him to success.

donaldeke:
His name is Daniel Anthony, a Nigerian Cross Dresser based in Rivers state. He took to Instagram to share new photos of himself rocking a three-piece swimwear with beads on his waist.

See more photos below:

https://www.reporterswall.com/can-you-believe-this-is-a-man-his-name-is-daniel-anthony/

Cute!

Vega100:
a guy, my friend!!! Actually he knew her before then, they had met just once before that time, and afterwards we all met again and had the 3som

Egun egun be careful ns express you deh go!

mannazgee:
there is difference between manipulating women and turning them on bro you are such a novice dont argue with me.i have gotten girls using this strategy no girl has ever accused me of rape b4 its about give me what i want and i will give you yours simple a woman knows what a guy wants from here from the onset she knows when a guy wants sex and when he wants something serious dont be decieved bro.

I am not disputing what you said. Women knows what men want from them at the approach, no lie, but do you know what distinguishes those they actually fvck from the others, CONFIDENCE. And your post lacked confidence. You can be confident and express is very well through body language, but you didn't state it in your write up. Rather you stated in your post:

mannazgee:
women are a not as difficult as a lot of guys portray them if only you have wisdom on how to handle them. [/b]As a guy it is not necessaryto ask a girls out it fails 99% of the time you keep hearing things like let me think about it,i am not ready for relationship or let us just be friends .you and i have experience this over and over again and too much rejection is frustrating it kills self esteem especially for younger inexperienced guys.from the day one you approach a lady she knows what you want already if she is into she will comply with you advances if she is not she will resist you.[b]
when you meet a girl you like just flirt with her by being very confident and humorous once you can make a woman laugh and she sense your confidence and self belief it is a turn on for them you can invite her over for a date then for sex theb after sex just believe you guys are in a relationship already.
women love badguys not because they are bad but because bad guys have the ability to see through their pretence.badguys know women love sex and adventure but pretend a lot they like to be forced to do what they love doing so they can blame the guy for their own actions.

@bolded is what I'm trying to dispute. Rejection is not bad for your self-esteem. In fact you should cherish it, it's what makes you a man. Women are afraid of rejection and that's why they will never make the first step and also they understand that whoever makes the first move has lost 40% power in the dating world.

As a guy it is very much necessary to ask a girl out so that you will know and understand where you as a man stand in her life. She could friendzone and dangle the You can have my pussy one day if you behaved well carrot before you once in a while to keep you motivated and as incentive whenever she senses you are loosing interest and this may come as placing her head on your chest, letting you press her boobs and making you think you are actually doing without her knowledge or that you are sneaky. You have to be very assertive. She says yes, cool, she says no, bounce and smile. It fails 99% of the time asking her out and those who are usually worried about the statistics don't really know that the lesser women in your life, the more peace you have. That 1% will definitely give you what those 99 couldn't. And once you as a man hears let me think about it or let's just be friends, dust your ass and leave!

Too much rejection isn't frustrating. It's a blessing, it sieves the chaff from the wheat. For those young and inexperienced guys out there, the earlier you embrace rejection the better for you. A man who is not afraid to look rejection in the eyes, can never be manipulated by any human!

From the approach, a girl knows what the guy who is approaching her wants. She can be into you and not give in if you can't tell her confidently what you want from her. How you start with a woman is how you end with her. You start on a hot erotic way, she will be hot around you. If you are too timid to say your mind she will use you to satisfy her other financial, mental, or physical needs and never sexual as she doesn't see as much of a man who can make her pants wet.

Women ain't hard to figure out. Dig more sire! Dog more!

Millenniumlady:
Sis take your pics down before all this sex stave guys will come for you

Too late!

mannazgee:
Bro a lady who gave you her pussy gave you her everything from that moment on you have her control button

I don't suppose you will understand what I said. You want the pussy, make it known to her so she bears in mind. You sweet talk her into it, well and fine, but remember, most rape cases weren't actually rape, it was sweet talk from men who knows what they want but don't know how to convey it. Then again if you don't go straight forward with a woman, you are trying to manipulate her, and manipulation is a two way street and believe me, she will deal with you on that ground.


Women knows the game.
Men think they know the game.

mannazgee:
Lol..straight foward with an illogical being ,sorry bro women are not straight forward like men as you think unless you are ready to fail 99times.if i may ask you are you dating?how did you get the girl did you ask her out? plzz answer that.even if one girl accepts you after 99 girls reject you that still does not mean she will not turn out to be a deceptive woman okkk

It is better 100 of them rejects you than living in an illusion of right in her mind we are dating.

Boxer007:
Ok ghen, Can I date u out?

I don't do guys. I do women.

mannazgee:
women are a not as difficult as a lot of guys portray them if only you have wisdom on how to handle them.As a guy it is not necessaryto ask a girls out it fails 99% of the time you keep hearing things like let me think about it,i am not ready for relationship or let us just be friends .you and i have experience this over and over again and too much rejection is frustrating it kills self esteem especially for younger inexperienced guys.from the day one you approach a lady she knows what you want already if she is into she will comply with you advances if she is not she will resist you.
when you meet a girl you like just flirt with her by being very confident and humorous once you can make a woman laugh and she sense your confidence and self belief it is a turn on for them you can invite her over for a date then for sex theb after sex just believe you guys are in a relationship already.
women love badguys not because they are bad but because bad guys have the ability to see through their pretence.badguys know women love sex and adventure but pretend a lot they like to be forced to do what they love doing so they can blame the guy for their own actions.

All of this is summed up into one word; TRASH.

Why won't you ask a girl out?

Guys listen to me, rejection is best a man can ever get in his life. Rejection of advances from a woman is actually better than an acceptance from a deceptive woman in the dating world. Whilst flirting with any woman you are sexually interested in, never ever forget to make it clear to her you are sexually attracted and interested in her and that you both will at some point in the next few days have sex. Make it known to her, forget about taking her on a date on the first day, it means you are buying her attention and believe me, women loves those kind of guys because they're potential Maga. There's no two ways about getting a girl, best way is to be straightforward with the girl she's either in or out, no in between.

Martinez39s:
A likely fate of white knights.

Ubunja, Omar09, emmaodet, CAPSLOCKED

Oh lord!

Slimzzy00:
I started having feelings for her when we first started as freinds, and I tried my best to curtail the emotions, but I failed.
I made my intentions known to her, and she said she had taken me as a best friend, so we can't date.
I still tried my best to show her how truly I love her with my actions, buying her gifts, helping her out with financial assistance, showing concern and support when she was sick, but she never cares about this. She chooses to ignore all my advances irrespective of how sincere it seems.
What can I do to get out of this situation?

Take her as a best friend too ni

sexylassie2:
any man who goes about writing redpill here has nothing new to write down except coping and pasting whatever he watches on youtube or reads on reddit...

anyway, redpill or whatever it is call doesnt have its foundation on science rather on heresays, pseudoscience and assumptions

some of you might find it inspiring to read but to me they are pure garbage, no new information, nothing interesting to learn from it

evidences can be seen here, they keep recycling the same old stories all in the name of redpill ideology

i have never read anything new and exciting from this so called redpill ideology rather than all women are hoes and gold diggers

then some moniker called pansophist with his female alternative moniker and another roadside bitch are talking about women and freedom of speech.

At what point did you read to and it started becoming less interesting and garbage?

Angela62:
So if his write-ups are opinions without ''concrete facts or evidence'', what are your ''facts and evidence'' to prove that all the rubbish you wrote about him is true and that his perspectives are gotten from youtube? you are going around labeling people's ideas as lacking in evidence, but will not support yours with evidence as well? can you see how you are contradicting yourself? Besides, what exactly is wrong with learning from youtube, assuming he actually did get his points from youtube?

Also, as I wrote before, why don't you challenge him with your ''facts and evidence'' and highlight his ''pseudoscience? if he then fails to justify his stance duly, then it will be clear that you may have a point. That is dignifying and something someone with an ounce of true education, common sense and civility will do. Otherwise, you are engaging in ad-hominem, and anyone with common sense can see through you.

Pansophist has not in any way shown or talked like his poor, that's why you see the new shaming tactics, the "GARBAGE" shaming. If he was broke believe you me, he would have been called a broke lazy boy. Tho her saying he copies what he got from too much YouTube video says Pan can only be lazy and has got nothing going for him that he spends most of his time watching YouTube and since nothing is going for him, he is broke and hence whatever he writes is very wrong and garbage!

Babe read the italics, you will understand sexielassie2 and where she's headed with her trolling. She can't be taken seriously.

Millenniumlady:
Ladies don't value guys that asked them out once if you feel she's worth it low down your ego and go after her cause at the tale end a man is never complete without a woman.......As the saying goes "behind every successful man there is a woman " .....my status says it all

That woman is his mother. Unless late. Then mother figure.

Well simps will like what you typed there.

And of course your siggy, people might be turning to take a better look at you wondering why such a lady is walking about with vegetable in her teeth... Don't be so sure dear.

AstroG:
The moment you asked a Lady or Girl that rejected ur advances b4 out again,your pride And ego as a Man has been altered. You ask her out once,and she rejected. Oga Face your front,cus there are many fishes(better ones) in the sea


Never fight or hustle for Ladies/Girls attention,cause they are no worth it. HUSTLE HARD AND WORK ON YOURSELF


Cc; Martinez39s Omar09 Ubunja

This is the harsh truth boys and men at large don't wanna hear. You would see a boy/man beat his chest saying that there's no girl in this world he will approach and she will say no, and you will think they're joking until you see or hear them beg such women for their attention just to brag to their fellow boys/men.

I call it nonsense! I know there are women who would refuse my advances, and there are ones who will kill just to have my "hi".

Paxie55:
Hmm. This recharge card boy , you would switched to a better business with the strength you exhumed on toto matter but no, you choose to lazy about online. Just like the op had said.

Hi Paxie55, you are right. You are wealthy so you are right.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
I don't have anything against it. I think it's a good idea if you're genuinely sick and tired of women and their shenanigans. But most Naija men that jumped on the train of red pill do it due to REJECTION from women. They hide under the pill to claim they're moving away from women when in reality, they can't even get them in the first place. It's just a way to boost their ego. Keanu Reaves and Jake Gyllenhaal are good examples of who red pillers/MGTOW are. Although they've never said it, you can tell by their lifestyle. That is how its supposed to be, not to be screaming it everywhere you go like a deluded person.

It is always rejection that shapes one and directs its path into making better decisions. @bolded and how you said it is the more reason men are afraid of rejection! To me rejection is better than acceptance. It is only monks who are moving away from women. You make it sound as tho no MGTOW and red pill men get women as in they are moving away from women. We MGTOW get women, but not at the expense of our peace, health, finance and mental strength.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Now, before you attack me or go into fits of hateful convulsion, hear me out first please and perhaps you'd agree with what I'm saying.

This present generation of "men" are an utmost disaster. I am going by what I see mostly on social media and the sordid stories I hear around me.
They do not have the drive, ambition, intelligence and confidence of our fathers. For one, a lot of new generation guys are extremely lazy. They do not want to work hard, they'd rather look for the next "get rich quick" scheme than to actually use their brains in a productive manner. This is evidenced by the proliferation of [i]yahoo boys[/I] in recent times. No one wants to put in the work, they want to be the next Mompha or Hushpuppi, stunting on the gram. It's not a bad thing to like money neither is the desire to be rich despicable. Infact, I think it's a noble desire. But these men would rather spend their entire day daydreaming about getting rich or looking to dabble into nefarious activities instead of actually working hard legitimately. How many of you can boast of a study monthly income of at least N350K?(Which is still very small IMO)

Most of our present men are very unintelligent. Ask the average man you meet the last book he read and it'd probably be a book that he read during his university days as part of his coursework. Speaking of the university, I just want to highlight my point by talking about my own experience back in the higher institution. In a class of about 120, we were evenly split between both genders. There was a stark difference in performance between the female students and the male students. While the girls were doing extremely well, the males on the other hand were failing woefully. They had no interest in academics, they barely attended classes, they relied on "expo" to get through tests and exams. Only a handful of them were doing well. The girls in my course were truly something else, very studious, serious minded and focused. I usually shook my head in disbelief at this unsavory trend. And these are future men who would grow up to be the "head of the home" but they were living life so carelessly. The only thing must Nigerian men are educated about is sex. This is all what they always dream and talk about, busting the next nut. Go through their social media posts and it's always something about big breasts, or big ass or something sexually related. I wish they'd focus all that energy on something more profitable.

I could go on and on about this unfortunate generation of men. They lack any form of drive and ambition, they are not forward thinking, very lackadaisical towards life. A real man should be ambitious. A real man should be a planner. A real man should be a provider. But our weak men of today just take the days as they come with no solid goals or aspirations. Most of them even now rely on their wives as the bread winners. You won't hear much about this because most women keep this a secret so as to not "emasculate" their husbands. A lot of women are now the providers but they'd rather make it seem like it's their husbands that do the providing just to assuage his stupid ego... which brings me to the next point.

The biggest Achilles heel of the Nigerian man is his ego. The average Nigerian man is extremely domineering and controlling, this is why he cannot stand having a successful wife because he feels he would not be able to control her. Thankfully, a lot of Nigerian women are waking up to realize their worth and their power and this has threatened Nigerian men so much They have this deep hate for feminists and feminism; they cannot stand the thought that women have come to realize that they are much more than housemaids and that they shouldn't be considered inferior to any man because they can do just as much as men can do. The little thread of "manhood" they were desperately clinging onto to give themselves any form of validation has been rudely snatched away by these pesky feminists! There is nothing left to boost their now dwindling ego so what do they now resort to? Becoming [i]alfa[/I] males and taking the red pill They try to delude themselves into thinking that they are red pillers and thus will not chase women when deep down inside they know they are failures and that no correct women would look at them twice

One last thing I want to talk about before I sign off is about the current trend of these delusional males shaming women for being single I keep on seeing "insults: like[i] evening newspaper[/I] and claims that most feminists need their wrinkled joysticks. These men accord so much importance to themselves that they see a single woman as an anomaly These group of men are obviously still sleeping. A lot of Nigerian women are now doing things to make themselves happy. They have come to realise that these men are not worth making any sacrifices for and they'd rather focus their energy on their businesses, careers and themselves. An increasing number of Nigerian women have expressed their desire not to get married and would you blame them? Marriage in Nigeria is like a bondage especially with this low-value men milling around. So my dear Nigerian men, you are not that valuable. When next you see a single girl, just know that it is out of choice or because you all aren't worth anything and don't assume she needs a man. Nobody needs you. You aren't that great tbh.

In conclusion, if I ever have a son, God knows I will raise him right. He will not be a lazy, entitled mess of a man that most of y'all are. I hope my post hasn't offended you in any way.

Next topic: The Redundancy of the Red Pill and MGTWOW movements in Nigeria.

If you're too lazy to read, read the bolded. Thats the most important part of this article.

I couldn't agree more.

But I wanna ask, what do you have against red pill?

frozen70:
What about if its a man, will you still discourage a lady from going into it because she won't be willing to share her man with his ex ❓

Even happily married couples still have something doing with their exes

I will not discourage the lady if the man has money!

Men and women have different reasons for going into marriage. Men go into marriage to have a beautiful, soft and virgin lady to call their as their property (yes you read correctly.) Women go into marriage simply to be taken care of. So if a man will stoop so low to marry a baggage in the name of SM, I disagree to it as unless she is rich!

Any woman who will go into marriage with a single dad better make sure he's got the dough!

Ubunja.

Mizwisdom:
There are some bitter guys that will soon take over this thread of yours. You don't need people's advice as an adult, it should be your full decision. [/b]That her child will become yours if you keep an open mind and accept her as yours wholeheartedly.[b]

Well, women always talk about things that suit them and don't really care if another takes the colossal damage no matter how related they (women) are to the people/person taking the damage.

Let's go deep into child(ren) women bring into new marriages from the old one. The presence of the child(ren) in the new marriage does a lot in that marriage.
It deals with the Man (husband), wife (single mom) and the child(ren).

THE MAN: The man is the first to be affected, and he's affected badly that he sometimes is the person who carries out the maltreatment. The man's authority gets marred because he will not know how to treat the child(ren). He can not reprimand the child. He can not chastise the child(ren) in their wrong doings but he gets to support them. Just like a rich spoiled kids, he will have a hard time relating with them. Now when the man has his kids. Of course kids look up to older siblings and when the man's biological kids understand that their father's authority can be undermined especially by the elder ones, that child picks it up and there's no way a man can get his biological kids to order and leave out the other kid(s) from your wife. And if he tries to reprimand his step kid(s), his wife will come at him with the “YOU DO NOT GET TO TALK TO HIM LIKE THAT, YOU ARE NOT HIS FATHER”

THE WIFE (SINGLE MOM): They get involved in this little scam of theirs not much, but they will always have it in their head that their kid(s) could be abused or worse raped by their husband since he's not their biological father especially when it's a girl child. No peace within!

THE CHILD(REN): They get affected greatly especially when they are brainy and more successful than their step siblings. There will be hate between them. The father being aware his biological child may be a flop or not up to how successful like his other step kid(s) is, unconsciously he will start exhibiting hate towards that child and this will affect the gifted child psychologically.

WHEN WE REDPILLED MEN ADVICE OTHER MEN TO NOT GET INTO MARRIAGE WITH SINGLE MOTHERS, THIS IS WHAT WE WANT YOU TO AVOID! UNLESS YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH TO GO THROUGH THIS BULLSH.IT, I'D SUGGEST YOU REMAIN SPINELESS AND MARRY A SINGLE GIRL WITH LOW BODY COUNT.

Martinez39s
Emmaodet
Ubunja
Kennedyiheme02
Arthur21
Blu03