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RomanceRe: Lady Rejects Marriage Proposal Because Lover Refused To Kneel Down by Otiv: 1:37am On Aug 06, 2020
See within white man don cause o ! JESUS! So because the guy no kneel down, she no dey accept, chai! Alo ramirami ni o, I no dey go back to that kain girl abeg unless God says otherwise .
made4naijamusic:
A video making the rounds on social media has shown the moment a lady rejected her boyfriend’s public proposal.

In the video, her boyfriend could be seen standing on his feet as he begged her to close her eyes tightly while stretching out the engagement ring towards her.

As she opened her eyes, she saw him standing on his feet to propose and she got offended that he didn’t go on his knees to propose to her.

Her boyfriend on the other hand insisted that kneeling down doesn’t prove anything. He turned down all her efforts to make him kneel down and she walked out immediately.

Watch the video below;


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87mX9QdQG98
HealthRe: Man Fined N215,000, Commits Suicide At Ogun TRACE Premises by Otiv: 2:22pm On Jul 21, 2020
I can see this is what your misson is here you demon! What has english grammar got to do with you walking in the light of Godhuh Your grammar will never take you to heaven, walking in light will !!!
Dotherightthing:
21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.
HealthRe: Man Fined N215,000, Commits Suicide At Ogun TRACE Premises by Otiv: 2:21pm On Jul 21, 2020
I can see this is what your missing is here you demon! What has english grammar got to do with you walking in the light of Godhuh Your grammar will never take you to heaven, walking in light will !!!
Dotherightthing:
21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.
PoliticsRe: Isa Funtua Died After Driving Himself To The Hospital by Otiv: 10:51am On Jul 21, 2020
It is better to preparefor heaven,die and discover there is no heaven than to live a reckless life ,believing there is no heaven only to die and now discover heaven truly exists! You need Jesus , He is the only answer for the world today. In broda Shaggi's voice , e go shock you. It is not too late to startseeking him.
360degreess:
.. Keep deceiving yourself until you face reality after death.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Manchester City : FA Cup Semi-Final (2 - 0) On 18th July 2020 by Otiv: 11:43pm On Jul 18, 2020
Why not get on the field yourself to go and play?
Reference:
How long does an aspiring top team give a fledgling player. By the time Pepe is ready the club will have bled out a lot of earnings. If they cannot complement his position they will find another position for him.

A winger that cannot keep onside is no use in the fast counter attacks Arsenal is known for. A winger that cannot put in a decent cross is limited. His primary prowess was his ball handling skill but that isn't coming through regularly.
RomanceRe: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Otiv: 1:33am On Jul 17, 2020
Don't do it because of the fear of being accused of rape only, do it solely because you fear God and pls find a way to discourage her from coming, that's the honest truth. Temptation is real, flee from it even if you guys are church workers . Sin does not respect cburch workers.
Pls discourage her
Alexgman1:
we are devoted church workers. i cant try any rubbish. i no wan hear, "he tried to rape me"
FamilyRe: Bulldog: If My Daughter Wants To Be A Prostitue At 18, I Won't Discourage Her by Otiv: 3:51pm On Jun 26, 2020
Is this what the devil has used the media and civilization to reduce some people to? Is this one indeed a father ??
titiloyeblog:
source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2020/06/if-my-daughter-says-daddy-i-want-to-be.html
CrimeRe: Sex With A Pig: Man In Court In Ibadan by Otiv: 3:23pm On Jun 23, 2020
This is exactly how the devil has blinded a lot of people to the truth these days .. hmmm. Bro or sis, wickedness is real! You're only safe in Jesus!
Buliwyf:
Keep quiet. There is nothing new in this. There has always been men with unnatural proclivities and there will always be such men. Your religious rantings won't change anything or anyone here.
CrimeRe: Sex With A Pig: Man In Court In Ibadan by Otiv: 3:21pm On Jun 23, 2020
You call it konji?? That's an evil spirit. You know .. because we probably dont believe God, we also don't believe in the existence of these spirits.. may God open our eyes of understanding in this generation.
But wait, how can our eyes of understanding be open sef, it is only through the knowledge of Jesus Christ .
leksite120:
Pig? Oga o.

The konji wey dey drive men these days has just returned from training o but wait o, pig, u mean that dirty pig?
RomanceRe: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Otiv: 1:56am On Jun 23, 2020
[Sometimes I marvel at how the world has been shaped through so many self taught and self believed ideas passed round the internet these days . Who says the man loses? Why not just say our generation has lost the ability to do the right thing.. we just want everything to always work at all times when we need them. We dont believe God anymore and we have lacked or lost the stamina to endure .. we live fast lives and it reflects in everything we do. Our parents got married, they never told us it was always rosy! They endured and worked to make these marriages work, can we huh?

If you want to marry you are free to do so. Most guys have found out it's not what it's cut to be. Most times in all ramifications the man loses.[/quote]
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Otiv: 7:05pm On Jun 17, 2020
I am sure you're a "toddler" yourself.
By your advice , we shall know you
bmdmixer:
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RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Otiv: 7:04pm On Jun 17, 2020
You just "spoiled" this comment by saying you dont have anything against abortion!!! Whao. If na your sister dem dey abort for like that,
how will u feel or how.would you take it if you found out?? The guy is highly irresponsible. You cant zip up now you're here ranting . You see now, the fear of God will save you a lot of headache . He that has ears, let him hear what the spirit is saying !
Ningen:
You're an irresponsible man.

You don't have the resources or courage to face responsibilities yet you refused to zip it up or make use of contraceptives against pregnancy.

I don't have anything against abortion but I am against stupid people abusing privileges. Now you're a father to ‘several’ dead children. Sicko.

If you don't want to lose her, then marry her.

You both should use your ‘fertile energy’ and get a job that'll take care of the financial challenges.

The society doesn't want a dysfunction family.
RomanceRe: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Otiv: 10:16pm On Jun 08, 2020
Do you mean try new sins? I dont get what you mean by being adventurous.
Dobson43:
sad





I would give you a mature advice since that's what you want. Your present boyfriend is just your boyfriend. He is not betrothed to you neither has he paid your dowry. Don't limit yourself at this stage of your life. Experiment, try new things, discover yourself. If you feel the urge to move on, do move on. You clearly have a thing for this guy and one can conclude that all you need is a push.



Based on your level in the university, one can determine your age. Some callous folks would call this stage you find yourself a whøre phase, but the true is we all have this identity crisis. We do not actually know ourselves. Certain people we see typify those characters we do have but can't express. They inspire this qualities in us to be birthed.




I don't want to go too philosophical, but I am going to tell you this: twenty years from now, you would wish you were more adventurous, you would wish you tried new things and you would understand that life is worth living and you would not allow yourself wallow in bondage because you are in relationship. Ships are supposed to move you in a certain desired direction. Either it moves you or you jump ship.




But the real truth is, you have broken his heart and emotionally screwed him over. Have the decency to break it up
FamilyRe: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Otiv: 3:39pm On Jun 06, 2020
Guys let it be your prayer that in your lifetime you will make so much money that you wont have to bother about how much your wife makes . You guys obviously are not even in love to start with !
UzorChinonso:
Good day Nairalanders, I have been married for just a year now and it has not been easy here! My Husband wants to know every thing about my finance. He has disturbed me to know how much is my salary worth of.

I have always denied him of the fact, what I know is that I used my money to refurbish our flat, got some new things to change the outlook of the place....

But I am not really finding it funny any longer. As we speak, he collected my ATM card since last two weeks, said I must tell him the pin or I should forget having it back. I went to my bank, told them that I lost the card and they changed it for me last Friday and he collected it again said it's either I tell him the pin or he will do something funny ...

I don't know what funny thing he's gonna do but I am worried! Pls is this how marriage is?
He claims to own me and own my salary! Is it fair? This marriage is too early instead I would have quit and I am pregnant at the moment!
What do I do? I don't want anybody to know anything about my finances including him till I have my baby whom my spirit accepted that I should make my next of kin.

What do I do ?
CrimeRe: Pastor Adeboye Reacts To Rape Of Uwa Omozuwa, UNIBEN Student In Edo RCCG by Otiv: 11:42am On Jun 01, 2020
You and all who liked and shared your comments are already doomed. The same 'baby sitter in heaven' gave you the life that you have now . He is the King of the whole universe, the Rock of ages, the One who was, who Is and Is to come. May He deal with you according to His mercies.
Emmaomotob:
Why not tell your babysitter in heaven to fish out the animal? Stupid man. angry
CelebritiesRe: Davido, His Father Adeleke, Others Dance Inside His Dad's Private Jet by Otiv: 2:00pm On May 29, 2020
Really?? Have you heard that the rich also cry?? The only source of everlasting happiness is Jesus.!
slyfox35:
When you have money,Happiness becomes a commodity.
HealthRe: Pool Party At Lake Of The Ozarks Missouri Shows Crowd Ignoring Social Distancing by Otiv: 9:33pm On May 26, 2020
Who is holding you? Go and enjoy your life jare . Omo daada. Go ahead.
May God have mercy on you before it is too late. That life of yours , you think it is yours abi? The air you breathe that is making you misyearn you think you gave yourself? Pls go and enjoy
masterP042:
See oyibo people just dey flex life. Kissing and smooching openly. Enjoying their life here on earth, whereas here, we dey form holy, living under religious bondage written in the bible. No book written by man should dictate my personal life.. Biko uwaa bu ofu mbia. No time.
FamilyRe: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Otiv: 11:12pm On May 25, 2020
God will bless you and increase your wisdom for this comment . So many of us were raised by strict parents and we turned out very good . What is the evil child talking about?
crackland:
All of that happened ONLY because of your bad decisions and the wrong kind of company you kept, it wasn't due to the style of discipline you were given by your dad.

If you had been involved in more profitable things like hanging out with the brightest students who spent their time studying and sitting at the front of the lecture hall, or perhaps you joined a religious Christian group and made friends from there, you would not have had anyone to drink, smoke, party, or do drugs with.

Your mom who wasn't strict, why didn't her relaxed disciplinary style have any effect on you?

Learn to have some personal responsibility for your choices.
FamilyRe: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Otiv: 7:58pm On May 20, 2020
Bro, no matter what your wife does, walk away. Take your car keys and go out or just leave the house at that point , trust me. By the time you are back home ,your anger would have subsided.

2. What kind of friends does she keep ? Or does she spend a lot of time on social media rather than family and God? These are some of the sources of sudden flamboyance from women . You need to sit your wife down and talk to her lovingly . Also, the two of you need to spend more time with God. Divorce is a lot of pain , don't do anything stupid because so-called men of God divorce , you're not them o. Divorce never a way out as it leads to a lot of pain and regret. Sit down , talk and pray together . People will day I am stupid for this comment but that's the truth. God is still the one that can hold your household together . It is well.



quote author=ademidedavid post=89481343]It's no longer a story that pastors divorce their partners, imams divorce their partners, highly educated people do same and even the so called marriage counsellors are not left out in the order of the day and it has always been a thing of worry for me with the thought that they never loved each other before marriage but getting married has changed my thinking and has made me realised that marriage only takes the grace of God to work out.

I have been married for 3 years with 1 beautiful daughter with a loving wife (maybe before and some years into the marriage). I have always believed that I cannever raise my hand on my woman since my father never did such but I find it hard to believe I did the unimaginable today although It wasn't intentional.

It was due to annoyance after she asked me to stop sitting at home and go work for more money like other men even though I am a federal worker with above 100k monthly income and still do personal work as a civil engineer apart from the federal job despite the lockdown.....

It really got me aggravated because I have been the one fending for the family and the kid for the past 3 years and never asked for a kobo from her.....

Although I have noticed the urge for very flamboyant life style in her lately and has even asked me to get more money at any means, that money is everything in this life even though I have tried telling her its a gradual process, she still doesn't listen and even asked me to raise money for her to travel out of Nigeria.

I have never thought of raising my hands on any woman let alone my wife.....

Please how do I change her sudden mentality towards this sudden extravagant life style because I pray it doesn't lead to something else since I can't do illegal things to acquire the type of wealth she dreams of?[/quote]
CareerRe: My 50-Year-Old Boss Shows Massive Cleavage Whenver We Meet, What Could She Want? by Otiv: 6:29pm On May 20, 2020
My brother , avoid evil . Do not take this advice. When something bad happens or starts to happen to you, this person giving you this adviceor any other perosn here wont be able to save you or help you. Dont take this advice . Remember the story of Joseph in the bible.. dont fall for this trap by the devil. Nothing is worth the price you will pay for it when it happens. Better lose your job , that pain of it wont hurt or last as the destruction or pain that will come if you commit sin .
PapaNnamdi:
Op, I was once in your shoes,
and I will tell u point blank
a time will come when she will be infuriated by ur presence, that is if u don't dance to her tune,


so I will just say this,
if you don't fucc her, u will loose the job


if u fucc her u may or may not loose the job,



I will advice u fucc her well, and start looking for another job, or saving money for business
CareerRe: My 50-Year-Old Boss Shows Massive Cleavage Whenver We Meet, What Could She Want? by Otiv: 6:26pm On May 20, 2020
Hahahahahaha !!! I have fainted with laughter
Anijay1212:
Na express you dey enter so.
angry
HealthRe: Can Celibacy Cause Child Birth Complications? Gynaecologists' Attention Needed by Otiv: 6:23pm On May 20, 2020
No. Celibacy doesn't. Don't look for an excuse or let anyone advice you to go have sex
Eulalia:
Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.
FamilyRe: Man Catches His Wife In A Hotel With Man, Says "I Have The Right To Kill You" by Otiv: 12:57pm On May 20, 2020
[Thank you for this and God bless. No matter how painful, walk away from evil, walk away from anger. The end is destruction . Your eye go clear after and here comes regret.quote author=betterman22 post=89755258]It's very painful sir. But please don't kill anybody[/quote]
FamilyRe: Man Catches His Wife In A Hotel With Man, Says "I Have The Right To Kill You" by Otiv: 12:56pm On May 20, 2020
And you will go straight to hell to go and meet your master the devil. Very simple and easy
Mrkcee:
Ifam d man, I'm killing both of them.... Then kill myself
CrimeRe: Woman Accused Of Killing Agulu Youths In Anambra & Using Church To Cover Up by Otiv: 12:34pm On May 20, 2020
You are sick. Wish we could see how ugly you will be in real life. You're so sick!
Fabulouzjoseph:
Where is the freedom of religion.
if she decides to worship satan how is that anybody's problem?.
everyone has a right to practice whatever religion of their choice. Make una free that woman

*modified* if it were the same energy they used in capturing this woman that they used in capturing our corrupt politicians it would have been better.

*note* before you qoute me make sure you are a saint and you have not committed any thing bad before. undecided
SportsRe: Who Was The Best Player That Never Won The Ballon d'Or Award? by Otiv: 10:32pm On May 14, 2020
You sabi. Your head dey there for football matter .
Balenciagaokey:
Andres Iniesta
Pirlo
Zlatan Ibrahimovic
Thiery Henry
Samuel Etoo
Franck ribery
Arjen robben
Frank Lampard
Steven Gerrard
Buffon
Sneidjer
Xavi Hernandez
Francesco Totti
RomanceRe: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by Otiv: 7:44pm On May 08, 2020
Me too
Dreyton36:
laugh wan kill me die, I don dey cry join grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by Otiv: 7:42pm On May 08, 2020
Agbaya ni yin sir cheesy
Randy100:
I was opportuned to get one 18years old girl with perky bøöbs. I promised her heaven on earth just to bring her to my house. She finally agreed and came on sunday evening oh. When it was time for me to chop and clean mouth, she made a request that shrinked my erected pen.is. She said I should dance naked for her while she video the whole thing. An elderly young man like me.
Christianity EtcRe: Dunamis Distributes Food Items For The 4th Time (Photos) by Otiv: 6:04pm On May 08, 2020
I shake my head for you brother . When God's wrath is poured on you , I only pray that it will not spread to your generation. You can't escape it, it is not a curse.
alexsoftwork:
Very very Good from the dunamis pastor, yes! This are what we want from this men of God. Weather church open or not, you should be able to impact your society.
Church are met to lead the pace so that others can follow( GOVERNMENT).

Oledepo(Mr tithe) oyakill-omen(Mr masturbation is not a sin) and 5G is Antichrist. Adebo-ole. The man that said "God is trying to flex his muscle through this pandemic.

This is your priority, this is what should be your focus.

Between, I hope this is not a scam by just showing pix and putting it on social media.
I don't trust Nigerian churches this days oo.
Christianity EtcRe: TB Joshua On The Mountain Praying For Coronavirus End (Photos) by Otiv: 7:52pm On Apr 27, 2020
E yah, I don't know you were there when he asked a photographer to follow him to the mountain. What else did he do, can you pls tell us?May God have mercy on your soul
irunoko:
So you went with photographer to pose on the mountain.are picture show off necessary if you are really genuine about your prayers?

I can't imagine myself praying and the world has to see or know I'm speaking to God.which Kain Pharisee behaviour is that?
EducationRe: Police Summon The Angry Zambian Father Who Beat His Son Over Poor Result by Otiv: 1:51pm On Apr 23, 2020
This is exactly where we are in the world. Imagine what civilizationhad turned africa to? Growing up , you won't even dare come home with that kind of result. Imagine now that you can't discipline your child anymore in africa? This is unbelievable. I find it so hard to believe. This is why we have all these breed of irresponsibleyouths in our societies in this present age. If it was me, I would definitely wait for the police to come and meet me at home, damn the consequences.
Tintinnoty:
THE Zambia Police Service has summoned George Bester, a man seen in a video making rounds on social media slapping his son, for allegedly producing poor school results.

In the said video, Bester is seen slapping the boy, while complaining about the money he has spent on the boy for school books and tuition fees.

A voice of a woman, believed to be his wife, is heard pleading with Bester to stop beating the boy.

According to a call-out dated April 10, 2020, Bester was required to report to the Child Protection Unit offices at the Ministry of Community Development near Levy Junction yesterday, April 21, for purposes of inquiries.

Police, however, assured him that he would not be detained more than was necessary.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QglFY1V86yk

https://diggers.news/local/2020/04/21/police-summon-bester-over-slapping-incident/
CrimeRe: Cult Leader, Jboy, Killed In Cross River (Photos) by Otiv: 11:44am On Apr 23, 2020
There is no forgiveness in the grave.
For it is appointed for man to die once, after it is judgement. That's why we need to give our lives to Christ and shun evil
ugolinze123:
RIP..may God forgive you.

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