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you can't make anyone fall in love with you no matter how hard you try. It is up to her if she wants to fall in love with you.

Not trying to undermind you Gamine but, i really don't have any of these so called symptoms.

bennygee:
i couldn't wait,
lost my virginity in 19 . . ehm . .ehm
can't really remember,but i think
Mugabe just won his 1st election that year

19!!! got dang!!!

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=156197.msg2592995#msg2592995 date=1217594183]@ Topic

makes me weak and she can make me to do almost anything, because i don't want to see my woman's tears.
however, some ladies have taken adavnatge of that.[/quote]That is a very dangerous way to feel.

Queenisha:
Is that what you're using to wazzle themin ekwulobia?
that you're doing pre med?
abeg make I go laugh finish.
premed my hammer toes.
doing maths and English sprinkled with anatomy in your community college and you already feel like a board certified physician.
I say meet me after 8 years,let's talk

Kachifoo Queenisha. I do sincerely hope i never see you in my office. Not because you are ignorant but it is because of the field im in. But unfortunately i have to say that you will change your mind about nurses one way or another. Because with out nurses, doctors, surgeons, alot of the people on this earth wouldn't be here. Kachifoo.Oh yeah im on scholarship so don't worry about my parent's money because i havent used a dime.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=155971.msg2591083#msg2591083 date=1217554557]Hmmmm, not a bad idea.
But then, I'm not into men that can be esaily controlled by a woman[/quote]Yeah even i hate a man that can be controlled by a woman easily.

Queenisha:
Meet after after you take your MCAT _{with a passing score}You have a lot of learning to do

Meet me when you find back your intelligence. Tryna to question a Pre Med student, mba.

chi21:
I dislike seeing men become male nurse although career is by choice

Omo, tell what is wrong with a man being a nurse?

Queenisha:
let me tell you something sweetie.
A nurse merely caries out a doctors instructions and the meds are written with the correct instructions and compounded by the pharmacist if in an elixir.
she need not calculate a thang!

Please your ignorance is becoming scary. My friends have to take more math than you can spell just to become a nurse. If you keep talking like this, you will truly find that nurse who can't calculate.

Queenisha:
You are still in premed abi?
90% of you drop out and never make it to med school  but let me just help you by telling you that some pain meds can also put you to sleep.
free lesson on pharmacology here
look at this one

Actually you don't want to treat  a patient with pain using sleeping pills. They will wake up in more pain.
Little medical lesson for you.
Look at this one.

Queenisha:
The general emasculation of men I say.
which mathematics does a nurse need.
How to calculate the volume of urine?

abegi

You would be the first to sue if a nurse thought like you. What do you mean what mathematics? Omo, please go educate yourself.

Queenisha:
I wonder why they didn't inspire you to be a nurse

You over here thinking you smart. When i specifically said that i was becoming a doctor. Please i hope you don't become anything that has to do with the medical field. You would switch sleeping pills for pain killers.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=156197.msg2591031#msg2591031 date=1217553803]ROFLMAO

You are damned right.

Tell it to these un-submissive women.[/quote]oh go and prepare for your pre nupt and customary marriage. atheist.

Queenisha:
so do ashewos
does that make it a great profession for a female
No wonder you're talking like this, all your male role models are nurses.
as you encourage your kids to be nurses,encourage only Ada and Chinelo O
not Emeka and Chima

You have no idea what you are talking about. Nursing is one of the hardest most rewarding profession there is. Im in pre med, and i see what the kids who are becoming nurses go through. so sad. Im thankful that i grew up around nurses and doctors, because they the ones that inspired me to become a doctor. Because the same people you guys make fun of are the ones who organize funds to send to the hospitals back in Nigeria. I don't see any one of all doing squat.

Hannibal:
According to Onyinye2, men should go to RED LIGHT DISTRICT in thongs and display their willys from a window because it's a lucrative business.
How can a man wake up one day to be a male NURSE. . . .Changing diapers and other shitteries.
I can now understand why women are pushing for sex equality.
Men have already lowered emselves to be wimps.

It is so sad how ignorant you guys are. Oka let me shed some light for you. There are more then one type of nurse. yal are talking of the ones that work in old folk's home. they have some that work in ER, ICU, NIC, Maturnity, so and so forth. Abeg please go and educate you guys self before you post such ignorant post.

Oka let me say this. If you are a nurse here, you have a job any where. The amount of money made is a blessing. All my naija friend's parents are nurses. And they all live in the best neighborhoods. Becoming a nurse is an accomplishment and worth it. I would encourage any one of my kids to become a nurse, doctor, or surgeon.

Queenisha:
what will my people say?

That you are set for life.

Queenisha:
There are women whose husbands are male nurses and they hide that fact because it's a womanly profession.
They'll tell you their men work in the hospital
abeg there's something wrong with it.
men ought to be men jo

Please come to the states. If your man is a nurse, Glory to God. Do you know how much there is a demand for nurses? do you know how much it pays? One of my male friends moved to Washington from Texas, just to go to the school that excepted him.

Hannibal stop dodging and answer my question.

Is Jesus a wimp for crying?

agaba123:
Onyee

Who born this fine babe , fine babe, make papa born fine babe . . .it is a part of a music

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=155971.msg2590912#msg2590912 date=1217551620]Onye muru nwaa lee, nwada ri mma. . . papa muta nwanyi rimma . .

Who gave birth to this child!!  ! !  The child is pretty . . . . . Papa gave birth to a beautiful girl.

_{I hope I am correct}   [/quote]Omo, dalu.

Hannibal:
You see what i am saying. . . . . .

These wussies should just hand in their testicles now and go buy a bra.
Accept that life isn't perfect and move on.
When I hear about some clown launching a sexual harassment lawsuit against some female colleague, i want to hunt down the guy and take him to Lucca's Meat Market to show him what real sexual harassment is.
We've become rompipalles (ball breakers). We've become selfish pigs, not doing anything without selfish gain.

Men now groom like chics. . . . . .Manicure n Pedicure.
I will never wax anything off my body that God intended to have there.
Hell, i am not going to go to a fancy girly spa to get some algae crap on my face.
Look clean, iron your clothes, anything else leave to you mother-in-law.

When did becoming a stay-at-home dad become cool? When did being a male nurse become something guys grew up thinking of?
When did being a secretary scream out "ambitious career plan"?
When did holding your wife's hand while she's delivering your baby become a mandatory male experience?
I can now understand why some twats here feel a man must cry or the REAL men cry bullshit. Our forefather could build houses with their barehands.
These days, StephenP needs a 200-page manual to put up a shelf. . . . .Does he even own a hammer??

1. What is wrong in holding your wife's hand?
2. Come and tell all the naija men born/raised that they are wissies because they are nurses
3. Are you calling Jesus a wuss because the last time i checked Jesus wept.

@agaba
if you don't mind, could you please translate your signature?

Hannibal:
Unfortunately, things have changed.
All we have today are wimps n sissies. . . .  .The way some men behave, u can easily argue they have vaginas instead of cocks.
These days, u see men take sides with feminists, men groom like women, men have now taken over women's roles.
The other day, ma neighbour's male kid wants to be a MALE NURSE. . . . What a load of crap??
It's pathetic.

Please don't come to Houston with this jive. Because the Nigerian men, dominate in nursing.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=156197.msg2590851#msg2590851 date=1217550347]@oyinye
I totally agree with you. Cuz that's how I am.
If I need to cry, I need to be alone.
Let out the anger/depression out by myself. I don't need attention or pity or even sympathy
Just to be alone.[/quote]I know,  i don't want to hear "it will be okay" "im here for you" "you are alright". that jive just annoys me to the core. It basically just adds insult to injury. I mean im not trying to lock my man out of my emotions or anything but i really need to be alone. Let me scream and yell, relieve some stress. But when a guy tries to come and hold me or hug, i just completely just bottle up all my emotions and wait till im alone to relive. I mean when im crying and real upset, i seriously need to be alone to calm myself down. Because i have been in a position in which i did something because i wasn't able to be alone and relieve that anger.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=156197.msg2590830#msg2590830 date=1217549972]@oyinye
hehehe, so you want your husband to be away from you when you're crying?

That means you don't want to see him in the labor room.[/quote]That is the only exception. But otherwise he needs to back off and let me handle it. I mean i don't even cry in front of my family. i don't like bringing that kind of attention to myself. Let me be myself, retain my composure, and forget it.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=155971.msg2590818#msg2590818 date=1217549834]I am.

This is just residual knowledge from sunday school and C.R.K _{(christian religious knowledge)}   [/quote]Oka i asked huxley this but he wouldn't answer me. When you get married, who would conduct your marriage?

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=156197.msg2590796#msg2590796 date=1217549428]ROTFLMAO!!!

Macho show on Nairaland? rotflmao!! hehehehe, you want to tell me what you've been doing when you sign off of Nairaland?

I'm not saying men should not cry o, what am saying is that I DO NOT WANT TO SEE THEM CRYING!!! It's a turn off! ugh!!!

bTw, I hate men that act too macho, that's just another turn off!!

Man, do I have a long list of turn offs! [/quote]You got that right. But i wouldn't mind seeing my husband cry. i mean i will be there to comfort as long as he understands when im crying, the only comfort for me is him being away from me.

@ okija

i thought you were atheist?

Joseph6:
wow this is the first time u guys are pourin your hearts out mehn i'm insptred, who has seen wedding crashers? cryin men-works like magic

Not all the time. Maybe the first time. Oka if i see my husband coming home upset because something real bad happen, oka yeah i might cater to his every need and want. But if he cries all the time or often, im going to tell him to suck it up.

dreeldee:
@Ruby you ladies are mean saying men shouldn't cry, every human cry. public crying i don't support. even all these guys on here putting up the Macho show on Nairaland, if one could only see what they do off line inside the 4 corners of their room, i bet that's going to give you a good laugh

No one said a man shouldn't cry. just not for every little thing. in fact both men and women should not cry for every little thing.

StephenP:
@ the fellas who put sports before their women, do you cry if your team loses a major game badly?

well i play sports and i only cry if like i know we could have won but the other team just came with it. Or in track when i know i could have gotten a better time if i pushed a little more.but i wait till i get home. not when im in the midst of my team mates and coaches.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=156197.msg2590749#msg2590749 date=1217548677]@oyinye
LOL!!!
More like he should lock himself up and do the crying!
The only time he's allowed to cry is from the pain I inflicted him. That's acceptable.[/quote]Yes o!!! folk who care in public are so. . . i don't know. I mean go to your car, an isolated area, even the bathroom stalls. go somewhere. If my man cries, it should be when we have our kids, pain on him, something happens to his family, things in that area.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=156197.msg2590706#msg2590706 date=1217548215]@oyinye
everytime!!! I haven't seen a crying man that did not turn me off.
It's almost sickening. I just felt like smacking the sense into a crying man.
Nollywood even made it worst with their 20mins crying.[/quote]Im not saying it is a turn on for me but when the first time i saw a guy cry, i don't know but it just melted me. But i don't support men, women, people in general who cry all the time. Especially in public. i mean go in your car or somewhere else.