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Peejayx01:
Thank you for the advice so far. I really do appreciate it. With all these being said, I think I'll go for the teaching job.

.You can take the two jobs.Since the marketing job is based on commission, it means much of your time will not be required in their office. So you use your spare time after your teaching job and weekends. Trust me, you may end up thanking God for making this decision. All you need to do is to see the marketing job as your side hustle, with hard work, you will get the benefits attached to the marketing job while enjoying your salary as a teacher.

Akv666:
Good day guys,

So I've been dating a single Mom for almost 4years now and we're ready to tie the knot, but recently she came up with a suggestion of me adopting her son legally. Her baby daddy has actually been irresponsible right from start, nigga last saw his son when he was 4months old and he hasn't even bought ordinary diaper for the boy right from when he was delivered.

Now I'm being skeptical about taking him up legally, please i need advice from you guys, no insult please.

.Nairaland is the last place you should seek advice on issues like this. You will certainly be misled if you depend on popular opinion from Nairaland. There's nothing wrong in adopting the child. The mother remains the final decision on who fathers a child. So the baby's father is as powerless as death if the position of the mother and the law grants you paternity over the child. And for the records, there's nothing wrong marrying a single mother. Happy Married Life in advance.

NwaAmaikpe:




My head is paining me.
Can someone help a dunce like me out because "ayam not understanding" this story.

i). Who is for and who is against the overall good of our country?

ii). Who is the bad guy and who is the good guy here?

iii). Is the good guy winning or is the bad guy winning?

iv). Are we eliminating corruption or are we eliminating people trying to eliminate corruption?

The worst thing that can happen to a person is to read something as serious as this and not comprehend because his heading is paining him.
No, that is not the worst. The worst thing that can happen to a person is to live in Nigeria with it's present crop of clueless leaders at a time of sheer hopelessness like this.

If they can sack Hadiza Usman why can't they sack Isa Pantami, this is not fair because the future is female.

.Hhhmmm! it's good to see that our famous Nwamaikpe is back. But this your comment doesn't sound like the Nwamaikpe that I used to know. Welcome back bro.

Cinema4d:
Ahn ahn! The gravity of your grammatical construction is conspicuously and prominently gigantic! Abeg no kill us. Taink u

.Hope you are not related to Patrick Obaigbon and Ben Ayade the foolish Governor?

In logical parlance, we will call the Op's discovery a fallacy of misguided educational and common sense addendum. I rest my case.

I will never take any story from EFULEFU serious, because it's always a foolery and not a reality.

Op must be high on cheap agbo. I just saw my late mum today in my dream. I woke up happy. I always want to see her.Op,when you lost a love one,you will understand the importance of seeing that person in your dreams. Christianity has a way of making some people very foolish.
I rest my case.

Frales6:
ok. go ahead.

.07039200987.Expecting your call soonest.

Frales6:
Thank you.

.Can I drop my digits?

Frales6:
Thank you.

.Can I drop my digits?

Frales6:
that's my nature. I can't date or marry who I don't like so that I would treat the person right. because plenty people marry for wrong reasons and that's why they dont cope

.You are pretty. A case of beauty with brains.I will be very pleased to meet you.

Frales6:
if you truly love someone you don't need relationship coaches to tell you how to treat your partner, everything happens naturally. everyday you look for a better way to show him/her how much you love and value each other. not using brain and always calculate who gains and who loses after all

.You made more sense than others. Are you married?

Mbaka is no longer qualified to be addressed a Rev.Father for putting Nigeria where she presently finds herself. Mbaka needs serious prayers for God's forgiveness for using His name in vain and political self reasons. Mbaka should come publicly and apologize to Nigerians for leading many of them astray.This man needs to be seriously flogged and disgraced publicly. Mbaka why??

Ayade too na governor? Let the foolish idiot defect and crumble himself politically. It will be very difficult for Ayade to win election as a head boy in CRS. A short devil with grammatical jargons be forming tough.

This is quite commendable. My ernest desire is to see myself in this helping position, but why God is delaying to pick my calls is something I need explanations as soon as possible.

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey my feelings to her

.You can achieve that.
Rule no1. You must always dress your best. Rule no 2.Learn to always compliment her dressing style.
Rule no 3. Learn also to always compliment her beauty. My brother women like compliments like craze.
Rule no 4. Never tell her you love her.
Rule no 5. Always tell her that she is hard Woking.
Rule no 6.Make sure you stair at her in such a way she will notice that you are always starring.
Rule no 7. Don't always find yourself around her.
Rule no 8.Be reasonable in your discussions whenever you are with her.
Rule no 9. Once in a while just get her a gift, not too expensive gifts anyway. Remember the Bible even says that the gift of a man maketh way for him.
Rule no 10.Make sure you are perfect on your job.
Rule no 11.Commit your desire and efforts to the hands of God.
Trust me, if you follow this rules well, you may be her next lover boy.

XshegzzyeeiX:
Alright sir. Thanks.

.You must be a very foolish man to arrive at the decision of letting go the job simply because of the condition the man gave you even when many are paying more than 200k for lesser paying jobs without results. I do not support the man for giving you such conditions but trust me,you must be really stupid if you don't accept the offer. You said you have really suffered yet you rejecting this offer? do you even know what those who work in good hotels go home with on daily basis? If you ever qoute me without telling me that you have accepted the offer, then you will remain poor forever. Common pick up your phone immediately and tell the guy you have accepted the offer. Note: my insults are for your own good. Please go and accept the offer immediately before it's too late. It's just 4months.

RIP to warrant Officer Bassey Etim.Just January 15th you buried your father,a retired air force Officer and today you are gone too. It's really painful. My condolences to the families of all the fallen heroes.

This is the Best News of the Century. On behalf of the good people of CRS,we say a very BIG THANK YOU to the Supreme Court of Justice. We pray that God will continually give you all the desired and needed WISDOM to always deliver SOUND judgements like this.May the Almighty God continue to reward you all in JESUS mighty NAME. AMEN. Ayade is a mad man. A very BIG CONGRATS to Jarigbe Agom Jarigbe the Senator elect.

Rochas Okoro deserves the worst. Hope should just break this thief into pieces already. O my Dear God,please in 2023 bring us a Governor in CRS that will be bold than Hope Uzodima so that the present governor can vomit every bit of what he is swallowing illegally from the State.In Jesus mighty name I have prayed. AMEN.

Where we offended God to the point he allowed Ayade as the governor of CRS is the question that I am yet to find an answer.

Whether Ayade leaves or stays, he is politically finished.After his tenure, nothing more will be heard of the clown apart from the treatment Okorocha is receiving from Uzodima.
God can not forgive Ayade for the level of destruction he has done in Cross River State.

BUSHYANUS:
Why na

.Because your anus is too bushy to the point you no longer think with your brain but with your BUSHYANUS.

In as much as I am not a fan of Hopeless Uzodimgba,I must commend his courage in dealing ruthlessly with this harden Criminal Okoroawusa. I pray that come 2023, Ayade receives this same treatment from who ever will take over from him.

I f.ck my wife because it's an obligation I must fulfill but trust me when I want to enjoy s.x,I call any of my side chicks especially my GLO.

May God continue to give Governor Godwin Obaseki, Edo PDP and the good people of Edo State the victory they deserve. How can someone bear the name 'Godwin' and still lose in a case like this? Last last na God WIN.

Hhmm I don't want to say anything. I may end up typing something like nam........ instead of ..........

I am sure pleasing people according to the Op's explanation does not include helping the needees, the less privileged and the aged as far as you do it with pure intention. But wait, why will I fake my life just to please people? error. Again, you will be doing yourself more harm than good when you begin to think that pleasing people should come with benefits, the intention at that point becomes selfish and you will surely regret it. As for me and my life, whenever I seek to please anybody, I do it just to get the pleasure associated with helping the person in need. And it is for this reason that I will always seek to help and please people whenever the opportunity presents itself as I expect neither reward nor praises from those I please or help. Thanks Op

Great news for NOI and her family. After all, I don't see how this development benefits a common Nigerian.

Mokason288:
And the fooooolish girl refused to mention the village... the whole of Anambra don’t kill Python ... She should have killed it and see harm befall her and her entire dull family ... it’s obvious that the Gods don’t want her in the family , dull girl



I HOPE I MADE SENSE

.No you can never make sense by insulting people families who have never offended you.

Heartlessbanker:
bros,I noticed ever since you failed in your entrepreneurial adventure,you seem to be so scared of anything that has to do with "business". I get it,I get that "95%" of all business fail in the first five years. But that shouldn't make you be so skeptical about business. This is just what I've observed from your comments so far regarding business on NL. I know you failed,accept it. Learn from your mistakes. Nigeria no good for business,but people still dey do business and still dey make am. I dont mean this as an insult cus I don't know how you might interpret this. If we all wait till when we can feed ourselves comfortably before we start business, when will that be?

.If truly you are a banker, then you are heartless.