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PoliticsRe: Obaseki Can Rejoin Our Party Only If He Drops From Governorship Race- APC by One4me: 2:06am On Jun 19, 2020
asobo:
Breaking News.

Senator Ajimobi is dead cry
Thunder fire you, na you kill am?
PoliticsRe: Obaseki Can Rejoin Our Party Only If He Drops From Governorship Race- APC by One4me: 2:02am On Jun 19, 2020
mrgoodd:
If you re still doubting if Obaseki will win this election then you don’t believe your very self can be useful in life, Sir/ Ma can’t you see what’s happening, Obaseki played his game well from federal to state level, All he need to do now is pocket the APC thugs, I am telling you some APC Governor want PDP to win the election but they won’t voice out because of anti party law, I can tell you even without pasting any poster Obaseki is the winner.
See Beer Parlour Sense o! grin grin

CrimeRe: Obinwanne Okeke "InvictusObi" Pleads Guilty To ₦4.2 Billion Fraud by One4me: 1:57am On Jun 19, 2020
Awon Oleeee omo'Yeeibo yi sef sad sad

See him eye like Monkey own
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CrimeRe: Obinwanne Okeke "InvictusObi" Pleads Guilty To ₦4.2 Billion Fraud by One4me: 1:38am On Jun 19, 2020
visijo:
Some of you can't enjoy your relationship because you are busy trying to catch your partner cheating. �
Story for the gods! Genetic Criminals and Fraudsters~!!
"Developers of Lagos" going to jail like Fulani herdsmen going to people's farm.
PoliticsRe: Court Extends Order Stopping Obaseki From Arresting Oshiomhole by One4me: 3:01am On Jun 18, 2020
JasonScoolari:
Dear hypocrite,


Did you say the same thing when Ibrahim Magu tried countless times to arrest Diezanni Madueke?

Don't you think the FHC is shielding the short ugly thief called Oshiomhole because they're answerable to General buhari?


Allow Obaseki to do what he likes.
Dezzianni is a special case of looting, even the British Govt wishes her to be arrested if not that the thief had gone to use part of the loot to buy Diplomatic Passport from Dominican Republic, like she is an Ambassador of that Country!
Her action shosws premeditation and act of a confirmed thief but Judgement will locate her one of these days.

As for Obaseki, all he is trying to do is ensure oshiomole cannot be able to supervise the party Primary, as the APC Chairman, so he can perpetrate Rigging himself for second term.
No more, No less.

But he is going to fail on all accounts. Obaseki i snot ablve the law and cannot do whatever he likes, not even the President can do that.
Disgrace is loading for Obaseki.
CareerRe: Dr. Wendy Okolo, First Black Woman To Bag A Phd In Aerospace Engineering by One4me: 2:53am On Jun 18, 2020
Whiteangel1234:
Igbo Amaka the Jews of Africa . the most intelligent Black Africans , Nigeria will be world power if Igbo take over and rule this country
She has done well but please stop all these useless Chest-beating, hundreds of Black people, including Nigerians have done far better exploits in the US, without all these chest-beating and noise!

Kudos to the lady and l wish her greater achievements, may be she will be the one to take Nigeria to the Moon, who knows?
BTW: nnamd Azikwe was Ibo, he was once a President of Nigeria and he did not turn Nigeria to America, stop Chest-beating, l don warn you. grin grin
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by One4me: 2:26am On Jun 18, 2020
igboitalo:
location owerri ,design your normal standard 4 flats, dry level land
Level of finishing can make a difference of #5M to #7M!
- For example, the difference between using Nigerian Tiles and Spanish Tiles can be #2.5M
- Full Toilet and Kitchen Tiling or Half Tiling can make a difference of #1.5M
- Using Long Span or Using Aluminium Steptiles/Gerrad Tiles can make a difference of #500k - #700K
- Sharing One Meter or each Flat having its own can make a difference of about #500K (including wiring configiration)
- Quality of paint used can save/add #250K
- Full or Half Kitchen Cabinets (Ordinary Wood Vs. MDF/HDF, enough Cabinets Vs. just two Cabinets, etc) cam make a difference of #800k!
- Flat Roof or LowHip Roof, Vs Send Down the Rain can make a difference of #500K - #700K.

But l see that your land is good, that can save you at least #2Million in foundation Cost.
There is one of our Builders here called Spyder880, he has done a lot of work around your part of the country, he will be a good asset to your aspiration to build.

Just tone down a bit on your finishing, if you want to save money. I did same size but in a not too strong land and it cost me about #38M, though my taste and finishing from foundation to the last finishing bolt was shouting 'I dont care about the money'. undecided grin
That was how l wanted that particular building.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by One4me: 2:07am On Jun 18, 2020
igboitalo:
Hello everyone am new to this property section and going through the pages am impressed by the contribution i hv seen here, my question is this is 10m naira enough to build 4 flats of 2 bedroom apartment all ensuite with visitors wc
Even #25M will not finish it to Pck-in level.
I am assuming you will do foundation, German Floor, Decking, Aluminium Wndows, Wiring, Aluminium/long span roofing, Pipes and Plumbing, Tiles, Kitchen Cabinets and Basins and as you stated, THREE Toilets per Flat! shocked shocked
We have not added things like PrePaid Meters, Compound Flooring, Borehold, Overhead tank, WC's, Sinks and Showerheads.

But dont let that discourage you, START with that #10M you have npw, it should almost finish the Carcass (hope you are building on good, hard ground otherwise Foundation and German floor alone will cary no less than #7M out of that money), other moneys will come-in along the way and you will finish it eventually.

We are here to help you save kobo-kobo, wherever we/you can and give you the best support, including recommending trustworthy Builders, Suppliers, Artisans, etc that will not charge you an 'Arm and a Leg' but demand reasonable prices for their hardwork and give you a damn good value for your money.
Break ground abeg and dont forget to keep us in the loop.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester City Vs Arsenal - (3 - 0) On 17th June 2020 by One4me: 1:46am On Jun 18, 2020
maynation:
Arsenal should be banned from EPL.
No single shot on target fa.. huh huh
That useless team is going to cause a second wave of Pandemic!
Abeg, they should just disbarn my team and share out the players to Div.3 clubs.
Arsene Wenger laid the foundation for this failures
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by One4me: 1:41am On Jun 18, 2020
mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.
You even have the gut to say "No Insult", when you are aware that you are a real slooooooowwwwwppppppooooookkkkkkeeeeeee!
So, you know your salary is 40K, you know you cant even feed yourself without getting money from your Pops, you know unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy, you know you have almost removed the womb of this girl completely with your never-ending abortions, not one, not two, which can be considered "foolish mistakes", but SEVERAL ABBORTIONS!
So, you want her to go for another abortion and she could die, right? Ooh, l forgot, you just want her to be a BabyMama so that you can continue your brainless behaviour.

Look, if l were the brothers of that girl, we will flog you until you marry her!
And if l were your father, l will join them to flog you until you marry her.
See ehn, that Thunder wey kill Kidnappers in Jigawa when they were sharing ransom, e don go buy Chelsea and Codeine, on top your matter!

E go soon arrive, just dey here dey ask for advice. infact, no make me abuse you ooh.

I forgot to advice, my apologies!
Advice: Use a Snipping Tool to snip-off that your useless Pr!ck before it produces an !mbEc!le like yourself
PoliticsRe: Akemokue Lukman Funny Resignation Letter From An APC Ward Chairman In Edo by One4me: 11:54pm On Jun 17, 2020
NwekeUG:
TMS Media captured a funny resignation letter from Engr. Lukman, the Ward 7 Chairman, Etsako East of the All Progressive Congress (APC) in Afokpella-Okpella, Edo State on Tuesday, 16th June, 2020.

See his letter below.

https://tellmesomethingmediahouse./2020/06/17/funny-resignation-letter-from-an-apc-ward-chairman-in-edo-state-photo/
You these ngbeke people sef, you just cant read and understand!

The resignation letter was WRITTEN TO the Ward Chairman by someone else that was resigning, it was not he Chairman himself that is writing himself that he is resigning!

Adult education i sstill available, avail of it please.
SportsRe: N30,000 Monthly Stipend For Yekini's Mother: NFF Yet To Fulfill Promise by One4me: 11:45pm On Jun 17, 2020
Golan007:
This is not about saying things about anyone.

Even if she was my mother I would say the same.

What exactly is the reason for the football federation paying Yekini's mom some stipend?

Would they do the same for the next-of-kin of Uche Okechukwu, Muda Lawal, Stephen Keshi and all our greats who have departed this world?

Is it sustainable and why should it be the responsibility of the football federation?

In that vein, Fifa should be paying their families as well.
This is a very dumb question, borne out tribalism!
Ordinarily, children are expected to take care of their parents at old age.
If a Child that has rendered his services to this country, provided entertainment and joy to hateful persons like you, when you watch them at the World Cup on TV, of that Child dies too early, any responsible Govt has the responsiblity to take care of the Mother till she dies.
This is done even for aged people in most advanced countries, where the elderly are entitled to a certain amount of money every week, free bus travel, etc.
How much is #30K sef?
Rashidi Yekini was her ONLY CHILD, meaning that old woman is childless as of now and here you are talking trash and comparing her situation to FIFA paying their families? angry angry
Those other footballers have siblings who are taking care of their mother, so there is no need for Govt to take up that responsiblity
Some of you hateful and tribalistic people sef!


Are you telling me that you cannot give your own aged Mother a mere #30K every month?
Nonsense.
SportsRe: N30,000 Monthly Stipend For Yekini's Mother: NFF Yet To Fulfill Promise by One4me: 11:19pm On Jun 17, 2020
People still dont understand that this Pinnick is one of the most corrupt an dfraudulent Personae in Nigeria football.
These are the people destroying Nigerian football with their corruption.
PoliticsRe: NNPC Begins Crude Oil Exploration In 11 LGAs In Niger, Kwara, Kogi by One4me: 11:16pm On Jun 17, 2020
Nairalandmonika:
Oil will be useless thats for sure, it's a slow nd gradual process but with time it definitely will be useless.
How do u mean electric cars cannot match normal cars. In what way. Have u seen or read about any of the Tesla products. Do u even know most cars are now hybrid.
Hybrid cars ARE NOT Electric cars per se, they are a combination of Electric and Petrol Engine.
They are actually Petrol Engine cars in the main but they use Electric for cerain functions, like Ignition, holding Power at standstill, etc.
Most Hybrids will revert to Petrol function was the Speed is greater than say 30Km/hr and most o fus dont drive that slow, even if we are just going to drop children at school. grin

For now, Electric Cars are just too expensive, to make it an option or alternative to Petrol Engine.
The Cheapest Telsa Electric costs over $60,000, when a Petrol car of the same "value" costs less than $30,000!
The biggest problem of Electric Car is Power Storage (Batteries), same problem with using Solar Power.
Batteries are not yet reliable, have limited Capacity and for now too expensive to produce.
PoliticsRe: NNPC Begins Crude Oil Exploration In 11 LGAs In Niger, Kwara, Kogi by One4me: 11:03pm On Jun 17, 2020
Ayo8:
When will they discover the huge oil reserve in sokoto?? .. bunch of nitwits
That is why he first ensured that all critical positions in the NNPC and Security apparatus, were in the hands of Northerners so that no one can challenge his excessive and open Nepotism.
The amount of money this lifeless one has wasted in the last four years trying to find oil which does not exists in the North, is enough to build One Ultra Modern Hospital in each Local Govt Area in Nigeria, l am talking about billions of dollars, so much so the World Bank was alarmed at the wastage!....... Yet he keeps on junketting abroad for health treament.

He is so desperate to put the Nort ahead of the South, directing all the resources taken from the South and External Contributors, to the North only.
This deaf Jibrin will go into History as the worst, most Nepotistic and evil President Nigeria ever had.
Electing him` will enter the Guiness Book of records as the greatest Mistake and Scam of the century.
May he rot in hell, l hope Covid will please come to our rescue, once again.
FamilyRe: When Is The Right Time To Tell Him/Her Of A Child From Previous Relationship? by One4me: 10:51pm On Jun 17, 2020
Dainy1:
What is the actual time? Immediately you met? Weeks, months after you met? Before you establish a relationship with him/her? When is the appropriate time that he/she will not get hurt nor walk away especially if they both met and love immediately?
You have to tell me as early as we start showing interest in each other.
Once you tell me, l will stay away from you like leprosy!
I am not going to be saddled with someone's leftover and responsibility.
If you want to have a child with someone, please be prepared to marry them.
Life is too complicated, to add another level of eternal complication to it.


Anyway, that is just me sha.
PoliticsRe: Obaseki: We Are Not Moving To PDP Yet by One4me: 7:57am On Jun 17, 2020
Maxymilliano:
But does the constitution makes provision for elected office holders to continue staying in office without any political party at any point in time ?
Very relevant question because right now, Obaseki has left the APC and the PDP is yet to formally accept him, therefore, he is currently party-less.
Nigerian Constitution and Electoral laws doesnot make provision for a Governor not to have a party.
Infact, the laws prohibits independent candidacy as ALL elected Officers must operate from a Party.

Time to remove Obaseki, for violating electoral laws and constitution of Nigeria. grin grin

NB: If l were APC, we will ask him to write us formerly that he wants to re-apply to APC, pointing to his ChannaleTV announcement of no longer being a member of the APC.
If he doesnot write, he is not a member. If he write, we will delay a response but ask a party member or some neutral person to seek Judicial request that he be removed as Governor, for being "party-less".
His option will be to run back to PDP, in other to save his Governorship!
If PDP accepts him, that destroys any possibility of claiming to still be a member of APC and whatever benefit he is trying to make from that summersault. if they dont, he loses his Governorship. grin
PoliticsRe: Obaseki: We Are Not Moving To PDP Yet by One4me: 7:39am On Jun 17, 2020
Salvador1:
Obaseki should better don play a childish game in this matter. Else he will loss people's sympathy.
Leave him naah! He is trying to play smart, which he is not....at least his School Cert result proved that beyond doubt. grin
This is the CLOWN announcing ON VIDEO, ON CHANNELS TV, the RENOUNCIATION OF HIS MEMBERSHIP OF THE APC!


https://www.channelstv.com/2020/06/16/breaking-edo-governor-godwin-obaseki-resigns-from-apc/amp/?__twitter_impression=true.
In this Digital world, to lie is becoming verty difficult. grin grin

He knows he is not likely to win a Governorship contest with PDP.
He knows that Pastor Iyamu, on an APC ticket, will likely win
He confirmed his resignation from the APC earlier, so he is no longer a member fo APC.
Now that a Court has suspended Oshomole, he reckons it is an opportunity for him to cancel the decision of the APC screening Committee!

But in taking that gamble, he will lose the possibility of a PDP aspirant ticket, by Friday (even if he was riggled-in at any later date, the court will invalidate any Governorship win he makes, going forward).
Obaseki may also end-up losing his 'come-back bid" in APC, if an Appeal Court reverses Oshiomole's suspension or even if the party lifts the suspension.
People seems to think that Oshiomole was REMOVED, they cant differentiate between a "Removal" which is final, as a "Suspension", which is temporary and reversible!
undecided
PoliticsRe: Victor Giadom Faults Ajimobi’s Appointment As APC Acting National Chairman by One4me: 7:29am On Jun 17, 2020
Lostz:
did APC not get a stay of execution in bayelsa and zamfara? did their vote not become null and void?

the anti oshomole camp did their job well. they already have an unchallenged court judgement preparing Giadom as acting chairman
Stay of execution ON/OF WHAT?
"Stay" is a specific decision on something, by a Judge.

Go and read that Judgement now and let us discuss it, if you want.
PoliticsRe: Victor Giadom Faults Ajimobi’s Appointment As APC Acting National Chairman by One4me: 7:17am On Jun 17, 2020
Lostz:
a stay of execution means everyone should maintain status quo. oshomole appointing Ajimobi means he tempered with status quo which makes it null and void.
ouk senate position is not under trial.


APC got a stay of execution to participate in Zamfara and bayelsa election but all their voted ended up being null and void
No, you are wrong!
A stay of Execution means "that particular action/decision" that was brought to court or that is being challenged, should be held ON HOLD until final determination.
In this case, "Osho was suspended", that is what is being challenged in Court and what the stay of EXECUTION (execution of the suspension decison), to be STAYED.
Meaning, he is not suspended until the matter is determined in court.
Hence, he is stil the party chairman and whatever decision he takes in the interim, stands.
PoliticsRe: Victor Giadom Faults Ajimobi’s Appointment As APC Acting National Chairman by One4me:
elohim24:
Wrong... Ajimobi has not been sworn in by NWC as deputy national chairman South when the order was given. How can you leave deputy chairman and ask deputy national secretary to act as party chairman.? Giadom should go and rest.
Buhari really has no grip on anything... not his family, his presidency or his party. 2023 will be very brutal for politicians because Buhari will just fold his hand and allow everybody to shoot their shot.
Dont bet on the bolded, that Buhari is playing a dirty game!
That Buhari has a grip on everything but he is playing 'l dont care' when it comes to certain matters, as long as it benefits the North only.

Just watch, let their be a killing of one or two Herdsmen somewhere and you will see him spring to action immediately.
The speed with which he implements decisions that have to do with the North, be it appointments, Contract payment and execution, etc has confirmed this.

Right now, Buhari deliberatley allowing issues that can scatter APC to fester because he reckons it is better for APC to scatter than honor the Power rotation agreement for Presidency to ratate to the South within APC (I suspect PDP will still nominate Atiku in 2023), by destroying hi sown party, afteral he has done his maximum two terms, if the PDP wins, the Presidency still ramains in the North for another 8yrs, making sixteen yrs in a stretch and we know that by that time, the South will be completely dominated and enslaved by the North.
This is his strategy. He is allowing APC to destroy itself, for political gains of the North. He just does not want the party to survive after his tenure. People like this Gaidam are just his foot soldiers for destroying APC

My worry also concerns the actions of our Judges!
Judges are dabbling into issues that should not concern them and are not within their remit.

This will destroy the Judicial system and independence.
I understand that of a judgement favors a set of people, or party, they would natural side with such judgement, irrespective of whether it is wrong.
Judges are now the ones imposing Governors on people, against their wish, expressed by their votes.
Judges have even gone low now, to the point of imposing party Chairman?

Let us assume their is a conflict, as in the case of Oshiomole and his position was challneged before a Court, all the Judge needs to do is to say "You have been validly removed", Thats all. The Judge erred by going ahead to nominate and impose a particular person on that party, for that post!
What then is the role of the NWC and other structures of the party, if it is a Judge that would select impose leaders on parties?
IMO, these Judges are setting themselves up for another embarrasment because we all know that such stupid decisons are finacially-induced.
PoliticsRe: Appeal Court Upholds Oshiomhole's Suspension - Daily Trust by One4me: 11:02pm On Jun 16, 2020
wonder233:
Pained Yoruba coward
Senseless, 5%-Ipod! undecided grin grin

FamilyRe: Should The Man Pay It? by One4me: 1:58am On Jun 16, 2020
fineboynl:
any man that need compulsory contribution to get married he is simply not yet ready to get married.

don't force it, when it's time to get married everything will be so easy. no stress or running around.

it's only burial that people can be obligated to render help
Even Burial sef, we dey keep for Mortuary until money gather well well. grin

To the Op, please tell your father to gather the money (#580K) he collected from your husband, you are going back to your family home this weekend, for daring to call your Husband IRRESPONSIBLE. Time to colect his Refund back, make ya Papa take him daughter back. undecided
Enough, is Enough.
CrimeRe: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by One4me: 1:46am On Jun 16, 2020
Cherez:
Bro, it hasn't come to this
I really learnt something from you here please don't spoil your wisdom with anger.
Though I still maintain that a man shouldn't force sex on his wife but seek other ways aside force to make his stand loud
My apologies ........... but no apologies to the lady who used that sentence.
I was replying to "See Salaiva everywhere, because they asked you not to rape your wife", directed at me.
How do you find such comment?
I simply replaced "Saliva" with "Farthing", ...................... "Everywhere" with "Every Orifice".

l learnt that ACTION and REACTION, are EQUAL and OPPOSITE. I will certainly be Civil with people who are Civil with me, certainly.

Back to the dicsussion, l think the problem with our different perspectives on this 'No Consent Sex in marriage', is the use of the Word "FORCE"!
Maybe instead of saying the Husband used force (since l also think it is his right to have sex with his wife or her husband), we can say he used "strong persuasion" to have sex with his wife while she objected.
Its a slightly different shade.......... something like 'I did not agree to the sex but you still went ahead to have your way with me because you are my husband/wife". undecided

Marriage is all about putting the needs of your Spouse first.
Before l do anything, l think about my own wife and put her expected views into consideration, not because l am stupid but because l am certain she will do the same for me.
If she wants sex and l dont, l would think "How would l feel if l want sex and she refuses me"?
Then l inconvinience myself to lets have it because l dont wnt to leave my wife hanging. Its not good for the health of the marriage.
That is MARRIAGE for you! You no longer wholly own your own body and that includes when to have marital sex.
Though at times, either of us will give in to the refusal of the other spouse but it has to be with a very good convincing, not with bragadocio from the person refusing or threat of a "Rape Claim"! That will be threat and confrontation and nothing breaks a marriage than that.

Even in simple things as buying a Cloth to sew, you have to consider each other!
If l want to have a "joint wear" with my wife, let's say l want a Babanriga or Agbada and the same material has to be used to sew a gown by my wife, things like color, printed design, texture, etc have to take her choice, into consideration.
For example, as a Man, we use strong colours like Navy Blue, Black, Wine color, etc
But Women use colours like Pink, Purple, Green, yllow, etc, colours l will never wear! grin grin

Because we are a Couple and we must wear this cloth together, maybe to a family function, l will consider the interest of my wife and instead of buying what l really prefer, l will settle for colours like Silver, Sky Blue, Ash, etc. Volors 'midway' for me and her.
That is how Marriage changes your perspective, if you want both of you to marry and live together for long.[/b]

Note thet the gretest problem of Black People, especially in America and Europe, is how to keep the family together and not break it up, producing delinquent generation of children, most of who end up in the white man's jail.
[b]You Give, You Take, No one owns him or herself as an individual, anymore.


But if you really want FULL CONTROL over your own body, then you should seek a Divorce and free yourself though, there are "life-long cost" to that as well.
But to remain in the marriage and be claiming "My Body, is My Body"? E nor go work. Bro. grin

Cheers and stay blessed.
CrimeRe: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by One4me: 1:11am On Jun 16, 2020
MoodyQueen:
I understand that.

I get the fact that conjugal rights includes right to sex and it gives you legal entitlement to sex.

BUT it doesn't mean CONSENT is irrevocable.
It doesn't nullify your spouse RIGHT to consent.

If it did, then the court can just simply enforce sexual intercourse instead of granting a divorce.

Or arrest one for denying you your right to sex.
But it doesn't happen this way.

Why because marriage isn't consent.
And by definition, sex without consent is rape.

Please understand. Thank you.
You got this one aboslutely right! kiss
Consent is revocable and the ONLY WAY to REVOKE SEX CONSENT in a Marriage is to Divorce your Spouse.

Even mere filing for Separation and living apart is enough to show INTENT to revoke Consent and any Husband is put on notice that you are withdrawing the Consent you gave in your marriage Vow, and he would stay-off or plead with you to change your mind or tell you to eff-off with your Pussy afteral, no one is irreplaceable. undecided

Anyway, look the discussion was good and we all made our opinions known.
Thank you and have a blessed time, going forward.
CrimeRe: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by One4me: 1:03am On Jun 16, 2020
Eulalia:
SHOW ME A MAN WHO DOESN'T OR HASNT ENJOYED ANY SESSION OF SEX HE'S HAD IN HIS ENTIRE LIFE. NO NOT ONE. SO?? MEN ENJOY IT AT ANY GIVEN TIME. REASON THEY CAN GET AROUSED AT THE SIGHT OF A ONE YEAR OLD BABY GIRL AND SLEEP WITH A MAD WOMAN. FACT!
SOME MEN THOUGH, NOT ALL.
Really, how did you come about this your claim?
Infact, dont look too far. l have had sex with one or two ladies in my younger days, that l so much regreted it and felt lik el fell inside a Pit latrine grin
Immediately after, I bath properly with Dettol and Joy Soap, just to feel like myself again.
You need to ask 'Men', not boys who will stick their immature Pr!ck into any hole they see.
Many men, especially married men, just do it for the sake of Peace i the house because they dont want to be accused of having had sex outside hence not needing it at home again.
PoliticsRe: Ganduje Backs Obaseki's Disqualification, Says APC Will Win Edo Again by One4me: 12:44am On Jun 16, 2020
Pblueboy:
Oga are you sure you are really following this story well...
First of all... Who told you he refused to swear in the 14 members elect? Are you aware that out of that 14... 2 had already been sworn in?
That of Kabaka's hotel... Ask very well... That land was illegally gotten, even Kabaka himself said the land belongs to the local government... so what's wrong in the governor doing what is right by trying to reclaim government property... posterity will judge us all when the time come..
Just listen to yourself?
What right does he have to refuse to swear in State Assembly members elected by the good people of Edo?
Is that not the same Abuse of Power and God-fatherism that OBASEK is practising
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PoliticsRe: Ganduje Backs Obaseki's Disqualification, Says APC Will Win Edo Again by One4me: 12:40am On Jun 16, 2020
Tareq1105:
Which right decision?

Your Obaseki is a rotten product and no party will give him ticket. Did you watch Wike on AIT 8 o clock news? Wike wants Obaseki to join PDP but was not sure of the ticket.

Give him ticket and APC will collect it back at the Tribunal. Very simple.
Wike has turned himself to a "PDP Strongman", even as a Governor, do you think th elikes of Wike in PDP want someone with the attroccious and backstabbing mindset" of OBASEK or someone who will later be dragging Supremacy with them in PDP?
PDP and th elike of Wike just need OBASEK to "add"to their numbers in Edo" bu tthey are not ready to handover Power to him, at least not in the next dispensation.
He will learn very soon that FAILURE IS AN ORPHAN grin
PoliticsRe: Ganduje Backs Obaseki's Disqualification, Says APC Will Win Edo Again by One4me: 12:36am On Jun 16, 2020
Bigleaf1006:
Which forces? If all the cards are thrown on the table for him, he will be worst off if he were to run against APC and fail.

It's not just election he would be losing buy everything, so why would I want to stake everything for what we all know is a gamble.

He should rather concede and seek a truce, remember he has a very huge reputation in the corporate world and he readily has a job he can immediately fall back to and the political clout he has gathered will make him even more powerful in the corporate world.

Why loose all that to fight a needless battle that the only choice u have is win or else the collateral damage will be irreparable.
Arrogant, uncouth and back-stabbing opportunist that OBASEK is, will not reason like this.
Such people dont know when to stoop to conquer, there blind rage usually drive them to full and complete destruction.

Maybe he is a GAMBLER who does not know when to Throw and when to Hold.
I wish him luck
PoliticsRe: Ganduje Backs Obaseki's Disqualification, Says APC Will Win Edo Again by One4me: 12:31am On Jun 16, 2020
Nchenches:
But who says Fulani are good in politics?

Unless Edo people are totally down and out, these utterances of Ganduje are enough to galvanize all Bini against returning Edo state to Fulani-dominated APC.
So Iyamu and Oshiomole has suddenly become Fulani names?
Dis una OBASEK desperation don dey turn to something else. grin grin
PoliticsRe: Ganduje Backs Obaseki's Disqualification, Says APC Will Win Edo Again by One4me: 12:29am On Jun 16, 2020
chukwuibuipob:
Who cares weds the devil port or not.But one thing is sure,pdp will NOT give joint ticket to Oba/Shaibu.The gubernatorial candidate that pay to run under pdp aren’t stewpid.Shsibu will betray/abandon Oba.Make we dey watch
Shuaibu is finished! As a Thug, he wil endup doing "Owo'mida" at Usellu-igbowuh Roundabout grin
Let us even assume that PDP gives its ticket to Obaseki as Governorship candidate, l am certain that those original PDP Governorship aspirant will insist on producing Obasek's Deputy.
Possibility of Shuaibu as Obasek's Running mate in PDP = Zero, Zilch. (0).

So, how does he remain politically relevant?
Following Obasek to PDP as what? Floor Member, and a new one for that matter.
Cna he remain in APC and face the same Party Stalwarts that he has abused and disgraced, bu tnow without any "Governorship immunity Cover" from Obasek?
They would just throw him into Prison or just dismiss him from the party.

Shuaibu's case becomes even worse when and if Obasek loses the Governorship race finally, to Iyamu.
Where will Shuaibu run to? Who would save him?
Someone that is just a Rookie in Politics dey go abuse Rugged legends like Oshiomole, Tinubu, Baba Akande, Dangotte, etc
Infact, Shuaibu will end up being the Gateman of Obasek, at his Lagos Company Afrinvest Brokers.


Lesson: When two Elephanst fight (or when One Elephant and One Cow) are fighting, the Mouse should just observe for a distance and take notes, dont insert yourself inside the fight becuae either of them can crush you under their feet and if per-chance, they make-up, they would use you for celebration Berbeacue. undecided grin`
PoliticsRe: Ganduje Backs Obaseki's Disqualification, Says APC Will Win Edo Again by One4me: 9:34pm On Jun 15, 2020
Quelme:
WHAT HAPPENED TO THE FOLLOWING?

Gelegele seaport?

Industrial park?

Modular refinery?

200,000 jobs?

192 PHC centres (1 per ward)?

The 600 million invested in Saro farms Sobe village, Owan west LG that has since been taking over by grasses?

The profit of Alaghodaro 2017/2018 ( over 5 billion spent)?

Over 2.9 billion spent on overseas trip signing MOUs around the world?

The over 1.42 billion used in design/consultancy of all above failed scam project?

145 billion naira borrowed so far?

90 billion naira federal government bail out fund?

Wailing just start, una go wail tire!

No mercy for MOU governor!
Obaseki's supporters cannot defend on these Scams, thy would rather resort to insults. grin grin

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