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My father saying that " beautiful things no dey finish", this ingrained delayed gratification in me thus I don't get carried away by trends.

Ideally, there are emotional needs which only a father can meet likewise that only a mother can meet.

Parenting roles are not limited to material provisions, for some men it is easier for them to pay the bills than being emotionally available for their children as many of them their own fathers were not emotionally available for them and they find it difficult to break that chain.

Many men feel isolated in their old age as they never bonded with their adult children in their formative years though some of these children maybe materially providing for him but visiting him, calling him up to gist regularly is out of the equation.

EmekaBlue:
This is rubbish from the students kinda...d girl wasnt raped...his only crime is against the school policy for crediting olosho lazy yoots student pass mark for sex

It was so unethical of him. With internet never forgetting no other university would hire him but sad is the fact that this humiliation will not deter other randy lecturers.

anytexy:
Bia nwokem I bu onye Nkanu west?

Nah, was living in New Haven when Chimaroke was at his peak.......Ochichi ka kwa mmanu onye o do n'anya .....O buru uzo Agbani ya rure....loved his jingles!

Nice one.

Chimaroke Ebeano, Nwa Nnamani Ebeano!

Ijawwomaninoyo:
The relationship will not be cordial, Wizkid's baby mama took their issues to Twitter, now he doesn't celebrate the boy even on his birthdays and not making provisions.

Davido's 3rd baby mama's case was in court when she granted a newspaper interview and was asked what sex with Davido was like, she said his dick is short and fat, two rounds of sex, the first one painful because his dick is fat while the second round was less painful. Then they both laughed it off.
No man will like being embarrassed publicly.
That was the last Davido wanted to hear about her and the child again, that's why she employed Kemi Olunloyo to be her spokesperson and pulling down Davido.
That's why Kemi Olunloyo is on Davido's throat.

She could have threatened privately cos according to her, Ubi had paid her partially.
What is the gap between her calling out and getting the money? Very short!

Maturity is when a man is able to separate whatever he deems provoking from the woman and the child he had with the woman.

The affection you should have for your child who is your flesh and blood should never be subject to how feel towards his/her mother.

The child did not just stop from the skies, the man's fluid played an active role in the conception alongside that of the woman.

After the fame has dimmed for Wizkid because there is no champion forever, can he boldly tell his sons he never showed them off during his heydays , ignored their birthdays etc because their mothers "insulted" him on social media?

Neglect can never be rationalized because it is one of the leading causes of mental and personality disorders.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Ubi's 4th baby mama as a case study.
What kind of relationship do you think will exist between Ubi and her child?

Ubi and the woman are in the best position to answer that.

Why Okorocha's image?

Make I laugh

Really historic. Kenya follow dey claim the historic win as per Masai Ujuri's mum is Kenyan !

panpan:
If this report is true, then it is not a surprise that EFCC has decided to focus on POS machines, because EFCC serves foreign interests.

You can google it to find the report.

rhektor:
A yahoo boy spotted

With my level, to be a yahoo man in Nairobi is very easy but I roll in a different direction!

HitSong:
You can't tell...
You don't know the secret or gravity of the offense...

As long as the children are biologically his, there is no excuse for neglect.

HitSong:
Ask your mom what she did wrong...
She must have done something...

Even if the mother has done something wrong to the father, why punish his own children with neglect?

Onlyonebuhari:
I wonder what the future holds for most of this so called youth. Social media is now the medium to count your Dad flaws against you...... what a shame!
African cultures is dying

The reality is that culture is dynamic, it evolves with time. Speaking out one's feelings is not kindly accepted in our traditional settings but with exposure and enlightenment that has changed. As long as you are using a smart phone which is not African rooted, we are open to every culture.

dfrost:
Thanks Pav. I agree with you. How's Kenya?

We good, na cold just dey wire person!

Fraud committed with POS machines is unimaginable. Chinese are senior men when it come to that. They steal or clone credits of big companies in China or Hong Kong , one of them flies to Kenya with the cards forming tourist they approach Kenyan businesses that accepts cards for payment and "collaborate" with them under the disguise they are paying for goods and services running into thousands of dollars. The kenyan business person withdraws the money that has hit the business bank account gives the Chinese about 70% of the money the rest is for "his/her stress"

dfrost:
Those goods banned, are we producing enough?

Nigeria is a consumer nation, producing so little but it is a gamble smuggling goods in. Once "your people" are at the border, you are good to go.

davillian:
I de Lagos now smugglers still de bring frozen chicken from kotunu

Chicken cheap there, I bought 2 kg there in 2017 and walked through the border with it but government agencies' personnel there plenty o!

aolawale025:
Good. But customs should find a way of imposing fines. Not always outright seizures

I think it is safer to keep away from importing banned products because it becomes the prerogative of the government to deal with seized goods as it deems fit.

davillian:
I'm glad you people now have sense.
Instead of wasting them.
Next time add other ingredients + chicken

Go import chicken make dem seize am na, so dem go see chicken to share.

Nice one, rather than the seized goods which are of no health hazard get incinerated.

robinsoncrosoe:
At least he has a father

He is better than u cos ur mum doesn't really know who made her pregnant before giving birth to u

Your hoe of a mum

I understand where you are coming from, dealing with psychosis has not been easy on you this reflecting in your multiple personality disorders.

Glad your Patron saint, the Somali rooted legislator is under arrest. He will still have to swallow the humble pie and publicly apologize to her.

Bloooody:
Don't be fooled by her tears or this hog wash made story


I believe the man has a very good reason for what he did, women are known to be moronic creatures that behave without reasoning.
I see nothing wrong in what he did.
Free the man!
Shame the woman!

Growing up seeing your father hit your mum for being moronic, you degenerated to being mentally disordered alongside the sick minds that liked your post.

Exempted:
Fayose i no understand u these days ooo

Seems you want to swap party cos u've been hailing Buhari of late

It is not about wanting to switch party but stating fact.

Goodnewsbearer:
the type of women we have these days only God can help us, i tell you.

Those women are our sisters, who raised them?

Fishy with swindler as part of the username.

A man insisting women who are not related to him MUST live under his roof as a criteria to offer assistance is a huge flag, on the prey for vulnerable women to abuse.

Comedian Woli Arole strike a pose with his mother during matriculation in Osun State University (OAU) in 2008........

KingAzubuike:
Really? I think PhD should be the toughest then bsc. Masters is the easiest. In PhD, 90%/are usually student-lecturers so you attend classes too, lots of them, even mark scripts , invigilate exams and run errands for your supervisor (oga). . I'm talking from the Nigerian system tho.

Running errands!

charliejose:
That means those that did theirs in Nigeria should do naming ceremony, baby shower considering the number of years they spent

Doing one's PhD in Nigeria can be extra frustrating!

JjBankys:
@ Vivianuyom this is the reason why I asked you, are you ready to be submissive?

Submission to a mentally disordered man is equal to a death sentence.