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eldee:
Because it's dangerous to give the woman an inch, she'll always steal a mile
It's so visible, just watch Jerry Springer

eldee:
It's needed after I've repeated my point 101 times

nalijah07:
I think a man is ready to marry when he is financially stable, has gotten all the running around out of his system, and is mature enough to deal with the complexities that he knows marriage may bring.

eldee:
Read my post and stop making an ass of yourself
I was refering to how Funmi is advocating men leaving the homes to women
Any man that lets his wife call the piper in his home is a FOOL!!!
He's a disgrace to all homo-sapiens

DaPhoenix:
Frankly, I don't care if you do or don't.

ibkaye:
eysh, 95/5? Chineke Mehh!! That's too much na 

eldee:
30/70 as in Men:Women

Yeah, that's what Hotfunmi and other 40 year old virgins are fighting for
The other day she was looking for a husband that will be her secetary
I've explained to you what submission means
It's worked before, it won't stop working tomorrow

DaPhoenix:
Aww, did I hurt your feelings? Go ahead and tell your "boyfriend" then come tell us what he said. Or better still go to your kickboxing class and take your anger out on the pads.

ibkaye:
eh eh, you berra cleanse ya eyes wit OMO soap and read again dear

ibkaye:
he said 30/70 o

DaPhoenix:
Don't flatter yourself and who the freak still uses the word "jive". It's not cute, even for a 16 year old.

eldee:
50-50 is not working yet and you're chasing 30-70??
Err . . . are you sure u're not on expired coffee

Women suffer more when kids go out of hand, they're the ones that the soceity points to
They're the ones that get beat-up by the ruthless sons

Why can't they just do it the way that has been tested and trusted??
Why change our values because of what we saw on Oprah?

DaPhoenix:
Exactly what a 16 year old would do.

DaPhoenix:
Onyinye I could have sworn you were 16.

@topic, when he can take care of his woman and his family in all aspects of life.

rampant:
like seriously,but age has got nothing to do wt this,even ibkaye that is younger aint thinking like her,i'll only go wt d naive word

HCH3COO:
LOL I no fit laugh for this onyinye o.  So young and naive.

rampant:
anyways i don't blame u,u is  still a baby,its your type that will end up liking it the most and asking for it 24/7,never say no to what u've never tried out before


_{i don see who my sweet angel ibkaye better pass}

HCH3COO:
Ephesians 5
"Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, even as Christ is head of the church; and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so let wives be to their own husbands in everything. "

ibkaye:
the bible says so, eat it chew it grind it swallow it yummy oohh yeaaah

eldee:
You're still young now, it'll take time for you to understand
Even Funmi knows the truth
That's why I said, she has to be part of the decision making
If you don't know how to get to your man's heart, then you've failed as a wife

rampant:
like i asked before,why bother then?u better remain single,because your man is only going to keep u in his house to be only his children factory,and not real wife

LadyT:
Oyinye sharrap there when you celebrate 40yrs of marriage and people ask you where you got those stretch marks from around your mouth you better answer honestly!!!

rampant:
so y is u getting married then?is it not better u remain single?

eldee:
No one is saying she shouldn't make decisions
She should always state her own opinion and be a part of decision making
But the man is the final decision-maker

Hannibal:
@ Onyinye,

20 is not equal to a pet-dog.
It means she would only have 2 says for every 10 decisions that come ma way.

rampant:
don't wish for such my dear

Abuseay:
Onyiye i don't understand your own o, your own answer just dey always do my head in, grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Hannibal:
Why won't i heed advice??
A woman is not a dummy or a pet dog. . . .Of course, she has a say in the matters that spring up in marriage.
I am more than willing to listen to ma partner's needs.
However, she should be contented with 20.
Anything more than this. . . . . .She can go back to her Dad's house where she can have 110.