₦airaland Forum

This was Nigeria until extremists and fanatics took over religion and tribe.

ukaface


It's my child. You see this picture here is one of the greatest problems African men face. Now the issue is, if there's no help, I will but what they are feeding us today is to make men become women and women become men. It will destroy society. Ukaface, some men have lost their wives and they never posted one picture to show you how they took care of the kids, they never married another woman and they never complained outside. After all is said and done, these men can't provide it all because they can never be nurturers like women. Men and women complement each other, a woman who thinks she is doing her kids right by making the man be the woman is not matured enough. Go to the family section and see what real life women with kids they had in their bellies for 9 months are writing. It is not because they hate their men they won't allow him do this, it's because the moment you get pregnant and give birth, the spirit of nurture will automatically enter your brain. Women immediately become protective and this is why many marriages have problems. The man is thinking about sex that made his wife have a baby she is thinking about nurturing and there's nothing to be ashamed of.

Men should know how to do these things but it should never be a replacement. You create a weak man when men start to do this regularly. Again, if she has no choice, let the man help his FAMILY. That's a man. If society won't help you solve your problems, let them shut up.

This is why men need to be careful who they insert their sim card into. It's more than 2 mins pleasure. She can ruin you if her senses her contaminated by toxicity.

EbenezerTriumph:
I bet that guy only read your headline and didn't go through the content

For those who don't have discretion, I reported that image for showing a dead person because the reporter wants to give evidence. Obviously, the person is not trained. If 1000 of you support madness, it doesn't move me. What is wrong is wrong

Foxie:
Deceased? You must not respond! Read before responding!!!

Next time, follow your own advice before advising others.

Segzy19:
Who be dis one?

Your home training will show in public discourse

Learn to respect the privacy of the deceased by protecting their last moments. Many of you share images without thoughts. Do you know how that image can affect her loved ones?

StrongAlphMale:
This is what they use to manipulate men!

Was the girl forced to open her legs? Because I just don't get it.

Dude it's high time women start taking responsibility for their actions

Do you know that a bank can be open and if nobody enters it, the vault will remain the way it is? If people enter it, the vault will definitely change.

One of the things men are taught very early in the past is how to handle women, know their tactics, play with them and lead them. Modernization has condemned what was used to train our men to be smart and wise and now, there are many boys than men. Boys with girls and they are happy to be unwed and having baby mamas. These men have made the first mistake of not knowing that you cannot ignore culture in choosing a woman, you will pay for it. Older women married men, richer women married men, men went seeking for a woman's family but today they are dating themselves and giving each other belle and raising b@$$tards and they call it modernity. Spit

A man then will have women in his domain and they will refer to him as king. These women were not weak or jobless as those who attack our culture always want to make it look like it's patriarchy. The men knew what to give the women that made them respect him. A woman will never respect a man who does not value himself.

Druss:
You ever tried giving a female advice on men? Especially when you know the man doesn't have good intentions in the long run?

There are enough war stories on this. The lady knows what she wanted. She wasn't raped and it seems to have been a consensual agreement. She made a conscious and adult decision to sleep with a man and be at risk of being pregnant. He made a conscious decision to have sex and vamoose from the relationship.

I don't approve of either's decisions. They made their bed. The future is still up to them.

In the long run, these men have the stories to tell. If men have high standard not to leave their sperms inside any kind of woman, the world won't be where it is today. A woman is a carrier, 2 can play the game but the man has been given more mental strength to lead. If he is stupid enough to let his erection be his direction, whatever election results the woman declares is his fault.

Iamzik:
Women don't need protection. Remember all of us are now equal. We now have strong women who don't need any man so stop looking down on our women please

Don't mind those people misleading our Queens. They will learn the hard way. Men and women are not the same and can never be the same. If she wants to be a man, she is welcome. Let her start seeing what men go through.

royalfly:
What if the woman use her mouth to say the kids are not for the man and leaves with the kids. It's the man still a deadbeat by staying low to first understand things.?

She used her mouth? Take care of any sperm of yours that becomes human. Men who don't care where they drop their sperm are morons. I don't use abusive words but that's what they are. Men are providers and protectors. If you don't want anything from her, leave her alone or use protection.

Are you sure it's not a man who wrote this? Your 3 month baby must be an angel.

I was told it was going to be a beautiful day, now I know why

Gadafii:
Damaged goods want marriage?
Men should start setting standard when it comes to the choice of a wife, let her be gainfully employed and affording her basic needs, responsible young woman, don’t just settled for the availabile if not you go cry tired

Men should start setting standards by protecting women. Real men stand up for women who their brothas will wife, they protect them when they go rogue because they are sistas. Standard is NOT impregnating a girl you are not married to. It's not leaving kids as b@$$tards and orphans while you are alive. That's a deadbeat man who gat no standard

yes. Big yes.

You attract what you think. If it's the other room that is on your mind you will eventually go there. If you are disciplined, you know where to draw the line. This idea that something must happen, sometimes I ask if these people grew up with their parents or grandparents because if they did they will see and learn a lot

ShangTsung000:
IYOO...

Most pipo are so obsessed with this greeting of a thing that you'd think after the greetings,a certain amount of money goes into their accounts. I don't really care about greetings. I'm always on my earbuds whenever I step outside my house. So I wouldn't even hear your greetings.

ONYE ANWULU!!!

Greetings is a part of our culture, you are being ignorant here. Tell me what part of Nigeria you are from and let me educate you. We are not a me-me people.

If we have seen Abacha with dark goggles and mark on his face and we survived, who is Wike?
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pansophist:
Confirm. Their hospitality is second to none. That's the most hospitable country I've ever been to, second being Serbia.

Not just free food, but they will approach you for pictures a lot. Many would also want to keep contact. I opened a dummy Instagram while I was there just to add random people and deleted it as I left.

Kazakhstan is good. Nigerians just want to go and return a millionaire. It's that mindset that's making them dislike it. If you want to live as a citizen with contentment, you'll love it.

This is it. Once the citizens smell that you are ambitious to buga them, they will hate you. One problem with some of us is not knowing that people build nations. If you contribute to their countries, they'll love you and they will not be bothered if you help home, they will even help you to build your home but see what Nigerians are suffering from is the mentality. In Nigeria, they only care about themsleves and don t care what you do, it's not their business. They now want automatic promotion by traveling abroad to escape from their peers and rise above them. It's not a competition my fellow Africans, build Africa wherever you are because that is God's blessed land. No place like home

one of the greatest things the internet and social media will do for us is to show people that every country is packaging and there's no place like home. Don't be deceived by the pictures on TV, package your home too. There's no heaven abroad if you think hell is home.

Bro, there's something about life humans miss. It's one 0f God's wonders. We miss it when he is showing us how strong we are and wasting our time complaining about how wicked the world is. When it is your time for elevation, the food on your table is removed from your sight so you can open your eye to get a better meal. You will be tested, how you respond to the test is up to you. You whine, you fail, but if you learn and get better, you win FOR YOURSELF. Be happy to have escaped the prison you had been in since. Time heals wounds and when you pick up from where they left you, you will thank them in the future for letting you go at this critical time. No one can shock you in the future anymore if you can do this.

Haynnie:
I wonder why when promiscousness in women is being talked about, men are the loudest to speak of it as if they are not the ones responsible for patronizing/ enabling women to go into whoredom. If you want women to do better you can start by turning down sex offer from them, stop sex for grades, sex for promotion, sex for help, stop patronizing them for sex only and condemn the act also. Doing these would not only make them buckle up, it would make them realize their value as women and what they can contribute to the society positively.
Not all the time you will wail about women and sex all the time. MEN ARE RESPOMSIBLE FOR THE WAYS OF WOMEN! BREATHE IF YOU AGREE!

You couldn't have said it better. It takes 2.

Any society that wants to develop must educate women. Bro, you cannot leave your house as a man even if she is a housewife and she's uneducated.

There are weeds that are making the hoe to be used, or else it will be an artefact. Are you the weed?Hoes are useless where there is no weed.

The way a society treats its women shows where it is. You are blaming women, who are the men protecting the sisters and saying no, we want you to be wives for our brothers? We want you to be mothers for our brothers' kids? We want to defend you because we got sisters. You will never allow men sleep with them, the ladies, even if they don't have sense will receive sense when they see that man have value for them. No, you derive joy in blaming them to make yourself look good. Bro, everyone involved is the problem, man, woman.

Obi has said he only responds to people in his class, anyone outside his class is a noise maker. Oya class captain, write d list of noise makers.

1-10 Reno
11-100 Omo

brolosho

how cheap can you be

Men used to have pride but men of today can let another man flock the pride out of their anus. Poor man will do everything he can to beat the rich man one day but men of today just succumb, say suck me dry. Who ever knew prostitution will become brostitution one day? How did we get here?

brolosho

how cheap can you be

Kobojunkie:
Interesting! The governor is able to seek permission to free inmates but not to improve condition of the inmates in the prisons? Continue!

The one contributor above mentioned he took food stuff to the prison of his own to help alleviate their hunger but you wish for us to believe instead that a government able to work to free inmates cannot do even that much.

The State is not in charge of prisons, there is no need to stretch it further. Go and read the constitution or speak to lawmakers about this. It is under exclusive list and you have been told already.

ariesbull:
are you done ?


Yet it is not an intellectual tasking job and it is low job

Congratulations to unlocking a new level of IQ.

What a ridiculous headline? It is the job of the FEDERAL GOVERNMENT OF NIGERIA to fix the refineries. If you don't get it, forget it.

Sevenworldpower:
Moderators should not take sides in issue . They shouldn't post on any issue.

They can but they need training. You need matured people to do it. Nairaland started going down from 2007 elections of Yar Adua. Politics and tribalism have eaten the forum. A moderator who cannot be objective cannot do well. Seun also needs training and mentorship. Nairaland is not a PlayStation anymore.