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Leezah:
A DNA test is the best way, but if evolutionary theory (and Maury Povitch) teaches us anything, it’s that if you think you aren’t the father (unless it’s for selfish reasons, you’re probably right.

Children tend to look more like their fathers. Some scientists assume it’s because women give birth and men need to have another way to recognize their offspring (pre DNA testing)

As a general rule, if you want the child and relationship but don’t think it’s yours, it probably isn’t. If you don’t want the child or relationship then have the DNA test.

Really ask yourself whether the DNA test will change your decision: will this be any less your child because of DNA? Would you punish a ten year old for his mother’s decade-old unfaithfulness?

Unfaithfulness is an important issue to address, and should be more of a concern than whether or not a child is genetically yours. A great number of men choose to leave the unfaithful woman and continue parenting the child. People don’t tend to be unfaithful with really amazing human beings, and most good men don’t want to condemn their children to a life of being parented by a guy who hangs around bars trying to pick up random chicks.

So before doing this I guess the hard but important questions are:

Why am I doing this and how do I feel about that?
Am I aware that she has been unfaithful and do I want to just leave her and keep joint custody so my child has a good father?
What will I do if the child isn’t mine? How will I feel if the child is mine and I questioned this?
What will my partner do when she finds out I didn’t trust her , if the test says I’m the father?
Am I using this DNA test to have “proof” of cheating? (If you are, it isn’t likely to work. Cheating women will generally use protection with the boyfriend(s) they wouldn’t use with their spouses

All these will be bypassed if stated when dating that as a man, he will check the DNA of his kids to know if they're his and as a woman, if you don't like it, you can leave. All these should be stated with keen and clear voice devoid of fear or fright. She don't want it, she leaves so that you don't marry her and then want to test your baby and she divorces you for lack of trust.

Leezah:
No law for 24hours and no one will arrest you. Which Crime would you commit??

Stealing candies. I've always dreamt to be the candy thief so that kids will have brighter teeth.

RisenPhoenix:
I thought national NCAN has been disbanded? Haven't been seeing much of you on threads lately.

We still deh. We can never be disbanded!

Signed: Omar
Southeast secretary.
Owerri zone

Arthur21s:
Chill,I am not pro-woman or a vagina worshipper. Why are you calling me as a witness to females misbehavior?have you not seen me call out dogs like Lil miss.favy,funmi,r1ele, sexy lassie,dig my gold?

I've seen you. Actually I pointed you to the bolded. Wanted you to see why I called women and men who settled for fat, ugly partners low self esteemed.

sexylassie2:
you read threads on women in the night for 8 hours straight when the next day was monday

it shows you are unemployed and broke, you could have used those hours to apply for jobs online.

Another fan

Kalatium:
Recently, i heard a story about a woman who got married to her husband and had 4 children, but the problem is that her husband is not the biological father. Each time she look at her husband, she always feel pity for him. Her ex boyfriend who is the father is threatening her to give him his children since his wife is unable to conceive for him.

He asked her to explain things to her husband before he expose it himself...
She said she love her husband so much she dont want to hurt him...

She lamented that she was carried away by her ex sexual performance, he is more romantic than her husband. [/b]That her husby has small DICK and he is not handsome,[b] so she was securing the future of her children, she want them to look like her ex.. Cos he is handsome..

Her conundrum is how she will explain things to her husband because it will hurt him.



I was very angry when i heard this, having a single child in which her husband is not the Biological father may be forgiven but having up to 4 should never be forgiven cos it is intentional and shows she has no conscience.
Married Woman are becoming scarier this days

Arthur21s
Arthur21

Thighs.
Legs.
God! I so much love thin cute and slender thigh! With a little bow leg to go! I'd kill for those two in a woman!

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, many are quick to want virgins after they have gone and bedded the whole neighborhood. lol, how funny!
these insecure men have no basis for demanding for virgins... and thats probably why the majority end up with virgin village girls.

You could be right here. Most end up dealing with them. Point is virgin or no virgin, you gotta look at compatibility first.

Arthur21s:
so if someone loves someone who is ugly the person has low self esteem?

I never said you don't have a brain,I mean you don't use the brain you have(or rather claim to have)- no hard feelings bro,I created this account just to talk to you

Hey none taken.

To your question, I believe so.

Arthur21s:
Having encountered your posts and Martinez's,I can infer you try to sugar coat sexism with trying to sound logical,albeit you fail woefully. That is fair. At least you are merely 23 there are years ahead for you to wisen up. If your frequent NL posts are for leisure,that will be okay but if all you type are a reflection of your mindset then I am scared for you.
Let's us analyze your post,
You say men with self esteem settle for less? I agree.I only had an issue when you made a list of what less is. UB.unja version of less is what you take up for yourself and bestow on all men?
So you and your cohorts are adjudicators to decide what is standard for a man?
Lol,this is laughable.
I will never set a standard for anyone,neither should you do so. Is it had for you and other redpillers to stay clear off people's personal life? Swallow a capsule of the red pill and walk away instead of making yourselves adjudicators of other people's lives? What do you gain from all of this?you are damaging yourself by the day thinking this is liberation.it is high time you did an introspection.
Harddon was wise when he admonished you guys not to give your all energy into women stuffs. You may think its only chasing a lady for dating/sex that he meant but it Also includes discussing ladies issues. He may not be the most popular redpiller on this forum but the few wise men on this forum will always acknowledge him.
I am glad guys like mjbolt and Capslocked are woke from this depravity you and your fellow u.bunja disciples adopt.I am not a hater or fan,but I have seen life for myself and wonder if you all live in medieval times to draw up conclusions and hilarious stuffs you call truths. After all the brouhaha on this forum you will see for yourself that the rules don't apply in real life, your master says things from his small world, Zimbabwe/SA experience. Most men spec are now smart/intelligent ladies while on this forum you witness goons like Kennedy and your master call the intelligent educated ones low value and still go as far as tagging those who marry them names.I don't know you all motive or passion for all these but I guess there is need for reflection.

Its not your fault,there has to be something to balance out gynocentrism and misandry(peddled as feminism),this is a clap back for them .The ladies and some male feminists like the animal called budaatum drew the battleline when they incepted the vilifying of men instead of focusing on equality. The red pill on this forum is a well deserved penalty for misandry.

Back to your post,
what do you say about women that marry single dads,men fatter and uglier than their fathers? Do they lack self esteem ?what do have to say about single dads and ugly men?
Answer with your brains and not what you read from u.bunja and earn my respect!

Most men spec are now smart/intelligent ladies while on this forum you witness goons like Kennedy and your master call the intelligent educated ones low value and still go as far as tagging those who marry them names

Well as for these, I do admire an intelligent and smart girl since in the end both dumb and intelligent/smart girl might cheat, I'd go for a smart one. —I can remember vividly well I said smart and intelligent girls will make it hard for you to be the man— and also I work with my brain. I countered the part where Kennedy said it was OK for Harvey to do as he pleases with his company as per giving out job to women.

Now to your answer via women who marry.....

Yes those women have self esteem issues. And there is no ugly man, it's just men with empty pocket at the moment.

OH and one more thing, I'm not in this gender war whatsoever... I give out my opinion to whoever that asked for it, and I make sure I don't call women who ask for it here on NL instead it's the men I call names. Check my posts very well and you will see how fairly unbiased I am
Kapiche?

Gerrard59:
And this Mr PerfectMaster is where the hypocrisy lies. You cannot wish for what you cannot offer. Most of these ladies who are virgins are pious or at best prudish, [/b]going to church services thrice weekly[b]. Asking them to be yoked with a brostitute just because you want a virgin is unfair to their vaginas and go against their beliefs. Moreover, if you really desire to marry a virgin as a non-virgin, what are you bringing to the table? Do you have enough money to cover your brostitute status? Or you believe because you want a virgin then any virgin will accept you even though you have a community pen!s?

It is those women with holes the size of Florida that's usually in church mostly because they're nearing their peak in age and praying for a man to get married to them.

MrBrownJay1:
its called spec/opinion, and like a butthole, everybody got one...

the majority of men want a virgin woman because of low self esteem. the simple reason why they want one is because they CANT accept that their woman has been with another man. they CANT take the fact that their woman had a life before them. they CANT accept that they wont be their woman's first.

if a man wants a virgin because he believes of the purity of the body, then unless he is a virgin himself, he is just talking NONSENSE! there is a TON of insecure/low self esteem men in Nigeria.

Oga talk Rubbish joor and commot for my side which one is low esteem?

Yes I believe and I know men have low self esteem and you find these men lowering their standards to accommodate women with characters they don't like and on a normal level won't even condone. You see men settling for less like being with single mothers, women older than them and or women fatter or uglier than their mothers.

Men who wants virgins are those who thinks that because a woman is a virgin the possibility of her to cheat is very low maybe due to factors that made her a virgin up until the time she got married like (low libido, religion and strict upbringing from parents). But to their greatest surprise, not all keeps passing the test.. They tend to cheat more cause they've felt what they've been running from for years only to feel it and be great about it. It is not because they have low self esteem. If for anything, it's women who has more number of low self esteemed being than men but knows how to hide it or maybe men don't know how to figure it out.

I knew all along that women cheat. It's all about bringing a baby back home.

husbandsnatcha:
...Check my signature any name u see there !

Husby sef! Lol..

emmaodet:
I don't like this statement - change your circle of girls you hang out with. That statement alone means a lot is wrong with the whole system.
During my dad's time, he never had to change his circle or environment to get a good woman, that shows how bad things have become.
Then, all you had to do is date the average lady in you street, community or town and you are good to go, you are 95% sure you are marrying a good woman but can we try that now? It will be a total disaster.
Now it's all about change your circle, change your friends, change your environment, change you clothings, shape, change your...... Change your...... Change your .......
[/b]Only God knows what next to change[b]

ubunja
Martinez39s
Martinez39

Life. Life's next to change.

Digmygold:
[/b]Are you going to meet with him in the air or are you going to force the frustrated ruined old man hiding behind Ubunja moniker out of his shi*thole?[b] You dont need to go far. [/i]Ask for his phone number na and do a video call.[i]

@bolded shouldn't bother you.

I didn't even think of @italics...

Digmygold:
Thats not Ubunja. He is a wicked soul. He used the picture of somebody else. Ask the him to do a live video with you and see the wrinkled frustrated papa behind the moniker since he is claiming to be open to all.

Ain't you the dude or lady who uncovered his picture to be that Yoruba guy, why the sudden change? Please you have put a face on the unknown man and I like to leave it like that. At least I wouldn't be having dreams of how ubunja gonna look when I meet with him later.... Cause I'm gonna meet him. The faceless dude now has a face and you wanna ruin it for him and for me. Damn!

Stmerc1:
New account created

I shouldn't be posting this because of the type of comments nairalanders post here most especially tagging you a sissy. Notwithstanding, I just have to do so because I really need help.

She's presently 22 and I'm 27, I have dated her for about 4 years which was all through her university days from her first year. We had the best relationship even though we were both from humble backgrounds. We shared everything we had and we were truthful to each other.

The complications: When she was in year 2, she met a guy who she fell in love with, unfortunately, the guy didn't ask her out, she infact asked the guy out by herself, (dat was where my mistake came from, I knew i shud hv sent her out of my life by den but I helped her overcome the lust)

Last year January, I caught her in a romantic chat with a guy which almost cost us the relationship, she was in love again but my extreme love for her pushed me to fight for her to come back again. We resolved and came back stronger after 3 months.

This January, the school released the list of graduating students and her name was excluded. She told me about it and I told her she disappointed me because I told her to meet with someone who could have helped check if her results were good but she was just postponing it. She later termed it that I said she is a disappointment. Although she later found out she failed a course. From that moment, she blocked me off all social media, blocked my numbers and hv never spoken to me since then. I hv reached her sisters, friends and mum, all she tells them is she will call me.

Not to sound too saintly, I wouldn't mention the sacrifices I have made for her throughout her stay in school.

I hv continued to try to reach in 2 weeks interval yet she wouldn't pick my calls.

I have planned all my life, my future with her, this is too shocking and I don't know what to do. Not a goodbye, not a breakup.

Why will a sane man plan his life and future with another human being?

When she blocked you, you shouldn't have reached out. You should have moved on.

How do people find it difficult to understand the subtle way others tell them to fvck off their life and move on?

Fu.ucking move on douche bag! She's a lost cause.

And what if you had her back, only to go through this stress again? C'mon think like a man!

Digmygold:
Omar09


Are you that dumb to think that was Ubunja? Ask him to go LIVE with you on instagram or facebook.Make i DM his wrinkled face to you. You go pick race. Dumb people everywhere.

That picture of the Yoruba guy is ubunja. I like to think so.

Mrperfecto:
Well in that case I know what to do. My daughter comes first she will stay and I will send my wife back to her parents

This is very good. Don't mind others saying otherwise, because the moment you give in to her tantrums, that is the beginning of more tantrums. Don't worry she will quiet down once she sees that your stance is firm! And she will rarely bring up tantrum to get what she wants. She will device other means. Still you have to stand strong.

EasternPrince:
Omar (f)
You have been a babe for 2 months now. What fuckery is this?

Doggy

franchasng:

And if a girl bluntly says: I feel like having sex, delete that guy asap

Niggalatian 5vs 3

Raeheemwayne:
A nigga once said;
If a girl texts You first


Block HIM!!!1

Niggalation 12 vs 1-5

ubunja:
lol me too. But girls are also nice. How you doing

Doing great. Just tryna let some dudes understand that even tho Harvey exercised his rights tho in the wrong way, but he shot himself in the leg. How are you?

ubunja:
these long lists bore me to death
cant u keep it at 10 or less

I liked that picture of "you" better.

Kennedyiheme02:
open a thread and advice men... you handle this case as it is.. .. the right thing to say is " what the lady did was wrong and what the court did was terrible" then you proceed on another thread to warn men from using sex for favours... red pill red pill... I'd expect red pill applied sense

I did condemn it. It was wrong of the woman, and the court. And all these could have been avoided if the man had sense.

mystery22:
,yes men should accept false rape accusers,the same way women should accept serial killers targeting only women and revenge after the men serve jail term,

I just love how Muslims deal with ur kind,no bullshit, no long stories...go and accuse an Arab man of rape or our notherners here in Nigeria!!!!

Wow! Y'all have so much hate for them women folks. Y'all gotta understand that is how women are, when things don't go their way, they tend to use emotions as their resort. You just have to not be in their way.

kokanepyramid:
You’ve left the premise of the argument, no one cares about the action the lady took after the sex.
What we are asking is, is it legally right to sentence someone to 23 years based on the victims testimony?

You talk about red pill and you are subtly being a proponent of men should be weak so not to get in trouble with women.
They fight for gender equality yet they take half of the Man’s wealth when they divorce and not vice versa.

A man gets raped by a woman no one believes him a woman comes to claim rape against a man after decades have passed her crocodile tears is admissible as evidence, where is the gender equality in this.

Do you know women are legally not allowed to work night shifts in factories yet to talk about equal opportunities and they must earn as much as men.

Majority of ladies always claim you forced them to have sex the first time trying to absolve themselves of guilt.

The summary is majority of ladies just want to eat their cake and have it, they never own their mistakes neither do they take responsibility for their action and inactions and the courts are becoming accomplices in this crime movement against men.

I still stand strong in what I've stated earlier. You have failed to acknowledge one thing: Though it is not right for the court to sentence a man to 23yrs imprisonment just on mere claim and false witnesses, but these have come to stay! Women will always eat their cake and have it. They will accuse you falsely for their own petty reasons and guess what, you can't do anything about it.
You just have to avoid such situations at all cost.

Now me advising men to avoid such situations doesn't make me a proponent of weak men but rather a man who has his own interests at heart and admonishes every man to do same.

husbandsnatcha:

Oma oma!

Yeah...

Kennedyiheme02:
now you're looming like mrjaybrown, disappointed.
bribery is a crime because there's a law against people driving cars with unregistered plate numbers hence a policman is bribed to look the other way....

Theres no law that tells me how to run my job openings..its mine i decide the conditions for you getting a job from me.. you're not entitled to it? Its not government property, its mine.. if you dont like my conditions stay away...

STICk RED PILL TALKS BRO.. IN OTHER ASPECTSN OF LIFE THAT REQUIRES THOUGHTS AND UNDERSTANDING, YOU'RE TERRIBLE.

This is common understanding i wonder why you're struggling to get it.mm

Well my point still remains, don't do no shit that will put you in big trouble. Because it's your right to choose the modality for your own business/job doesn't mean women won't sue you for sexual assault. Women live a double standard life that you can't trust them. Now look how that lady made it look like it was Harvey's fault she slept with him and so it's a rape, seen how she enjoyed it and later termed it rape? Don't accept sex on credit. It will never end well for a man. Assuming it's a the other way round, men will never sue the woman because it's the logical thing to do. In fact they will come for more without asking for any movie role. But women, emotional double standard lying filthy things! They will do it cause they want to worse, they will cajole you into it and then turn around to sue you. Avoid such situations. I'm not for whether he had the rights to run his business whatsoever, all I'm for is, be straightforward with women and never ever! Lend a help to women or their ward! Stay in your lane. And call them at their bullsh.it!

kokanepyramid:
Bribery is only punishable by law in selected sectors eg govt official taking bribes. The law can’t punish a private business owner taking bribe from another private citizen.

Well my point still remains, don't do no shit that will put you in big trouble. Because it's your right to choose the modality for your own business/job doesn't mean women won't sue you for sexual assault. Women live a double standard life that you can't trust them. Now look how that lady made it look like it was Harvey's fault she slept with him and so it's a rape, seen how she enjoyed it and later termed it rape? Don't accept sex on credit. It will never end well for a man. Assuming it's a the other way round, men will never sue the woman because it's the logical thing to do. In fact they will come for more without asking for any movie role. But women, emotional double standard lying filthy things! They will do it cause they want to worse, they will cajole you into it and then turn around to sue you. Avoid such situations. I'm not for whether he had the rights to run his business whatsoever, all I'm for is, be straightforward with women and never ever! Lend a help to women or their ward! Stay in your lane. And call them at their bullsh.it!