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Enjoy your life biko

Hogwash

Very funny. Is this illiteracy or just foolishness?

The baby was just making random sounds.

I DON'T know if it is foolishness or illiteracy that will make a man reason this way abi is it in their religious law?

Hook up things

Amazingbaby:
I called my husband and actually blasted him calling him a very big liar and how embarrassed I am.on Monday I left for the hospital he called and we discussed some business and the kids(I was actually not angry again knowing that he is no different from any other guy,if you see how he use to condemn cheating ehh....) Only for my mum to call me around 12 in the afternoon to ask me questions,my husband actually called my mum after I confronted him about what the girl said to tell her he is DONE with me,that I don't give him peace in the house that this and that.in summary calling the girl actually triggered divorce because I am ready for anything.

For those that are doubting that I am a woman,abeg I am.

I followed some lovely people advice and I have actually achieved alot of things this week

1i paid for driving lessons (he literally have to drive me everywhere or I take Uber)
2 I have dusted out my certificate and is seriously looking for jobs(I have contacted alot of outsourcing firms)
3 signed up for gym classes.

In a way I lost myself trying to be a good wife and mother that I literally drove away alot of my friends.i had to stop talking with a good olfriend of mine because my husband was chatting with her behind my back for long (this is one of the reasons I don't trust him)

Lots of information...

So what and what should I do to upgrade myself I have not work for a long time.

Cococandy
Double0h7
Mariangle
Saintmary

Now i know why he left. The embolden speaks volume.

Hmmmm! Speechless.

DeepSight:
Olodo you never jam China-man.

lol nah those ones be the oga patapata

Khaleepha5681:
What if he is anointed one

At least make e declare nah. The suspense too much abeg.

Oga come out and declare your intent to run. We are solidly behind you. Dont be a coward o

insidenaijasblog:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/2/cristiano-ronaldo-is-now-reportedly-making-over-17m-per-instagram-post.html

And some people are wasting their lives on nairaland trolling . Baba GOD please let every second of my life be productive o.

Black man can eat anything.

wrongnumber:
Who is this? Look here lady, not everyone on nairaland is hopeles and as a man you should not expect me to take sides with you ladies and the shameless guys involved. How predictable you ladies are. I have been expecting this unintelligent assertion for long but it came too late.

So if i had supported your shamless act of trolling i guess i will definitely be a different entity but now i am toks as well as the other guy and the lady quoted above who condemned you all for your shamelss act of trolling.

You people are siick but una never see anybody to tell you. Continue to rant and die on top his matter but please dont quote me ever again on this issue. It is obvious you lot dont have a life cos no progressive lady will have this time to wail over a guy marital status whether he kept it to himself or lied or did whatever abeg how does that affect your life. This is gross.



This is where i get confused. You just alleged that he lied but the screenshot i saw talking about the posts they dug up did not show any lie abi he wooed you people outside nairaland and lied to you?

he has never lied either in the first second or third place but he clearly maintained in his past posts that he is with a woman he is married to and he went on to explain the issue but still believes things will be ok so where is the lie? honestly you ladies are dngerous. Please i beg once more, make una rest this matter.

Still on this matter? Toks must be giving these ladies sleepless nights lol!

Guy i think there is more to this and im not sure but maybe there is something these ladies know that we don't know. Maybe Toks have wooed them outside nairaland because i honestly cant see any lie in those screen shots that are still there for reference. Or are they pained that the fine dude is off the market The guy no mind polygamy o so they can still shook head. Interesting thread i must say.

Chai! i trowey salute.

cool

I wish to be as strong as this when im 68

LilMissFavvy:
You are a big foool to ask that stupiddd question. If you didn't follow this thread you aren't supposed to quote me. I don't think you have an idea of who a relationship/marriage counselor is, or what such a person should stand for. I stated clearly that I wasn't mocking his divorce status, rather I had to call him out for his continuous support for infidelity and polygamy, even when that was what ruined his marriages. You don't even know the meaning of the word "troll", how often do you see me mention Tok's? Am I following Toks? Oga, if you don't have anything sensible to say don't mention me.

Here we go again. It seems there are so many toxic people on this forum. What exactly is eating you up? you abuse anyone who does not see things the way you do and this is a terrible sign of serious mental problem, the same reason you are working yourself up over ordinary opinion of another person.

What divorce status are you talking about? Toks made it clear that he is still with his woman of 21years or did you miss that part or just wish his union failed cos you are beginning to scare me. Was it not the same you that mentioned that he has a failed marriage and even a failed baby mama but i don't see anything of such except you know something we all don't know which even makes you more dangerous because it is only a dangerous person that will bring what you know about someone to troll him on the internet.

But whichever way biko calm down and have a grip of yourself. I am a responsible man which is why im taking time to put you right. live your life and care less about other people. And let us even say he has a failed marriage, does that disqualify him from expressing his opinion on his threads? if you have been in a house before and the house collapsed i still believe your experience good or bad still qualifies you to talk to people about the house you have lived in and it is left for people to accept or reject your advice.

Sis biko this is 2022,focus more on your life and care less about who is married or divorced. My 50cents.

And lastly i insist that you are trolling because a troll is a person who posts inflammatory, insincere, digressive, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, with the intent of provoking readers into displaying emotional responses, or manipulating others' perception.

Have a great day and i won't bother responding to you anymore

I am happy to see Frank back on the screen

LilMissFavvy:
Finally, people were able to dig out the threads. I honestly fear you Mr. Toks. For you to tell these lies on an anonymous forum, means you do worse in real life. You deny your past. You deny who you are. you teach what you don't practice or what never worked for you. One failed marriage, another failed relationship with baby mama, yet you haven't learnt. Nairaland alpha males, come and see your role model. Marriage counselor with two failed marriages.

Now imagine this. Please madam may i ask one question? Do you have a life? No pun intended but i was just wondering.

What if he has a failed marriage? What if he is single at 60? Of what benefit is his marital status to the progress of your life? Please take a moment to think about this.

Now lemme shock you. If you troll someone for any reason, you are indirectly lowering your standard especially if the person ignores you.

Yes this is a faceless forum but before you can expend your energy to troll please ask yourself if it will add value to your life. Me i'm just advising you.

wrongnumber:
You get time. The person they are trolling has ignored them.

Some people are making money per second on the internet and some are trolling and digging out baseless posts from the past. Joblessness of the highest order.

Naah not really but it is just so annoying that some people are just so low life like that all they do is troll and it will shock you that these people have no productive lives. Productive people don't troll because they are full of intelligence.

Someone will give his or her opinion and you will see some people abusing the person. Abeg which sane person abuses or trolls another person cos of ordinary opinion that is not binding on anyone. Many people are sick walahi.

baby124:
LMAO, otherway brain. E pain you wella. I think you don vex, log off? Why are you looking for my attention? You want to be my second husband? If you are not a billionaire in dollars, I no get interest. Go and find Toks to tutor you well. You no get level.

Pained NO but very appalled YES. But As i wrote, i dont care about your feud with toks. I comment a lot on his threads and i respect everyone's view because everyone is entitled to their opinion. I have read what detective wrote about his posts and i honestly can't fault a thing but rather i even respect him the more after reading what detective posted. A man or woman can claim to be unmarried during separation so i cant see any inconsistencies. It is obvious he never mentioned getting divorced even if he was at the edge.

His marital status is nobody's business and it is very inappropriate and immature to start trolling anyone about his marital status. Apparently he chose to ignore the mentions.

I just think it is very immature and demeaning to start picking on anyone while ignoring the topic of discussion.

baby124:
LMAO. Thank you Theedetective. He thinks people do not read his posts. He should be ashamed of himself. Considering many of his toxic posts go to front page, he should know that we know his story. Except he’s just a pathological liar, who lies without cause or reason and denies at will. He should keep his mouth shut. Reasons why on NL you take advice with a pinch of salt because, many giving it are not okay at all.

I pity the men on this site because, most men here giving advice have very low IQ or mental and emotional problems. Only very few are truthful, think truly through their words and empathetic. Let’s continue to tackle such shady characters because, they are here to destroy.

Well i dont know about your feud with toks but one thing i know is that you need to work on yourself cos you are very toxic.
I took out time to go through your past posts and i can see how you insult people and even me so i begin to wonder and you even went as far as calling people crazy. Do you think this is normal?

To confirm this i know you will still abuse me but i wish you really work on yourself cos what we display on this faceless forum is who we really are.

It is so cheap but it is the way people make it look so expensive that is the issue.

yes o

hmmmmm

baby124:
True true you be otherway like your brain . I go quote you, make you quench. If you don’t like it, deactivate.

LOL It is a pity that nairaland is a forum for both sane and insane people. I went through your posts and i can confirm that you are Mntally unstable.

Better get help fast before you enter the street naked. And you will think you are catching fun.

As the elders say, If you fight with a pig, both of you will get dirty but the pig will enjoy it.

Continue displaying your nsanity. I am out.

newbornmacho:
Please how can a 44 year old be coming to marry a 17 year old girl?

And my sister is excited, and my mom is saying if shes happy she has no problem?

What is money?

And I'm looking like I'm a mad man for telling my sister I'm not in support.

I wish I could nail this guy on something...like if he's ever been married ( which he denies) or some sort of scandal....
How will my only sister get married to someone 27 years her senior?

For God sake

Please help me, what should I do

If I talk now they will say I hate women

We've had a very angry family meeting this night and this girl is bent on going...
Abi na jazz?

Why can't he wait till she is 18?

Guy Once she is 18 and she still wants him, please let her be. Age is only a number.

Make this guy move on biko.

But for how long will this continue?

baby124:
That’s a fake quote. I copied and pasted 1-40, do you see the trash he wrote there?

Toks you want to add pathological lying too?

Please i take GOD beg you. Don't quote me. You are below my league. I have seen the way you kept responding to post and i don't see you as the type i can have a sound discussion with.

Have a great day.

All these people sef

They just dey give false hopes.

Toks2008:
It is obvious you either lack the intelligence to discuss like an educated fellow or you are just clearly a low life.

Cant you discuss without sounding insulting or crass.

You asked a question and when i was busy responding you dropped this lame post.

You obviously need to get a grip cos not everyone is this low.

Im sorry i won't be responding to you any further.

Oga toks you should know better that you are too mentally mature for all these trolls. Try to ignore them.