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My dear there are questions you don't need to ask at the beginning of a relationship. Let's be Frank, how would you feel and react if the same question is thrown at you at the beginning of a relationship?
Salary is a secret thing which is easily revealed when a relationship is closed to marriage without asking.
It sounds stupid to ask a girl if she is a virgin. Of what use is virginity in a relationship? But age is something important to know even at the beginning of a relationship. Reason is that some men and society prefer men older than women in a productive relationship.
So that question is dump one. Don't ever try it.

Yet my useless governor can't even implement promotions given to us since 2016. So hoping for minimum wage is a waste of time. Congrats to Elrufai and Kaduna Civil Servants. Ben Ayade is a total disaster.

Nooneonline:
wehdon sir

.Bia nwoke,why this face? no just try me oo.

I will be a very stupid man to lie just to get a girl when there are a lot of girls every where begging to date.I know how many girls in my church who were hopping I ask them out when I was still single. But I disappointed them since my aim of going to Church is to worship God and not to do girls business.

Op you have parents that even want to make a better woman out of you and you are here complaining of meaningless freedom. You want to travel to meet guys, you want to leave on your own,are you that cheap? Just be careful of yourself. I don't want to hear this your complaints again.
You even have a shop, yet you are complaining of not going out, is something wrong with you?

henryobinna:
alright, you've been heard.
can you just move on please?

.Bross was I waiting before? abeg park well.

akpoguma1989:
That is what I want to avoid. I don't want to go into marriage in this confused state

.Just be wise.

Bross no vex.I can not fit do.I can not come and be dying before my time.

faithfull18:
You again

Why do you always encourage immoralities?

I am sure you have extramarital affairs and I feel for your wife already.

.Me again my dear.I know the truth will always hurt. But at least I needed to help a confused friend. Did you just say I am a cheat? it's okay, it's not my fault. As for my wife, don't worry about her. She has all the love, care respect and attention deserving of a wife. We are happily married. So?. Sweet heart just chill and take my good advice when you need them.Have a wonderful day ahead.

My brother no need to be confused. The good thing is that you already told her you have a girl you will like to marry. Do not abandon the one that was with you when the road was rough, cause you may leave to regret in future. As for your new girl friend, don't worry, cause she will always be there for you even after you are married.If she accepted you while dating another girl. Trust me she will continue to play the role of a side chick even after you are married. You can see it's a win win situation for you. But if you marry the second one, you will automatically loss the first one. Another thing is that never trust any girl's love when you are doing well.The best love from a girl is when you are nothing. The second girl maybe doing all what she is doing to overtake your future wife. Please be wise.

To the best of my knowledge, what ever you wrote there is vise versa.Because I know of girls who will love and show it openly,same as men. So no need for all this long episode against the females. Although some of your points would have been valid if only you try to do away with your gender bias.
Guys don't let any one spoil your good romance skills when you find that miss right.
My candid advice is that we learn to love wisely instead of loving foolishly. The best to do is to love and watch when the other partner is trying to be funny. This will enable you adjust to suit him/her.
Love is Sweet when it is balanced and not the other way round. We can not afford to continue to subject our girls to undeserved torture due to one Man's miseducation, misconception and hate for the female folks.Let's say no to any form of miseducation.Do not allow yourself to be fooled by any body who intentionally wants to fool you. Otherwise, why is the topic tagged "Miseducation"
A word they say is enough for the wise. I am out.

I don't know why something keeps telling me that the Op is a porn addict.

life103:
is that all you have to say

.No,abeg just help me and saying the remaining one. Untop the yeye Bleep wey you no sabi do,you just get mind open thread and you want me to come and be giving you advice untop that kind of foolishness abi? Your village pipul are waiting for you this Xmas that is not even coming soon. Abeg let me come and be going mbok.

Hian! Just wish I didn't reading this kind of thrashing. Choi! Grammar and foolishness all in one. Where is that local man's meme on a ladder to heaven self?

Pretty you. You are just my kind of lady.Catching up with you will just be a perfect idea.

Ufedolove:
Omo, this one get as e be o

. Take that advice serious. That is the key to your problem.

Kaycee54321:
You're grown and don't have balls to answer a simple question. You seem to have no experience with women. When a woman takes a cheating partner like you lightly, she has determined to be collecting her own dick codedly 9 times out of 10.
Na Wetin make married women dey collect anyhow these days

Also, if you stay in Lagos, better shine ur eyes cos e get one pretty married Lady wey my Homie bang on Saturday. She was supposed to go to market but branched first...

.Stop forcing to reply your mentions. Please please and please, tell your friend to continue bleeping the lady forever. As for my wife, one of the major reasons why I married her is because I have total confidence in her. I can go any where without any fear of where my wife maybe and what she maybe doing at any point in time. Please don't mention me again.thank you.

Kaycee54321:
Ah, so you're married? Quick question. If you go through your wife's phone and find her sex video giving a young blood doggy....Will you take this your advice?


Or are you the doctor that hates the taste of his own medicine?

.This is the last time I will waste my time on you. I am sure I have given you the needed and best reply in your first mention. So wait till you grow up. You will understand it better bye and bye.

faithfull18:
Wow, well I know guys who don't cheat, same way I know ladies who don't.

Stop making abnormal things a norm.

Every body has control over their mind, thoughts, emotions, body. They just choose to do whatever they want with it whether good or bad.

.Then go back to your first mention of me, read again,underline and understand the phrase "almost every man" maybe you will understand that there was no need for the mention at all.But again, don't be too sure of those men you think they don't cheat. Cause you will be very disappointed when you find out their dirty secrets,even though I am not saying they cheat.Thanks.

Kaycee54321:
Hope you will say the same thing to yourself if your fiancee does same to you?

.My dear from the information on your sex,it shows that you are a guy.If that is true, it simply brings me to the conclusion that it is either you are being hypocritical or you are still a child. If you are still a child, just wait when you grow up you will understand better. So no need answering any silly question.Take care.

faithfull18:
What kind of talk is this, I hope you say the same for your fiancée.

Cheating is not the exclusive preserve of any gender, take note.

.My dear I am not in any way trying to justify any cheating man.But only trying to bring to bear the reality on the subject matter. I expected this kind of reaction from a lady like you,but I will shock you a little that I have also offered that same advice to my blood sister and she took it seriously and till today her once threatened marriage due to her husband's infidelity is in perfect shape.Again, I am happily married and have had issues like this in my marriage where my wife checked up my WhatsApp and found silly conversion I had with a girl. She was dam infuriated, trust me I tried denying the allegation that I had any thing with the said girl. But when it became so tensed, I had to advise her to avoid my phone to avoid scenarios like this while also making it clear that I am not the worse man on earth as regard cheating. I have also given her the same advice I gave the Op while we were still dating.I am not proud of that advice, but unfortunately, that is the simple truth.That you have not caught your guy cheating does not mean he is not doing it.It could mean that he is still very smart in the act.Sorry about that.

EmptyCoconutHead:
words of wisdom. Abasi odiong fi

.Sosong eyeneka

Any lady quitting a relationship because of a cheating boy friend is the highest joke of the Century. Almost every man cheat.The major fact that this guy has been every where begging means he is deeply in love with you. I know it's painful, but moving to another man is not a guarantee that you get a better relationship. If he loves,respect, values and gives you attention, then, that's your man not minding whether the cheats or not.Go back to your proposed husband mbok.

Joystark:
Middle finger to you for intentionally saying my name wrong.

.I am not sure you wanted me to angry at your middle finger stuff.So how are you doing?

Joystark:
Hot
Hot

.Joystick ohh! sorry Joystark you are hotter even in your full clothedness. Call a spade a spade. Thrash na thrash.

My.only Joy here in spite of all this your grammatical errors, is that you forgived (forgave ).So whether you trust her again or not, is none of my business.

What did I just hear? poor reward what? I said it,APC is selfish.

Hamachi:
You do not get. Women hate to share.

.I got your gist perfectly. The reason for my reply.Read again with better attention you will comprehend.

Hamachi:
No one will stay with another in the same roof in this modern age

.My beauty, it must not be staying in the same roof.But again, if it is socially accepted, we will all learn to stay in the same roof like it is done in the days of old. You are just pretty.

With all this your beauty, you don't need to enslave yourself to any silly guy.They are good guys out there who will be begging to have you, so chill and let the idiot go.