₦airaland Forum

WATCHOVER:
Stop supporting illegality.
Kabaka Hotel dey wrong land, government must do their job. Was Kabaka not in support in demolition of former VC of Uniben.
When Oshiomhole said say no to godfatherism were you sleeping then?
Abeg stop writing trash.
For your information I can't cry I only pity Oshiomhole and his supporters.
Oshiomhole might be a political guru no doubt but this time he will lose big time.

Redoil:
since he is a Yoruba Megastar and mostly loved to the core by Yoruba people
he will be found not guilty by the government of
buhari so as to please the Yoruba people

imagine

Ipob Brain has started again!
You better go and borrow brain from the Mai-Ruuwa in your area, this your brain don expire tey-tey

Surulereman:
I suspect a typical Nigerian scam. The name of the Judge must have been fraudulently used in the application to obtain the permission to fly. Once approved, the real intended passengers boarded and flew to Abuja. I was wondering when state high court Judges started flying private jets. Now the charter company is in trouble, just as the Abuja event centre which hosted the concert. Everywhere Naira Marley goes......

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espn:
Bleep you...you dont even know what it takes to be a mother or what women go through...the baby fell when she was panicking, running to save the baby's life....May GOD bless the mother and give her the fortitude to bear this loss...

Ekpekaycee:
Very ridiculous news. Please can the following questions be answered?
1. If a baby slips, will he or she fall vertically downwards or sideways. For a baby to fall off like was described, he/she must have fallen sideways first before falling downwards which is not possible.
2. A baby of 3 months cannot shake so the wrapper used could not have loosened easily without prior notice to the mother.
3. Let the police conduct a thorough investigation and tell us what really happened.

Fortissimo502:
Honestly this is why Nigeria remains backward. There are so many questions that can come to mind from a detailed investigation, namely:
1. What if the woman threw the baby?
2. What if there were supposed to be safety features in the building to prevent something like this? I'm honestly wondering how they were so close to a window or whatever opening the baby fell out of.
3. How can something like this be prevented?

Omo the intellectual laziness of Nigerians is really heartbreaking. People will keep dying needless deaths and living substandard lives until they start asking questions and digging for the truth.

PricyTech:
This woman always spread bad news...


Who else noticed...


Anytime you here her name is always bad news

Natural441:
What is going on in this our fucking country,why this fucking guys always Bleep/rape our sister is getting too much.
IGP and Buhari please do something.

Death penalty is the best option.

Iceberg3:
Correct. Inasmuch as I don't want the north to ever rule again, they must continue to rule if that saboteur tinubu thinks he can outsmart his ancestors

OfoIgbo:
It was Igbos like Dora Akunyili and Ojo Maduekwe who were ministers that fought more than any other group to ensure GEJ emerged as the acting president.

In 2011, it was only about a week before the election that Tinubu started supporting gej when it was obvious gej was going to win, and as a matter of fact, sw votes were meagre in that election. In fact a Yoruba state voted against gej, and if not for the massive Igbo votes in Lagos state, Yorubas in that state voted against gej.

So stop selling your usual false "facts"

Esseite:
The question is are Igbos willing to give a 45% again like they did with MKO?..

Kaduna1stson:
The north deserves to take another shot at the presidency for another 8 years. This is because Buharii has misrepresented us by not leaving a good legacy. We want to elect another northerner to clear the name of the north.

Again, the south west fought against Buharii so much with their strong media. Deji Adeyanju, fayose, FFK, and Afenifere has remained in the lead of those who criticise buharri . We cannot alow tinubu or osibanjo who has bitter mind against Buharii to take over because of retaliation.

I even think we should wake up Abacha and Yar Ardua to come and finish their terms, the north has been terirbly shortchanged.
All these "Cows" that Nairaland allowed to register on this site will eventually turn it to Cow-Piss and drink it like Beer

emkz:
Philip Shaibu is no where to be found.

I recall when Buhari was preparing for a second term, Osinbajo met more people than him and built more bridges that the President was not skilled to do. It seems Philip has left Obaseki in the lurch. I won't be surprised if he declares support for the APC NWC this week.

May we not have deputies like Philip Shaibu who abandon us in our most trying moments.

ukaface:
Obaseki just dey run helter skelter....

Wait first? Na by force to be governor?

SLAP44:
Obaseki should come out fighting and go out in a blaze of smoke! Arm himself with courage and give them a hot fight, win or lose, history will remember him as a warrior and not a victim.

Zeeknow3245:
Husbands love your wife just like christ love the church. If you tell your wife No! That you are not in the mood, she rests and that is deprivation. Does she rape you? But if she says No now you automatically force yourself on her. Is that love? I hate when people don't read their bible thoroughly with wisdom from God. I hope you are not those advocates of beating wives all in the name of submission.

ibkayee:
Saliva everywhere just because they told you not to rape your wives

MoodyQueen:
The court granted you your conjugal rights but can't enforce sexual intercourse; why because every spouse retain the right to consent or not.

I'll take my leave now.

Eulalia:
I'm not a party to those claiming equality with men cos the Bible is clear on that one. The man is the head. So no controversy there.

As for a woman "forcing" herself on a man, I disagree with you on that as a woman does not have the physical strength to over power a man and have her way with him. If the woman has her way, then it because the man wants it and under such circumstance, it is not rape. It will take a couple of women to force themselves on a man before it can be regarded as rape.

MoodyQueen:
Hahahaha. You are a clown.
Please not this hogwash now.

Conjugal rights; a sexual right or privilege that can be express (by a prisoner of law) to have sex (if marriage) with his/her spouse.


Now tell me, if the spouse doesn't consent to having sex (with the prisoner) will the authorities force her to visit? Absolutely NO.

It's up to her to consent.

Not even the govt can force her on the virtue of being married (to the prisoner). So it's not in law that it is a marital duty she must obliged to her spouse.

Flows001:
At the bolded. It isn't an "offence" per se because no law officer will/can arrrest you for denying your spouse sex, it's just a ground for divorce i.e; it can easily convince the Court to rule in favour of a Petitioner for divorce and nullify the marriage, there re many other grounds too.

cococandy:
That you typed a long and colorful post doesn’t mean you have anything meaningful to say.

manikspears:
Moody Queen ...... first of all,I want to apologize on behalf of all the guys that have hurt you.we are very sorry and we promise to never to do it again.

With that cleared ,when a man and a woman commits to a relationship there is nothing like rape. You can't go and report to your parents that your husband impregnated you after raping and you will be taken serious.this is because everyone expects you to fu*k eachother (anyhow). That is why you have a marriage certificate to back that up. if the poor guy sleeps with another person you will call him a scum. Consider us too now, you know we are born to like this thing.

Pelxmiye:
I dont think you should get married ...you don't need it, you'll be fine on your own ,I assure you,but then you'll look back later on in life and think of the "could-have-beens and should have beens and what ifs"...don't always believe all these online charages ,but at least be a baby mama and have a child or two and then be alone, don't go it alone,either give birth and be alone witj your kids or marry to a man who you can have a middle ground or compromise for or better yet marrry a man who prefers to have sex three times a year,for me and most men ,we want sexual pleasure to the maximum and that isn't a bad thing ,I want to caress my women's boobs and grab her ass from behind and kiss her nape every time she's looking hot and even when she isn't,I want her to wake me up stroking my Johnny as I wake up to see the sunlight through the window blinds as i gradually wake from bed,for someone you're attracted to physically , sexually , emotionally...you should want to be with them every time, it's not always about sex ,but the physical ,soulful energy between two people who want and long to be together always,we rarely find people like that though ,they come once in a lifetime , attraction,emotional and physical connection is important to maintain sexual sustenance,so yes i believe a man cannot rape his wife,neither can a woman,both parties just need to find a middle ground,if the love and the connection isn't there anymore,then both partners should go their own ways,also i believe sex in beyond duty or responsibilities, it's a bond between two people,it goes beyond that,when the connection is gone,but parties can reach an agreement or break it off

Hathor5:
Please don't force yourself on your poor wife.

Cherez:
I wish I could see you tomorrow
I'd give you a treat
Mehn you are all shades of wisdom
I wish there were more of sensible people like you in this country
Mehn, you're worded
GOD BLESS YOU BRO

Ariza:
I have no problem when people quote me, I just have problem when people barge into conversations without fully understanding it Genesis.

The guy I responded to used the word FORCE. I didn't originate it. He claimed forcing is woman does not violate any law or religion. Now any right thinking person will see all wrong in that word "Force" which equate rape. How can a sane being say he can force his woman because there is no law or religious rule against it. The question is what make such person HUMAN? Some things don't have to be set in books or stones before an being who has evolved beyond being an APE will know it isn't right. Please let us always try to make that difference between Humans and Animals very distinctive in all dealings. What is wrong is wrong.

That said, there's a difference between seduction and Rape. You talk about seduction which even at times doesn't work. It's not really a hard thing to let One's partner be so far it's not constant. If it is, couples should talk about it not act like animals. And please stop trying too hard to neglect the fact that some men batter and rape their women. Without seduction or trying to arouse their women they manhandled their wives and penetrate. You are the one trying to downplay this practice by playing around words.

MoodyQueen:
I hope your source is official.
And this isn't just a prejudice.
Give me a link to this as written in the law.

In broad terms, conjugal rights are the affections and privileges enjoyed between two people in marriage. The word "conjugal" often brings up sexual connotations, and while such relations are certainly a part of a marital relationship, these rights also include all other aspects of affection and companionship, including co-habitation and joint property rights. Legally speaking, the disruption of marital privileges by a third party, called alienation of affections, may be grounds for a civil suit, but not often a criminal prosecution. Conjugal rights is thought of most often perhaps in regard to prison inmates, who in some countries and regions are allowed conjugal visits in order to promote healthy relationships between spouses.

conjugal rights
n. a spouse's so-called "rights" to the comforts and companionship from his/her mate, meaning sexual relations. Some states allow prisoners to have "conjugal visits" so that they may have private visits and sexual relations with his/her spouse (or "significant other" in a special room or apartment.

conjugal rights ►
noun plural The rights and privileges arising from the marriage relationship, especially regarding sexual relations.
n. The rights and privileges arising from the marital relationship; especially those of love, affection, companionship, comfort and sexual relations

1 Corinthians 7:3–5
The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.
For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

cococandy:
Stop supporting rape and you won’t have a problem with such evil women like me who call out rapists and their supporters.

Simple.

But women like you ehn..... make l nor talk.
Only God can help you overcome your inner demons and l honestly pray HE does because you need psychological and psychiatric help, no kidding.

double77:
I have wake up so many times to see my big dickk in my girl friend mouth.

manikspears:
Anita has a big point. Common sense says that a man cannot rape his wife. it saddens me to see that most of the people commenting are not married yet. Marriage is a commitment,not boyfriend girlfriend issue.sex is part of what should be balanced. It is your duty to satisfy your husband or wife sexually.

If you don't want to loose your husband to his secretary or your friends better prepare your mind.wedding is when you were call the whole world to witness the beginning of your wedding. Marriage is an institution, you must pass every subject. So for your sake, satisfy your spouse sexually.

Sure there could be times when you cannot can , but starving the other person is like pushing him away and trust me the girls out there are on red alert when it comes to f**king.

Permit my mistakes