₦airaland Forum

I tried to read the comments and had resisted commenting but with this your post, I need to comment.

1) Women's needs are NOT limited to material things.Your wife's emotional and sexual needs can NOT be met by money or material things.

2) Its very difficult for a married woman who is already used to male companionship and sex to suddenly stop enjoying these, especially for up to 9months (March-December).

3) Your absence for 9months, most probably is forcing her to look outside to meet her emotional and eventually sexual needs.


My recommendations

1) Forgive and forget; your wife is a good woman who only fell into temptation but she still respects you by crying and begging you (accept the apology fast before she gets 'into town')...modern, younger girls will never do such.

2) Do away with your side-chick, she will ruin your home by seduction and encourage you to divorce your wife but she CAN NEVER be like your wife.

3) Try to return home as soon as possible and reunite with your wife or let your wife join you.

4) Every marriage (especially in Nigeria) undergoes similar strain, divorce is NOT a better alternative.

morgan844:
i am not a poor man i already buit my house before i married her, the car she use i bought it with my money if she can not take the oat she will leave my hose as simple as that

Eleyi gidi gan ooo

There are so many half educated and pseudointellectual tribal bigots on this forum, dangerously dishing out gross misinformation.

Why are some people unhappy that a project is about to be commissioned in Kaduna?In which way does this project impede their progress?
Did the Kaduna State /Federal government said the project is meant for a particular tribe?

I know adherents of 'the religion of peace' are behind these attacks.

Guy, abeg na new year we dey.
Okay, you have won and you are 100% correct...does that make you happy?

EzeNri:
Thanks to Nairaland, I have known many yorubas are not as sensible as they make us to believe.

You use survey to collect data, nothing else. You don't need it again when you have data already.

Oga, you are dodging the question like your brothers. What is the proportion of Indigenes:non indigenes in SW?

This guy is funny sha.
You can even say there are no Yorubas in the Southwest, opinions are free.

Without conducting any demographic survey to determine the ethnic composition of the Southwest, you just arrogate to your self the all knowing power to determine who are indigenes and non-indigenes in the region and their ratios

EzeNri:
More than 40% of SW total votes went to PDP nah.

I was aware that some yorubas voted for PDP and many non yorubas voted for APC.

The Analysis adjusted out the Yorubas that voted for PDP without adjusting out for the non Yorubas that voted for APC.

See how you people tribalized a pro-SW thread because you expected me to place the ratio at 80:20, which is errorneous. We know that 2 out of 10 people in SW are not non indigenes. You know it is more than that, but paranoia wouldn't allow you people to accept a simple truth.

Oga, I am ready to retract this figure, if you can give me the accurate ratio.

I am waiting please.

See a man diligent in his works, he shall stand before kings and not mere men- Prov 22: 29.

The Op should work smarter and excel in his works. If you truly excel, the traditional ruler of your town will know you and may even honour you with a chieftaincy title, your Governor, Senator and even President will know you and try to seek your cooperation in developing their territories/country.

Linda Ikeji was able to get a cut from Dasuki's $2Billion to launder GEJ's image in 2015 because she has already excelled in her chosen field, same goes for Tiwa Savage & Olamide, who enjoyed similar patronages from the political power block of Lagos during the 2015 campaign.



Dangote, Otedola, Innocent Chukwuma( Innoson),Author Eze, Folawiyo, Sir Emeka Offor, Infanyi Ubah all enjoy Government patronages

Dangote is not into tyre and beer manufacturing but the prices of these items have also increased, so who do we blame for this?

IBBG:
cement went up in price as well, from 1,500 in 2015 to 2,500 now.

Can you imagined!

My cousin who was a commissioner under PDP government contested under PDP in 2015 and he and other politicians delivered our hometown's block votes to PDP/Jonathan in Osun state while his younger brother, a loyalist of Ambode/Tinubu is an APC councillor in Ikate/Itire LCDA, Lagos state and part of the APC campaign team in Lagos state.

In the Southwest, on the same day of Presidential & National assembly election, Sen Buruji Kashamu (Ogun east), Hon Oluwole Oke (Ijesha North, Osun state) ,all the National assembly members in Ekiti State and many others were elected on the platform of the PDP, so where did IPOBians get the illusion that all yorubas are APC supporters?

ManMountain:
He simply assumed that all those that voted PDP are non-yorubas and those that voted APC are purely yorubas
That is the assumption and the reason this conversation should have ended in the middle of page one

God bless you sir

PapaBrowne:
What kind of reasoning is this??

That we should rise up and protest against Dangote because he is building a refinery that a whole FG has refused to build for the last 30 years??

What’s my business if he is running a monopoly.

Facebook is running a monopoly on social media and we are all doing just fine.
Google is running an absolute monopoly in search and we are fine.
Android and IOS are running a Global duopoly in operating systems and the world is fine!

NNPC has run a monopoly in the oil sector for as long as we have known and we are not dead.

Why is DANGOTE building a refinery suddenly a problem.

Just for your info, did you realize that throughout the recession the only Nigerian commodity that didn’t go up in price was cement??

Asides, there is no industry in the country that Dangote operates a monopoly. Sugar, Cement, Flour, etc he has very aggressive competition.

The Federal Government through its MDAs
Like the Nigerian army, Customs, FRSC, Immigration service &police are the main buyers of Innoson Motors....stop unnecessary victim mentality

Saaruman:
You dey mind the zoo? Zoorians are in for a new form of bondage - MONOPOLY.
Govt backed monopoly for "Special private businesses" was the reason why dangote group became what it is today. Assuming Innoson motors was own by dangote group, I assure you that vegetable govt will implement the complete BAN importation of vehicles into Zoogeria under the guise of supporting local manufacturers. But because a southerner is the owner, they don't mind if the zoo is flooded with substandard vehicles. Innoson is not part of the "Special Business" that deserve govt support. In fact, they are currently cooking for ways to run Innoson motors down. Talk about supporting local manufacturers. This is how hypocritical zoo govt has been over the years.


Have it the back of your mind that dangote is just a front man. The real owners of dangote are conglomerates of northern elites. They are using govt to give undue advantage to dangote at the expense of other manufacturers - case in point: ZOO GOVT VS IBETO CEMENT.

Don't mind the bitter soul.

Okoroawusa:
No but I was responding to ur previous post abt south west n how ibru made his wealth.
Ibru's life story is that of a humble beginning that started in lagos n is still deeply rooted in lagos.
Ibru was doing business wit govt even before independence.if u grew up in lagos like I did ask ur grandma abt "eja ibru"(frozen fish),lagos hotel,ibru jetty,ibru fuel depots n so on.These were made possible as a result of relationships wit every govt in power in lagos over time.Big businessmen world over rub shoulders wit people in govt.Dangote is not an exception.

You didn't answer the question, instead you were busy telling us about Dangote.

Why didn't YOU start your own refinery and ask for government protection?

ImadeUReadThis:
The only reason Dangote is going all hard on this project is because he is assured of govt subsidies and protection.

There is no viable legal framework de-regulating the down stream sector and that is why you will never see any other investor who doesn't enjoy similar govt protection like Dangote.

The man has a way of manipulating our lax laws and corrupt bureaucrats to his bennefit.

Consider for a one moment that Dangote has never built a single factory in his entire life. Obajana cement plant was an FG company which he successfully bought, same with his cement plant in Benue and his sugar mill ( formerly Savannah sugars in Adamawa) from the same Federal Govt.

You should also be aware of his rice and sugar monopoly exploits under Obasanjo which led to the deportation of the Vaswanni brothers.

I think this guy is one of the half-educated unemployed youths in Nigeria.

1) What's the meaning of Tinubu Statistics? Do you even know the meaning of Statistics?

2) When was census conducted with tribe/ethnic identity as one of the factors enumerated?


#Do you just come to Nairaland to post anything that catches your fancy?
I strongly suggest that SEUN and the management of Nairaland find a way to return Nairaland to its former glory with lots of robust intellectual discussions and not an unserios forum for unintelligent tribal bigots misinforming our youths.

EzeNri:
I believe you don't know how I arrived at that. I adjusted that figure heavily to remove indigenes from non indigenes.

The population of migrants into Lagos alone grows by 2.4%.

Tinubu statistics put non indigenes in Lagos alone at 43%, which fall within the same ratio with mine for SW. You can research about this.

So you are not aware, NPC released new population statistics? If you are not current with our population figure, what then makes you an Analyst?

Ma, give us the population of non Indigenes in South West. Why is it non of you people are able to do that, but always attack other figures.

This is highly ridiculous!
1) The 2015 presidential election was NOT A CENSUS

2) There was no place for Tribal/ethnic group on the ballot papers.


I wonder if you have a university degree

EzeNri:
That estimation was made using 2015 Presidential election.

You are calling for a genocide. An International offence. I am archiving this for future use.

Nobody can threaten Ndi Igbo and go scot free. Nigeria belongs to us all.

You are in a world of your own!..wake-up, its now 2018

ImadeUReadThis:
Not defending Buruntai ?

Anyways....

Tinubu's first contact with Chagoury began during the Abacha regime and Tinubu's pretend membership of NADECO

Chagoury was a major business confidant to Abacha and international fixer for that regime.

The Clinton administration was set to pass sweeping sanctions against Abacha until Chagoury's timely campaign fundind to Clinton's second bid and also to the Clinton foundation.

There is no need stating that Chagoury's campaign funding to Clinton came from non other than Abacha himsel!

The Clinton administration will later tone down to opting for "sincere dialogue" in returning Nigeria to democratic rule.

Tinubu who at this time was recently sent back to Nigeria to infiltrate civil advocacy groups by his CIA handlers and was now parading himself as an agent of democtacy and good governance was suggested to Chagoury as a possible vp candidate to Abacha during his transition from military to civilian govt.

Chagoury was in a position to lobby Abacha in seeing Tinubu as a go between candidate to pacify the SW over Abiola's june 12 mandate and also the Americans.

The death of Abacha ended this arrangement.

Chagoury will later support Tinubu in his quest to dominate SW political terrain.

Tinubu after all is a godson to Chagoury and once Chagoury goes down so will Tinubu

Benin city , Benin kingdom and Benin Empire are not exactly the same thing just as Lagos, Lagos city and Lagos State are NOT exactly the same things

Okpueze1:
We Igbos have no problem with that, they should leave our land and get lost back into their ancestral land. Zik was referring to their possible origin because of their cultural resemblance with the Benin culture. When you talk of the old Benin city, you should bear in mind that it was surrounded by a city wall before it's conquest in the 1890's. Is the present land inhabited by the onitsha people part of the Benin city? Get lost zombie, your inherent hatred for the Igbos will not fetch you anything but constant pain and pain!

There is no SEA or Atlantic ocean in port Harcourt.

Port Harcourt have Bonny river which empties into the Atlantic ocean about over 50 km south of Port Harcourt.

Freedom2016:
Shot your ignorant poo mouth. Ibaka, Port Harcourt, proposed Abia port, Calabar are all closer to the Atlantic ocean than both Lagos port. Call NPA and ask them.

If I was born into Islam, I would have left it and change my religion.


Islam needs to
1) Admit that Prophet Muhammad was a man, who like all other humans, had his mistakes and some of his actions may be acceptable in his tribal/ethnic group and in the period he lived but such actions may not have ETERNAL and UNIVERSAL applications.

2) Lay less emphasis on the hadits. The had it's are subjected to various interpretations and are often the reference points of many Islam induced terrorist acts.

3) Show more love, mercy and forgiveness than violence, aggression or terror.

Nasir123:
You can say that again.
U can even say Muslim are animals, no problem.

Religion is like tribes.
If u can so detest a Muslim man,u can also detest people who are not of ur tribe. That's the truth.

That's why we still have problem even in our own religion.

I'm a Muslim.
A proud on.

Later on ,some bad people will be blaming the Yorubas for its failure.

Bizibi:
New scam by govs.......

Do you think GTbank is a one-man business?

GreatMahmud:
Gtbank is going down gradually..That is how it starts

God bless you.
Davido may have money but lacks maturity, the girl is even older (and of course wiser) than Davido.
In as much as they have a kid together and Davido still remains single, she will continue to seduce him and may succeed in getting pregnant for him again.

jclassiq:
they have a kid together for chrissakes!!!
and the young man is not that emotionally mature...so they are bound to be getting off and on once in a while.

I think you and Guestlander admire each other well and I may fall in love soon.

By the power of the anointing in me, I hereby prophesize to heal the wound created by this ungodly inter-tribal squabbles in the Nigerian cybal space that Guestlander and QueenSekxy start a loving relationship from Jan,2018 IJN

QueenSekxy:
torning and torning in the bigot's flesh.
after all you guys taught me bigotry

You have just learnt an important lesson in Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

1) If you have a girl that you plan to f*ck but your plan hasn't materialized, don't ever mention the word 'virgin' in her presence.

2) If you are already f*ucking a non-virgin, avoid mentioning the word virgin in her presence.

The arrest of Mr Innocent Chukwuma is an issue between him and EFCC NOT GTbank.

1) Is the EFCC answerable to GTbank?

2) Many Igbos giving ethnic colouration to a purely legal &economic matter like the Innoson saga thought they are helping Innoson but they are inadvertently harming Innoson's reputation by portraying him as an Igbo (rather than a Nigerian) business champion...many non-igbos may feel uncomfortable buying his products because of this episode.

What if after all these boycott and withdrawal from GTBank, instead of closing shop,the bank continue to grow stronger.
It will prove one thing... You have always overrated your worth just like IPOB's highly publicized boycott of the Anambra election proved they are not as important as they assume.

nawtyme:
This should be a wake up call to all Nigerians. Let's show these bastard that they are nothing without us.

Imagine 10000 people having only 10000 naira in GTB and they all close their accounts?

Caveat... When you close your account please don't go near UBA.

Why are you not among the billionaires?

priceaction:
what have they benefitted us in the long run ( i mean the so called 4 billionaires)?
Dangote= monopoly
otedola= subsidy scam and alleged manipulations
Adenuga= robbing Peter to pay paul, poor network to rip us off
Alakija= that one? fashion parade.

remove oil business from them all, and see how they move fast towards bankrupt. Nigeria, as a whole, suppose to have thousands of billionaires, spread accross this nation, if to say, they fix major basic needs and infrastructures and encourage a level playing field for all. But here we are, someone will divert our oil billions, borrow money from banks without collaterals, and still be ranked successful billionaires and the likes? smh

Nigeria needs a level playing field for all, but here? transparency is a curse, so only a few rip us off.

This is most laughable.

1) The law of Allah does NOT regulate the Legal profession &practice in Nigeria.

2) If you feel the regulations of the Nigerian Legal profession contradict 'The laws of Allah' it is better to stick to Allah and not have anything to do with the Nigerian legal practice, being regulated by infidels.

Qtsnow:
Attention: Whomsoever wrote this article should know and let it stick to its medula oblaganta that the LAW of ALLAH (Shariá/Islamic LAW) is far above and superior to/than any man-made promogate/constituted law, no matter who/whom may have written it. ''Whosoever brings anything other than islam will be rejected from him and will be amongst the losers on the Last Day.''

God bless your soul.
Allah told some peoples how to dress

gotnel:
We have totally forgot that all religions on earth are the way of life of some certain people, to now ascribed religion dress to Allah is as fabulous as you can see it.
African should wake up from all these nonsense of carrying on our heads some people culture that have been propagated to us as religion .

Terrorists like you are threats to the peace of the World.

Archangel15:
Trump is stupid to have made such a decision, lives of Americans both within America and the middle east are now at risk.

Obviously, you are not a politician and may not even have a voter's card.
You people will do more harm than good to Atiku (if you rely on Atiku to defeat Buhari) in 2019 campaigns.

AFONJAPIG:
Awolowo's has started protesting already... with them or without them we are going to kick that Sudanese Jubril out of aso rock...

There are so many juvenile political analysts and tribal bigots posing as political analysts on this forum.