Family › Re: What Makes You Unique As A Person? by phemmyfour: 11:22am On Oct 15, 2023 |
Easyincome24: Believe this, everyone has that one unique thing that sets him/her apart from another person. Technically, everyone has either an inane ability or acquired ability that makes one unique or stand you out from the rest of us.
Though this may be looked down upon based on the part of the world we found ourselves but always occur when you go for a job interview. No matter how secretive one wants to be, in no matter of time, it reveals itself in you. It's what makes you unique, that's who you are.
This qualities are what recruiters look out for in you. It also could be what the opposite sex long for in you during relationship.
The fact that some of these habits may not tow positive ways like others do not necessarily make them bad or to be termed negative. Everyone can't be a conformists thats why liberal society exists.
For you, what's that thing that makes you unique from the other person?
If this can get to the front page, it will allow us to get more comments on such a good question. I can accommodate everyone I don't have friends, I prefer to relate with everyone equally |
Music/Radio › Re: Ice Spice, Rema - Pretty Girl (Official Music Video) by phemmyfour: 10:33pm On Oct 14, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Enrol Your Children In Schools Or Go To Jail – Senate Bill by phemmyfour: 8:40pm On Oct 14, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Married As A Virgin, Married For Love Yet..... by phemmyfour: 8:39pm On Oct 14, 2023 |
preshpraiz: It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.
My whole world is crumbling. I have been a regular guest here for awhile now but had to register this morning, I need somewhere to pour out my heart, somewhere to dump my frustrations.
I came from a good, not so rich home but my parents were so hardworking.I had a good moral upbringing, went to tertiary institution and graduated with good grades.
While in school, I never had a boy friend though I had a lot of "chykers", never went clubbing, didn't socialize much.
Few months to the end of my NYSC, I met my husband. We got talking and boom, I fell in love with him. He is my ideal man....he doesn't drink nor smoke, gentle and soft spoken.
He wasn't earning much but it didn't bother me. I believe in working hard and growing with my man.
Now my regrets... * The "angel" I married has refused to get a job after losing the last one during COVID 19.
He said he can never work in a private company again. His target is multinationals.
I encouraged him to pick up a job with private company while hoping for a bigger fish at least to support in taking care of the needs at home but he said no.
I'm left with taking care of our 3 kids, feeding, school fees and virtually every need at home. All he does is press phone, gamble and sleep.
Now our rent is due, no money. I married as a virgin, married for love and not money, work my ass off, doing so many side hustle to shoulder the expenses at home. I'm tired. I regret all these.
When I see my "unserious" classmates on social media and sometimes offline, I weep. See them living large. I thought all the sacrifices I made way back will pay off now. I have made up my mind that if he doesn't fix the rent, I will move back to my parent's house.
Kindly feel free to advise or bash me. Tankio Marrying as a virgin isn't a yardstick for a successful marriage. Virginity is a bragging right before marriage not in marriage. In marriage, you need sexual, emotional and financial stability. Your marriage is suffering from financial stability Your man's frustration had a lot to do with losing his first job. Unfortunately, hes on the path of destruction by embracing betting. He has lost the WILL to continue fighting. If he doesn't quit, it ll be a big obstacle in your marriage. Seek help from friends and family, that's the way out. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel Issues Final Warning To Al Awda Hospital, 2 Others 2 Evacuate Immediately by phemmyfour: 8:25pm On Oct 14, 2023 |
Prechgold1180: Children of isreal Living after her name. They are made for war |
Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Has Now Scored 73 International Goals After Turning 30 Yr Old by phemmyfour: 10:48am On Oct 14, 2023 |
obembet: The greatest footballer of all time, Cristiano Ronaldo has now scored 73 international goals after turning 30 year old.
Cristiano bag more goals than anyone has ever scored at any age for Germany, France, Italy, England, Spain, Netherlands, Sweden, Croatia, Denmark, Uruguay, Colombia, Chile, Mexico, USA, Egypt, Ghana and 176 more countries.
source: @FabrizioRomano After turning 30....una just dey modify records into union and intersection like say na set theory |
Education › Re: Bingham University Announces Undergraduate Admission For 2023/2024 Session by phemmyfour: 10:42am On Oct 14, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: 67-Year-Old Nigerian Arrested With Drugs by phemmyfour: 10:41am On Oct 14, 2023 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Netanyahu: We Are Pounding Hamas With Brute Force, But This Is Just D Beginning by phemmyfour: 10:40am On Oct 14, 2023 |
Righteousness2: I stand with Israel. Spirtually and Physically, I am with GOD'S Covenant Nation.
ISRAEL is GOD ALMIGHTY signet on the earth. The nation of ISRAEL is the REALITY of GOD. ISRAEL is GOD ALMIGHTY CHOSEN nation. ISRAEL is the APPLE of GOD'S EYE. ISRAEL IS GOD'S Covenant Nation. Infact the whole Earth is Blessed because of them. There is nothing You, I or anyone can do about it.
You and I cannot question GOD on why HE chose them. We cannot question our MAKER as HE does whatever HE likes, anytime and anywhere. HE is GOD and we are mere creatures. Our duty is follow HIM.
I see people ignorantly say Israel are not christians. Why do you support them? Listen! The ways of GOD is not the way of men. GOD has HIS ways! Our duty is to understand and follow HIS ways.
I and you are gentiles. It is the stubborness of Israel to receive JESUS CHRIST as the Messiah that has given you and I the privilege to know JESUS CHRIST. If the Jews didn't reject JESUS Christ, I don't think you and i will know JESUS CHRIST.
For you to understand GOD'S dealing with ISRAEL, you MUST drop your little sense and begin to see through GOD'S lense. You must begin to see through GOD'S Word.
Ignorance The percentage of Christian in Israel isn't up to 30 |
Travel › Re: My Uk Visa Was Rejected, What Did I Do Wrong by phemmyfour: 10:37am On Oct 14, 2023 |
Saviourplease: There is a letter of invitation from the company and my company also wrote that they will sponsor me. Both parties should take it up, its not your battle. There is nothing you can do if they are not willing |
Forum Games › Re: What Can You Say About This Photo by phemmyfour: 7:26am On Oct 14, 2023 |
Peledonomy: Let me go first. 1. Know your limits 2. Look before you leap 3. Some opportunities are traps 4. You must not win all fights 5. Stay in your area of strength
Add yours. Take risk assessment seriously in the line of duty |
Sports › Re: Divine Oduduru Gets Six-year Ban For Doping by phemmyfour: 7:23am On Oct 14, 2023 |
I never experrit |
Travel › Re: My Uk Visa Was Rejected, What Did I Do Wrong by phemmyfour: 7:17am On Oct 14, 2023 |
Saviourplease: Hi House,
I am billed to attend a company sponsored training in the Uk by the end of the month but my VISA application was turned down for the reasons attached. How do I handle this and improve my chances in my future applications? Let the company write a letter of invitation to you, attach it to your company's letter sending you on training and serving as your financial source, send as an appeal mail and any form of convincing document to ukvi |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel Tells Gaza Hospital To Evacuate Staff And Patients Within 2 Hrs - MSF by phemmyfour: 7:12am On Oct 14, 2023 |
adebayo987: There are terrorists hiding in that hospital. It's intelligence gathering. And if rat is in your house, will you bring the whole building down? |
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Saudi Arabia: Int'l Friendly (2 - 1) On 13th October 2023 by phemmyfour: 6:52pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
bamac: We are a goal down. What a free kick Nothing in the free kick. Our weakest link remains the goal keeping department |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Saudi Arabia: Int'l Friendly (2 - 1) On 13th October 2023 by phemmyfour: 6:50pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Saudi Arabia: Int'l Friendly (2 - 1) On 13th October 2023 by phemmyfour: 6:50pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Ex-Minister Bello Maitama Yusuf Is Dead by phemmyfour: 6:40pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
malcom1X: We all die don't we?
I don't think death should be considered as news again. It happens all the time.
May his soul rest in peace. He was just 76yrs old |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is This Employment Letter Genuine? (pics) by phemmyfour: 6:03pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
Afonja2000: My friend received this offer letter from a company based in Abidjan. After his cousin who is based in Abidjan informed him of vacancy in the company where he worked, he sent his details to his cousin who claimed to have close relationship with the HR department in the said company where he worked. My friend is sceptical about the genuity of the offer letter despite the full assurance from his cousin. So I brought it here for a wider view and opinions, the cousin told him that his job role and other informations will be made known to him when he gets there. The letter head is terrible...Run o! |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Saudi Arabia: Int'l Friendly (2 - 1) On 13th October 2023 by phemmyfour: 6:00pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
Fortune118005: Ooh Chukwueze..... What a wasted effort He would have scored that goal but It's a chukweze thing to waste chances |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Saudi Arabia: Int'l Friendly (2 - 1) On 13th October 2023 by phemmyfour: 5:59pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
EniHolar: The commentator is just talking after 33 minutes  E bawa manage e |
Sports › Re: Super Eagles Are In Group A Of #AFCON2023 by phemmyfour: 7:46am On Oct 13, 2023 |
Bliss52:

Not so difficult except Cote de vior
This is the time for Victor Osimhen to grab a golden boat, get nominations for Africa player of the year , and position for future Balloon D'oir
. It's difficult, all west African derby |
Music/Radio › Re: Ayra Starr - Rhythm & Blues (Official Music Video) by phemmyfour: 5:31pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
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Music/Radio › Re: THROWBACK: Nigerian Old School Music (Oldies) by phemmyfour: 5:10pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
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Career › Re: House, I Am Confused by phemmyfour: 3:44pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
osazsky: some one making 600k a month is not financially stable..some of una ehn....just type op doesn't know his priority...after renting ,furnishing .na there prob they It's not about what you make, it's about your net . When outflow is greater than your income, you are not financially stable |
Career › Re: How Can You Cope With A Nice But Anger Issue Boss? by phemmyfour: 3:11pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
ImmanuelMyron: As the topic says, how can you work under an hectic boss?
My boss is so nice but goddamn that man's so hectic with jombo size anger issue... His temper's so short to the extend that asking him a statement you don't understand twice might trigger his anger and once his angry his staffs'd dress back cos his hand might land on your face unaware. Yesterday this man bought 25ltr of fuel and told me to give his brother 10ltr and filled the gen with the remaining, which i did. I started work 5:am this morning only for this man to called on phone to give one of his bus 5ltr of fuel from the 'keg' so i was like which of the keg actually and that's it, this man begin dey para ontop of his voice. After giving the 5ltr to the bus, this bus no gree reach filling station then my boss started again with so much noise "go and off the gen rn. I can stop you from working and lotta words" for work of 28k monthly from 4am to 12am midnight with hard labour. I'm sick and tired of everything. Can someone tell me what to do? Very easy....when he's angry, just keep mute. When he's wrong, don't challenge him until he requests for your opinion |
Politics › Re: Obi’s Names On NYSC, UNN Certificates Are Different - Arabambi (Apapa Faction) by phemmyfour: 3:09pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Saudi Arabia: Int'l Friendly (2 - 1) On 13th October 2023 by phemmyfour: 3:06pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
kannymoore: Not true .
Nigeria has played against Saudi Arabia in the King Fahd Cup (the precursor to the Present day Confederations Cup) way back in 1995. Nigeria won 2-0 with goals from Daniel Amokachi and Emanuel Amunike. We were not in Saudi group. We played Japan, Argentina and Mexico |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Saudi Arabia: Int'l Friendly (2 - 1) On 13th October 2023 by phemmyfour: 3:04pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
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Career › Re: House, I Am Confused by phemmyfour: 3:02pm On Oct 12, 2023 |
Saviourplease: Good evening house.
I am in a dilemma and I need advice on what to do.
A bit of background about myself: I am a 29 years only child from a very poor background. I work for an IT firm which i joined in 2019 as a graduate trainee.
My total income is around 490k (400k from main job, 90k from a writing side gig).
My challenge: Recently, My host have told me to look for my accommodation and I have been searching for houses. Unfortunately, the places closer to my places of work is expensive.
I work in VI and the cheapest mini flat I have seen in close vicinity is 1.2M at Ajah.
I also have have a building project I am undertaking in the village that is at roofing stage and my parents have been pressuring me to settle down as the only child.
My dilemma is this, If i go for the house at Ajah, it will eat a bulk of my savings, thereby making it impossible for me to complete the building project or even start the process of settling down.
If I go for a cheaper but farer location, I will be spending more time in traffic.
Please, how do I manage this? Very easy Look for a shared apartment with boyz that you can be sharing the rent with. For now forget about marriage until you are financially stable |
Family › Re: Mum Fumes After A School Nanny Beat Her 2-Year-Old Child For Pooping (Video) by phemmyfour: 9:24am On Oct 12, 2023 |
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