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if you ask me, na who i go ask
I am a 44 years old widower with 2 kids above 12 years, in love with a 22 years old. Though a graduate.
we are in same both
I wish mine is 11 years old difference.

After using him for political gains, ballot box snatching, opposition killing, etc he is now sending police and vigilante to kill him.

Same thing happening in all states. Don wani style killing

1. LT GEN I ATTAHIRU
2. BRIG GEN MI ABDULRAHMAN
3. BRIG GEN OLAYINKA
4. BRIG GEN KULIYA
5. MAJ LA HAYATU
6. MAJ HAMZA
7. SGT UMAR

CREW
8. FLT LT TO ASANIYI.
9. FLT LT AA OLUFADE.
10. SGT ADESINA.
11. ACM OYEDEPO.


Nobody is crying foul early in Nigeria today.
Let's reverse the crew to be southerners as the hierarchies and the flight crew from the Northern part.
EVERY SOUTHERNERS WOULD HAVE CRIED GOVERNMENT ELIMINATED SOUTHERN GENERALS.

No shout now because the Generals are majorly Northerners.

God will help Nigeria.

Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks

Bros marry her before another guy claim her from you. At least she was bold to tell you that it is your responsibility and you shouldn't make it compulsory for her. That means she is praying for you that you will not lack not to be able to take care of your responsibilities. Let her be doing what she loves doing and don't push her away.
Some people will even be paying their wife monthly added with feeding money and the wife is still not faithful.
This life no balance.
If you no want her please give me her number. I am looking for that kind industrious wife material. Seriously.

The management is not wrong for me. They stated his fault and what they have been doing to avoid mingling with public. So this act is just to keep other staff safe against such disease. But it shouldn't be without pay. Let people see that they are doing this because of safety and not end SARS campaign.

When last did you visit this Obudu.
The last time i did, i vouch never to go there again. unless somethings have changed.
The environment is cool. Misty. the valley bridge etc. mountain view etc. BUT,
the accommodation inside the Obudu was bleeped. paid 72,500 per day, for 3 rooms with my family, one of the room is a connected room, and they put off generator by 10:30 pm and put it on by 6:30 am. then put off again at 9:00am till 6:30 pm. they give you rechargeable to use there.
the cable train which was one of the main reason i went there, they told me no fuel unless i am willing to buy a drum of diesel fuel.
no Hot water in the rooms that we paid 72,500 for.

This was in 2016/ 2017. i Hope it has changed for the better.

poor management

uromii:
I still stand with my 96 with facts.

Unless you are a private school owner or you just want to justify this wicked fraud against noble teachers.
1, I understand most schools collect their fees on installments. I can categorically tell you that for Nigerian private schools concerns, the population per weekly attendance once after mid term break ; a largely significant number of students/pupils has paid and cleared their tuition fee.
2. Nigeria private schools owners can never allow a child to sit for terminal exams without clearing it's debts , you Will surely never find that child in the exam hall. Realistically %96 pupils you see in the exam halls had cleared.
3. There are some cases where some parents that has been trying or faithful maybe had some downtime evidently made known to the school management would have been allowed their kids to continue , they are the ones that fall into the other part of the %96.

This is exactly what most of this private school owners will always schemishly tell their teachers. But if make your indept findings as a teacher you will discover a significant number of students had cleared. Now you ask why then are they still owing , some wicked ones will delay it for days/weeks after your salary due date. Why because some of them want be big business, real estate owners and travel abroad by all means .

How easy for you to make analysis and assumptions and try to be at the receiving end. It is either you're ignorant of happenings or you're a novice in private school running procedure. Parents that are here will tell that most of them don't pay on time especially after xmas break. Many students are still owing 1st term school fees. You talk as if you're not in our Nigeria economy. The fact you see all pupils writing exams is not a yard stick they have all paid. Many call proprietors to plead for their wards with promises of paying before the term closes. I felt sick reading your post because reacting to it will make me get sick the more. As if you collected the money from the parents yourself and deposited in the account of the school.
Nonsense

Why selling

obailala:
Good idea! If I were the president of this country, everything would be privatised; from roads to railways, trains, airports, universities and even some govt hospitals.

You forgot to mention the government. It also needs privatisation.

You're wicked girl. See question you're asking. You led him on believing you're single. If he wants to throw his net somewhere else and the girl sees both of you being jovial, what do you expect him to say.
You just have to choose what you want. You can kill someone and then come to blame the devil tomorrow.

no social distancing. God help us

ExAngel007:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/04/22/notorious-cross-river-cultist-leader-jboy-killed-gang-members-over-disagreement

and he has the right to be watching cartoon.
God save me from double murder.

the boy
the TV

Virgin all the way. I won't be at work and be thinking the last boyfriend is having some spanking behind or keep doubting the paternity of my children.
There is no guarantee for anything. If you don't drink or smoke, it doesn't mean you will live longer than people that do. Virgins gives you rest of mind. She just have to pray for peace in her home.

Thanks. Just what I needed this morning. A confirmation of a decision still struggling with.
God bless you.

village things kept on monitoring.

Monitoring spirit.

BlackPantherxXx:
I hate to break this to you bro....

You just gave yourself unnecessary KONGI for 6 good years ,

as soon as your back was turned, she started banging another guy.

I have learnt to not sacrifice myself in romantic relationships. Most partners are super selfish.

Who said she wasn't even cheating while she was around?

PS - @ the topic.... approx 2 years is reasonable, for BOTH SEXES.

Anything less, sorry you had no emotional connection to your spouse

You spoke naturedly but the agreement is till death do us apart. Secondly, Males and females are different people in society. Their biological clock is counting. Don't let them start going to mountains to pray after waiting long when they could have gotten married earlier. Age for men is also a factor. You lost your wife at 38, you're working and you know you'll retire at 60. Waiting 2 years takes your age to 40, other things being equal, children will start coming at 41. The first child will be 19 when you retire. Probably in the university. You'll now be running at that age with the others and your pension salary. If you're not there you're not there. Unless you sleep around and decide to fine solace in prostitute or girlfriends. If you're not, bros get married immediately.

kazyhm:
You said she is pregnant not sleeping around....

How long do you get over people you love ?

3 months is enough

Ryan03:
People grief differently. Because mrs A griefed for 10years doesn't mean mrs B must grief for same number of years. Why exactly do we monitor how long people grief? Are we happy seeing them in that state? I thought relatives and friends are to comfort them and help them move on?

Thanks my brother. They speak because it was not them or their sister. I lost my wife and I am only mourning her 3 months. After that my search for a new wife has began. Should I get old before you know I love my wife or start sleeping around. When you're not involved, you'll want to cast stones. Evil men in our society.
When she waits for 7 years when will now marry her with her status and age. If she had a child for the first husband, then she could try to see how she locate from the man's property and let the house out if not, let the man's family have the property and move on with the new man.

SOME PEOPLE ARE DISAPPOINTED BY HER DRESSING. THEY ARE HOPING TO SEE BOOBS AND YANSH EXPOSED.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA

MY SISTER IS WISE AND PROTECTING HER MARRIAGE. NOT TONTO AND CHUCHILL

Can I give you a ring

Success family ought to have helped her. She was used by God and to be at that time makes alot of difference.
My thoughts

The armed robbers also inherited from their mother.
Women emancipation. With time they will say men actually came from the ribs of women.

Is that the flower boy or the husband

Keep this picture as evidence for his service to Nigeria, in 20 years time
Nice work mummy and baby

Bros, visit south Korea and you will see 10 storey building that close. It's normal in some countries

LuciferPreacher:
Is the son not supposed to have learnt this in school?
What was he doing while his mates were learning it?

On social media?


How will the kid learn if Nairalanders keep solving his math problems for him?

How does this concern Nairalanders?

Why do Nigerians like nonsense?

JUST SAY YOU CAN'T ANSWER IT INSTEAD OF ALL THIS LAW FROM HELL YOU'RE QUOTING. ARE PARENTS NOT SUPPOSE TO ASSIST THEIR CHILDREN IN LEARNING. IF YOU KNOW ALL QUESTIONS AFTER YOU WERE TAUGHT A SUBJECT, YOU SHOULD BE IN HARVARD BY NOW.

LEAVE US MAKE WE CONTINUE TO CRACK OUR HEAD WITH THE PROBLEM AND FACE INEC.

A rapist and a peadophile!

Am i seeing something similar in the children of P. Harcourt.

i am just passing and going.

Don't we have such soldiers in Naija?
what we actually need at this time.

This people life no get enough value. kidnapping loading


Kidnapping just ringing in my head and speed boat loading

All because of 1 okada.
Choose between killing 1 and 12, as usual they chosed 12.
Chai. Pdp

IBADAN DOG BREEDERS. PLEASE DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS BEFORE PEOPLE START STEREOTYPING IBADAN FOR FRAUD. BOBBYSAXXY EVERYTIME NOW DJPET.

Me I am afraid of Ibadan dogs now.

Everybody criticising her have you gotten her reply. She said that she is not with the girl and she never knew her.
Don't quick to judge