omobolarinwa1:


You must have been the one to missed your way... My message is not for your deviance.
God says: Its not the eyes that was blind,but the there hearts.

Have a good day.

Ogbeni, Ki la gbe, ki le ju, why so angry! I just asked a harmless question.

Poverty has been weaponized by APC government.

Rich Nigerians not tribalistic and Tinubu is appointing only a certain tribe.

Dey play sotigbo!

That there is true christianity!

All churches should so the same!

ChybuzzDD:


Your stance is not in line with the character of God as painted in the Bible.

According to the Bible, God is only meant to work with those who have Christ in them, who have been redeemed.
It also tells us that the the prayers of a sinner is an abomination unto God, and that no one comes to him except through Christ.
Again, it says that Christ is the way, the truth and the life.
The same Bible tells us God does not change from generation to generation.

So, if we are to go with these, how then does he turn around to 'help' sinners and atheists??
Are you now telling us he's a liar or that the Bible is lying about him?

Ride on! Good logic!

ChybuzzDD:


Do you know the help you describe as "God's divine help" also comes to the atheists and non- believers? Sometimes, they even get a better 'divine help'.

And these people also receive "Angels in human form" who assist them from time to time.

So, now, how do you explain the fact that these other people who don't serve or believe in God also receive and enjoy these helps you think are from God?

I wish I could like your comment above 1000 times.

The country will get better when we all begin to think right and ask the right question.

You make a solid point. I have wondered likewise.

This looks made up for clouts

" 6 months psychology program"

Fake news!

njelrapheal:


Nice.. it's all love

I was her favorite child so she may be overprotective.

njelrapheal:

This story no complete na.. you need to update us weda ur mum and wife don de cool now.

Them dey cool at last. She really had no choice. I think she was concerned because I was very young then.
I always have my way from secondary school.

canada123:


Yh I guess they are good therapist, already in talks with scheduling a session with one

That is a good step in the right direction. Hopefully everything works out well for you.

Did you miss your way? You need directions?

FairlyUSEDpussy:


Try kola,ijaye,olaniyi or abule egba.......
Tbh........both olaniyi and abule egba will give u dat comfortable u seek..........I'm just afraid of agency fees........

Op, listen to this guy, you will get something fairly good with your budget.

Overwork leading to HBP. Blacks abroad expecially Nigerians don't know how to enjoy themselves at all.

Go to the cinemas, you won't see blacks there, they have bought big houses and cars they can't afford to impress their friends/relatives and now have to work 3 jobs to meet bills.

I was dining at a restaurant one night around 10pm and It was -30C outside, there were about 8 skip the dishes delivery guys waiting to pick orders and all were blacks.

They don't know how to enjoy their lives, no vacation, no fun.

I see lots of them and shake my black head!

The best way to steal is to own a Nigerian bank. Ask Saraki about Societe Generale Bank.

Even God told father Abraham to japa from his country to a place where he would give him for an inheritance and he obeyed not knowing wither he goeth.

damola1:



Are you in lagos? Can I host you at my office or home ?

Maybe when in Lagos. 19hours flight from Nigeria

damola1:



20s is the wrongest time for any man to marry in my limited opinion. But it’s hard to escape.

I think a little of this. A little of that makes life interesting. Life in itself is empty. I think also man as one major purpose to pass knowledge and see it materialize. I think this for myself

So I think. When a man is matured. A few women. Children from multiple women. And children in different season. Yet more of life. Here and there. Travel like you did. Explore. But have a bit of this and that people to share with could make life with it

Where it gets hard. Really hard. Is having kids too early. A life for a life: they consume your entire existence.

I still don’t see a reason why men shouldn’t have kids in their 60s with new mates.

What do you think ?

You are full of wisdom my friend. I grew up in a strictly religious home where it was a taboo to date and have sex before marriage.

As a young guy, I was already working and the hormone was strong so I decided I was getting married, my biggest motive was sex at the time.

My children are taller than I am now and I can still pass for 30 and in good shape. If I have a do-over, I will have several relationships without marriage or kids, travel, build assets and marry after 40. I will then aim for just one child and enjoy my life.

damola1:



What then is the importance of having children ?

You have asked a philosophical question my friend and I will take a deep breath, lean back on my couch and ruminate over your question.

"What then is the importance of having children"

At the beginning of marriage, I believe we had kids due to family and societal expectations. After marriage, it is expected by parents and society for the wife to get pregnant and my parent want a grandchild. I, being in my 20's was relatively experienced and very naive, so I obliged.

Over the years, I have traveled and observed other society and gained incremental wisdom.

Also, most of us as Africans wanted someone to bear our names after we are dead hence the need for children.

I don't really need much from them and thiking about it now, you wouldn't even care about your children once you are dead so the best is to be at peace with yourself and enjoy your life.

RaptorX:
What about the children

What about the children?

They will live with their mom or come with me. I will always send money to provide for them.

Remember, I did not start this and was "hypocritically" thrown out of the house.

victorVIC1:


This is how I see it also. I will simply find my way, in few years time she will start counting your losses

No woman will disrespect or kick out anyman with real value . At the snap my fingers, I can have any woman of any race if i want but if I have to leave my marriage, I will always be single with no attachments.

damola1:


Will you go and have more kids?

I already had a laser vesactomy.

Having more kids now is like repeating classes I already passed.
Why the hell would I want to do that to myself. Time to enjoy myself.

damola1:


Don’t they need you to guide. Groom them?

Their mom should have thought about that before kicking me out.

I can take some of them with me if they want but BUT ONCE YOU KICK ME OUT, the wife will never see me again.

I can forgive if she cheats and remorseful but can never forgive the maximum disrespect of kicking me out in front of my kids.

I have seen lots of kids grow up and gone their ways and forget their father and I won't give up my life for the children.

Not me.

obaidan:


very very easy to say, the court is tracking you, the system is tracking you, d demonic wife is tracking you, her families are tracking you. enemies all over the place, u no know where dem dey. No matter what, u still want to talk to your kid(s), oga they will follow u. And in most cases(not necessarily in your case now) it's not economically wise for most young men of this age to abandon their jobs abroad,

You know nothing about me my friend. I am good at studying and looking for loopholes in every laws to benefit myself. I am good at making money disappear and you think they will extradite me just because of a marital dispute.
Court no get that kind time. Again,

I have planned planned for scenarios like this for the past 10 years.

Women know the type of men they kick out.

I have no emotional attachment.

Once, when my son was 14yr old, I had an appointment to pick him up and he missed the appointment and delayed.

I simply left and when he called me to pick him up, I told him to walk in -15 or get an uber, I am not his Uber driver.

He walked home and never tried that with me again.

Jeezuzpick:


Simple!

Kick me out, kẹ̀?

More like setting me free!

I'll just look for another country and jápa from rédereède.

My man. I am even looking for an opportunity to be kicked out.

Kick me out today, I will be in warm beaches of Dominican Republic the next day.

damola1:


And d children nko?

They will grow and live their own lives, my happiness comes first. I will send money to them.

RALPHOW:


You don't have understanding of the UK Law
As she chased him out of the house, he must still continue to pay the house rent of about 1000 Pounds every month, pay child support for feeding, maybe 500 Pounds. Meanwhile his salary maybe just 2500 Pounds.
All these will be deducted from his salary direct from Bank, unless he relocate to Nigeria where such law is not applicable.
Very soon UK will request for agreement with Nigeria, especially now that we have BVN/NIMC, so that they can track and still force you to pay even if you run to Nigeria

I will leave the country the next day. No law can hold me once I am out of the country for domestic matterz
. I live abroad too and have hidden properties and bank accounts in other countries which my wife is unaware of.

With me, the more you look the less you see and I am prepared for the worst.

I have a career I can do from anywhere in the world and my job will not be affected one bit. I can work for myself.
I am well prepared for situations like this and only disclose about 60% of myself to anyone including my wife.

If you want to be respected, never lose your ability to surprise.

What has he done!

If you kick me out of the house, you won't see me again in this life. I will simply move on without complaining or looking back and leave everything for you.

I will only give you one chance to fck up with me and you will never have a second chance.

I simply don't forgive and I will still be smiling with you.
He get men wey women fit try that with.

I also will not wicked or treat my wife bad.

It depends.

For me I will prefer a late marriage if I have to do it over again.

RealLordZeus:
With state police, the state governors will make proper use of security votes

And we can properly hold the governors accountable for security.

canada123:


Meaning I have to figure it all out before getting married otherwise I would be cheating even in marriage badly

Lord help me

You will have to create new good habits to combat old ones. Go out more, make new friends. Read a lot of books.
Remove yourself from environments that enables bad habits. Its all a mind game my brother and nothing special about sex, if you let it control you, it will destroy you and your wife.

Also, there are good therapists in Canada that can work with you.

EFCC is now chasing yam and garri trucks. What is going on.