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PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 12:13am On Mar 12, 2019
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garfield1...You will surely get tired of distributing your unnecessary "shares"...your likes wont sleep today!
PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 12:11am On Mar 12, 2019
garfield1:
Apc has a chance to upturn it.
This is not osun state....
PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 12:10am On Mar 12, 2019
garfield1:
He didnt get 25% in up to 18 lgas.
Oga i know you are an apc supporter but your party didn't make top 3 sef.... grin grin
ihedioha has been declared the winner....whoever does not agree should go to the tribunal!
PoliticsRe: Kano Governorship Election: Full Results As Released By INEC (2019) by openmine(m): 12:08am On Mar 12, 2019
EazyMoh:
Kanawa do not support mediocrity and corruption like Gandollar like Atiku. They should be in the same party PDP. tongue
Even die hard Buhari fans are celebrating Abba's victory which is not a victory for PDP, but a victory for morality, decency and uprightness.
So you still think buhari is moral and upright?
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PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 12:04am On Mar 12, 2019
Ihedioha of PDP 273404
nwosu of AA 190364
ararume of APGA 114676

Ihedioha of PDP WINNER!
PoliticsRe: Awara Biokpomabo: INEC Has No Right To Halt My Victory by openmine(m): 8:40pm On Mar 11, 2019
umuna:
He said he had won 15 LGAS out of 23. Already he is leading Wiked with 200k plus votes for a start. During the presidential elections, Obio Kpor did not give PDP more than 60k votes. please go and check.
bro look very well
He said he won 15 lgas but provided only 7 lgas!
he only brought out 7 lgas with the belief that he has won 15 lags that he hasn't even listed!
The results in obiaakpor will wipe out that result as well as other results coming...just watch out!
no need for too much talk!
mind you am not an apc or pdp supporter!
PoliticsRe: Awara Biokpomabo: INEC Has No Right To Halt My Victory by openmine(m): 8:40pm On Mar 11, 2019
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RomanceRe: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by openmine(m): 6:56pm On Mar 11, 2019
lilianofentse:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.

2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else.

Tonight he went out with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.

He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Modified: Ps I am trying my best to forget about him. Pls any advice on how to forget him would be appreciated. tnx
You need to read this
https://www.nairaland.com/4879367/what-friends


To escape the pain and hurt of friendships and relationships going sour every now and again, there are some wise considerations and tough decisions you must take going forward.

First, you must define who you are,
you must conceive a new you.
You must respect yourself, value yourself and determine how you want to be treated.
You must have personal rules about what you would accept and reject from people no matter how close they are or how much you love them. Respect your body
don’t let people disrespect your body or soul.
You need to have rules about how you want to be treated.
When you have rules and you respect your rules, the people who want to come into your life would respect the rules.
If you don’t draw lines, people will overstep their boundaries.

Secondly, instead of being angry every time at how people you love and can do much stuff for keep treating you badly, focus on yourself and ask realistic questions on why you keep attracting those kind of people.

Believe me, there are so many mean people out there waiting to take advantage of kind, considerate, sacrificial and generous people. Are you kind, considerate, loving, generous and tolerant? These may be attributes attracting some people, not because they truly love you, appreciate you or want to be a good friend to you. Once what they want is no longer available or they can obtain from somewhere else, they move on. Therefore, do not trust everyone who says they love you or care about you, don’t be carried away by sweet talks and empty promises, don’t trust their words, test their hearts, create artificial situations to test their true intentions before you let them into your life. Being good can really cause you much pain in this life, don’t be good to everybody, don’t cast your pearls to pigs, don’t be mean either, stay neutral till they earn a space in your life.


Thirdly,
develop a wonderful relationship with yourself.
It is difficult for people to love you if you don’t love you.
You must be your own best friend,
don’t be desperate for the endorsement or approval of people.
The first step in cultivating a personal relationship with yourself is understanding and accepting who you are first then defining who you want to become.
Once you set personal goals and a vision, begin to develop plans and strategies for your pursuit, you’ll discover you’ll start falling in love with an advancing you as you keep progressing and achieve your set goals.

A life without personal goals, dreams and pursuits is a confused and frustrating one, hence the desperation to seek people and friends to fill the void. When you’re very busy working hard on yourself, chasing your goals and building your dreams, you wouldn’t even have enough time for too many unnecessary people in your life.
PoliticsRe: Awara Biokpomabo: INEC Has No Right To Halt My Victory by openmine(m): 5:54pm On Mar 11, 2019
Just 7 LGAs and he is running his mouth up and down
He should calm down and wait for other results from other LGAs nah grin grin
only obia kpor lga will wipe out the result that he is using to make noise grin grin
He thinks he would have made up to 200 votes had amaechi not rigged for him grin grin
LiteratureRe: Chimamanda Adichie: Wear What You Want To Wear by openmine(m): 11:27am On Mar 11, 2019
Not a fan of Chimamanda when it comes to giving moral advise!

People with huge amount of fan base on social media must know others are looking up to them!

My simple advise to ladies is to DRESS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE ADDRESSED!
PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 2:13am On Mar 11, 2019
Kyase:
Why e dey pain you
pained?
I dont feel pain but pity for the Nigerian army!
Politicians know how to mismanage institutions only to dump them when such institutions have outlived their usefulness!
PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 2:09am On Mar 11, 2019
Indispensable85:
Wetin soldiers do for Rivers state today weak me.
soon the Nigerian army will no longer command the respect that they once had simply because they allowed themselves to be compromised their paymasters!
PoliticsRe: Udom Emmanuel Declared Winner Of Akwa Ibom Governorship Election By INEC by openmine(m): 12:05am On Mar 11, 2019
where is that cleric or prophet that claimed God spoke to him in a dream that udom won't be reelected? undecided
PoliticsRe: Rivers: Election Suspension, Illegal – APC Slams INEC by openmine(m): 10:56pm On Mar 10, 2019
bayelsaowei:
see ehn na buhari i go still blame.. if buhari had a little sense he would have ordered the caos to withdraw the military from rivers state.. also order the IGP to take away all the police from that useless ameachi.. we all need to get back to our normal lives and go to work.. see me see wahala oo
Buhari wants rivers state by all means necessary and he doesn't mind if his actions kill the rivers state dwellers! sad
PoliticsRe: Rivers: Election Suspension, Illegal – APC Slams INEC by openmine(m): 10:50pm On Mar 10, 2019
specco:
The HAND of Esau but the VOICE of Jacob.
Exactly cheesy
PoliticsRe: Rivers: Election Suspension, Illegal – APC Slams INEC by openmine(m): 10:50pm On Mar 10, 2019
bayelsaowei:
grin grin.. i tire oo.. make ona help me see election wey apc no even dey the ballot... grin

Naija just weak me..
cheesy

PoliticsRe: Rivers: Election Suspension, Illegal – APC Slams INEC by openmine(m): 10:17pm On Mar 10, 2019
shocked shocked
why is APC protesting against INEC instead of AAC?
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PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 9:11pm On Mar 10, 2019
Kyase:
Abba is decamping by December with kwankosso, wait and see
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Why are we getting all these permutations when its obvious that the pdp guber candidate is on the verge of winning?
Would you have even believed that abba would be able to win gandollars three days before now?
I thought you guys said kwankwaso's political career is over? undecided undecided
PoliticsRe: Announce Rivers Results Now Or Else - PDP Reacts As INEC Suspends Rivers Electio by openmine(m): 8:50pm On Mar 10, 2019
ahmedsimpa:
AAC won the election. INEC declare nowwwww.
Make una dey reason nah
If aac won the election like u said, its PDP that would be pressuring inec NOT to announce the result!
The reason why PDP wants inec to declare the result is because they have confirmed other results from other LGAs in rivers state is favouring them!
U saw two LGAs won by aac and you thought aac has won?
Smh
PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 7:51pm On Mar 10, 2019
obaloppelujo:
From a reliable source , AAC party in rivers state may likely win , wike thinks he’s more wicked ? He bribed inec to rule against apc to fill their candidate, cleverly , ameachi and apc sponsor AAC to help dethrone wike , and you know what ?
The AAC guy will decamp to apc after sworn in .
Next time if wike hear jagaban , he’ll say hallelujah
Jesu... who gave you this beer parlour gist that it was wike who took out apc from the ballot by bribing inec? shocked
were you not properly informed that the constitution of apc was what the supreme court used to nullify all apc elections in rivers state?
Are you aware that there are two apc factions which made it impossible to field a candidate?
So you expect inec to still put apc on the ballot in the rivers guber election after a supreme court ruling? Haba make una dey reason small nah sad
When you guys come online to make allegations,make sure you are adequately informed!
Just imagine cheesy cheesy
PoliticsRe: INEC Suspends Rivers State Election by openmine(m):
StOla:
Good!

Wike must be uprooted so Rivers can have peace.
Bro what's really your issue with wike sef?
Was wike the one who threatened to unleash the military on rivers people while singing war songs in a presidential campaign?
Was wike the one who sent soldiers to lock up inec staffs and destroy result sheets?
was wike the one who told soldiers to steal ballot boxes in an LGA in rivers state?
Was he the one who told army personnel to shoot and kill an PDP agent in a polling unit?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Burnley (4 - 2) On 10th March 2019 by openmine(m): 2:57pm On Mar 10, 2019
Haters right now..... grin grin grin grin

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Burnley (4 - 2) On 10th March 2019 by openmine(m): 2:56pm On Mar 10, 2019
FT
4-2
Mane mane mane grin grin
PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 1:47pm On Mar 10, 2019
buhariguy:
ignore the video,
dont believe it, vote the best and ganduje is the best.
If the video was doctored or not real,why did he initially stop the state house of assembly from investigating the video?
PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 10:34am On Mar 10, 2019
seunmsg:
Stop taking political bants seriously.
Really? grin grin
Christianity EtcRe: Are We Truly Not To Obey The Old Testament Laws Anymore? by openmine(m): 10:30am On Mar 10, 2019
alBHAGDADI:
I just showed that the law only changed cos it still has portion of the old. But you claim it has been done away with and totally replaced. If so how come the new law looks very much like the old?
Stop confusing yourself....what is the meaning of CHANGE in scriptures Hebrews 7:12 since you know its very meaning?
Or let me make it simpler for you to comprehend...what to you is the meaning of CHANGE?

so how come the new law looks very much like the old?
Whether there are similarities between the new and old is not the issue here!
Atleast you have admitted,from your statements, that the law was done away with and replaced!

Greek Word Pronunciation: al-LAS-oh
Strong’s Number: 236
This is a word that comes from allos, meaning “another of a different kind.”
Allasso means “to make other than it is; to cause one thing to cease and another to take its place.”
It appears only 6 times in the New Testament.
PoliticsRe: Governorship Election Results 2019 From Polling Units Across States (unofficial) by openmine(m): 10:20am On Mar 10, 2019
seunmsg:
I will advice the leadership of APC to reach out to Kwankwaso after the election with the aim of bringing him back to the party irrespective of the outcome of Kano’s election. He’s arguably the most popular politician in the north after Buhari.

From my understanding of his grievances, he’s not really against APC but Ganduje. After the election, a common ground can be found. A southerner/Kwankwaso ticket will be unbeatable in 2023.
And yet you guys made a mockery of him after he lost out in the senate!
Saying he was politically irrelevant!
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Christianity EtcRe: Are We Truly Not To Obey The Old Testament Laws Anymore? by openmine(m): 10:15am On Mar 10, 2019
alBHAGDADI:
Wrong interpretation. It doesn't say do away with. It only says change, which means portions of it. Otherwise while would Paul uphold the law against eating blood if it has been done away with? What about Paul upholding homosexuality etc

Since the law has been done away with according to you, then go and have hot steamy sex with your mother tonight which the law warns against.
Once again you have given no proof of what CHANGE means in the bible but i brought mine cool cool
You are actually the one erroneously misquoting the bible!
Hebrews 7:12 is too explicit for you not to comprehend its simple meaning!
Unless you are implying that the levitical priesthood was never set aside ab initio!
Christianity EtcRe: Are We Truly Not To Obey The Old Testament Laws Anymore? by openmine(m): 10:06am On Mar 10, 2019
Now, there are some laws which he changed in the new testament. Remember he stated through Apostle Paul that since the Levitical priesthood changed, there came a change of the law. It doesn't say the law was THROWN OUT, it only says it CHANGED.

Hebrews 7:12 KJV
For the priesthood being changed, there is made of necessity a change also of the law.
12 because when there is a change in the priesthood there must be a corresponding change in the law as well.

11-14 If the priesthood of Levi and Aaron, which provided the framework for the giving of the law, could really make people perfect, there wouldn’t have been need for a new priesthood like that of Melchizedek. But since it didn’t get the job done, there was a change of priesthood, which brought with it a radical new kind of law. The Message

12 And if the priesthood is changed, the law must also be changed to permit it.


Greek Word Pronunciation of CHANGE: al-LAS-oh
Strong’s Number: 236
Goodrich/Kohlenberger Number: 248
Key Verse: “… and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God …” -- Romans 1:23

This is a word that comes from allos, meaning “another of a different kind.”
Allasso means “to make other than it is; to cause one thing to cease and another to take its place.” It appears only 6 times in the New Testament.

In Acts 6:14, at Stephen’s arrest, the Jews misrepresented Stephen’s comment, indicating Stephen had said that Jesus would alter the Mosaic customs, to introduce other customs in their place.

In 1 Corinthians 15:51-52, in reference to the Rapture, “we will all be changed.” Believers will undergo such a change as to fit them for their new abode in heaven.

In Galatians 4:20, Paul was expressing his wish to be physically present with the Galatian believers to “change” his tone, that is, from the severe sound in a letter, to a tender quality. He wants to change the manner, not the substance of his speech.

Hebrews 1:12 is in reference to the temporary nature of the world which “will also be changed.” Creation is now decaying, and this is contrasted with the immutability of Christ, Who never changes.
In summary,CHANGE is simply doing away with the FORMER and REPLACING with something NEW

I welcome contrary opinions to this with biblical quotations! cool cool
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Get Married Even If They Are Not In Love With The Man? by openmine(m):
Unnecessary Pressure from peers and family members esp from the mother!
Secondly, the erroneous belief that both partners will love each other as the marriage progresses according to them!
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Slams Olakunle Churchill, Ex-husband Again! by openmine(m): 8:05pm On Mar 08, 2019
This is one of the reasons why most guys are hesitant to seek financial help from a lady even when they are desperately in need!

Some ladies will broadcast their assistance for the entire world to hear at the slightest provocation!

Just imagine the immaturity oozing out of such an acclaimed celebrity!

No class,ill mannered and cocky!

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