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Kennedyiheme02:
This is a very sensitive topic because i know alot of emotions would be flared...

Dont get me wrong, if i get female children I'll be happy.. 3 boys 1 girl is perfect for me... but in a situation where all my kids are girls.. i dont pray for it, no offense to anyone...

The reason why ? Its all because first of all, you have a family legacy like most family, you own a surname, your business, all you worked for probably 30 years +... when you dont have male kids, how do you give all that to a woman?.. this isn't misogyny, this is reality... Some times we let our emotions get the better of us and we don't think well... the reason why i wouldnt put my familys heirloom in my daughters hands is because.

1 a womans main aim is to get married, and thats what I'll want for my daughter... so when she gets married and bears someone's name... the family's legacy is shifted automatically to another family.. just like that...

2. Women aren't built to run businesses, women have failed more in running businesses...


I saw a video if daddy freeze where he said why should men care about thier legacy, even poor men shouldn't care... listen legacy isn't all about wealth.. its a whole lineage.... so a family with the surname "chukwuka" that has existsd for over 200 years... because you're woke, the family name is erased because of a mans foolishness in not striving to concieve a male child?... this seems so archaic but its an everlasting reality .

Daddy freeze also referenced an igbo tradition that keeps the eldesr daughter of an old man with no male kids... his daughter will meet with another man while in her fathers house.. conceive.. just so the family concieve male kids.... the man who got the woman pregnant cant claim the baby as it is tradition...

You might say its achaic but how is it different feom what is practised in the brittish monarchy.. queen elizabeths father had no male kids... she wasnt supposed to be on the throne... she was supposed to be married to another royal family.... but since the heirloom and throne must continue she took the seat.. a man came into the house, they had kids... her kids bears her fathers name instead of her husbands name...

This is how they keep the throne in the family.. but because they are white, no one says anything...

Personally if i dont have male kids.. i rather adopt one, give him my name.. than give the heirloom to daughtera who would marry someone else, thereby changing names...

Omar09 , ubunja, Martinez39s

Martinez39s:
It's common knowledge that prenups are glorified toilet papers. A basketball player in America (I can't remember the name but you can google him) signed three papers for his prenup but the judge waved it aside and placed him on alimony and child support. Go and ask anyone over there; they will tell you that prenups are glorified toilet papers of the divorce courts.

The truth is that redpill knowledge on female nature are not new. These truths were even known thousands of years ago. In fact our distant forefathers will laugh at you if you told them you wanted to marry for love. They didn't do love. Romantic love is a relatively recent human invention that has captured many minds. It's just that the present world we live is blue pilled, and feminists, the media, and white knights have all successfully distorted history and convinced us that our forefathers were misogynists who hated women. Little do people know that our forefathers were masculine men that understood women and knew how to handle them.

• If you ask feminists in America how men were misogynistic in the past, they will quickly mention how men didn't allow women to vote. What they don't tell you is that voting was restricted to the ruling class, and many men couldn't vote too.
• Nigerian feminists might point our that women in the past were left out of inheritance due to misogyny and sexism. What they failed to mention was that since men had the burden to be breadwinners and protectors, men were empowered with the whole inheritance so they could provide for their families. Women were left out because their husbands (who, possibly, also solely inherited properties, money, and lands, and made his own money) would take care of them.
• What about men going to school while women stayed at home as they learned to be good wives and housekeepers? Feminists act like this male positon, then, were made out of misogyny and sexism. They failed to tell us that the reason men were made to go to school and hold jobs wasn't because of sexism. It was because these were thought to give men the means to provide for their family. Society saw men as workhorses for their families and empowered them to serve as proper workhorses. The women? They were seen as housekeepers who would provided for by their husbands. Housekeeping doesn't require sound education so women stayed at home and were groomed to be housekeepers. These were gender roles not sexism. It's now okay if feminists don't want these roles but they shouldn't lie that it's slavery and sexism and that men didn't have their burdens too.

I could say more but I will reserve them for a topic i will soon create.


Ubunja, Omar09, emmaodet

DenreleDave:
Can u learn to support your own in the public and rebuke in the private?
Things happen here on nairaland, even though the lady is wrong, u see ladies trooping in thousands to defend her act. She is very wrong oo but the other ladies will still find one or two ways to give her hope that she is doing the right thing.
E.g He sent me to school and I promise to marry him but now that I am graduate, I don't love him again, I fell in love with another guy. Your advise is needed
Lady 1: leave the idiot alone, ride on lady. Free to love anyone u like... Person like Riele wll say this
Lady 2: sharp babe. He can't expect u a graduate to marry an illiterate guy na.. U r wise.. Person like SweetCunt97 will say this
2nd scenario : She was there for me during hard times but I don't feel anytin for her again
See comment;
Man 1: u r bad person. Stupid man. A disgrace to men
Man 2: wasted sperm.. Bastard
Lady 1: Chai I use to tell ladies not to spend on this broke ass niggar
Man 3: move on lady, u will find a better man than him
Men, learnt to support yourselves.. Many of this ladies bring false accusations against men to gain sympathy and the innocent man in question is been Insulted by his fellow guys.
Guys, when will you have sense??

Mrop:
Is this the end of the world, or is she not concerned about the ongoing virus?.
So this lady shares this controversial maternity photos and video.
Can you allow your visit to do a kind of shoot like this?.Pass your judgement on her.
Watch the Controversial Clip HERE.

Mrop:
Is this the end of the world, or is she not concerned about the ongoing virus?.

So this lady shares this controversial maternity photos and video.

Can you allow your visit to do a kind of shoot like this?.Pass your judgement on her.

Watch the Controversial Clip HERE

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franchasng:
Buhari is on retirement package given to him by gullible Nigerians.



The man is old and not aware of anything happening around him except few things about his cows and grand children which is normal for a grandpa cos my late grandpa loved his goats and sheep and grandkids more than anything else.


Abba Kyari, Mamman Daura, and co are lucky people. They are Presidents without contesting for one. Aisha Buhari is also a lucky woman as she has a money making machine at home who has made her and her generation billions without stress, so all she needs now is a guy of her dream to be helping her with bedroom duties.



Another lucky people are Buhari's children and relatives....they were made billionaires without stress.


The only unfortunate people are innocent, vulnerable and GULLIBLE Nigerians

RisenPhoenix:
That's like asking: "how do you know when a pig is flying?".

Pigs don't fly; d-uh!

ubunja:
don't be short sighted.
Who will marry these single mothers if guys are not getting jobs??

Arthur21:
Don't show ladies money when you approach them,thats like telling them of your Achilles heels

Arthur21:
you are right,its mostly church rats with no penny to their name that sham. One buffoon p.etyprincess that looks so bland and hungry broke sham guys and lies she dates a polish guy. I have had ladies that scream" say no to broke boys " send PMs asking me for money....most people condemn what they are in real life.

ubunja:
Between a guy getting a job and a single mother getting married, which one has a realistic chance of happening?


That's why I'm saying you're veering away from logic.

CAPSLOCKED:
for the records, I have never been shamed by females on this forum. let's not blame women today.
every blessed day, it is the dullard unintelligent men that tell me about money everyday. when ever they don't like my points, they talk about money.

when they disagree with my atheism, they tell me I am angry at God because I have no money. these men don't even know me. but you see, they believe their money (visible and invisible) is superior than everything, and everyone, including random people on the internet. They believe if they have money, nothing else should count, not even intelligence. nothing.

unfortunately, throughout the years, they have engineered women and teenagers to reason like that too. so they should take the blame. whenever women broke shame you on any thread, countless men (including the poorest of men) are on other threads shaming their fellow men. so it goes round, you see.

CAPSLOCKED:

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DenreleDave:
Jagaban of the East


Conquered igbo lands, hausa land, Benin land, minority land sef...


Amaka tinubu. Incase you don't know, tinubu is from the east but yoruba likes to claim him. Just like they claim nollywood, they want to claim our Son, Tinubuchi..

Yorubas stay off our son of the soil.... East is tinubuchi, Tinubuchi is East

Mind you, I am from Anambra.. Original anambra... So no insult


Guys, let love reign. Meanwhile I invite you to our Revival tmao Night... Tagged: Corona virus must die by fire.


Click on the link

https://www.nairaland.com/5742822/watch-out-nairaland-prayer-revival

Invited guest

Anointed men of God: Pst Ubunja, Bishop Mrcork, Apostle Omar09, Pst lady Pocohantas, Pst Unatoto

UjuJoan2:
You just have to face facts, being a single mother/father comes with a lot of consequences. Most people would not want to get involved with them.

I remember meeting an OAP when I was single, he was a local celebrity and was all over me. I was even catching feelings and falling for his moves already. He would play me love songs in his morning shows and do 'shout out' to me all day. It was wonderful . . . until I found out he had an 8-YO daughter.

You see I didn't see myself becoming a mother to an 8YO that wasn't mine. I just couldn't.

You can't judge people for the choices they make and the actions they take. That's why when you make a decision, you need to be ready to face the consequences.

ubunja:
in guessing negative responses has scared him off. But I don't know.

ubunja:
you can phone him and ask him to come complete it. His number is available on NL.

Whogoes:
Good morning nairalanders
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Let me just go straight to the point. I just parked into to a new location and I leave alone though still single and searching. And I am just 23 .There is this particular girl she always greets me at my bus stop when ever I am coming back from work at night.
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Letter we became friends, though I don't like making friends cos I am an introvert type . But she forced it . Like greeting and complimenting me always. 2months letter , we were already friends on Facebook. One day she messaged me on Facebook that I should do her a favour. I said what is it. She said I should buy her a phone.
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I was like hmmmmmm . So I used that opportunity to ask her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Now the problem began when I invited her to my house. She refused and gave an excuse.
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There was a time I asked her if she really love me as she claims and she strongly sweared about that . That she loves me so much bla bla bla .
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Now I am wondering if that is love or lust . Maybe she just want my money or what do you guys think. I don't want to buy her any phone . Ofcourse I can't do that unless she proves herself
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Please I need your advice . Matured minds only

francesco01:
hello Phadg. good morning, how are you doing today?. I've gone through your topic and your profile too. anyways I don't really have much to say here now. I'm Tola,6ft1inch, will soon clock 28,I stay in Ibadan, just graduated from University of Ibadan of recent,i will like us to be friends. feel free to chat me up or call me on 08135605028.enjoy your day.

Phadg:
Bunch of mumu

Casalindal:
Are your alpha male in my box

Newsrock:
Remember in a relationship a sense of humor matters most and it is one of the greatest assets
Why do men need funny jokes for a girl? A sense of humor can become a real asset when you want to impress different girls.

Funny guys are usually the ones who have lots of girls hanging around them. On the other hand, there are some fellows who are pretty good with jokes and tricks but don’t have any ladies, in-fact girls seem to stay away from them



It’s not just important to have good manners and the ability to joke, but it’s also important to know the best jokes which impress girls. Your friends, boys, might get impressed by your jokes on ladies, animals, cars or celebrities but it might leave her totally cold. So you need to understand type of jokes a girl likes to find the most appropriate one.

Short jokes to send her 1. Are you a magician? Because whenever I look at you, everyone else disappears!

2. I'm not a photographer, but I can picture me and you together.

3. Do I know you? 'Cause you look a lot like my next girlfriend

4. Do you know what my shirt is made of? Boyfriend/girlfriend material?

5. They say Disneyland is the happiest place on earth. Well apparently, no one has ever been standing next to you.
6. For some reason, I was feeling a little off today. But when you came along, you d

7. Are you religious? Because you're the answer to all my prayers.

8. I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?

9. I'm lost. Can you give me directions to your heart?

10. Are you a parking ticket? 'Cause you've got fine written all over you.

11. Are you sure you're not tired? You've been running through my mind all day.

12. Is there an airport nearby or is it my heart taking off?

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ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]She's like that spider that entices willing male spiders for mating afterwhich she bites off the head of the unfortunate victim then she stores the rest to feed her offsprings...And she's doing a great job of it,observing as how many thirsty simps here are falling over the themselves to reach her. Observe how she spun her own attraction via self promoting "My friends say I am too nice" or " I am independent" "blah blah blah"...which are exaggerations thus gathering as much validation from these beta cucks to improve or boost her self esteem. At the end of the day her shackara will continue and she will want nothing do with these clingy betas or at most, cash out and monkey swing to the branch or best simp that will buy her depreciating market value.[/color]

emmaodet:
Well, where should we start from sef?
Though the advises i will be giving, i can't/won't use them bcus have outgrown that stage but for you, you should because he that is down needs fear no fall.
What are your options -
We have the legal and the illegal ways and you need to consider both because right now, you are disposable.

- go to cow market and join cow butchers, learn the business, work with them just the way many boys do over there and with time you will have your own stand/stall.
Profitable but a bit degrading for so called graduates.

- Go and learn egg distributorship from wholesale buyers, not a bad one too.

Meet cucumber, tomatoes, pepper etc farmers. You should be able to start this with abt 50k for 1 acre of land leased at 5-8k per year

Look for goat and rams rearers, partner with them and buy baby goats or rams to be raised by them and you sell after about 6 months. With 50k, you can buy up to 8-10 goats for a start.

Snail farming - quiet and can easily be done where you are living. Requires feeding once per day, mostly evening after coming back from work.
Bee farm
Maggot culture - very profitable with a low start up, i custard presently at abt #800 if am right. Highly used by fish farmers.
Meet abokis into fresh catfish selling at junctions, learn from them for about 3 months - where they buy, hiw much they buy and sell, profit, start up and you get your stand beside them
We have lots and lots and lots of things we can do but School, Education as really messed us all up.
Now we all want to sit down and make fat cash, live expensive lifestyles, big cars etc

Illega -

Meet okada people, tell them to take you to Aso-rock aka marijuana selling house.
Meet the sellers, tell dem u wan do apprenticeship, after d days job, dem fit dey drop u changes why you learn the business but cell/prison go be ur second home (in your condition like i said bfore, u are disposable) so not doing it won't change a thing after all.
If you don't like that, look at the marijuana value chain and see where you can easily key into -
Feom selling to customers, to the logistic area of bringing it from the farm to cities to meeting the farmers in delta, edo or ondo to cultivate your own 1acre for a start which i believe, in a short period u will live better dan civil servants in town.
Or come PH and enter Angala where u will be buying poofire diesel and sell to ready customers at Onne - u learn d business from successful guys sha.
Go to liverpool in lagos and meet the seafood market women to study and learn how to be buying seafoods like crabs, shrimps, crayfish, fish from both local fishermen and fiahing vessels and sell under Liverpool bridge

Bro, the ball is in ur cot

Keldom:
Where is he based?

Arthur21:
Buda is a male,a mangina

Phadg:

guys are funny though i didnt say i need another guy that will play me or that wont.
am sure if i need another guy not on here.you guys are worst than my exes have been following some trends bfor i sign up i know how you pple advice.thanks to all the guys in my mail and the once dropping contact i think am going pass on the offers pls thanks

Keldom:
Good day everyone, I'm an old Nairalander but created this account to pour out the tears flowing from my heart over these years. As I type this, my heart is heavy, very heavy. Life is totally unfair and has somehow become too gloomy recently.
Before I entered school, I had planned to be a lecturer or someone who impacts knowledge for the greater good of the society. So I chose an education course and vowed to make first class in order to make it easier to get to my dreams.

At the University, I struggled through school because I partly trained myself and because of this I could only make 2:1 (CGPA 4.2). Since then I've been unable to secure a job, but I do some hustles and have taught in private schools around. But it's nothing because this schools pay as less as 20,000.
As the first of 8 children, what I make rarely get into my pocket. I will have to send to my poor parents in the village and cater for my younger ones. I've continued to push life believing things will get better someday. I apply for jobs, sometimes I get invites, sometimes I don't. Some jobs that I know I merit because of my performance in the interview, you will be surprised I won't be called. Some are clearly bought with money even in my presence.

I'm tired of everything. I thought hardwork in school would have paved way for me knowing the kind of family I came from, and what lies ahead. I feel so down right now. Five years down the line, I'm unemployed and my dream of becoming a lecturer seem not feasible anymore. Just recently my landlord called me and reminded me I've not paid last year rent. I'm tired and giving up about everything.

Pls I need help out of this dilemma. My prayers are simple. Help me with a good job that I can save, do my masters and PhD and get a lecturing job. If the lecturing won't be possible, at least let me be comfortable and help my family. Help me dry this tears in my eyes. Even if not for me, for the sake of my younger ones who look up to me for help and support, my aging mum and people around me. There's tears in my heart anytime I can't help when they are in need.

I can do a lot, I learn very fast, I can manage your organization/establishments, I can mange social media accounts, I can do anything with minimal tutoring about it. Please help me anyway you can.
God bless you.

Arthur21:
Capslocked,mjbolt,Omar09,martinez39s, emmaodet you all should talk some sense to the males on this forum, sending a pm to someone in dire need of help...shame

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