₦airaland Forum

I think the full story is not told... I think an element of 'Love' has already developed and when women truly fall in love (that's why it is called FALL in love because when you fall, you are at your weak points) , they tend to overlook many potential pitfalls.

Please what's the meaning of Anuofia( I see it regularly on Nairaland) and what is the difference between it and Efulefu and Yoruba.

My ex (Igbo) Girlfriend used to call me Offemmanu

Amarabae:
shameless anuofia.
Thank God she is not Igbo.
I can't share an ethnicity with such an element.

Don't mind The cabal.
He is a religious bigot.
Women from ALL religious background engage in prostitution, fornication and adultery.

My first g-friend was a hijab wearing Muslim girl, whom ,due to my naive and inexperienced mind, I thought was the embodiment of morality and the best girl in the world in the first 3years of our relationship until....

greencard:
the last words on your signature says one Nigeria...how can that be when you harbour such disgust about other peoples faith?

I once befriend one alhaja ijabite babe. U don't wanna hear the end of the story...dont generalized a whole "Faith" on some few non-practicing ones. Okay

Okay, we have heard sir. Are you happy now?
Oya, clap for yourself

Running204:
It won't affect me. Am just having a filled day on the Afonjas that like shouting one Nigeria.

And how exactly does this affect you bros?

Running204:
Stupiid fool. Aren't u suppose to wake up that stupiid Afonja from the grave n ask him that. He already place u little Afonjas on a speeding train of annihilation, u will be d one bleeding from d knife of ur masters soon. Sai one Nigeria

How does all these end your miseries?

Running204:
Afonja dat wan na big grammar just b expecting ur masters to take over from all Yoruba obas in 20yrs. U can eat shiit if u don't like it,but it must happen... Sai one Nigeria.

90% of all non-virgin ladies claim they are raped

valgbo:
it's possible........ but girls have abused it too much............ together with my uncle deflowered me at a young age....... that it ain't believable......I won't believe it

Says your biased mind.

1) Poverty rates in Nigeria is lowest in the Southwest, followed by South south.

2) So how come, newer buildings keep springing up in the Southwest?

3) Up till this very moment, there are thousands of buildings in Alaigbo with brownroofs, be sincere with yourself for once.

BankeSmalls:
brown roof settlement in the south east gets demolished and rebuilt, but the only reason stopping south west from demolishing theirs is poverty.

Sir,who in the zoo has the authority and power to conduct referendum for you?

ApexPredator:
It doesn't get more peaceful than a Call for referendum

Many of you shouting brown roof all over social media have serious problems.


1) You don't know much about Yoruba culture and Housing is part of culture.
Most of those buildings with brown roofs were built 80-100 years ago and many are what we call 'agbo-ile' ( There is no exact word in the English language).
Such buildings have no particular landlords but belong to generations of descendants, many of whom are no longer living there but still have strong emotional attachment to those buildings.
Major decisions like demolition or major reconstructions may be difficult to carry out because it will need consensus of so many descendants.

2) There are so many brown roofed buildings in Enugu, Aba, Eket,Gboko, Nnsuka, Mbaise, Oko, Ozubulu, Nzam, Awka, Afikpo, Brass, Umuahia and indeed all over Nigeria.

BankeSmalls:
The brown roofs were good and an evidence of good living in the old days, but for the grandchildren to still live in such houses is a crying shame. It now symbolises-

Stunted growth
Retrogression
backwardness
poverty


an eyesore

You declared your sovereign republic without asking if the Ijaw, Ogoni, Efik, Iron ,Ikwerre, Etche or Annang peoples wants to be part of your republic but already annexed them, as if that wasn't enough, you crossed your boundary invaded Midwest, installed an igboman as the ruler there and you were on your way way to Lagos before you were soundly defeated in Ore, ONDO State.


Instead of seeing you as the victims of the Nigerian State, fighting for freedom, you projected your army to the whole World as bands of rebels, bent on overthrowing the Government of Nigeria, you lost the sympathy of the International community and possible allies within the Nigerian federation...it was a miscalculated strategy that backfired.

This time around, dont go through the military ways (because you cant win) but go through the political way, thank God for democracy!

ApexPredator:
Can you remind what happened the last time we declared our sovereign republic to the world?

Gowon's 9 years, IBB's 8 years and Abubakar's 11 months equal 18years of Middle-belt rule.
Common sense and fairness should tell you that Southeast (Igbos) have better claim to the presidency than any other region.

gerald09:
where is the so called "North Central" dem no get candidate? or are they waiting for a miracle like GEJ to happen to them after another 16 years. if our president should come from the North each should provide a candidate NE, NW and NC. I believe we should allow someone from the Middle belt take power, they have been used by the other parts for so long yet they feed the Nation. The best Agriculture is done in the Middle Belt.

Tax your peoples to pay for the referendum and conduct it in your States or are you waiting for Jubril from Sudan and the zoo to conduct your referendum for you and grant you independence?

ApexPredator:
Baboon what was python dance all about or the civil war? Igbos are trouble makers, Igbos are criminals. Ok, let there be a referendum to decide our fate and you simians start screeching about hate speech and terrorism.

What's is the positions or roles of Tiv, Kanuri, Hausa, Jukuns, Borgu, Igala, Ijaw, Efik, Isoko or Fulani in this matter?

EternalTruths:
Afonjas are special breed of hypocrites that oppose Igbo presidency & Biafra.

That is why I tell people that Afonja hypocrisy will birth the disintegration of Nigeria

You are NOT going to be alive in 100 years time, so let the distant future take care of itself, work very smart and diligently to uplift yourself and leave a better legacy.

mauriceju2:
what many people dont know is that the north will rule Nigeria for the next 100 yrs from now and Nigeria will never develop because they are not good at that, it will be difficult for a Yoruba man , SS man or Igbo man to win presidential election in Nigeria in the next 100 yrs unless it is an act of God like that of Jonathan , the north will always vote for the north because of religion, they believed that it is an abomination for an infidel to rule over them and they see Yoruba Muslims as fake Muslims,
South East and South South will never vote for Yoruba president in the next 100 yrs because of Nnamdi Kanu and Biafra issue and because Yoruba voted against Jonathan, instead they will vote for the north if the contest is between the north and the west, and there will always be a northerner contesting for presidency. it is a big problem because Nigeria will never develop, it;s only an Igbo man or Yoruba man that can develop Nigeria.

The Nigerian FG (through its military, FRSC, police, Customs, Immigration) is the single biggest buyer of Innoson vehicles.

Tizbid:
IVM isn't popular not necessarily because his cars are expensive or maybe below standard. But largely because he isn't backed by the FG via policies to give him an edge. A little example; should the FG lift the ban on importation of cement,dangote will struggle to compete in the cement market. Coz it is a whole lot cheaper to import a 52.5R bag of cement from say India than to buy his 42.5R which he is currently selling to us here in Nigeria.Mind you 52.5R is of a higher tensile stength than 42.5R. But with the ban he is boss ,having close to 67% of the Nigerian cement market to himself, that is the effect government policies can have in growing a local product.

So you think all these problems will be absent in Biafra?

Princedapace:
Bros, everyone in nigeria is not bad.. But due to bad system of govt, elections are fraudulent..

I av heard this line u used over and over again, the duty of govt is to fix the bad orientation.. That is why they are paid from our sweats..


The electoral system does not give people with credible policies to win elections..

Federal character is evil.. It is satanic to development..

Our local govt structure is bad... It is fraudulent.. We have so many policies and structures that encourage people to be bad when in power..

Just like Obama said, "Africa does not lack human beings to steer the region to development, but the region lacks credible institutions"

Our problem is not that Nigerians are so bad but the instituons are weak. The govt has continually creepled the institutions with bias policies and ethnic sentiments..

Why not Prof Pat Utomi, Akinwunmi Adeshina, Donald Duke or Peter Obi?

Nowenuse:
That's why i said, any other option we have, we will take. Anything but Buhari. Atiku is the one most likely to win the PDP ticket.

Dankwambo of Gombe would have also been a very good option /alternative, but he would most unlikely win the ticket.

Why can Nigerian electorates just elect a competent leader irrespective of where he comes from?

smithoo:
Can we all in the south stop the bickering, set aside out pride, our differences and negative attitude towards each other and forge a very strong partnership towards dethroning the northern oligarchs harnessing our intelligence and resources for their advantage. It will do us a good, honestly.

This is great!

There are great minds in every State Of the Nation.

AngryNaijaMan:
Meanwhile in the north, this is made in Hausa car..
https://igbobia.com/sites/default/files/styles/large/public/field/image/ca1.jpg?itok=wSS_um2K

What if the Sugar mummy use your joystick for money ritual?
Why not go and marry. I tell you the truth, if you marry a 21-25 year old girl,you can't even finish fvcking her...na you go tire ooo

Its over 2years after the 2015 election, please get over it and don't play politics with this most unfortunate event.

Some irritating tribalists will inadvertently 'spoil' Innososon's business

CowHard:
Nigeria's military equipment now solely in the hands of an Igbo man



Innoson's expertise will come in handy when.................

So it was Jubril from Sudan that visited Yusuf Buhari in the hospital few days ago?

You don't know what you are saying sir.

ALL vagina smell with different scents in different times, irrespective of the care. Some are not bad (may even stimulate sexual urge in some guys) but some could be irritating.

When ,she has sexually transmitted infections like trachonomiasis, her vagina will be oozing out 'Fishy odour' during sex.

moorevic:
Not all kitty cat smells. It tend to smell when you don't take good care of it.

Hmn, not actually.
I am just a friend of the igbos.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Are u igbo?

Which kin difficult to understand language be Di's now?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Ochorom ka fu ihumu ofuma.

How does all these solve your problems?

MrNigeria2018:
The most devilish, callous, vindictive, vengeful and racistiest country on earth is Israel.

They control USA congress and hold USA balls in their hands.

They push USA to unnecessary wars

The only luck they have is USA.

If USA stays away from Israel today, trust me, ordinary Hezbollah ll capture the whole Israel unless they decide to use Nuclear weapon against Hezbollah. Iran or Turkey ll definitely finish Israel up if Israel attack Hezbola with Nuclear weapon.

A single Nuclear bomb ll sink the whole Israel at ago.

Jews don't necessarily hate Africans but wants illegal immigrants out of their country and even offer them money...They are far better than Libya and other Arab countries that sell black Africans as slaves.

mvem:
....israel dont like african migrants....why love someone that hates you...do a research on israel and see how they threat africans like you even legal ones, they dont give africans equal rights and hardly give them access to legalize there stay or on certain basic things...some africans praise israel for issues i dont know not knowing the country is very racist....The only black they recognize are the ethiopian jews even though they keep them at the borders so that any strike will kill them first, imagine that wickedness....sometimes we reason out of sentiment and emotion, failing to see facts that are glaring....The jews hate you and dont care about you, thats all...

You must be very naive about diplomatic relationship between sovereign nations in particular and LIFE in general.

NO BODY IS SADDLED WITH THE RESPONSIBILITY of helping you to live a better life.

Jelal0007:
The money means nothing. These people migrated becos they needed a better life,why can't the so-called people like you defend with ur might offer them that?

What concern Christianity in this matter?
Sudan and Eritrea are Muslim dominated countries.

hatchy:
Many people especially Nigerians are ignorant of Isreal as a Jewish nation and that they hate Christians and Christianity.
Isreal is a racist country that looks down on blacks like no other country.

Stupid people.

I tried to read the comments and had resisted commenting but with this your post, I need to comment.

1) Women's needs are NOT limited to material things.Your wife's emotional and sexual needs can NOT be met by money or material things.

2) Its very difficult for s married woman who is already used to male companionship and sex to suddenly stop enjoying these, especially for up to 9months (March-December).

3) Your absence for 9months, most probably is forcing her to look outside to meet her emotional and eventually sexual needs.


My recommendations

1) Forgive and forget; your wife is a good who only fell into temptation but she still respect you by crying and begging you (accept the apology fast before she gets 'into town')...modern, younger girls will never do such.

2) Do away with your side-chick, she will ruin your home by seduction and encourage you to divorce your wife but she CAN NEVER be like your wife.

3) Try to return home as soon as possible and reunite with your wife or let your wife join you.

4) Every marriage (especially in Nigeria) undergoes similar strain, divorce is NOT a better alternative.

morgan844:
i am not a poor man i already buit my house before i married her, the car she use i bought it with my money if she can not take the oat she will leave my hose as simple as that