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@chima
eew you mean hoes the tool or the other? I wouldn't call anybody I haven't met any name because I do not know them at all! Humour is not bad.But if anybody that makes jokes is a hoe then its one sad world.
I don't see seriousness in the jokes people make here. But as I said you never know where the ghost is.

Que no me

Me voy ahora a la Oficina.Ponerse más tarde

HES NEVER BUSY TO ANSWER ANYTHING.
BESIDES HE IS MY GOD!!!
I SAID END OF DERAIL.

Gracias.

Espero que el clima en Francia también es cool

Expound please!

cool nayah
como estas

^^ oops

Dont get me wrong wrong. I dint call you 'God Claremont'

You are claremont.

^^hey you got me wrong.That was not my message,
I was in Osnabrück was my message!
And nope I dont see nothing wrong with white/black.I encourage interacial relationships.
Aren't we all human and created by God? Yes God claremont.
By odd I meant 70 year old datinga 20 year old!

phew finally!! we are ever fighting!

For better for worse is a fallacy I have come to believe.
I mean even the most committed ones that I have looked up to,those that trully love God and believe in sacrifice have ended up separating or divorcing.
Marry but be prepared for heartbreaks. And if they happen then pick yourself up and move on.
The worst thing that can happen to anybody is death not divorce or disease.

^^
Exactly.She knows they have dated 4 years and that makes it even more difficult to tell the guy shes not ready.
Oh and he brought the marriage issue 2 yrs after.
She thinks using God here is a good cover but we all know its not.
Its up to the guy to dig that out of her and move on.

Reverse it now. What is so wrong with the guy saying'
I have invested so much into this relationship and since you are not ready to settle with me now, then you leave me with no option but to call it off and date somebody else who is ready. Then wait and hear her response.No more hide and seek its a face to face thing.
It may break the ice for her and make her open up cz this stringing somebody along for years is not healthy at all.

Helo Nayah

Only time can test a real woman.
If shes putting up for all the wrong reasons then only time will tell. She will soon wear out if she has sinister motives backing up her support.
If not then its for better or worse and we can call her real woman.
I at times wonder if Hillary would have stood by Bill if she did not harbour any future political ambitions. She also had an image to maintain and to boost her.
Only time will tell.

@Jettage!!

That is a lot of headache you are carrying in your head!! .
Stop looking at people's failures and concentrate on building your future or else your giving yourself ulcers for other pple's biz!

Lol!! You are seeing and interpreting too much! more than you can handle!   men and women eating at restos angry women,semi Unclad women?
You are becoming obsessed!! Be careful with your senses

Now peoples' failures/acts do not determine your destiny or make you lose hope in anything esp marriage.There are blissful ones.Check them out!
Listen what you are seeing now has been going on since time immemorial and will continue happening long after you are gone bro.
So relax,be hopeful,optimistic, close your ears and eyes when it comes to other pple's biz. You will not be able to handle.

To answer you question,Love can grow cold and eventually die. I am not sure if die/expire is the same thing here.
All you need to do is work hard to stop it from growing cold.Now that is a booklet in itself but we know the basics.

Plus its human nature to admire/desire what they do not posess. How to stop that? keep your fire burning.

Finally.Its not a must to marry esp if you cannot handle heartbreaks.

I was in Osnabrück 2 weeks ago.
Official duties though.
But I didnt meet any odd couples.

Its interesting how all of us having come lashing out at the girl yet all we have is a one sided story.

Nobody is asking why a 21-24 year old fresh graduate is not willing to jump into marriage this early.

I keep asking, why does the poster assume that it is her ultimate goal to marry now?

What happened to career,job etc. Why not let this young girl mature a bit? You want her to be a house wife fully dependant on you?

The line 'waiting on God' is a tactic but what lays in her heart matters most. We do not know and cannot guess!

I even doubt that shes waiting for some rich dude to come along becz the poster says hes got some good money.

What about your personality,character,I mean all the other things that make a man fit for marriage other than age and money?

Its possible to be a very good dating partner but posessing 'husband qualities' is a different thing all together. Her 99th sense could be warning her.

You say you love this gal then please try hard and find out what is holding her back. Suggest giving her time and see her reaction.

I will say again.A good thing or gift at the wrong time could turn out to be your greatest pain.

Marriage is about right time and right reason. If you love someone give them space.[/b]

Note:If you MUST marry now please let her be. And find somebody else that wants to settle quick.

seriously? are u ready
nway horny4 u gave you tips.

^^
but is her main goal in life to marry at that age?
whats about her career,job stuff, u know. Let her discover herself and secure her future first.
why not give her time to mature?she seems young and undecided.
DO NOT TRICK/PRESSURE HER INTO SAYING I DO.you will cry through your teeth 2 yrs down.
Marry somebody else or wait for her.

^^Thank you for gracing the thread
I wanted to read your reply to the poster
is love blind?

talk to me nayah

she reminds me of hillary and bill.
you know what i think? theres more than meets the eye. Hillary's continued support for bill gave her mileage in her political career. I am not really sure if this support will last long after the motive is achieved.
love or vows? we wait and see.
women always have something sinister up their sleeves.

dave,oh yes you can.I have 2 friends of mine that met online,dated and married.
Love knows no line or borders cz at times the one you love is far.
so yes its possible.
What I meant was 'which line are you on'
some have ghosts you know

^^^
Status is N/A (not applicable or not available)
I guess thats simple

^^^ lol Dave
Are you a marriage broker?
hehehe.

yeah your right seal
I understand what you mean.
However my view is diffrent.If I admire something on the opposite end, I want to go behind the curtains and try to unlock the secret behind its admirability because looks can be deceiving.Then I decide if its worth missing.
In short many single people have no idea what it takes to bring up that sweet adorable baby you miss.
You only need to leave that sweet baby with a single person for a day or week and see if they will sing the same 'missing baby' song. 'Some' will vow never to have a baby.
But its good to admire though.

helo dave how r u doing?

yeah Nayah am just about to retire.

But Seal.

Tell me,how will a single person confess to missing what they presume is a good thing in an institution they have not even entered into? Is it possible for me to miss what is in space when I have never entered or laid eyes on the galactic enterprise?
Anyway the state of marriages nowdays leave one with nothing much to miss or desire.
You should not be missing anything because a single unfulfilled person will make a disgruntled marriage partner.
Your rib is being prepared dont worry. The longer it takes the stronger it will be and last.

aha you are a muslim.

^^
I suspected something like that
But you fled That was an act of corwadice on your part!
Oooh you let yourself down taking off like that!!
I would drop you very fast if you ran away from my father!