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badoomusoo:
It's not an issue?

Well as much as I myt not be readily disposed to dating an older woman, I realy won't make a big deal of 6months if I'm that into her. 4years could be more of an issue.

Different strokes sha.

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=466577.msg6255459#msg6255459 date=1277129089]Man up and tell her. . . The worst that could happen is she'll say no. . . Or better still send her sms telling her how u feel. . . Or call her and tell her. . . The best option is face to face confrontation. . . Face your demon. . .[/quote]Simple as ABC

[quote author=kosi.man link=topic=466427.msg6255477#msg6255477 date=1277129206]I ask this question because i love this girl(27) and she is all a man can dream of, slim and beautiful, she is very organised, b/4 now i do not have much savings because of friends (love entertainning) when i met her she stoped most of these things and my friends hated her for that. She shaped my life for good and now i can save 70% of my income. the only thing is that she has a child outside wedlock 4 a married man (unknowingly) she refused to be the 2nd wife and went on with her life.

She didn't hide it from me, i'm thinking of sticking to her but my friends  says she is a 2nd hand and i shld go for new one (my girl b4 i met this girl). My mum dnt like her either.

But she is like a mother to me and i love her, I'm just confused on how to carry on. what do i do?[/quote]Dude it's Ur choice. U said it Urself, U love her and it sounds to me like she has been there for U and added value to ur life. She chooses to not be the second wife to the man, that's a good sign. There's a lot of work U will have to do on Urself to go through taking her and her child in keeping the end in mind.

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=466427.msg6255442#msg6255442 date=1277128929]No be boy give am bele? So she's good to bleep not to marry sebi?[/quote]U make it sound like she was used. He didn't bleep her. They bleeped each other. abi na rape?

Wait o, is that what those girls that lie down like log are doing when they're getting bleeped? Preserving a case for their consciences should things go wrong? "he did it to me I didnt do anything"

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=466427.msg6255442#msg6255442 date=1277128929]No be boy give am bele? So she's good to bleep not to marry sebi?[/quote]And what case are U making here? that cos a boy is responsible for the pregnancy then the masculine gender should volunteer to redeem their image by donating any boy to care for the child?

Carolece:
It comes with alot more baggages at times. Most feared one for me is the baby mama drama. There is no way I could stop or want a man not to have contact with his kids and if the kids are young he must contact with the mother, and I am not prepared to share my man's attention at no time with another woman or child. Everyone has their personal preference, and I will never take up with a man and child/ren. Same goes for a man who dogs around, never will I share him knowingly. Ne'Ver!
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Abi?

Just six months?

A lto of questions will be asked and answers will be required. It's not easy raising another man's child and doing a proper job at it.

See as the babes just dey ask what's wrong with that. Una no go wait make the guys talk una wan dey use attempt to corrupt the honesty in boys dem answers ehn?

Too many gender biased responses to this post. repulsed at most of the comments.

Coco29, I'm with u jor; Poster why are U suspecting Ur wife? U need to give more details.

Golden Gate, Siverbird Galleria, Jazz Bar in Shop Rite, Crystal Bar, I'l still choose Chocolate Royalle but I guess it depends on what U mean by hang out.

Chocolate Royalle. Perfect hang out if U ask me.

Rockstation the way U dey argue for this pool conception e be like U don participate in experiment to that effect before abi na U the girl carry for?

Shey for Ur community for Ur village na so dem dey take find true love?

True love is hard for U to find cos ur looking in the wrong place and using the wrong methods.

U want to be loved, learn love and learn to love.