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96ACE:
They always gat money for war but can’t feed their poor. What’s the prize for this war?

Taking tertitory

naptu2:
Enyimba Football Club of Aba lost 0-1 to Wydad Athletic Club of Casablanca at the Godswill Akpabio Stadium, Uyo in the brand new African Football League on Sunday, but the attention of Nigerian football fans was focused on the jersey of Innocent Gabriel Okey. It looked like his jersey number was handwritten with chalk.

Very many Nigerians slammed Enyimba on Nairaland, Twitter and Facebook and the club has now provided an explanation for the strange jersey.

According to Enyimba, there was a mix up when Innocent Gabriel was being registered and he was registered with the number 3, instead of 5. He had a perfectly normal printed number 5 jersey, but he couldn't wear it because he was registered as number 3, so they had to quickly create a number 3 jersey for him.

Adepoju Tobi Samuel is a football journalist that covers the Nigerian league.


Adepoju Tobi Samuel 🇳🇬 @OgaNlaMedia



https://twitter.com/OgaNlaMedia/status/1716371781437501791

Gross ineptitude. Is it that they don't have a copy of the reg list to rectify the error before the match day?
How can a player be wearing two different Jersey no in different competition in the same season

PythonTutorial2:
Wow! What an AUDACITY !😲 😳

Meanwhile, check below 👇

What do you expect, when the government disobeys the law of the land

Kelechi009:
How important is a backup plan.

What is a backup plan? [A human being who is just used for backup who acts like a Boyfriend or Girlfriend but is not aware that they are a backup plan]

A recent conversation.

Woman A: Always have a back up person, plan B and options. Because people will disappoint you when you least expect it.

Woman B: Most women always have a backup plan. it's not planned in most cases. it just happens to be a scenario their nature [think, war brides] supports.

Woman C: After my 2nd heartbreak, I got this a lot. That my problem was that I always put all my eggs in one basket. That I never had a back up plan.

So 50 percent agree to have a backup plan, 50 percent disagree.

That's cheating, you can lose both ways

Acekidc4:
I think Nigeria should follow suit🤔🤔 Nigeria is a Secular Country not an Islamic Country.

What do you mean by follow suit, only Muslim schools make hidjab mandatory in Nigeria

naptu2:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rashidi_Yekini


Picture 1) African Footballer of the Year award. Chief MKO Abiola, Rashidi Yekini and Issa Hayatou (CAF president).

Great guy....his records linger for both Country n Continent. Agba baller to n jẹ goal bi chin chin

kcprince:
How many people use 20k data? Average is between 2k to 5k monthly .

Don't mind the idiot. What is data subscription when you cannot pay your school fees, rent etc

Donkogbe:
Something happened in my church yesterday and its so strange to me.

Yesterday was the youth anniversary so the youth president has been soliciting for funds and yes people complied and myself also. it was time for thanksgiving and all youth danced to the altar then the pastor openly reject the money contributed by the youth to the amount of 50k in the sense that its too small and also making reference to 2years ago when the youth as at that time bought the church drum set to the amount of 250k. he rejected the money and prayed for us.

This is has been disturbing my mind since yesterday and i am just wondering how a pastor will openly reject amount contributed by people.

note this is not mandatory donations and a man of God reject 50k in this economy of Tinubu? i am just having a mix feelings and its disturbing. what your view on this

File Photo: Used for illustration

Ask your pastor how much was a bag of rice today compared to 2yrs ago . That drum set of 250k should be above 500k now. He lacks a heart of gratitude

Cruise777:




You can't afford to be idle or without a sponsor in Europe

Cyprus of all places...

Let them go and sell drugs or do Yahoo

Or

Pick up menial jobs, dishwasher, cleaner,


Winter is brutal, you can't afford to be homeless or without money to pay bills

They now understand Nigeria is actually one of the best countries in the world, where citizens help each other, and almost everything is subsidized through Crude Oil money


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Those boyz ain't just ready to be responsible in life

Education = zero
Skillset = unavailable

Danegun777:
We must continue to educate our people on perculiaruty of Nigerian Macro Economics

Same macro and all economic professors brought us into this mess.

No amount of economic formula will survive amidst corruption

Merx:
CONGRATS... Tonto might also be happy for you guys

One ladies reject is another woman's receipt

press9jatv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AKX9oalnVmU?si=idlYQXQAVfio7L8D

"If you can't buy it for yourself, don't ask him" - Toke Makinwa advises Nigeria ladies

Video Credit: Iyabo Ojo Tv

Tell them o...Àwọn "I no come this life to suffer" crew

Easternpilot:
Anambra New yam festival took place on the 21st of October 2023. Prominent Anambralians including the State Governor professor Chukwuma Soludo and traditional rulers from different towns in Anambra State were in attendance.

https://www.propsvilla.com/pictures-from-an…new-yam-festival/

ugly looking yam

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

seek medical advice, she's probably suffering from the effect of female genital mutilation

uche87:
Osahon George Osayimwen is a passionate writer and Psychologist based in England.

You are promoting yahoo and runs girls....nonsense write up

MiddleDimension:
Him giving David his wives is not in the same sense he gave them kings.

The man is the figure of God in a christian marriage. He can have more than one wife since God can have more than one individual as his bride. You, @Phemmyfour, are God's wife, if you are a born-again, and Oyedepo, Adeboye, etc, are also God's brides, if they are born-agains. Your describes himself as the husband of two wives. In Jeremiah 31: 31-32, it says He is the husband of Samaria and Judah. Hoe about that?
So, you can now see and agree that God did not give David his wives the same way he gave them kings.

I understand we are all ignorant with most of the things that exist so, I can forgive your ignorance on this issue and using an example that has nothing to do with the topic.

You can quote it to suit your purpose. Deep down in your heart, you know that you are deceiving yourself

MiddleDimension:
He did not 'overlook' polygamy, do not tell lies!

Your bible says all liars are of their father the devil! John 8:44.

If truly he just permitted, why then did he say he GAVE DAVID HIS MASTER'S WIVES... 2Samuel 12:8.

God also described himself as the husband of two wives in Jeremiah chapter 31 vs 31-32. Go have a look!

He also gave Isrelites Kings, that wasn't his original plan. These are referred to as PERMISSIBLE will


1st Sam 8
They said to him, "You are old, and your sons do not walk in your ways; now appoint a king to lead [1] us, such as all the other nations have."
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But when they said, "Give us a king to lead us," this displeased Samuel; so he prayed to the LORD.
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And the LORD told him: "Listen to all that the people are saying to you; it is not you they have rejected, but they have rejected me as their king

deavicky:
don't be too quick to insult me nah!!!!. Let's even assume I have low IQ, is that not why u people with high IQ are there to compliment people with low IQ. I still need u to tell me who the mother is. It won't do u anything. Also the Meaning of IQ without consulting anything. I'm not seeing u but judge urself.

After this explanation, if you still don't get it, then forget about it.

In our society, it is common for elders to use the phrase "my son/daughter " when addressing a boy/girl old enough to be their kid but only a biological mother can use the phrase "Me that gave birth to you"

deavicky:
that is why I am confused because the other woman crying also said I have been sworng for my daughter"then "Ojo mi" meaning 'my God" so go back to video watch again maybe u will understand.

Reasons being that it might be a skid no well edited.

Please, I m not responsible for your low IQ, unfortunately it is what it is

Sheistoopretty:
Go girlllllllllllll

Its better than ending up with a B®oke Wr3tched Nigerian man

Àwọn ọmọ shepeteri

deavicky:
I have watch the video the one holding the cucumber made a statement that made her looks like her mom and the one crying also made a statement and end it with "Ojo mi" before she started crying. So which is the mother?.

You didn't hear this part "Me that gave birth to you cannot swallow this thing"

KillIgbohoN0W:
Since when did it become illegal to have sex?

It's against the ethics of his profession

PythonTutorials:
But why did God not condemn David for marrying so many wives 🤔

He also allow them to divorce. God called it permissible WILL. He overlooked their weaknesses and that is why today's Christians shouldn't use David or any of the Prophets as a standard. God himself already gave us a standard to follow

Advancedman:
"But they are not wearing skirt?"

And when does it become a sin not to wear skirt?

Myer:
On the previous thread we considered why so many have stopped going to church and thanks for the contributions.

For those who shared their experiences and also to those who encouraged them in love and good counsel, you're blessed in Jesus name.

As recommended on the thread, for those who are still going to church, kindly share your experience;

-Why ryou still go to church despite life's challenges?
-For those who stopped for some time, why did you return to church?;

Thanks.

It's was a command not a forget the assembly of the brethren

Danegun777:



Was thier nonsense attempt at stealing Hilda's glory meant to end well

We are Omoluabi and not Gbajue people

.

When you fail to plan, you ll end up planning to fail. That's what happened when you join a bandwagon

Jeon:
Clout chaser, come back if you can't cope. Canada and foreign countries are not for people like you and 80 % of Nigerians,cuz there is no chance there to show the low behaviors and mentality.

Which one is low life behaviour

Comprehension = 0

officialwdhtv:
I feel so lonely. I feel so sad- Nigerian lady residing in Canada weeps as she recounts her life after relocating

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWSftpQCZO4

lonely at the top...gbe gbe gbe gbe gbe gbe

deavicky:
Just curious, who is the mother?. Is it the one holding the cucumber or the one crying?.

Watch the video

Pierocash:


"See what you are swallowing , only you. Me that gave birth to you cannot swallow this"

Funny Mother

amprat:
Dear Single Parent,[i][/i]

I am writing this to encourage you not to give up on the child(ren) that for one reason or the other have become your sole responsibility.

Few years ago, I was totally at a loss too and my only drive was to ensure that whatever was wrong would not affect these young ones because they never asked to be born or be in such situation.

I actually did not realise how far I had come until I started analysing and it occured to me that I might not be there yet but I am also not where I used to be. I was amazed.

I have tried to highlight below some of the nuggets that helped me navigate the early years of single parenting,( it gets better as they grow older)I hope it helps and encourages someone.


It's ok not to understand everything fully, one step at a time with a focus on the future is all you need.

*Selective deafness & Blindness: When you are a single parent you need to decide who to listen to and what you want to see. Some people will say things that will make you question your integrity, intelligence, moral standing and so much more, some would make you feel guilty for what was not even your fault, No one understands your story like you do, let them talk but never let them deter you from reaching your destination.
And if you made a mistake , forgive yourself, ask for forgiveness and move on, it's up to you not anyone(After All, they are not Assistant Jesus or God's P.A)

Who are you talking to & who is talking to you, whoever you are listening to that is giving you the vibe of Never, it is finished or you're such a dissappointment, please leave them. Don't be talking to people who do not have your interest at heart or believe any good thing can still come out of your Jerusalem.

Remember, single parenting is not the end of life and does not mean you should forget your dreams.
You may need to sacrifice for the children to get stability before you face your aspirations but never forget it. For example, I went back to school for my B. SC, got certification from my professional body and now I am saving towards having a M.sc. (The money is still not complete because one of them usually have one expense or the other and I have to spend it again)

PLAN,PLAN & PLAN: Have a financial budget, time budget, work schedule, house chore schedule for the children, food schedule, schedule for almost everything and achievements.

Never forget to be futuristic in your decisions, long term is always better and I cannot overemphasize ensuring that your children are well trained, don't overburden them but don't also over pamper them. single parenting becomes easier when the children are taught to be responsible, independent and can make intelligent decisions by themselves with little or no guidiance.

NO OVERSABI: My brother or sister, this is not the time to do OVERSABI or try to keep up with the Joneses, if you have to enrol them in a public school and support with a private tutor please do, don't have heart attack every new term which is every 3 months, don't join groups or clubs that will demand time or finance you can't give, aso ebi might not be feasible for some time, you might need to supplement meat with egg or garri for cornflakes, these are short term sacrifices to fulfill your long term goals.

DON'T DECEIVE YOURSELF: You see that mantra of what a man can do a woman can do better,na lie, we are created to balance each other out.
You can't be a father and mother at the same time, there is a part of a child's life either is supposed to fill, in the absence of a willing spouse, get support of family or friends, get them to interact with children with "complete" families for their mental, psychological and mental well being, at a point I sent my daughter to go spend a full school session with my sister who has kids her age and whose husband dotes on his kids, she was the youngest and I noticed she was beginning to have daddy issues. My brothers ( their uncles) fill in so they can have role models around, we sometimes go for family outings together, sometimes they drop them in school or stand in during PTAs, basically just try to fill in the gap with the right people, they can't take the place of the father but they can cushion the effect till they are mature enough to deal with it better.

MANAGE YOUR EMOTIONS &SEXUAL DEMANDS:
While I understand that we all have emotional especially companionship needs and sexual demands, I beg you manage them away from the kids if you must indulge. Don't be introducing every man or woman that you get along with to them because it may come to nothing especially if you have children that want you to have a partner because of some reasons(sometimes funny reasons depending on their ages), don't mess up their emotions and sexual/ moral orientation, don't add pepper to injury, most of them dont know the meaning of just friends. Personally, male visitors were not allowed in my home, colleague ,church, business whatever until now that they are older. Especially if you are attractive (looks, intelligence or finance) and you are still getting attention from the opposite sex.
(I cannot help you on love matter biko , everyone wants a companion but my plate is full enough as it is with trying to sort our lives, I don't like the hypertension, self love is the beginning of true love.

sha don't forget to use your brain and maybe condom too in case you have the stamina for hearts issues)

Take your children's emotional and mental well being seriously, their self esteem is important, don't let them feel less because they are from a single parent home or they have less than anyone, paint a picture of a bright future for them to run with always.

Look out for the negative emotions that can lead to depression, frustration or transfer of aggression on the innocent children because you are angry at yourself, the situation or your estranged spouse.

Lastly, decide what you really want out of life and for the children, that will guide you in making long term decisions and give you strength for the short term sacrifices.

Finally, I am not sure you can survive without God. Love God and love yourself .
Remember, your life is not a rehearsal , you only live once.

Go back to your husband, and all these epistle won't be necessary

crystalmoon:
They claim to have figure everything out about raising children into respectable and good adults
I guess those politicians are from mars
They claim to have figured everything out about god and religion I guess those wrecking havoc and causing unrest are from Pluto
They claim to have figured everything out about marriage
Seems the highest rate of spousal abandonment was brought out of thin air

You are the one with issue here. Nobody can figure out any issue 100%. US with all their security outfits was attacked on 9/11