₦airaland Forum

Na wao. The hypocrisy of the west is just getting apparent by the day. It's okay to stand with Ukraine and condemn Russia, but supporting Palestine means losing your job?

Where is the fairness?


And to all the nairaland's both paid and pro-bono hasbaras, may you all reap what you sow.

joelbooks:
Is this man actually a Professor?

Did he think all P.hD holders have placement in other climes?

Don't mind him. When even those from Western countries are rushing to the middle East

BATified2023:
peter obi one of the major importer telling u he wants to move us from consumption to production n u believe

Someone who was governor of one of d most industrialized state in Nigeria n he’s still importing,he couldn’t even tap into d potential of his people n sell them to the world but he import goods to devalue their market

This is my question as well. Why didn't he harness the clear advantage Anambra has in manufacturing?

bigdammyj:
Noted.

When he quizzed on what his plan is to get Nigeria out of his current economic woes, Obi said that security is the first thing that needs to be put in place in the country.

He explained that with security in place in the country, farmers will be able to go back to the farm.

To plant cassava & agbado for Tinubu's Soldiers l guess

Was about saying the same! Isn't this exactly what they are castigating Tinubu for?

It seems this guy has no specific idea of how to solve all the problems he kept reciting. Just like Buhari, if elected, people will be soo disappointed.

Advocate500:
This one is supporting his northerner brother,no matter waiting you preach to this people about a better nation,is a waste of precious time,they will always look one religious reasons or the other to vote for their brother.

Do you remember he supported Jonathan during the last election?..

donestk:
You cant earn a capitalist salary in a socialist university

Copied

100% correct

Lexicon123:
Fact remains that Ortom is the worst governor Benue has ever had. Continues to cry and wail about the FG's failures, but does absolutely nothing to improve things within his control.

Most governors in Nigeria are about that bad. If only they can do just a little better, Nigeria won't be in this sorry state. No President can do magic if the components are these rotten, especially in a democracy that force cannot be applied.

This is just the plain truth. We are always only complaining about the fg, forgetting that if only the states and even local governments perform their roles, then we will be way better off.

InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

Please, what she needs right now is good psychiatric evaluation and treatment. I had a neighbor who had post partuM depression that lasted for almost a year. She neglected the baby, it degenerated to her being violent towards the husband and even her own sister that was living with her then.

She became better after appropriate medical treatment.
Her subconscious mind is probably associating you with the trauma of child birth. Be patient with her please.

please and please, do not listen to all these ignorant, little kids here insinuating she is cheating on you, GET HER MEDICAL HELP ASAP

Kelechi009:
Thank you. I see many women with makeup doing before and after pregnancy photos. The after pregnancy photos have no makeup.

Pregnancy does cause an increase in melanin production especially around the face, neck and tummy.

Google melasma of pregnancy

Isn't fasting all about not eating? May Allah provide for you from His mercy.

mii4u:
Let's assume she didn't feel a thing, so the baby didn't kick as well?

That's what I am wondering myself. So the baby never made any large movement to alert her? And she is not an FTM for that matter.

lilioj:
Seriously I can't imagine being in labour for hours, then later start pushing for more!!!

Honestly, it's brutal. Have personally witnessed one like that. She was small and the baby was a bit big for her size. Even she had to be given double episiotomy

Newborn27:
If you sleep immediately after the baby slept, how would the home chores be done?

With the baby at my back. I as well do as much as I can do of chores especially during those initial weeks following delivery. After my horrible sleep deprivation experience with my first, I made a policy of sleeping as soon as the baby sleeps and this helps tremendously with sleep deprivation and post partum depression, which to me, is more important than getting all the chores done.

lilioj:
Keep pushing for an hour? When I had my 2 children I pushed them out under 5 mins perhaps you mean labour. I mean the labour itself is excruciating no doubt but the pushing doesn't start until the cervix is properly dilated, which shouldn't take hours.

It does for a lot of women. My first and second were out in about two or three pushes. The third took me about 8mins and the fourth more than 15 minutes. I was so frustrated , I felt like the baby would never come out. After my fourth labour, I really feel for women who push for several hours before delivering.

Ppogbae:
What is with this site's hatred for Iran? As someone who's neutral, I am always fascinated by what I read on here regarding middle eastern politics.

For some reasons, there seems to be a lot of Christian fanatics who worship Israel on this site.

Prolific007:
This get rich quick syndrome is the problem of this generation. Nobody wants to build but want to wake up rich. May God help us

Honestly, this is the problem. Gone are the days when people were patient with what they had while being hopeful for the future.
Now everyone wants to be very rich, especially when they see others flaunting their wealth.

Matheusmartin:
if keke drivers make such money as claimed, why can't they afford decent life style??

food for thought.

Because most of them are illiterate and will blast the money as they make it.

Abfinest007:
I perfer living homeless abroad than Nigeria .

With that their harsh weather? Naa

There used to be an associate degree in medlab for two years back then. I don't know about now.

dele1727:


The main problem this nation has is the abundant bunch of nitwit who claim to be educated yet comment on issues that they never read about or read without comphrension..... Twitter and Nairaland shows clearly ignorance thrives in this country

It is honestly very disturbing. It makes me feel these comments are just programmed bots pushing an agenda.

DubaiLandLord:
For my area, dem no dey sell #100 rice sef



The FG do support the Northern Region more in the Agricultural sector.

They need to start supporting Southern Farmers in the production of food crops.

The problem with the south is that our villages are almost going into extinction. Everyone wants to be in the City where they start complaining "food is cost o food is cost o"
I was surprised when I got to know how heavily involved in agriculture the whites are but we find it hard to maintain even backyard garden.

AKWATGOLD1:
Generally, Middle-belt and North as whole cannot feel hyper inflation on food items because they do farm what they eat but my brother from South-West, South-East and South-South all of us wanted to work in offices like Banks, Oil companies, Government offices and become General Manager despite all this desire by people is Hausa people that still control them in those offices.
Southern Nigera pls lets go back to farming. Na Advise ooooo

Well said. Some in the west has free land in their compounds o but they will not be able to make small garden.

cloud:
seems you havent been following the news to read about how farmers have suffered greatly this year, from herdsmen crisis in the benue, kidnapping and banditry in the North east and west, tribal/ communal conflicts etc. Fertility of the soil does not guarantee a bountiful harvest.

That's true though. Plus the fact that our agricultural practices in Nigeria is sadly very achaic. Our yield per land area is just too low, even when compared with other African countries.

Na wao. Even though there's an increase in inflation all over the world as a result of the pandemic. I think ours is on the high side.
Agricultural products shouldn't be one of those affected however with how fertile our land is.

studio14:
may you be kidnapped or any of your relatives be kidnapped in any of our secured highways, then you can understand what others are talking about. Your mad cow disease papa is destroying the country you are shifting blame. You most be kidnapped any of these days.

May all you wish me be returned to you in manifolds. Can you people ever converse politely without insults and curses??. What warrants all these nonsense? No wonder you people keep being in one problem or the other. I have clean mind and have no fear.
You should work on yourselves. You have issues that need treatment. Why insults and abuses and curses? Is this how you guys are raised? Do you even have any life.??

Lionnation:
where is your seseses

Are you sane? What's seseses?

studio14:
I am a patriot, only you who championed cows more than human, are destroying the country.

FYI I am not a northerner and haven't been to the north self. I am more patriotic than you are. I have no other country apart from this. I only pray that God in his infinite mercy help disgrace and destroy those who wants it's downfall.

studio14:
Ndi ngbu enyego ha ego ka ha wepu ya, only sector working in nigeria is bribery and corruption sector. Buhari administration is all about bribery and intimidation.

NOTE: IF YOU QUOTE ME EVERYTHING BUHARI WISHED FOR NIGERIANS WILL COME ONLY TO YOUR FAMILY.

And everything you wish for Nigeria will come only to your family

Lionnation:
People seem to be mistaken, and they forgot not everyone you see in Lagos have relatives, most of them ran away from home to prostitute in Lagos or do other vices or petty jobs, most of the people killed had their bodies taken away by the soldiers, not everyone have an Internet's enabled phone. So let's also put all of this in consideration while making assertions

So, are you suggesting the bullets selectively targeted those types of people?

alizma:
I don tell una, politicians only contribute just 5% of our problems, the remaining 95% is contributed by average Nigerians you see and talk with on daily basis.

I wish I could like your comment a million times more. Honestly, the harm and discomfort we bring to each other is way way more than any caused by the so called government. Imaging, fleecing people who are sick and probably poorer than those workers.

I have being happily married for more than 14 years and from my experience, each of the partners should have these characters; patience, prayers, forgivenes, ability to overlook trivial issues. Compassion, empathy, kindness, loyalty, understanding, respect, making the other feel important.

All these may not be present in the early phase of a marriage. However, if you can just hold on to PATIENCE and a few of the above, then you will succeed by God's grace.

wordcat:
Ajasco,

Papa Ajasco,

Mama Ajasco,

Boy Alinco,

Pa James,

Pa Jimoh

I don forget that lady name

Miss pepeye