₦airaland Forum

nony43:
Please I need someone to tell me about this boy’s death cause I am lost. All I know is one Sam Larry bullied him.

Was he killed?
Does his father has a hand to his death?
Why are people calling naira Marley,?
Why did they rush to bury him.

Abeg make Una furnish me with gist cos I am lost.

Welcome to Earth

omoredia:
Lies upon lies

future impossible tense

AfonjaConehead:
Wow...I regret changing my $100 about two months ago

You go regret more cos it will hit 1k by december

henry4991:
THE CHRISTIAN GOVERNOR

What has religion got to do with this

ojun50:
I love this girls, admin give me her number

she carry the matter for head like gala

Standstrong:
I picked up the gate man job ending of last month out of no other better options at the moment and seeing what economic hardship was making me pass through, especially waking up with no hope of where food is going to come from, make i no go steal, God abeg.

I have been doing the job well. Yesterday, while strolling around the area, I heard one man saying he is looking for someone to cut grasses in his compound. Being something I can do to collect the money to help myself as i was hungry and peniless, I met the man and told him i can do the work and we agreed on N15k.

So as my oga went to work, i rushed down to do the work. While I was on it, i dont know what brought my oga back to the house and he didnt see me at the post.

He called me and asked me where i am. I rushed down to the house. I told him i got a small contract of 15k to cut grass for someone in the neighbourhood.

The man got so angry on why I left his duty post to go do another job. Worse was that the person i did the job for was more like his enemy, as i later learnt they've not been in good terms.

He sacked me instantly. I begged this man as a human being to please forgive but he refused to consider me again. He even said, "go before you go and collect poison from my enemy to come and kill me".

Please what is my business with whatever fight the two of them are fighting?

That was how I lost the small job i just got 3 weeks ago and now back with nothing. He should have paid me for the 3 weeks right away but he didnt, rather he said i will find a way to pay you for the services so far.

Please, the country is already very hard and all I needed was something that could give me immediate money to survive on first.

Sad how struggling citizens are being badly treated everyday even while legitimately hustling for survival. How he will pay me for the 3 weeks, he didn't say it.

It's painful but it is not the end of the world.

I will make it too. Amen.

It shall never be well with hunger, agent of poverty.

You are not smart, you were not diplomatic about the answer you gave your boss.

You gave too much details, a man should learn to control his mouth. Your mouth sacked you not your boss

Next time, this is how you answer your boss in few words

Boss: You left your duty post. Where did you go?

You: I was in the neighbourhood to get additional tool for my work

You were disrespectful with your approach

MrsTwrite:
He's a full grown beast. A murderer who murdered his own blood.💔💔

Fear North

Thekaghan:
The father looks unmanly the more he talks. His child died days ago. Why is he even talking about his possession?

He's a sperm donor not a father. Very useless man

MrsTwrite:
She's a good woman.

This is wife number what?

tosyne2much:
Bro, where you dey fill your own 12.5kg 20k?

Don't worry by Dec, it will get there if not more

MEGAWATCH:
Simple question that most of you refuse to answer;

WHERE WAS GOD LIVING BEFORE HE CREATED HEAVEN AND EARTH?

So that I built a house I can't live there cos I was living elsewhere before the construction .

That he calls heaven his home does not limit power. He's God, He does as he pleases him

Is 66:1
This is what the LORD says: “Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool.

Revolution2022:
Every president tend to appoint politicians who come from his region.
Buhari appointed 90% incompent Fulani to run the economy aground.

Now Tinubu is following Buhari's footsteps.He has started blaming Buhari's government for putting Nigeria in a mess just as Buhari accused Jonathan.

Were they not the ones that promised heaven on earth during campaign?

It's a pattern that will continue, the masses love to be lied to

ibinaboonline:
If you think any of these vehicles do not belong here, speak your mind and give me your reason(s).

No 2
Honda accord with issues like

Ball joint n other suspension issue
Low clearance
Power steering issue
Door lock issue

ZombiePUNISHER:


I have nothing to say about anything that concerns these people again..

They will soon call you ipob and accuse you of festering violence to take over Lagos....

This guys news should be in Yoruba language please..

Difficult to digest

In summary, get ready for cult clashes

EBMedia:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ghhQiq2Klt0

Wrong doctrine and Abel are 5 n 6

Even Jesus talk say him father dey heaven

Our father who art in heaven

QuinModah:
BoT called him.

It's a shame, I pity people attending that Church

Same way synagogue wife inherit the biz tb Joshua left behind

Righthussle:
Leave all that plenty grammar. Church na business. The boy must inherit his father's business.

This is totally wrong....Church in Nigeria is a joke

Benwallt:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/pmnewsnigeria.com/2023/09/16/igbokwe-itll-take-igbo-20-25-years-of-hard-work-to-produce-president-of-nigeria/%3famp=1

"produce" president?

See what they reduce Nigeria to? Using corruption to continue to "produce" riff raff

phemy36:
If you are married. Don't compare your marriage with another, and always give a realistic advice devoid of emotion please. Things work when we are selfless in marriage

Mister , give your advice and move on. What gives you the impression that the experience in your marriage will work for the OP.

Don't force it, except you are misogynist

TemmyT002:
When Tinubu was declared president, electricity became stable, gas prices went down fast.
Everyone was happy.
I knew it was all a scam

Don't mind Nigerians, they get carried away easily. Yeye people....no APC government deserves any praise

lwisee:
I was shocked when I bought cooking gas at the rate of N1566 per kg just yesterday, almost N20k for a12.5kg cylinder 😳
Location : Lagos State
This is alarming.How much is it in your area?

It's a crazy stuff, 20k just to fill a cylinder. There was a Country

Kumid:
Blame the state government

Ogun State n bad roads

phemy36:
When you get married. You will understand. Enjoy yourself

When I get married? Kids everywhere

stanlink:
Hello I'm just think if I will get salvation if I indulge in sexual activities early on a Sunday morning before going for service, the thought of guilt is all over my head although I'm married someone please advise

Yes, sex in marriage isn't a sin

2. Nothing is special about Sunday, it's like any other day. Jesus is the Lord of the Sabbath

jesusjnr2020:
I don't think I have ever seen any winner in a tennis grand slam do such a thing, not to talk of a teenage winner, so that suggests that not all hope is lost for the younger generation. In Jesus name!

It's irrelevant...God don't do sport. Did her opponent lose because she serves the devil

phemy36:
But can take responsibility of her failure and provide for her as husband. Who are this kids.

You are ignorant of so many things
Ki lọmọde ẹ mọ

You get the best from your woman when you support her in achieving her dreams. She ll eventually come around to support the business but if you forced her against her wish and passion, I will will be here to read your thread on your business crumble via frustration from your wife.

Threesha:
Start a business, you say you don't have capital.

They say get a job, you say there are no jobs.

They say do this particular job, you say how can a whole graduate like me be doing that 'kian' job

They say do your job, you say you cannot come and "keee" yourself for another man's business.

They say volunteer, you say who volunteer epp.

They say invest, you say investment nah scam.

They say travel, you say this one wey accident and kidnapping dey happen up and down, daily.

They say attend a conference, you say wetin dem wan teach you wey you neva hear before.

They say Nigeria will be better, you say this country wey don "dabaru finish" with corruption.

They say Paul just bought a new property, you say forget that thing, you know how he started.

They say Amaka just got married, you say "tah" forget that thing, is marriage an achievement?

Unku, Hanty...

Shebi you see how negativity has finished you?

You better save yourself now oooh!

Nothing remarkable is happening in your life because you keep chasing good things away.

As soon as a good thing wants to come to your life, you wave your flag of negativity and it flees.

You would rather find excuse to your negativity than take responsibility to change your attitude.

Now, if you are locked in this attitude, I'm sorry to say this, you will never grow in whatever you do

Even if you grow, your negative energy will drag you back down. At the end, you would be trapped.

Negativity may make you sound or look logical, but at the end, it will only keep you imprisoned.

Learn to set yourself free.

They say Nigeria will be better, you say this country wey don "dabaru finish" with corruption.

That's the fact, it ain't getting better anytime soon.

2012: $1 = N120 , gas 12.5kg = N3000
2023: $1 = N950, gas 12.5kg = N20,000

BTW, I am employed

EkelediliBuhari:
Let’s agree this is my story….

Pardon my long write up but I needed to get a perspective from a fresh eye/mind. I’m married for 3 years now with 2infants.

Am I overthinking or does my wife have other plans?

My dad is an established accountant with over 3 decades of experience at the highest level of his occupation in 2 multinationals. He is now retired and consults. Presently, he lives a day at a times cos he barely has plans for his firm (he is over 70 and doesn’t have anybody he’s training his my mom).

I have a good career earning almost a million monthly with side gigs that keeps me liquid (meeting all my family’s basic needs). Monthly upkeep of 200k mainly for feeding while I pay utilities and still bring out cash (no fixed amount) from time to time. Presently am setting up a firm for contracting and consultancy.

My wife is a caterer (she loves cooking and baking) whom I have supported over the years. She has gotten much better and I have invested in her business. Presently she has all the basic requirements for her work and she works from home. We live in a 4 bed and converted one to her studio (fully furnished - AC tables shelves etc).

Over the years I have encouraged her to focus on entrepreneurship. This will give her total control of her time. This way the kids get her attention while she handles business which I hope to one day retire into. I make sure she doesn’t contribute her personal funds to the home as I advise her to save for rain days. I have encouraged her to work closely with my dad to earn experience as they share same profession hopefully take over the firm in time while I groom mine for which she is the major shareholder (I’m not even a shareholder).

Overall, do not look for a 9-5 like me, let’s grow a business.

However, she applies for jobs here and there. Just this morning she woke up as early as 4:30am applying for a customer service position and had to wake me up to correct her cover note.

At this point I feel like giving up on her. I feel she just wants to have a paying Job for whatever reason. But I know know the downsides; no time for the kids, 40-80% of income goes on expenses, work stress, regrets - now you can’t quit because you have to prove you can do it.

Am I being unreasonable telling her not to work and focus on developing her business skills?

NB: I have never discouraged her in her business rather encouraged/ advised and funded.

Modified: for those insisting I let her be, how do we plan our future if we share separate visions?? When has working ever made anyone rich??

If she gets an IOC opportunity I’ll definitely support tho, but these are not the toes she’s applying for 100k -300k

Let her be, you can't force a career woman to be a business woman over night. Let her work under supervision so that eventually if she becomes a boss, she would have gained the needed experience to lead others.

Passion changes with time, support her dreams now, she ll return to support you later.

Working in your field isn't about getting rich, it's about fulfilment knowing you are doing what you enjoy

ebubeson:
If you check some churches, you may see guys plaiting their hair. You may notice such amongst the instrumentalists, drummers, bass guitar players etc.
The question is, should a genuine Christian guy Plait his hair?

To me, it is not a good appearance for a genuine Christian guy. Such appearance cannot be easily used to preach, and it may not allow sinners to be convinced to repent.

Yes, they can. Plaiting of hair is a culture not religion. Don't get it twisted

Kalatium:
Today , I was just wondering how did we end up with so many churches.

I happen to be in Maiduguri currently but I can't seem to find my church and the churches that are somehow close I haven't heard of them before. I don't know their doctrines nor the kind of their beliefs.

I am just stock. Thinking of just staying at home today and watch service online.

I wish we christians have just one church so that irrespective of where you are you can be comfortable going to any church.

It started from the early days when some followed Peter and others followed Paul.

Different Churches in Nigeria is fueled by corruption

cutecommend:
Sexual Purity is on the decline even in the Christian fold. Many so-called christians are engaging in it even before marriage. Some partners sleep with themselves before wedding, some sleep with their exes before wedding, some slept around in their youthful days and are still fornicating. Some are gays, some are lesbians, some marry with these identities, covering it from their partners.
What are the problems of lack of sexual purity before marriage?

(1) It causes rise in adultery. A person who has slept around before marriage, whether male or female, has more tendency to commit adultery than a decent person, except there is genuine repentance.

(2) Stagnancy in Spiritual Life: Except their is true confession of sins repentance, a person who sleeps around before marriage, whether with his or her partner, EX, colleagues etc, may find it hard to rise or grow spiritually.

(3) Divorce: The problems of soul-tie caused from sex before marriage might lead to divorce. A married person who has not broken soul ties with former partners (especially evil partners) through prayers, may face issues that could lead to divorce..

Nonsense

Preach sexual purity from the angle of "It's against God's command "

Those that kept themselves till marriage still experience divorce, commit adultery, involve in threesomes and other type of sexual fantasy you can think of