Politics › Re: Edo Primaries: INEC Releases Update by oshorstan(m): 4:21am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Oshiomhole Just gave him another Upper cut. I see PDP winning Edo State. G. O should decamp to save face |
Travel › Re: Fraudsters: STOP Asking Your Kins Abroad To Help You Aid Your Selfish Interests! by oshorstan(m): 4:16am On Jun 10, 2020 |
I am looking for People that I will Bless. Kindly send your Aza |
Politics › Re: Pressure Mounts On APC To Disqualify Obaseki From Guber Race - Thisday Newspaper by oshorstan(m): 8:10pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
osizi06: I will vie for Ize Iyamu because what Edo need now is a governor from Orhionmwon LG. This is the biggest yet the most underdeveloped LG in Edo State. Lucky Imasuen Odubu Obaseki POI all from ORHIOWON |
Family › Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by oshorstan(m): 1:53pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
ZeroShenanigan: I'm above mid thirties, finished NYSC 2015 and i just secured a government teaching job after spending more than 3 years teaching in private schools. I met my wife earlier 2019, she was in her final year in school, we dated throughout the year and planned to get married after she graduated. She graduated and we make a move for our introduction, then we suggested to have the marriage before she go for her Nysc so as to enable her serve in our home state as I already have a rented apartment to start a small family.
As we were planning for the marriage, we were also planning her NYSC. She was required to have a medical certificate for the NYSC which of course required blood test including genotype. She came back with the result of her genotype as AS. That was the only time I remember to take genotype issue serious. Even if I have some little knowledge about it before, I decided to research more about it on the internet and also met some of my friends who are medically inclined. I came to realize my own genotype test is also important at that moment. I might have done the test in school but I didn't pay attention to it usefulness so I don't remember the result.
I don't usually fall sick except for normal malaria when there is mosquito bite, never had a drip line in my body for once, never slept in a hospital bed, I don't have any reason to take note of my genotype or blood test.
Her results then prompt me to have my own test done too which came out to be AS also. By these periods we have convinced our families to choose a date for the marriage so that we can have the wedding before her NYSC. Marriage is to hold in a week time when I got my own genotype result. From my further findings about AS and AS couple, I discovered how risky it is for their offsprings. I tried to explain to her but she turned a deaf ear, she alleged me of trying to break her heart at that critical period. She reported to her sisters they tried to blame me but I make them all realized it's not my fault because throughout my visitation and introduction to their family nobody has ever ask us about genotype. I am an orphan, I don't have any closer family to guide me except for my sisters who can't wait for me to get married because of my age, they also had never thought of it as well.
My wife sisters gave us some examples of older couples who were both AS with only one or no sickler among their children. My wife also made a threat of killing herself or she kill me if the marriage didn't hold. She even suggested we proceed with the marriage and break up after few weeks of marriage because of the shame that may follow if we stop the marriage or maybe she was desperate because of the marriage certificate, I don't know. I maintained my stand of backing off the marriage but she reported to my sisters also. Her sisters and my sisters later tried to encourage us to go ahead with prayers since we have chosen the date. We were advised not to disclose our genotype result to anyone again because people will discourage us.
Even though I was skeptical about the marriage, it later commenced with less spending because the Nikkah was held in a mosque and a tent for refreshments. After the marriage we tried to talk about it, and she told me, she was afraid, may be she was pregnant before the marriage that's why she insisted on going ahead with the marriage. She also revealed to me that she was not happy with the decision as well, means she also know the implications but she have to avoid the shame of stopping the marriage after inviting guests to the occasion.
During these period genotype before the marriage, my love for her reduced drastically because of her desperation and her refusal to understand the risk we are about to take. I tried to avoid pregnancy from our first month of marriage but I later gave up and she conceived immediately. Now she is closer to her delivery. We hardly talk or play together inside. We only discuss about feeding, maternity and things to get for the coming baby. I discovered we quarrel over little things that can be over looked by lovers. I'm not happy in the marriage, I spend most of time watching TV or stay outside all day because of unresolved issues.
I'm planning to arrange for a divorce after she delivered the baby because this is my first baby and I would love to have 2 or 3 kids more. I can't take the risk of allowing any of my children to be a sickler. Advise is needed if my plan for divorce is a good one and do I stand a chance of loosing anything? gosh your works ekes Hate.... if that woman dies during labour, her blood will be on your head. I believe she will have HBP now. it is not her fault . Well, pls comfort her this period. the deed is done, live with it. |
Romance › Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by oshorstan(m): 6:59am On Jun 07, 2020 |
make we mind our business..... make we mind our business......
naim Nigeria take spoil. OP you can counsel her, or let your wife do it. Be polite and wise about it. pls do not sack her. This is a time to proof you're a Father & Leader |
Politics › Re: Bodejo: The Fulani Will Rule Nigeria Forever Because They Own It – Miyetti Allah by oshorstan(m): 6:55pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
I know this is the Intention of Bugari.
what if the sponsors die b4 tomorrow.
hmmmm |
Romance › Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by oshorstan(m): 6:51am On Jun 06, 2020 |
That's Maturity |
Nairaland General › Re: What Is The Weirdest Thing You Have Done To Survive? by oshorstan(m): 6:43am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Hmmmmm man do suffer oooo, especially when I was at AAU Ekpoma.
1. I done enter Aboki trailer to Benin to go do Legbuke work
2. I have boiled raw rice , naso my gas finish oo... oh boy naso I eat am like that. after all e go done for my Belle
3. I done drink garri for a month, during my 200L. With salt and enough water.
4. pluck plenty sugar cane keep, eat am for night. so the sugar go convert to glucose.. oh Lord
5. begging online to survive
na beggy beggy I take go school oooo
oh Lord Bless me well... I go help people oooo and also help myself and family |
Sports › Re: Nedum Onuoha: I Don't Feel Safe In The US by oshorstan(m): 6:16am On Jun 04, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe: you dey mind that one? I go soon call my sister PiKin I dey suspect say na in as school never reopen wetin sup way u wan call am? u day fear abi |
Sports › Re: Nedum Onuoha: I Don't Feel Safe In The US by oshorstan(m): 5:32pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
ProfDview1: I don't know if this is the America I have lived for over 50 years and never got any problem.. Stayed in Europe over 30 years, Asia for over 20 years, I never experience racism untill I got to Nigeria, I was welcomed by tribalism.. Lo and behold, I enter one chance bus of tribalism....
Meanwhile I am still searching and single oo
pls
I need a lady (she must be a nairalander)
She must be rich, plus her parents comfortable
Average (height, boobs and ass)
She must be ready to spend on me
Fair or chocolate
She must trust me
Educated or self employed with hand work
Christian
Between 20 - 23
A Nigerian
She must think of a good future not make up
She must be able to reason well not like a fish
She must be good in conversation.
The most important one She must be a godly virgin (pls note, godly virgin not just any virgin).
Thank.. Pls quote me if u av any... No insult which one is godly virgin? mumu |
TV/Movies › Re: The Best TV Series Right Now.... by oshorstan(m): 5:16pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
The Flatmates (Titus & prosper)
The Johnsons
Hustle
My siblings and I
Hush
Tinsel
The Gym master
papa Ajasco
Jennifer diary |
Politics › Re: Anselm Ojezua: Oshiomhole Lied, We Notified Him That We Wanted Indirect Primary by oshorstan(m): 5:13pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
bolaayenimo: Of course. There are good ones among them like Dino Melaye Let buhari be your child's Hero lol |
Politics › Re: Anselm Ojezua: Oshiomhole Lied, We Notified Him That We Wanted Indirect Primary by oshorstan(m): 5:08pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Can we really encourage our Children to go into Nigerian politics? |
Crime › Re: Uwaila Omozuwa Rape: IGP Orders Immediate Transfer Of Case To Abuja by oshorstan(m): 5:03pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Wolgrace: Its really shocking. This is 2020 volts. Well done sir. Uwc Baba |
Crime › Re: Uwaila Omozuwa Rape: IGP Orders Immediate Transfer Of Case To Abuja by oshorstan(m): 12:18am On Jun 03, 2020 |
Farki: I know people there who are top notch cops but the force is permeated with mediocrity.
Like all things in Nigeria the good stuff is never far from the capital. Like Jack Bauer |
Crime › Re: Uwaila Omozuwa Rape: IGP Orders Immediate Transfer Of Case To Abuja by oshorstan(m): 12:18am On Jun 03, 2020 |
Wolgrace: Haha. Your message is so strong. my words and I are one |
Crime › Re: Uwaila Omozuwa Rape: IGP Orders Immediate Transfer Of Case To Abuja by oshorstan(m): 10:46pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Farki: The cops in the area were mocking the victim's family, at least now it is being handled by people who know what they are doing. you're so confident about NPF |
Crime › Re: Uwaila Omozuwa Rape: IGP Orders Immediate Transfer Of Case To Abuja by oshorstan(m): 10:45pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Wolgrace: No. It means the killers should be transfered to Abuja when caught by the state police. It's federal executive order to ensure it doesn't go under carpet. Meaning Benin police must not play dirty on this case, like no awoof money lol. Clean job expectation, but I pray they don't arrest the innocent ones to score security point. All of us na Black Nigerians |
Crime › Re: Uwaila Omozuwa Rape: IGP Orders Immediate Transfer Of Case To Abuja by oshorstan(m): 9:51pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Transfer case to Abuja...... What is the reason? For something that happened in Benin city, while taking it to where the crime never occurred.
Nigeria police force is clueless |
Nairaland General › Where Is Our Sense Of Responsibility By Omigie Oshor by oshorstan(op): 9:48pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
The George Llord murder case in US is a clear demonstration of lawlessness in America and the world at large.
The flip side to this issue is that, same gross anarchy occurs in Nigeria on a daily basis and we seem very comfortable with it.
It is a normal trend in Nigeria for Police to kill innocent citizens, and shoot anyone that refuses to "Settle" especially on ours highway, which they have been designated to coordinate.
We are quick to condemn the sheriff that killed Llord but we are not bothered when same happens in Nigeria and to Nigerians because it is normal.
It is Normal in my country for Herdsmen to kill pregnant women, rape our ladies, burn churches,and block the major highways, in a bid to taking over the community, hence establishing a semi caliphate.
We see the fight for Justice as a wild goose chase. Everyone wants to be heard on Facebook and Other social media network especially when there is a breaking news. I do not believe in The saying that "All is well"
Whether you like it or not, all is not well with the way our society has been fashioned. Where is the Police Officer that Killed Master Promise at Idunwungha community? Where are the criminals that murdered Miss Uwaila Omozuwa? Why is everywhere quiet as if Nothing happened! Where is our pressure group?
Why is the Nigerian Police Force not briefing us about new developments as to how many suspects they have gotten. As individuals, I must say that We are suffering from the "E nor concern me Syndrome"
It will be a major cry when you're affected directly. Our society will soon crumble like pack of cards when we don't treat every issue with Absolute seriousness and resilience, irrespective of our political affiliations and religious beliefs. I believe we were first humans before this tussle of political imbrioglio & party supremacy.
Where is our sense of responsibility?
Omigie Oshor writes From Edo State |
Politics › Re: Tinubu To Governors: Primaries Crucial To Democracy by oshorstan(m): 8:14pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
jaxxy: Whichever case this is a final game changing strategy for obaseki if the party fails him I hope they don’t. If he executes this hes winning definitely.
Besides postponing the elections which is even not impossible whatelse isn’t doable or legal for an incumbent governor in what he has said? ok |
Politics › Re: Tinubu To Governors: Primaries Crucial To Democracy by oshorstan(m): 8:12pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
myboy2111: Read what you post ...hope you are educated enough ? I taught you in creche |
Politics › Re: Tinubu To Governors: Primaries Crucial To Democracy by oshorstan(m): 10:56am On Jun 01, 2020 |
If I was to be Obaseki, I will do the following. Especially if the national leadership of the apc is supporting Adams to create political tension in Edo.
1. I will make sure apc loses the election 2. I will decamp to PDP, and make Edo a PDP state overnight 3. I will contest under PDP, and use my Incumbent power to resist Apc Federal might in the election. I will postpone the election indefinitely because of insecurities and Covid 19 wahala 4. I will destroy apc structure in Edo state & make sure the state is PDP 5. No matter what happens, I have nothing to lose. no matter what happens, no wahala. I will play dirty, since that is what Adams want. I cannot be a slave forever. everyone yearns for freedom. Enough is Enough
NB This doesn't represent my true intents and Personality. But acting as if I was Governor Obaseki. |
Health › Re: Share Your Sleep Paralysis Experience Here. by oshorstan(m): 6:51am On Jun 01, 2020 |
Our problem in Nigeria is too much Education. this was one of the reasons why Sir James Robertson didn't hand Nigeria to an Educated person , but to a Fulani Aboki.
What you're calling Sleep Paralysis is a demonic oppression. Nor be any sleep paralysis. Them day come press u for night. demons day come deal with u for night especially when u are living in sin. When u shout Jesus, why did it not continue? At the mention of the name of Jesus, every knee must bow and Demons will flee. Do not use science to confuse yourself. someone said it's her matress. I sorry for u.
Always pray b4 u sleep and after u wake..., |
Politics › Re: COVID-19: Fayemi Relaxes Lockdown, Asks Civil Servants To Resume In Ekiti by oshorstan(m): 6:42am On Jun 01, 2020 |
nice one from a governor that has brain.
Future President of Nigeria |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Set To Approve Reopening Of Worship Centres by oshorstan(m): 6:39am On Jun 01, 2020 |
Watergod: hahaha I told my brother someday he will a thing of joke just as our father God almighty told me... In a matter of time him nymphidis and largas (Allah) and the other evil siblings of mine will be lost and gone with their books and lies!!! Please do not neglect the true God... Though he doesn't care what we do here on earth cause he has created everything we and you humans needs to survive and those who make use of their brains and not engrossed in religion will rule where ever they find themselves.. for the record sake our father did not institute any religion or worship neither did he create any hell for anyone rather we his sons has jeopardized his creation and those who did most of them are now locked up including my brother Yahweh (nymphidis) and largas(Allah) and everyone praying and worshiping them brings damnation to their souls�!! Goodbye human!! There was a war which has been fought and won by us the gods that seek the welfare of humans and other billions of planets owned by our father (God almighty)(Domino Reverad) please never forget his name cause he created everything and contends with no one... It is we his sons that carries envy.. jealousy...hatred and wars with us but only a few wants the welfare of you humans the rest derives joy from troubles and pains of humans!! Something serious has Demonised you and you need serious Deliverance. |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Set To Approve Reopening Of Worship Centres by oshorstan(m): 6:34am On Jun 01, 2020 |
It is sad for our Hausa Government to think that opening the church is doing us a huge favor. Whereas the mosques have been opened. Well, It is a known truth that the gospel has been spreading without a Worship center. They can close it down till further notice. Jesus owns Church, not Buhari. Nigeria is sinking because we have evil leaders who doesn't care. The cases of CV in Nigeria aren't much, but they exacerbated it in order to siphon money, use it to develop the north. Why not consider Education first and ensure strict preventive measures since it is an organised sector. rather your sense went to Churches because u think you are pleasing us. |
Sports › Re: Lewandowski Scores Against EVERY Current Bundesliga Club Hitting Personal Best by oshorstan(m): 9:04pm On May 31, 2020 |
na Chelsea go suffer am |
Sports › Re: Neymar's New Look As He Strikes A Pose With NIKE Shoe (Photo) by oshorstan(m): 6:36am On May 31, 2020 |
I see Neymar going broke in future. go and Mark it |
Politics › Re: FFK: Osinbajo Appointed Chairman "Use The Toilet Committee Of Nigeria" by oshorstan(m): 6:33am On May 31, 2020 |
Obasanjo was right when he said FFK had diarrhoea of the mouth.
Seriously Where is that Short man Osinbanjo? |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels: This Child Is About To Change My Entire Life by oshorstan(m): 6:26am On May 31, 2020 |
Pregnancy can either make a Woman more Beautiful or Most Ugly.... |
Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by oshorstan(m): 6:21am On May 31, 2020 |
BobbyHammar: Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.
What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).
Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.
The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.
Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.
Haba. God doesn't Understand....... |