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why are they so desperate for the money from subsidy to provide social services. why can't money/revenue be generated through other means? why this crazy over -dependence on funds related to fuel . Agriculture and mineral resources if fully tapped into can yield more money to provide the social resources they are promising. besides, they have always promised these social services in the past without delivering jack. all i see is another means to siphon funds, award contracts in the name of providing social services and contractors not executing such projects. it's all fables joooor!  

No man feels intimidated by a woman's height. rather, they may feel 'intimidated' by your looks and countenance. you don't carry a long, rumpled, cheerless grimace and expect a guy to approach you. If no one is approaching you or asking you out even at first sight, go home, get your mirror, clean it up and take a look at your face. practice smiling often and wear a cheerful countenance. OK? hope that helps.

are you kidding mi  or is this a joke or something? registered 2000 Golf (second hand)for 900k? 

perhaps you are talking about the Toyota beside it.

how much will you clear RORO from Europe, Benz C-class 2001 model?

pictures please

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=830208.msg9812080#msg9812080 date=1324494420][color=RED]Which women are VIRTUOUS

Do you mean NIGERIAN WOMEN - U certainly CANT BE SERIOUS

KMT [/color][/quote]hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha, i fear o! exactly my thoughts when I first saw the post. 9ja ladies of these days. virtuous my foot! self centred, gold diggers on exploration and exploitation. gone are the days when men tied nuptial knots with virtuous ladies. our generation of ladies don tear eyes o! if this is for all ladies, fine and good. if it is for VIRTUOUS ones, please stop wasting space on this forum joor!

@OP: I personally do not think that people who are advising you to go blunt with the bloke are rational; particularly when one considers the social environment and culture. in western world, a face-off/ outright display of your disapproval about his stalking you may be right. however, our tenets of socialisation and communal pattern of co-existence differs from what you have in the western world where people often dissociate from others on slightest provocation.

my advice is that you can achieve what you want diplomatically. you have taken the right steps so far and good. if you come out blunt, the broke Bottom tetchy bloke will be so frustrated (who wouldn't be anyway ?, put yourself in his shoes - a social outcast who suddenly thinks himself lucky enough to at long last have an acquaintance ) and may embark on vindictive measures . don't under-estimate what a frustrated guy can do (more also when he is the irascible type). hence, avoid him further when you resume. snub him as much as you can. guys loathe being snubbed and would stay far away from girls they consider as snubs. however, do it with diplomacy (not rudely). it may take a little longer, but he will eventually understand that he is becoming a pest and will give you your deserved space.

Cuddlemii:
Babes, you still dey this same level with this your LDR guy. Why do you keep stressing yourself all the time. Its either you don't love him or you do. Its either you want to be with him or you don't want to be with him.

Every time you keep posting the same thing. Your happiness and peace of mind is what is important, just find the guy that would give you those two lovely things and if your bf is giving them to you then stick with him and please reduce the stress because you are too young 4 it. Hope this is not how you stress him, I am just asking because you need to chill and enjoy life. Life is a risk, what would be would be. Try and concentrate on your own development and do things that makes Lacrissa happy and fulfilled (be selfish like that), every other thing would fall into place.

Cuddlemii:
Then open the door with assurance(dt was a joke ). Be sure you are replacing him with a committed guy so you don't end up alone.

Have you even tried having a dialogue with this LDR guy, he should engage you already maybe that would make you relax. What steps are you both taking to solemnize your union or live together. Why don't you relocate to be with him or he comes to where u r. You both should find a final solution or else you would keep coming back with doubts and confusion all the time. So if both of you are serious and in love with each other, take an extra notch or a step further and secure this LDR with no insurance into a mortgage at least. It doesn't have to be something big, both of you have been dating for a while now(if I am correct) so you can even do a court wedding or something.

These comments sound so cool and re-assuring that I wish I could just listen to the words and not read them. I wish I could hear these words from the originator to have a better feel of its emotional content.

@OP:

I consider you highly privileged to get these lines of encouragement. Cuddlemi has said it ALL. ''relax, what will be with be & rub minds with your LDR bf. don't work yourself out on these issues. remember it's sometimes not the way we think. you are most likely to be easily swayed by suitors because they are physically present with you and you can relate better with their social information and cues. be careful please. talk things over with your bf. you both can consolidate the relationship with a little formal nuptial rite e.g a court wedding or ilk if your are so apprehensive. hope that helps.

sanctimonious oyedepo assaulted the poor girl with impunity. As a matter of fact he BRAGGED about it. see link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KM6h2EX-TIM&feature=share.

meaning- nobody can bring him to book about assaulting/oppressing the less privileged.

@960: I tire for the uy o!

OP:

Decent, eye catching 2 bedroom flat, spacious sitting room with space for dinning, sitting room & bedrooms all tiled, wardrobes in en-suit bedrooms. house must be located in an attractive environment e.g Magodo, Ajao estate, Ajah, Lekki, Maryland estate, e.t.c ( I don't really mind whether Island or Mainland but would prefer the Island/peninsula). Motorable roads, Landlord must not live in the house and not more than 3-4 tenants. Provisions for parking space and compound should have inter-locks/landscaped. Budget (300K-350k), one year rent please.

in an IT age you don't necessarily need to dart about inspecting. yo can virtually do so on your screen. saves time, money & convenient. besides, as a marketer, it enhances your advert & gives you a an edge.

pictures pls

how much ? pixs pls

too looong to read

iyatrustee:
What have they done to my lil bro 190? His post reels of someone who is s3x starved and wld lie his way into a "future bride's" pants

initially thought I was the only one who sensed that in his post. hahahahhhhahahaaaaa. . what a bait

bravedude:
See how u won take get wife like play like play.But the question is,can she marry a guy with no money?99% of 9ja girls love money and the left over 1% are rare to come by.Well for me,i am tired of gals like dis signing marriage into my ear when i am just a little above her age.I guess it's because the boy is smiling with luxuries, LOL.Gal i wish you the best of luck and try to connect with aariwa,it might work out you don't know.My advice friend.Try get money if not no think am.   at our 9ja gals.

so weird that OP's post alone defines all he wants in a woman. one would expect any reader to understand from the tenor of her speech on this post that she wants a serious relationship and not to be taken advantage of. be that as it may, a few questions for OP:

1. You noted that you have been in a few relationships in the past, may I ask why you decided to quit (break up). perhaps one can start understanding your likes and turn-off's in a relationship

2. you talked about desiring a ''comfortable man'' - this is actually a relative term. what is your definition of a comfortable man? are you sure you have not set unrealistic standards/expectations from an ''ideal'' man for yourself? while one lady may be satisfied with a guy who earns $12,000 p/a, another may not be satisfied with a guy who earns $60,000 & she may be poised to turn him down if he proposes because she believes such a guy can never meet family needs with his stipend.

3. how socially amiable do you think you are? hope you socialise very well and wear a cheerful countenance? it sometimes draw people (particularly potential suitors) closer. in other words, do you snob others- particularly people you assume that they dont fall within your 'set standards'

this mentality of Nigerian gurls is really horrible. why hanging the responsibility of financial funds on him. please find other financially rewarding things to do along your schooling that can earn you a little cash. some hard-working girls engage in a little trade or modeling while schooling just to be independent. if you go into nuptial relationship (marriage) with this kind of mentality, you'll most likely believe it's his sole responsibility to provide finance for the family. times are hard now & things have changed. it's about mutual support and independence now ooooo!

another s.t.u.p.i.d M.O.G:

http://news1.ghananation.com/index.php?news=238382

1luvkipsus:
I strongly disagree with this policy.i dnt think food is the problem of dis children and their parents.d money meant 4 dis 'free meal' shud b used 2 give better learning environment 2 d pupils.my oda fear is dat d possible carelessnes of d 'cooks' can easily lead 2 death of pupils thru food poisoning,etc.we must be careful pls!

i just can't agree less with you. carelessness - resulting from poor sanitary conditions in their miserable kitchens, bacteria growing on poorly washed utensils, unhygienic cooking environments, poor preservation of food stuffs due to incessant power outages (such as serving sour/rancid milk or stale meat due to poor refrigeration), serving left over foods over the weekends in the next week in a bid to cut costs e.t.c. there are better needs to channel such funds to. the need for an improved learning environment & strategic curriculum cannot be over-emphasised. first things should come first.

, it is only those who serve dead gods that fight/slap for their gods.

violent:
why give me three months?  why not a week?

his 'god' doesn't work in 1week. it takes him three months to hear and fight for him.

@omo to dun: he is a man of God because he speaks sweet words with sugar coated tongues to them, flies in four private jets and performs some rehearsed/stage-managed magic they call 'miracles'. RUBBISH!

I thought omo-pastor was the greatest fool of our time until another nincompoop catapulted himself from no where. what the poo is this stagger talking about.

I think it's high time NL got moderated to screen out people with meaningless talks. In this jet age and era, people still spit trash??

omo-pastor, I know you are an ardent member of oyedepo's church. a word of advise to your pastor please - wish you will be kind enough to convey a message to him. tell him that almighty Rev.King needs a merger with him. they both have so many things in common.

guys, please buy oyedepo a pair of boxing gloves. he has turned his church to a wrestling ground. his pulpit could also be designed in the form of a boxing ring. that'll make it very convenient for him to 'beat the demon' out of anyone he deems fit to be assaulted. heavy weight champion!

bishop kor, bishop ni

Dr Know:
Omopastor you are cursed!

omo-pastor is seriously cursed.

I can imagine Jesus saying "Do you know who I am?", followed by a hot slap! [/color]
[quote][/quote]can't stop laffinnnnnnnnnggggg

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=827117.msg9786400#msg9786400 date=1324150919]Christians do not believe in men of God. They believe in Jesus Christ.
Christians do not respect men of God. They respect Jesus Christ.

Anti-Christian means anti Jesus Christ, not anti men of God. Anyone who is born again is a child of God. This is not the old testament where you need a human intercessor to God. Jesus Christ is the one and only intercessor. Men of God are thieves using the gullibility and credulity of the masses against them.

"But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the Pastors that you slavishly and foolishly worship or the Prophets who callously mislead you, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD JESUS CHRIST."


omo-to-dun: you have clearly answered him, but I just hope his diminutive level of thinking will help him understand. MOG kor MOG ni.
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The quote above was inspired by [url=http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Joshua+24%3A15&version=NIV]Joshua 24:15[/url]


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elampiro:
Emmmmm, the way this pastor has been bashed here, is it really because if this slap or some other things he has done in the past? A pastor is like a father in a family. He can discipline at times. Not the kind of pastor King sha. ,  I don't understand the girl's statement, it is ridiculous. I am not a member of winner neither am I the pastor's fan, but I see no harm in that slap. If the pastor has done some things in the past, you guys should tell us. It is wrong to summarise the pastor to one minute of video.

hmmmmmmmmm, guy, no b so

@ omo to dun: you are really sweet. your name also says it ALL!!!

@ omo-pastor:  you are just a low life fanatic!!!! your name on this forum says it ALL!!!!!!