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Babe U have to up Ur game if U want to keep Ur man. Sometimes when our love interests are distracted, we need to move back and present our selves so they see us clearer. Focus creates blindness.

This isnt a time to cry and whine. It's time to re-brand.

Must she answer his call? If she answers must she talk? No matter how buoyant a guy is U hardly can come across one among us that would hang on to a call he knows the person at the other end is not attending to; even a cheap skate that cant call during the day. When next he calls, pick the call promptly then drop the phone somewhere and go about what U are doing. Or simply switch off at nyt since it's not like U are using the phone then.

I really dont know why some of us feel there's a law that says when our phone rings we MUST answer it.

There are wolfs among the sheep.

Seen.

As for the poll, If I trust, I let in door after door after door, closer and closer to my heart but no one gets thru the last two doors. That's sacred zone.

The elusive man. That's who U've described. Looks good and very desirable but trust me the end with him is usually sadness to U. Firm in decision and in control of his emotions means whatever he does for U, he does cos he wants to and not ever because U "made him do it;" and what he doesn't do he doesn't do because he has chosen to not do it and there really isnt a thing U can do about it. Which woman is there alive that doesnt enjoy the secret pleasure of knowing she can make her man do things she wants him too?

Do U know what happens to a woman that feels she's helpless in influencing her man's decisions? Do U realize that she spends the rest of her life and energy trying to "break him" even if being unbroken has never been a bad thing in the long run for them?

Women want a strong firm man but trust me the one's that find the few string firm men in the core sense of it hardly ever get validation of worth from him.

Men are not strong. We are weak somewhere even when we look strong and we need wives that understand just were and can help us stand there better than we would on our own.

Maybe I misunderstood your post. A decisive man that has an internal council of "elders" and has his emotions under control with out being in consistent touch with God and living in His perfect love is the most dangerous man anyone can come across. Very attractive but dangerous cos U can't say U have him and there's just no telling what he'l decide to do next.

Thanks. Noticed that shortly after I had posted.

With a the typos there I hope I still communicated effectively?

The girl I've been closest too was "off point" in looks from my dreamy fantasy girl. She had a pretty face and her proportions were ok for her height and weight. That was all. No nice round prominent bum, not dark and provocative colour; Eyes weren't slit cut, and she wasn't all that tall; but I thot she was perfect cos she was my friend before being my girl and we shared everything and had peace.

I've met other girls I wouldn't say were "Oh My Goodness" in looks, and have see that I could date them if things worked out, and I've met girls that were "ALL THAT" but never made it to the 'date-able' list cos they probably were grossly lacking in character or just were not looking for what I was in a relationship or just were not interesting enough to keep me in pursuit or outrightly didn't think of me as their kinda guy.


Point is, sometimes it's good to be flexible. The 'must have's' sometimes end up been guide lines to draw us to the niche where we myt find the best thing or the next best thing. Good to pay attention to our corporeal ideals that are temporal in substance while seeking the real.

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its where dude's eyes goes to

Is that so?

Oh yeah, there's skin colour, Black is beautiful!!!

Height, Tall but not as tall as I am. Bla bla bla

Slit eyes, nice hip/butt/waist proportions, DEFINITELY flat tummy.

Yep. U don't. Sometimes all that is just eye service employed when a guy is trying hard to make an impression. For some guys tho it just comes naturally and they're just doing it cos its a part of them. Something they made a habit of while growing up.

There's more than superficial ways to be a gent.

Thinking about sex isnt sin. Meditating on thoughts about sex can be sin and lead to more sin.

Not sure what to make of female self love; if it's wrong or right or when it passes as either. A guys doing himself sha can come of as dirty.

Just my opinions anyway. Lets hope we all find out before long.

Huh?