₦airaland Forum

bodybuilder:
Why do Nigerian guys always think they were rejected 'cause they're broke.
Why do you have this mentality that your brokeness is your only flaw.
Might be another reason. That's girl you think rejected you cause you're might even be dating someone broker than you.
Sometimes you're not as broke as you think, it's just low self-esteem from comparing yourself with others.

It could be your bad looks, social awkwardness, bad hygiene, shyness and many other things.

Some guys underate the power of being good looking sha. So many girls can be gotten by just being tall and handsome, being rich is just a bonus.

.Op are you a learner? why are you talking as if you are 12 years old? 85% of Nigerian girls are coming for your money and nothing else.

This one na mumu post.So I moooooove

By Mistake

Omoh see hanty,Hanty wey mumu

The level of destruction only shows the level of incompetence, wickedness, uselessness and foolishness on the part of the State governor. The governor with the medal of "the worse African governor ever produced"

I am only just tempted to agree with himher. Because even the Bible told me that MONEY answereth all things. No wonder God'swill Akpabio once said, "what MONEY cannot do,more MONEY can do" .But that thank GOD the Bible also told me that Vanity upon vanity, all is vanity. If I am lying, ask my friend King Solomon. But las las,money is indisputably good.

ademidedavid:
You made me smile after she said those words..........

thanks for this.........but i know it cant work until we both have a one to one talk.

.I have read through few of your replies, and all I can say is that you are a good husband. Do not mind the silly advice from some children on this platform. Or better still, learn never to take your marital issues to any third party. Odikwa very risky. Your wife maybe overreacting, but those words she spilled mean nothing. Again, learn never to bring your marital issues to nairaland,Facebook or even to your friend or any other person, it's very risky. Forgive her and move on,she truly love's you.And that's the reason for the jealousy,just that she's being over protective.Wish you the best in your marriage.

Wetin I wan talk again? Everybody don sabi dis Short Devil finish. My Cross River enter real one chance, all thanks to Liyel.

presidency:
We have observed that President Buhari’s concluding remarks at the meeting with South East Leaders during his one day visit to Imo State is being deliberately contorted and twisted out of context.

The purveyors of disinformation want Nigerians to believe that the President bluntly told Governor Uzodinma, ‘‘I’ll be careful with your future invitations.’’

They have adduced different meanings to the phrase, contrary to the context wherein the President spoke during his successful dialogue with leaders of thought from Igbo land.

When he arrived at the banquet hall of Imo State Government House for his last assignment in Owerri, the President was welcomed by over 50 leaders from the South East who had waited patiently for him for a Town Hall engagement, after commissioning strategic projects in the State.

The President began his extempore speech by acknowledging the caliber of personalities present at the dialogue including the President-General of Ohaneze Ndigbo, Prof George Obiozor, former Chief of General Staff, Commodore Ebitu Ukiwe (Rtd), former Senate President Ken Nnamani, former Military Governor in old Imo State, Senator Ike Nwachukwu, the Obi of Onitsha, Igwe Alfred Achebe, Chairman of the South East Governors Forum and Governor of Ebonyi State, Dave Umahi, Deputy Governors of Abia, Anambra and the SSG of Enugu State, who represented the Governor, the Anglican Archbishop of Owerri Province, Most Rev David Onouha and his brother Bishop of Enugu, Archbishop Emmanuel Chukwuma, Chief Emmanuel Iwuanyanwu, Ahaejiagamba Ndigbo, just to mention but a few.

An elated President Buhari made it clear that he was expressly overwhelmed by the reception and galaxy of personalities that travelled from the five South Eastern States to have a heart-to-heart discussion with him in Owerri, the Imo State capital.

His words were clear:

‘‘I am overwhelmed by this reception, overwhelmed in the sense that when I accepted the invitation by the Imo State Governor, who wants to justify investments the government has done to the people of Imo State, I thought I would see the bridges, the roads and a few renovations.

‘‘He didn’t tell me he was going to get the whole Igbo leadership here. So in the future when he invites me, I’ll know what to do. But I think he has done what the military didn’t like. He has achieved surprise. He has surprised me beyond description.’’

Later, in his concluding statement at the same event, the President made reference to his earlier remarks on the ‘‘surprise’’ action pulled by the Governor. On a lighter note, he quipped:

‘‘Governor of Imo State, I cannot thank you enough, but I will be careful with your future invitations.’’

The President’s historic visit to Imo State was very successful and the Igbo leaders who met him shared the same enthusiasm that his coming to the Eastern heartland would bring peace, foster unity, encourage good and better understanding among the citizenry.

Archbishop David Onuoha, who is the Anglican Archbishop of Owerri Ecclesiastical Province, must have summed up the mood in the words of the prayer offered at the event:

‘‘Thank You dear Lord for our nation Nigeria and her people with diverse backgrounds, nationalities and cultures. Surely You did not make any mistakes in bringing us together.

‘‘Your purpose is for us to harness our potentials/strength to build a strong and virile nation. May this purpose never be defeated.

‘‘Glory be unto You for bringing Your servant and our dear President, His Excellency Muhammadu Buhari, safely to this State. Blessed be Your name for his life and the giant strides he is taking for the wellbeing of our nation.

‘‘Thank you for the huge infrastructural development that is taking place in various parts of the country.

‘‘Lord, Nigeria is a great nation with numerous challenges. We pray that you endue our President with heavenly wisdom, grace and strength. In his resolve to serve this nation, he will not fail, fall or falter. He will end his tenure strong and well to the glory and honour of your name and the good of our people.

‘‘May his visit today bring peace, foster unity, encourage good and better understanding among the citizens of this great nation; may it bring prosperity and restoration.’’

Femi Adesina
Special Adviser to the President
(Media & Publicity)
September 12, 2021

Watch:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oJ7ZpgcJLw

.Op it's quite disappointing that you don't understand simple English. That BUT in the President's statement carries negativity against Uzodima.

I pity those who will believe this news. Can anything good come out of ayade's led administration? Never.

Jesterinjay:

.The solution to your problem is very simple. Stop seeing every man as trash.The company of a good man can help you out of your situation.

Lewisdinho:
My brother, the man don turn our state to something else.

.God will pay him back for us.Ayade matter tire me.

Op,how can you call Ayade a good man? which industrialization drive are you talking about? you also erroneously mentioned employing many youths, but in which state? My dear always get your facts right when writing on a public space of this magnitude. I will only agree with you that Ayade is not reliable and never to be trusted to deliver politically. He is the worst Governor CRS have ever produced. He is as useless as P in Psychology. His political woes are just waiting for him come 2023.Even his family juju will not save him.

daddytime:
This one na one of those "continue reading here" tories.

.So I thought at first, but it looks convincing enough in the end. How we go do now? make we just manage the story.

Kriss216:
To help a Nigerian girl secure a loan is the 3rd most foolish things on earth!

.Please what's the first and second most foolish thing on earth? Nairalanders will always give you a million reasons to laugh your stress out.Odiegwu.

SexyBabe001:
Lol... So you now know more than the owner and commission which employed them? Did you read their Letter when they were employed? Did you read their TOS?

Its easy for any disgruntled sacked member to come up with any story to blackmail his or her employer but the truth will always surface one day..

.My dear there's no need defending what can't be defended. The sacked Pastor and Bishop Oyedepo said the same thing, meaning that the sacked Pastor never lied. You are sounding this way maybe because you didn't read the sack letter. Let's be sincere to ourselves, Bishop Oyedepo messed up big time with that sack letter. The truth about the matter is that low income turn out from those Pastors is the reason for their sack.What Bishop Oyedepo is trying to do right now is damage control. With the number of churches springing up every nook and cranny, getting members become very difficult. And besides, more members only translates to more income. You were not expecting Bishop Oyedepo to come out and say low income turn out from those Pastors is the reason for their sack. Last last, Church this days na pure business.

Richdee1:
Very soon I'll be graduating from Social Work from one of the Federal University in South South Area of Nigeria, I know it's not a very popular Course in Nigeria because most people don't know what we do.

Now I want to know what next to do, What certifications to take related to my field of study, to be able to drive in smoothly

Suggestions on Where can I do internship, Volunteer and Graduate Trainee in Nigeria

Please if you have an idea or know someone who worked in an NGO, please drop all information. Thanks

.My dear brother in the same profession, do not be discouraged by the comments of people who do not really know anything about your course of study. To start with, in Nigeria today, your course of study doesn't really matter if you want a white collar job.This is because we exist in an era of man know man.The implication is that you must be connected, or better still, highly connected if you want a better job irrespective of what you study in the University. That is why today you can see an engineer working in a medical fem,and so on and so forth. But again, you would have been told in school that Social Work is multi faceted and multi discipline, meaning that as a social worker, you can work anywhere due to what you stand to offer every organization.For instance, you may chose to practice as a social worker. But beyond that, you are accepted in every organization both Uniform and none Uniform. You can work in the hospitals, schools, and other such organization. As a social worker, I am working in a Uniform formation with my certificate. So,don't be discouraged. You are studying a good course.All you need to do is to get connected if you want a good job. Wish you all the best.

Nairaland is always filled with negative energies that produces very baaaaaaaad vibes.Happy birthday Op and congratulations for finding yourself a wonderful woman. Hold her very very tight because girls like her are very rare.

lyndaway:
So Na assault rifle .. automatic AK 47 go solve am..

Mention me with sense next time

.Mentioning someone who lacks senses of simple comprehension is indeed a serious task.Sorry but if the bill pulls through, the problem will be solved.

lyndaway:
wetin concern fire service and Ak 47..... Apc is just clueless.
....not even gun ... but Ak 47 .. una never arm civil defense finish.. even FRSC... Na Fire service..

Doesn’t make sense

.It does make sense for a section of Fire Service to Carry arms. I have had this dream long before now due to the scenarios that always play out against the Fire fighters during fire incidences. You will see a fireman being attacked as if the fire was caused by Fire service. The public will blame the fire fighters for coming to the scene late without taking into consideration the traffic challenges the truck suffered before arriving the scene of fire.And will want to use this opportunity to cause havoc against the fire fighters. In my State for instance, many firemen have been hospitalized in recent pass as a result of this misjudgement by the public against the fire fighters. This misbehaviors against the fire fighters doing their job is what the government seeks to stop. Let's be sincere to ourselves. This is the right step in the right direction.

Very chilled Harp,the way I like it.Lucky me.

Splitmind:
Your father na bastards, idiot!

.My dear you need to quit this your level of stupidity.Ayade is very difficult to defend. Go through all the comments and you will be tired of insulting people who will in return give you better doses of insults. Ayade is the highest mistake, Ayade is a failure, Ayade is a tragedy, Ayade is not qualified to be human. Just grow up.

mugnmuffin:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.

Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.

At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...

.The level and rate at which religious extremist have made some people mad is mind blogging. You will realise at a very late time that all you just typed here is total rubbish when you let go of your would be husband and in the future finding none. Stop this foolishness and get married.

I just checked my two cylinders. The numbers there reads: FA3055 FA3348. So how do I know their expiry dates?

5hanklee:
None of them can marry his wife ever again! I dey tell you bro. Just yesterday, I legit saw old man wey don pass 70 dey lament about how useless and frustrating him wife dey. I no care about the consequences, I no go ever marry.

.Please speak for yourself. Cause for me and myself I will marry my wife more than a million times.

fozapi:
lol

.Seriously

I will like to learn your pig farming business

The problem we have on this forum is that a lot of people don't read but just jump to the comment section. If you ask me, Gov. Akaeti still maintained his stance on Unicameral legislature which means either of the houses should be scrapped and the remaining house to be on part time basis. So those comments condemning him are needless. Akaeti has my respect.

What a useless set of politicians we have this days in CRS.
House of Assembly that doesn't know it's worth,is that one house of Assembly? imagine the mess ayade made out of governance, yet all this fools followed him to APC. I am ashamed at this point to call myself a Cross Riverian. Simply put,the speaker is the most useless thing one can ever imagine. Imagine the thrash coming out of his empty hole called mouth with brainless head.In shot, The speaker is mad.

Op this is a very difficult decision to make though, I believe paying evil with good is the best decision to take and watch how her conscience fight for you.
All I am saying is,it will be a good idea to recommend her for the job as this will give her the understanding that she actually messed up with a guy that truly loved her.
Trust me,I have done same for a lot of my exes.So do it for her since she is the only person you know that is best for the job.

Ayade is a failure, so leaving PDP is a good thing.

Your mum's advice is perfect. If your wife to be is against it and she has no financial support for the wedding, I am afraid you are still single and searching or be ready to come back here after marriage with stories that will touch the heart.Besides, why spend 2m for marriage in this Buhari economy? Bros wise up.