My son will be getting married in few months...

Him and his wife to be,have agreed to have a low key wedding...

Hmm...

You see all you've written sir,ask her how she would feel if you are doing the same thing with your siblings/parents too. How would the need at home be met??

On the other hand,its her money ko? But hmmmm... she should cultivate the habit
to saaaaaave ooooh! Siblings matter no dey ever ever finish! See ehn,when you begin to have babies now,e no go continue to be like this oh.

I'm not saying she should not help her siblings and parents but Hun Hun Hun...!

I also think they know she's the type that cant say "NO" so they took the advantage of that.
She's your wife,you know better how to make her come to terms with what you want.

God help

Lamanii22:
Why are you spelling "guui" like "gucci' lol


Point of correction... Holy spirit would never leave a believer.... It's probably the guilt of having sex that made it seem as if holy spirit left you... Why not ask God for discipline... Discipline won't make you fall for a marine trap...

You say what?
Why did David prayed? .." Take not your Holy Spirit from me"

When we sin,The Holy Spirit steps aside!

Pray against satanic/demonic/spiritual seige.
God is with you!

Interested 08073248402

hopefully:


Please help!

Please stop the joint account ASAP!
See ehn,he knew why he asked that you both have the joint account ( shebi you said you earn more than him),he's feeling insecured!

You better withdraw your pension back! As long as him no dey beat you or abuse you otherwise,biko talk to him and NEVER,I repeat, NEVER do the yeye joint account again!

money121:

Yes ooo Engr. Ayyub

The day I saw this post(pics),I recognised him from SDK BLOG.
Congrats Bro. May the Lord continue to bless your household.

ImaIma1:
Do you guys know how much her husband earns? That money might be pocket change for him. Or you think he earns 70k or 125k.

Do you know if he doesn't want her to work? It is not every guy that sees women as parasites. Some men love to spend on their wives and not being stingy and feeling cheated like many of you here.

You guys are just hating. They might be a kind of family that entertain guests a lot. I know of one.

And the list could also be fake to get reactions from guys. And it is working.

Pls go to SDK BLOG and read dis story. She sent her story with this pic. The op here culled it from there,im sure.
She actually wanted advice bcus she said her hubby is complaining that she spends too much. She has a biz whc she said she doesnt spend from and they also want to start building their own house. The hubby earns 350k monthly!

I read this story on SDK Blog o!

Shes has been given lot of advice which i think they are reasonable enough.

The husband earns about 300,50k monthly and "they" spend about 208,900k monthly,she said she owns a biz(she neither spends nor save o) & they also want to start building their own house. Hmmm...

Oya 350k minus 208k=

Anugod:
Billings method is simply taking note of ovulation period and avoiding sex on fertile days. It means using ovulation to calculate safe days for sex. On unsafe days, CDs can be used.
Tho it's not 100% failproof, as with other forms of birth control. But for me, so far, so good

May God help us women jare

Oh i see! Thanks sis.
My period is so cycle is soooo messed uo now cause of the bleeding i had cause of thr jadelle and later iud. Oh God,these two messed me up big time! When my period resumes,i can then calculate.

Anugod:
Bodies differ, so it doesn't affect everyone the same way. My mum felt since she reacted to it, it was best for me to be on the safe side of avoidance. Thank God CD & billings method has been working for me. Make we dey manage that one dey go fess

Some giddypeople praying for it to fail wee be disappointed in 2019

Oh goodness me!

I hv this goitre too o but not soo obvious. Noticed it when i was on jadelle and i added weight like kilode! But i noticed dat since i removed it(im on pills now),its not as visible as it used to be and ive lost much weight(cus of bleeding).

Hey God help women oo

Btw,what do u mean by "billings method"? Oya sama me biko

munarule:

Thank you mami. My mum said I should give him diastop that there's no need taking him to hospital. And please ma, is your son also 2 months old? God bless you

Diastop is good but not for children under 2 years ma.

Please take your baby to the hospital ma.
Pele

Beyedew may the Holy Spirit who is the COMFORTER comfort you!

May His Joy be your strength!

Stay strong sis

Halcyon123:
And you just did again,just saw dis now now b4 switching to here and is staring at me again!

Kin samu ciki ne?! I dont understand d torment o,hian!

Ya kike da iyali?

Happy Birthday Liftedhands!

May God bless you abundantly and may He lace your life with his grace and mercy!

Have fun sis!

eksbabe:
I get you and as i stated in my first post they know about 3 kids that often have long nails and i have suggested that they remind everyone’s parents to try to cut nails at least once a week.
I feel they are not putting so much effort into watching this and sometimes the proprietress tries to make a joke of it saying “ they are all big boys now and should start proper school, that way this things would reduce”. My son will be 18 months soon and i dont intend moving him from creche till he is 2.
In all sincerity once i feel my son’s nails on my skin, i immediately cut it off cuz i know how it will feel on a skin more tender than mine.
These things should not be all the time and i have had to complain several times but it just keeps happening. I am not one to try to act the perfect mum because i know it’s not easy being a mum but these little things can be avoided in my opinion.

I get u very well mama!
Some people are just unreasonably wicked.
Just try and give them stern warning! Else...

eksbabe:
Thank you. The scratches are sometimes small and you can see its from the nails of a child, it can appear on 2 different spots of the face, so i know it’s another child scratching mine.
This is the last time i will address it sha.

When my son started pre-nursery,this same thing happened to him. He comes back home with alooot of scratches from finger nails. When i complained to his teacher she told me thays how they play/defend themselves from attacks...She became more mindful of how they play(according to her) but i later discovered that my son does the same to other kids(even though i trim his finger nails every week!)

As time goes on,it stopped entirely...

Have u asked if your son did d same thing to others ma?? Im not sayng what happened was good(honestly it is not) but please ask them first b4 u take any action. Perhaps other parents are concerned/complaining too...

Pele.

Giddyperson:
Biko mamas with baby boys we have circumcision tomorrow, and I'm freaking out already. Please I need tips on how to take care of the site so it heals as soon as possible.

Congrats on d arrival of the surest giddyboy! I rejoice with you ma.

Its normal to feel that way ma. You will be told on how to cater for the site.
For my 2ds,it was d ring type. I was faaaar away from d room where it was done but my mom stood close by(their crying was agonising to me). My breast was on stand by when he was brought out... We were told to use warm water(diluted wit either disinfectant or little salt) to rinse it for few minutes(mornings & evenings and apply penicillin at every diaper change). And to give pcm.

The ring fell of on its own after about 4 or 5days(cnt remember...)

Fear not ma,you will both be fine

myrygurl:


D dust is bahhd. Person cannot wear black jallabiya in peace again.

Aww barnawa narayi cool area. Am in kurmin mashi bypass. Do you know harmony hospital?

K/mash be dat. Yes,i do and dsts d hosp i use.
I remember i did mention it to you smtimes ago...

myrygurl:


Here its morning and late in the night. Afternoon is mostly sunny.

I was in pz 2wks ago. Maybe one of this days we'll get to meet.

I love dis weather die! But d dust ehn...?!!

Which part of kad are u?? Im in bayan dutse(narayi axis)

FloraEC:

The kind of advice you people drop on this thread nawa
My daughter started school 22m, I'm a SAHM
She learnt many things, she can socialize, count and write 1-10, recognize some colors, say Aunty etc
All these I tried teaching her on my own but she refused to listen maybe because I'm mummy.
Is not about being buoyant or not, is choice of the parents.
Small small with the advice please

Thanks mama. Im also a SAHM. My son started pre nursery at 2years. Everything you wrote up there is the same with my son.

Pls mamas lets be mindful of how u give advice pls.

oxypress:

Chei! So sorry o mama. Hope he did not crash on his head. Crashing on the head can cause brain injury without external wound. Few babies who crashed with their head end up with seizure disorders long after the accident. It is easy to forget the cause after several years of the incident. And this is very difficult to treat by conventional methods.
If one does not want to take a chance of 'waite and see' then it is better to throw a few coins in the dustbin than spending endlessly for a frustrating condition that does not go away.
Preemptive hyperbaric oxygen therapy (hbot) is the only solution.
Preemptive hbot will also work for babies who have also suffered from perinatal birth asfixia, prematurity, low birth weight, jaundiced babies, hypoxic anoxic encephalopathy, cerebral palsy and brain damage.

Ehn

GreaterGraceGG:
I greet everyone
My baby is having mouth thrush and doctor gave us Nystatin, I've been using it for her but I can't see the effect.
Who else has experience this?
I need advice please
My baby can't eat

How old is your baby?
My son had it when he was almoat 2years. I used bonjela but it did nada! Tcp(diluted) dabbed with cotton wool helped aaaalot! Did it 3times in a day for 3days and also gave him vit c.
I hope this will do?
Pele.

viettastitches:
do you have any negative reaction with the iud?

Heavier and longer period.
But i feel comfy with it all d same.

viettastitches:
mamas I got my implant on Wednesday,and I have been wondering if it is possible to lose weight with the implant.pls answer me.

nothing puts me into depression like weight gain.

For me,it made me add weight(im not a foodie) & bleed. Had to remove it and went for the iud.

Yours may not be so as body differs.

Halcyon123:
chai,udonmeanit !just subtract one zero and u get that 4 50 box over here!

I concur!
Infact,d N600 tomatoes i bought lastweek plenty eehn(filled dat black & yellow nylon)! So big in size,red and thick!

Devosequence:
Compliments to us all please mummies how good is this product

Same to u mama.
It's very good! I used it for my ds wen we started cereal.

brunnette4real:
can a baby start taking teething powder from 3momths?

No! No!! No!!!

Theres nothing like "teething medication" o!
Pls allow your little one be. Teething powder no be even am o,mama

whyworryPH:
Hello everyone!

I'm a new mom with a 2 weeks old prince. I would like to join this thread and learn from you awesome people and also share ideas with you all. I hope I'm welcome

You are welcome sis and to your prince.

This is a family with mothers that have very large hearts filled with love and support!

Phew! Chai i haff missed o!

I be innocent girl o. Biko dont look at me like dat jare!

Ok 2013-NYSC
2014-got married o(took in d same month i got married but had miscarriage 2months later)
2015-took in January and gave birth in Sept
2016-my ashewo push me(took in Sept and gave birth in June 2017)
2018- see me here to God's Glory

dejisky:

She has tried injection method before, she said is hormonal and painful ,every other methods she is judging them by ear saying.

I understand sir bcus body differs...

But how did she react to it sir(the injection)?

For some,the injection siuts thier body perfectly!
For some,the loop(copper iud whc also have the non hormonal),and also the arm implant.
All these have their side effects but the bottom line is that she is "safe".
She could try any of these for six(6) months and see how it goes... but MUST speak with a Gynea to know what suits her...

Hth sir

Aww.

She should go to the hospital/phc,see a Gynea and discuss at length which will be suitable for her.

Did she try any before now sir