₦airaland Forum

dontrulee:
It's possible.
In Yoruba they're referred to as Akudaya

And it seems the concept is limited to Yoruba and perhaps few other Southern Nigerian tribes.

There is nothing like Spanish Russian or German 'Akudaya'

Kobojunkie:
The man is impotent and was probably aware of it before he married the woman. If she has remained childless, that man would have probably pointed accusing fingers at the wife and maybe allowed the community humiliate her as the cause of childlessness in that home. So, woman may have done the next best thing which is source a child from outside before it was too late for her. So was it instead your plan to reveal to all that the man was an impotent fraud or what?

Nooo, that wasn't what happened.

One of the imported questions, doctors asked patients that come to infertility clinics is 'have you gotten pregnant before or have you impregnated a woman before?

When he was asked, he said he has had 3 GFs who claimed they were pregnant for him and the third one was the woman he married.

They were dating before, broke -up for a while such that both went their separate ways.
He was already dating another lady ,when he ran into his Ex-GF and they did 'once debe,is always debe' which resulted in 'pregnancy' and he had to sent his stable girlfriend away so as to marry his Ex-GF who has no become 'pregnant for him' ...At this point, i coult hardly controlled my emotions, so i took excuse and said i wanted to urinate in the toilet.

I shock my head ,out of pity for the man because I used to admire him and his wife as an example of a successful and happy young couple. I learned a great lesson from that episode, the people we like to consider as our 'Standards' of happy Families also have their own portion of problems if we get closer enough!

I told them to come back few days later, while I ruminated over the matter. Then I contacted my colleague in Family Medicine to seek expert opinion.

Abifarin16:
The women slept with other men remember. If they had slept with other women belle no go dey.
Fear women and fear some men.

Infidelity is not only found in women.

The issue goes beyond infidelity but paternity fraud.

I know a case of a man who couldn't fertilize and he has a 10 year old son. The couple were very comfortable, lovely and came to our hospital for treatment for infertility. I knew most likely, he wasn't the father of the boy because the results showed he is infertile and i was very troubled in my find because they were close to me. I couldn't stomach it for long, then i sought an advice from a colleague who is a specialist in Family Medicine on what was the best thing do , being their doctor and also a family friend.

My specialist friend advised that. i should set aside cultural roles and limit my involvement to strictly professional role by just telling them the result (but refrain from further explanations) because it may bring out dangerous truths that will cause unending bitterness and eventually damage their home and if possible refer their case to another (neutral) doctor.

TOPCRUISE:
I remembered a Lekki Doctor that aired a popular radio program before the covid break who in his own generosity declared that whosoever is interested in DNA testing should come to his clinic where he will do it for free for a month.
Within just 7 days he cancelled it. Why, because he raised alarm in the national dailies that he has received lots of death threats on his life and family from ladies via phone calls and text messages. How they got his number, house address, his wife and children details including their school was a mystery to him.

Women in this generation have gone hay wire, it is sheer waste of emotion and self-deceit to be expecting faithfulness from them, unless one wants to die of hypertension.

post=125785821:
This suggests that in the majority of cases, the men seeking testing are indeed the biological fathers,
But in more than 1 in 4 cases, the tested father is not the biological father of the child.

This is a very very comprehensive survey carried out.
Everything was analyzed in details.
Kudos to the people that did this.
#Impressive 👏

This wasn't really a survey but a report.

emmanuelbrown26:
I hv to look at dis in two dimensions
1. Ethnicity
2. Gender base

From d report so far, it states that West has d highest rate, seconded by Ogun state, in all West has d highest number of bastards in Nigeria. No wonder d way some of them behaves, one would begin to ask if such person has a father or they just vomited him or her.
It's only in Yoruba land that u will see a woman with 4 kids from four different men.

Gender base: Well, d percentage is too low, trusting daughters of eve is like entrusting ur barn of yam in d hands of goat. Right from time, those of eve are never to be trusted,

Tribalism is your ways but Statistics is not your calling. Where did they talk about ethnic groups in the report? The Smart DNA is based in Lagos, so it is common sense that most of their clients will be from Lagos. It is also expected that a reasonable proportion of their clients will be from neighbouring States to Lagos like Ogun/Oyo.
The Reports did NOT state that the test were conducted in all the 36b States to be able to compare the results from State to State.

Dogalmighty17:
I smell a marketing ploy by the DNA testing agency. I know the situation in Nigeria is bad but haba 25%? This is terrifying!

It is done for a special group of people : those who are already having doubts, those who are compelled by immigration rules to do DNA Tests and those who are compelled by Courts to do it. All these are mostly educated elites, the picture may change if they add the artisans, primary school teachers, drivers, traders and other demographic groups.

ecolime:
Definitely consensual and I am sure all the ladies find him irresistible.

But then, it's a woman's world. They always have a way of spinning things and calling white black.

Men are endangered species now. So, as a man you've gotta be disciplined else daughters of eve will make a mess of your life

Even if they are not raped, it is still professional misconduct.

isan:
Did he rape them ?

It doesn't matter. It a great professional misconduct for a doctor to be having sex with patients or taking advantage of vulnerable colleagues or even engaging in extra-marital affairs.

bewla:
I guess 19 .27 speak for the Muslim
Or it's Muhammad talking here


Let it be proven if Muhammad ever other any of his fellower to kill or force any person against is will to join Muslim

We are Muslim and not terrorist
We have no issue with christens

There are many instances where Prophet Muhammad waged wars against non-muslims, led his soldiers to waylaid the caravans of non-muslims and looted their properties.


In the Prophet Muhammad led-onslaught against Khaybar, a Jewish community which was about 150km away from Medina, the men of Khaybar were killed while Prophet Muhammad and his Muslim Army attempted to loot their properties and 'inherit' their women, one of the victims poisoned Prophet Muhammad and one of his Companions.

Complications from this poisoning ,contributed to the death of Prophet Muhammad three years later.

JOemmy:
If the evidence against tinibu is overwhelming the cjn will have no choice but to do the needful if he doesn't have the guts nigerians will definitely rise up and help him do the right thing.

Let us assume that Tinubu is disqualified, what next will now happen?

DMerciful:
What about Atiku?

Atleast Obi won being qualified to contest

Both Num-2 and Num-3 are claiming to have 'won' the election.
How does this make sense to you?

maestroferddi:
No dey write trash oga ...

Even if Peter Obi had assembled a legal team comprising Gani Fawehinmi, FRA Williams, Justice Oputa and the best lawyers anywhere in the world, he would have still stood no chance.

The way Nigerian judicial system operates, if the judges are not on your side, you will lose a case challenging whether the name given to you by your parents are actually yours...

It was a complete waste of everybody's time.

I cannot be caught deceiving myself...

Peter Obi had no serious case, there is no court in the whole world that would have declared Obi the Winner of the Presidential Election.

Obi's Legal Team NEVER mentioned

1) The numbers of votes received

2) The Polling Units,where there were alleged irregularities.

No Petitioners can be declared a winner without these.

Chibuzoc:
Now he existed as a criminal, I'm not surprised tho. Birds of the same feather

Zombideints can't reason.

The record posted said he has no criminal records.


Being arrested is not a crime anywhere in the world.
If someone slaps you and you punch his face in return, both of you can be arrested.

If you have misunderstanding with a woman and she calls the Police, you can be arrested.

If you get drunk and fall into a ditch publicly,you can also be arrested

If you unknowingly hit someone's car ,you can be arrested.


All these don't constitute crimes

Throwback:
William Jefferson Clinton and Bill Clinton are not the same person?

Anthony Blair and Tony Blair are not the same person?

Michael Tyson and Mike Tyson are not the same person?

Daniel DeVito and Danny Devito are not the same person?

Many of you are already raving mad, and would not mind to commit suicide than to admit the truth of the facts before you.

There is no rehabilitation for what you have done to yourselves.

You have already crossed the rubicon into total insanity.

It may or may not be

helinues:
Egun are somehow part of the Yorubas. That David decided to be a bastard don't mean that's how all Eguns are

Some Egun families have Yoruba ancestries and some don't, just as some Yoruba families have Bini ,Nupe and Bariba ancestries and many Edo and Itsekiri Families also have Yoruba ancestries

Racoon:
Everybody associated with Bola Tinubu must just be a criminal by default.

You are indeed one of the Zombideints.

The record posted said there is no criminal records of the man and you are saying the man is a criminal, is that not contradictory?

TongueTwista:
Oga, you're talking plenty.

The man "Durojaiye Ogunsanya" has no bio-data on the internet. Nothing comes up when you search his name, apart from this recent TVC interview. And for an acclaimed "Public Affairs Analyst" who supposedly had foreign education, the least anyone should expect to find about him, is his profile on Wikipedia.

If you google my real name, you'll find a few references of the works I've done as a freelancer, because I don't even use other social media platforms.

This isn't about David. Everyone who owns a smartphone registered with a mail address registered in their names, should have digital footprints, no matter how slight.

Why's this Durojaiye's own different? Person go ask you small question, you go dey shalaye plenty!

So if you Google any one who schooled in the US and the only thing it brings out is the name talking about Tinubu, it means the person doesn't exist?

Even in Nigeria, if you want to open bank account or retrieve lost SIM, there are standards ways of verifying proofs of identities.

What about checking NIN, Bank Records, Receipts of payment for Utilities like Electricity, Records of contacts with Gov't including Tax clearance, Census Records, Birth certificate, Marriage certificate, Hospital Records.
What about Employment records?

Which investigative Journalist based his 'investigations' solely on 5mins Google Search?

hammerFC:
THE NUMBER 1 PROBLEM IS THEY ARE DRAGGING LAGOS AND DRAGGING NIGERIA.


CREATING HIGH TENSION AND XENOPHOBIA.


WE HAVE SEEN HOW PEOPLE OF OTHER TRIBES WERE KILLED IN LAGOS DURING THE LAST ELECTION.

Yoruba people speaking Yoruba language in Yorubaland does NOT affect you or other tribes in any ways.

Psalmistproject:
Make una thank una stars obi no be like abiola. He keeps preaching peace and order. If obi wanted the country to burn he doesn't need to say a word, just his body language all hell will let loose.

This was how you hailed Nnamdi Kanu to where he is now.

hammerFC:
XENOPHOBIA WONT LET YOU GROW.


THIS LAGOS YOU ARE DRAGGING NOW, JUST SMALL REFERNDUM AND MOST SOUTHERNERS THAT LIVE THEIR WILL START PACKING THEIR BAGS TO GO ELSEWHERE.


WITHIN A SHORT TIME, OIL COMPANIES WILL ALSO RELOCATE.



AGBERO WILL FULL EVERYWHERE.


U KNOW THIS AND I KNOW THIS, EVERYBODY KNOWS THIS.


ORDINARY CHRISTMAS, THE PLACE IS DESERTED, BECAUSE PEOPLE TRAVELED TO THEIR VILLAGE.

Oga, we aren't interested in your problems sir

FuckDModz:
Look at this slowpoke. You're a Nigerian. The Nigerian lingua franca is English.

But then again, most yorubas are morons. Enjoy!

Most Nigerians speak their indigenous languages than the Colonial language, English.

Despite all your 'Englishism',if you want to travel out, you will still be asked to write IELTS and most people like you spend a lot of time and money to write it five times before passing it!


At Enugu Airport, announcements are made in English and Igbo languages.


Languages are for communication and are parts of the cultural heritages of the People/State.

If you have problems with Yoruba people speaking Yoruba language in Yorubaland, it is better you relocate to another State.

Fearyourcreator:
So other states don't have all tribes...

At Enugu Airport, announcements are made in both English and Igbo languages

hammerFC:
INSIDE TRAIN, WHO ARE U COMMUNICATING WITH, WHO HAS THAT TIME.


WHEN YOU ENTER SIT DOWN, WATCH YOUR PHONE OR NEWSPAPER OR CHATTING, BEFORE YOU KNOW IT, YOU ARE AT YOUR DESTINATION.


OK BEAUTIFICATION!

If you don't know the purpose of the announcements at train Stations,then keep quiet.

Advancedman:
Only the local language and general language is the standard.
If we go by your submission then we will have edo,ikwerre, effik, etc.

Let everyone promote their indigenous Language, no language is superior to another.


If you don't understand their language, ask them to speak English or you learn their language or use interpreter.

hammerFC:
WE ARE TIRED OF ALL THIS PUBLIC SHOW OF XENOPHOBIA.


CAN U POSSIBLY GO STRAIGHT TO THE POINT AND DEMAND NONE YORUBA IN LAGOS REGISTER FOR RESIDENCY PERMIT AND START DEPORTING THEM?


TINUBU IS PRESIDENT, SO U WONT SAY ANYBODY IS STOPPING YOU.


REMEMBER ONE THING, YOUR PEOPLE ARE THE WORST SET OF UNITY BEGGARS , SHOUTING ONE NIGERIA.


THE REST OF US, ACTUALLY NONCHALANT, THAT IS WHY WE CAN SIT HERE AND LAUGH AT YOU.


WE ACTUALLY DONT MIND IF NIGERIA COLLAPSE.


WE WANT EVERYBODY TO GO THEIR OWN WAY.


LET THAT SINK INTO YOUR HEAD.


U ARE DEALING WITH PEOPLE THAT DONT WANT NIGERIA.

Our interests is our concerns (in this matter, it is speaking our indigenous language) ,in as much as it is within the armbits of the laws.

What you want is your business ,not ours.

hammerFC:
IF U LIKE NAME EVERY STREET YORUBA.


SPEAK YORUBA TILL YOU ARE BLUE IN THE FACE.


THE BEST YOU WILL ACHIEVE IS EVERYBODY BORN THERE, KNOWING WHAT YOU ARE SAYING AND EVEN SPEAKING THE LANGUAGE TO DECIEVE YOU.



IT WONT MAKE THEM YORUBA AND YOU WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY SAY, WHEN THEY SPEAK THEIR OWN NATIVE LANGUAGE.


YOU STILL REMAIN THE BIGGEST LOSER.

We aren't interested in whatever you speak but we are interested in promoting our language.

hammerFC:
I SPEAK YORUBA BUT IT DONT MAKE ME YORUBA.

THEY SHOULD SPREAD THE LANGUAGE SO EVERYBODY WILL LEARN IT, THEN , WHEN THEY ARE TALKING, WE WILL ALL KNOW WHAT THEY ARE SAYING.


HOWEVER, WHEN WE SPEAK OUR OWN, THEM NO GO HEAR.


FOOLS!

Nobody is interested whether you speak your language or not but Yorubas will speak Yoruba in Yorubaland. QED

Kingcalls:
Do they announce time arrival and departure in yoruba at the lagos Airport... these guys are too tribalistic

Lagos Airport is owned by the FG.

When you build your own Train Station in Anambra State, don't include your indigenous language.

Millimann:
They should hurry up and add yoruba language there so that the uneducated people would not fumble when they enter a train.

Language is for communication and not necessarily the same thing as education.

Africa is backwards because we still equate Colonial Languages with education.


If Science Subjects were translated into Yoruba at the same time that the Bible was translated into Yoruba language 200years ago, we would have been better off than this stage of development.

Klington:


I thought they said Lagos is mega cosmopolitan City

These sophisticated m0r0ns don't even know where and when to stop.

How does people promoting their indigenous Language in their land affect you?

If you don't understand Yoruba,then listen to the English version of the announcement.

You can NOT move into Yorubaland and trying to stop Yoruba people from speaking Yoruba in Yorubaland.
You can stop speaking your language, but Yorubas will NEVER stop speaking their language.

christejames:
Lagos is a supposed 'Cosmopolitan city' for Christsake ...

I'm not against using Yoruba as part of the train public announcements but the way some 'ronu advocates' are pushing this agenda of 'Yoruba first' in everything (for a supposed 'Cosmopolitan City) will at the long run harm the innocent Omoluabis who wish to live in harmony with other nationalities from the country and across the world

How does using the indigenous language of the people harm you?
If you don't want Yoruba people to speak their Language in their land, it is best you move to another State.


Cosmopolitan nature does NOT translate to abrogation of the cultural identity and heritage of the State.