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RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 5:04pm On Jun 18, 2010
y me:
its better when its shaved because___
1)Cleanliness

2)It's More Inviting

3)Don't Forget The Scrotum. A woman's body is playground of softness and smoothness, so don't you think she'll appreciate the same on you? A silky smooth ball sack invites both manual and oral caresses. She's far more likely to play down there if she doesn't have to use a weed-whacker to find it. cheesy cheesy

4)It Makes Your Erection Look Huge
Just cos it looks huge doenst mean it'l feel huge. Matter of fact when she see's it looking huge her body will prepare itself to receive a huge thing she'l expect to fill her up nicely, then she ends up not getting the satisfaction she expected.

Looks can be deceiving.

All these girls sef canvassing for pubic shaving are U Nigerians or do U live in Nigeria?
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 3:18pm On Jun 18, 2010
^ U never jam man wey no send wetin U want reach that level but U no know why U no fit stop like am shey?
RomanceRe: What Is your Idea Kind Of Man Or Woman U Wan 2 Spent D Rest Of your Life Wit? by Onchedu(m): 3:12pm On Jun 18, 2010
Honesty and the will to be true are definitely hot on my list.
RomanceRe: What Is your Idea Kind Of Man Or Woman U Wan 2 Spent D Rest Of your Life Wit? by Onchedu(m): 3:10pm On Jun 18, 2010
If I start na long story be that. Lets just say I'll know her when I meet her.
RomanceRe: What If She Went Into Prostitution To Pay Your Hospital Bills? by Onchedu(m): 3:02pm On Jun 18, 2010
I know my family. if I was in coma for the rest of their lives they would take good care f me and keep faith that I'll get up one day. However, assuming they all died, everyone of them, and all I had left was my wife, I'd rather she let me die than to reduce herself, my treasured 'possession,' to such lows to keep me alive.

If she did the opposite of that I'd break up with her once I come out of that coma.
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 2:54pm On Jun 18, 2010
^ ur actually carrying out poll?

Tatase:
@ Onchedu,

Fair enough. I understand and agree! No one should be pressured by society or whatever to have their bush a certain way, I mean it IS your private area which you can keep as you and your partner like, groomed or not.
U just understand what I'm saying well. wink
RomanceRe: I Want To Say Yes To Him After A Month Of Saying No. How Do I Go About It? by Onchedu(m): 1:39pm On Jun 18, 2010
U r welcome.
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 1:35pm On Jun 18, 2010
Faher:
^^^ Thats 1-0 in favor of trimming, any more ladies?

Btw, trimming means keeping it quite short, not necessarily making it bare (Although I like being bare cheesy)
trimming dosesnt necessarily mean keeping it quite short. It could also mean cutting off the split ends by leveling the tips.

Being bare is Ur thing, there are guys that ike U that way.
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 1:32pm On Jun 18, 2010
Tatase:
^^^^

I think you're right that it's a personal choice and ofcourse shaving or trimming doesn't meen you have to go completely bare, but I'd imagine that a bit of a trim once in a while (not necessarily supershort just so you're not Rapunzel down-below) just so hairs aren't too long is fair even just for hygiene and comfort reasons.

Or are you advocating a completely untouched long-haired forest?
Not advocating for any of the above. I'm just saying everyone has the right to what they prefer, whether shaved bare or trimmed or rapunzel doing her thing both ways.

When we start making cases for any we condition the minds of some people to think one is universally preferred above the others. In the long run should they adopt a practice that is not in sync with their personalities, hey myt disturb a balance which myt affect or the rest of their world in not so natural ways.

Some people like it bare others just don't care and some others would like to maintain a good grooming culture.

My case is for flexibility. Which is easier, growing a bush to surprise ur lover or shaving a bush for a change to spice things up?
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 1:15pm On Jun 18, 2010
Possibly, but there are things in life I reason myt be in a balance.

There's every possibility that does that don't shave or wax would talk less about it cos they don't see what the biggie is and don't want to come off as not trendy.

besides when it comes to girls, when it's time to reveal secrets with each other, some of U just say what u feel the majority in the clique want to hear and not what is necessarily true.

Am I right about any of these?
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 1:08pm On Jun 18, 2010
Just cos U never met doesn't mean they don't exist.
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 12:54pm On Jun 18, 2010
Wilderness? No does that shave bare and wax are in the wilderness. The rest of us are in the jungle. Where do U think the fun is?
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 11:49am On Jun 18, 2010
^^ In the heat of the moment who cares if Ur shaved or not? Ur clothes don't come of before seductions or coercions start do they? When all she want's is U she wouldnt care at that moment if Ur as hairy as a gorilla or as smooth as a new born baby.
RomanceRe: I Want To Say Yes To Him After A Month Of Saying No. How Do I Go About It? by Onchedu(m): 11:28am On Jun 18, 2010
Why the sudden change of heart? U should examine that before U go saying yes.

All U do is get friendly with him again and create the atmosphere for him to ask again. Don't be obvious. He myt get suspicious.
RomanceRe: Please Help Your Brother by Onchedu(m): 10:54am On Jun 18, 2010
U made a habit, now break the habit. So the ladies don't want to let go. Can't U let go? Be a man abeg and deal with the situation. u brought it on Urself.
RomanceRe: Why Does It Hurt Like Hell by Onchedu(m): 10:40am On Jun 18, 2010
Nice summary! I'm glad U understood the message I was trying to pass across. Wish u the best. wink
RomanceRe: The Best Place To Spend The Weekend With A Girlfriend? by Onchedu(m): 10:35am On Jun 18, 2010
^ People make mistakes.
RomanceRe: Ladies What Age Gap Would Prefer? by Onchedu(m): 10:24am On Jun 18, 2010
7 years is ok to me o. How old is the guy and when is he planning on getting married? The girl isnt going to be a girl forever and if she's an adult already then no people wont frown at him.

If she's just immature and not what he expects from a woman and she's not teachable then that's another thing.
RomanceRe: The Best Place To Spend The Weekend With A Girlfriend? by Onchedu(m): 10:17am On Jun 18, 2010
A lil of all if possible, but alone time would be crucial otherwise everything else myt paint make things superficial at their core.
RomanceRe: Ladies What Age Gap Would Prefer? by Onchedu(m): 10:13am On Jun 18, 2010
From my observations, even when a girl prefers something she sometimes goes for a sharp contrast outside that depending on how she feels about it and how it makes her feel.

Women can be convinced, coerced, or seduced to get to approve of almost anything; however don't push Ur luck. Some of them are "awake."
RomanceRe: I Like Her,but! by Onchedu(m): 10:07am On Jun 18, 2010
Is her weight as a result of medical disorder, heriditory, or is she just not very disciplined with waht she eats and her exercising habits. Is she a couch potatoe? Does she keep busy at all?

What's responsible for her being fat?
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 10:01am On Jun 18, 2010
That picture is scary? or she had another one up before?
RomanceRe: Help Me by Onchedu(m): 9:57am On Jun 18, 2010
Just let ur body move in rhythm to the beats, Ur a girl. Dancing isn't neceesarily a style thing. Just make it fun and be creative. A dance school would probably take the fun out of it.
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 9:49am On Jun 18, 2010
I experimented with shaving sometime in my teens just cos I was facinated by the new developments, Twas cool for that time but shaving now isn't my thing. Full grown or a nice trim once in a while is cool by me.

I dont like the idea of a woman perpetually shaven either. Occaisional trim would do. I like variety and not knowing what to expect.
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 9:18am On Jun 18, 2010
james1:
Will your Gf rather allow her Bf pubic area to grow like that of methuselah?
It makes sense to be clean shaven when the need arises.
Word! WHEN NEED ARISES. Like when Ur going in for surgery around the zone; or when Ur wife requests U do and convinces U too, after much pleas.

Waxing? NEVER!!! Whats the appeal to my pubes looking like a lil boy's thing?
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 9:15am On Jun 18, 2010
madlady:
If possible twice a day.


I didn't know guys did this undecided.
Twice a day? U must have hair that grows pretty fast.
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 9:13am On Jun 18, 2010
A lil trimming and grooming wouldn't hurt, but what matters most is how clean U keep Ur pubes and the rest of Ur body. Too clean can be uninteresting sometimes too.

Where's the jungle to the 'fever?'
RomanceRe: Males Who Shave = Gay? by Onchedu(m): 9:11am On Jun 18, 2010
Carolece:
Guys, do you shave your private area or ever get a wax job done?

I have this girlfriend who thinks any guy who shave their private area is gay. I dont belive so, I think its sexy and hygenic.

How many guys here do or dont shave?

Why?
Why not?
Is your partner ok with it?
Is she not ok with it?
Shave? Hmmm, What's that? Wax job? the mane shampooed by a professional? tongue

Ayt, As much as guys that shave or wax aren't necessarily gay, there is every chance they pay TOO MUCH attention to their bodies, which kinda makes them attractive at first but difficult to live with in the long run. Either that or they watch too much porn.

A man is meant to have some rough edges. What's a Lion without it's mane?
RomanceRe: What Is A Blood Covenant by Onchedu(m): 11:18pm On Jun 17, 2010
Huh? Oh no not U!!!
RomanceRe: What Is A Blood Covenant by Onchedu(m): 2:29pm On Jun 17, 2010
CRAP!

What part of Nigeria is he from? I don't know of any ethnic group here that does that; except of course he belongs to a religious sect or cult.

A blood oath is swearing Ur lives to each other by just declaring certain things and using each others bloods as the ties that make the covenant binding.

DO NOT ENGAGE in any blood oaths with anyone unless. That's just messing with the spirit realm.

Meanwhile is Ur bf desperate for anything with U? Is he impulsive?

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