₦airaland Forum

Hathor5:
I am glad you put philosophies in quotation marks because it is hogwash.

Two bodies become one, your body is your spouse's body bla bla bla.

Can you feel your spouse's pain? Then you are not one body.
Can you use the toilet for your spouse? Do you guys poo together? No? Then you are not one body.
Can you have your spouse's body tattooed as you wish? NO? Isn't it your body?
Can you force your spouse to give you her kidney? No? You know what follows ...


You are not one body and you never will be. That's the reason death will do you part.

Ariza:
Forcing your wife may not violate any law, (not sure of religion because Christianity does not and will never support rape). But forcing your wife violate her. You don't see your wife as a being like you with flesh, blood and feelings that is why you can force/rape her. And if you can force/rape her you can do it to another woman. If you can't respect the bone of your own bone , you can't respect any lady. And that makes you Sir a potential rapist.

You know it's now getting clearer why we have so many rapists around. Most Men don't see their wives humane enough to respect their wants or desires and we expect such Men to respect other females' No. As usual like every other societal problem it's runs from the home outside. One is left to wonder how many wives get raped by their husbands?

Well, that's by the way. On the grounds that like you have the right to reject sexual request, like you have right to reject financial request, or reject compromising some things, Your wife has the same right too. She's not a Slave, Marriage isn't a bondage then you don't be an Oppressor! . Learn to Love and Respect your woman.

cococandy:
I’ve given up on certain people and their weird mindsets. Had no idea she was on that boat but then I can’t say I’m surprised

ibkayee:
I believe he knew what I was getting at, I gave a hypothetical situation where I asked him to imagine if his son was raped, then he beat around an entire forest to avoid acknowledging that just because a law doesn't recognize something, it doesn't necessarily make it right. Male child over the age of consent then..rape of males isn't recognized as rape either but that doesn't justify it.

Marital rape isn't recognized under Nigerian law but it doesn't make the act itself any less rape.

Eulalia:
Why?

Like you men don't know how it feels when you force yourself on a woman . its more like a domestic violence cause as a result of the force, you inflict pain and muscle sprain on the weaker sex. Then again, because the woman's body is not ready to receive you, you give her bruises on her VJ. Is that not enough to extend it to married couples?

Sometimes, all these kind of wrong justifications make me scared of men. Like seriously... can't they control their sexual urge and respect the woman's feelings when she's not in the mood? That she's your wife doesn't mean she should be treated like a slave!

Petyprincess:
Yeah only in Nigeria, better dnt try that in western countries except you want to sleep in jail.

MoodyQueen:
Look, you're trying so hard to twist and justify what you've already acknowledge as a crime.

Sex is not a duty in marriage.

If you say it's a duty, that means she has no right or control over her body. It means her free will is taken.

shedomains:
hmmmm you really saw a lot of damage from your pop to your mum i guess,so getting a thing from some one forcefully to you is normal,really sad.our parents didnt do a good job on most of us,how sad.

Darthvader93:
God knows I cannot marry a Nigerian woman. You people are hypocrites. Jesu!

There's one idiot here promising me nonstop sex, all she wants desperately is that I put a ring on it. I no gree, she vex commot my house only to be calling twice everyday under the pretext of checking on me.

If you marry a Nigerian woman with the hope of free legal sex, after all you pay for am. You will be sorely disappointed.

The thing you paid money on her head for as wedding rites, even to her family join will wake up and accuse you of rape for demanding your marital rights.

ibkayee:
Ok let’s try again, what if your son is over the age of consent?

Flows001:
Legally, there is nothing like marital rape. The only time a man can be guilty of raping his wife within the context of Nigerian law is while they re on Judicial Separation (which might or might not lead to divorce) and the man goes ahead to sleep with her without her consent. Apart from that, no man can legally be accused of raping his lawfully married wife. The consent given by the wife on the wedding day flows all the way throughout the marriage, any refusal on d part of the wife should be settled by the both of them(in za oza room), the court has no business with that. As a matter of fact, consistent refusal to consumate the marriage (have sex) by any of the parties is a lawful ground for divorce.

ibkayee:
Not what I asked. If your male child was raped, would you personally brush it off and/or say it wasn’t rape because the law doesn’t recognise it as rape?

victorian:
Mere look at Anita's face and her hubby. No one suppose tell una say, she dey rape the guy steady. He's even looking lean. While she looks all over sexed up and still expecting more.

I pity the hubby


Keep fucc.King o Oga! Her big mountainous yansh go finish u one day.


Rape is rape, no two words about it!

Chucks234:
By Nigerian constitution it is not rape. You guys should learn to read the constitution. You cannot report or accuse your legally married husband of rape.

Redoil:
This days due to civilization many people cannot differentiate rape from disagreed sex

if a man is accused of raping his wife what Will then be the punishment
2 years jail term or castration
in the end the woman will suffer for whatever actions she takes
so there is nothing like marital rape

GidiWoodsMan:
They will ask him for a lot of money, simple. That bonehead doing agidi that he won't step down is only trying to get paid of course.

AroleOduduwa2:
Apc zoneB are confused slowpoke. Apc denied him their party ticket and expect him to bow out without fighting.

One ZoneB up there said it’s a win win for apc, how is it a win win for apc if he contest under another party and win?

You guys just come here and type rubbish, you think the Supreme Court will deny him of his mandate if he happen to win under another party? The credentials you waiting to use against him is the same he used to serve his first term, even though the judiciary is partisan, you think they want to make a mockery of themselves like that?

People need to think before coming here to type the parlor gist they heard from their ward level uncles

Because a thief was not caught four years ago when he robbed, does not mean he cannot be prosecuted for the same offense, when caught this year.
Your reasoning is on a single plane, for a multi-faceted problem.
All these your vibrating anger will not help Obaseki or any part that adopts him.
Obaseki is Toast.

golddare:
It seems you understand Edo politics but some people will still be arguing, for APC to defeat Iyamu last time was not an easy task, I am sure if he wins APC ticket Obaseki or whoever will be a walk over.

Oshiomole is a Unionist (most Union members are like Sheep, follow the leader!), He is astrategist, hence they made him APC Chairman.
Oshiomole is a Two-time Governor of same Edo State, his "Structures" brought Obaseki into Power and right now, he is in the rulling party and has Federal Might behind him.

All the above are not small challenges to overcome, with the kind of Politics we play in Nigeria and now that he has added Ize-Iyamu to the 'gun-powder', Obaseki is about to be blown to smithereens, whichever party he joins.

Ezennwa:
hmm!

Someone needs to challenge him, he can't come all the way from APC to snatch PDP
Governorship ticket on a platter of gold.

There must be an opponent in every contests

SpecialAgent:
That particular area is very volatile, Ur covid 19 team was gathering large number of civilians at that location. Boko boys can easily infiltrate & detonate bombs or hide withing the civilians to attack both soldiers and innocent civilians. The commander could not risk hundreds of civilians and his men dying, so he had to dismantle d covid check point. Am sure the soldiers didn't mean to seriously injure d taskforce but just to scare them

otokx:
So some people have mind to stand in the way of soldiers in a war area?

ENIGMATIC2023:
An average Yoruba is a Tinubu slave

LudaChriz:
It surprises me how some Afonjas reason

Reptyle:
Obaseki was a willing beneficiary of godfatherism.

Obaseki is an aspiring godfather himself.

Every Nigerian politician has one or more patrons AKA "godfather".

If you dismantle one God father's structure, 2 will rise in its place. As long as our electoral system remains the way it is currently, there will always be godfathers AKA Baba Isale.

If you don't want godfather wahala, run on your own independent platform and see how far you can go.

Neither Oshiomole nor Obaseki are fighting for any altruistic reason; they are both fighting for their pockets. When the going was good, they did not involve the masses. Now they are fighting, one is claiming to be fighting for the masses? Na lie!

Nigerian politics is a jungle. The only people that should carry it on their head are the politicians themselves and anyone benefitting from the aberration that is our political system.

The rest of us should just adopt sidon-look mode in this game of thrones.

Your Head dey dia jawe.
Dont mind all these unsolicited E-warriors.

Trailblazer1:
Game over


It's a palace coup against Obaseki by the APC national hierarchy


Gather here if you support Obaseki to fight back with all his might like a man rather than chicken out like one coward from Epe

I just want this new precedence of godfatherism to end in our polity from Edo to Lagos

cassyrooy:
I wanted to skip to the next post after reading but I can't because the truth is glaring down on us.

This is simply vote buying against 2023, through the FG, Northern political elites are subscribing and enlisting their citizens to start chanting for northern presidency soon enough, and with their advantagous population and control of resources, it's the rest of Nigeria vs the entire northern states irrespective of what results this present administration scores when it ends in 2023.

This is not about One Nigeria, this is about creating a suction of the votes that will come from the north and directing it to wherever the want it go.

The mistakes of 2015 will take decades to correct.

Tekzyflex:
Government of the north by the north and for the north.... Continu

Buhari and his Fulani Boys are looting Nigeria into Oblivion!
Did W.H.O not tell us that Insects or Mosquitos dont transmit CoronaVirus?

Welldone o, Mr Integrity from Sudan.

Southerners, shey una dey fight una self and Fulani dey pack una money go build North, abi?
kwantinue

FutureIG:
How about this?

descartes400:
Here's one I saw on a tarred road within my office location....I snapped it...used a stick to pick it up from the road so it doesn't get ran over, it was finding it difficult to climb over the pavement into shrubs to hide...so...I helped it. ..it was a very black scorpion.

Eeehn! You think that Help will make it not to sting you next time it has the opportunity?
Kill or be Killed.
That Scorpion has got your number in its head now and it is looking for you anywhere.

bolaayenimo:
What's Oyegun's political value?